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@OVYED DENO no disrespect but I think your negative curiosity won't get you the answers that you are looking for fam. You're now on the wrong platform with your question. You're entitled to your own opinion but you're knocking on the wrong door selling the wrong product if u digg what I'm saying my G! Peace ✌🏾
As a clinical psychologist that has a knowledge or two on evolutionary psychology, men are attracted to two things only: attractiveness and the trait of agreeableness. The trait of agreeableness is divided into kindness and empathy. Subsequently the trait of kindness it’s extremely associated to loyalty. In resume, men are attracted from a biological perspective to non promiscuous behaviors and will avoide signs of it.
From your generalist perspective can you help quantify in the last 15 years what you think is the number one cause of the dating issues and broken family?
Yup, I noticed women don't want equality. They want an exclusive monopoly on sexuality and relationships, and anything that threatens it is met with shame. Usually calling the man/men insecure, controlling, insufficient, unattractive, etc.
I laugh at their standards because I don't need them. Second, if I wanted one, I can buy one to use and discard. Why would I need to deceive women, they have nothing I need..
Women get thousands of men in their dms every single day. Men don’t. If a man does get thousands of women in his dms it’s because the women recognize that that man brings something of heavy value. We are not the same. We don’t play by the same rules because we playing a different game
The BIGGEST way to tell if your girl used to get around is watch her habits. If she can never stay home with you and just chill, she always gotta be out and about and has exes on IG she’s a 304. You not knowing her password to her phone is the nail in the coffin.
10 things to quit for all Strong Men: 1. Caring about what others think 2. Not believing in yourself 3. Not experimenting different ideas / solutions for problems (life&business) 4. Not prioritizing your health 5. Wasting your precious time 6. Wanting something (instead write a plan and work towards it) 7. Chasing meaningless relationships 8. Wasting or draining your energy from beating your meat 🥩 9. Wasting time by scrolling social media 10. Nailbiting/nailpicking habit for good (if you do it - consider stopping it as it makes you mentally weak + affects your confidence and all other areas of your life!) Take it easy and I hope you found one thing helpful in this list.
Had a bad nail biting habit my whole life and once I stopped I automatically felt more confident. I wasn’t expecting it to be on this list but you’re not wrong!!
Shalom man of valour and many blessings to you and your beautiful family. I have to disagree with your statement man of valour. There are women who do embrace their accountability and they live it. I personally have to take my accountability seriously because I have two adult sons who observe how I live, flow, function, and move in my build as a woman. I have made many mistakes along the way in my walk, but I am still responsible and held accountable to teach my sons the truth about their definition and kingdom build as men and as sons. Any woman who has an understanding about who she is will not have a problem with men who have standards and who do not compromise their value for unhealthy practices, but they will push to protect the value of the man and not try to discredit it.
The fact that it bothers women so much for this man having his standards is just insane. Yet, women going about their standards and worth every day. 666 ( 6 foot tall, 6 figures, 6 packs fit ) the whole 9 years. But once a man states his worth and standards. It’s WAR. Now women saying she is lying about her body counts.
I see women who do this and they use their pretty privilege to justify that behavior. It’s a terrible problem in the dating pool but these women typically end up alone…
Defensive has become synonymous with modern women nowadays, it’s a shame. Sometimes they perceive solid grounded rational advice as a personal attack and return one to the person trying to help. Stay focused gang!
It's because deep down inside they know and hate themselves. Simply put they don't mind what they do they just wish there weren't any consequences attached to their poor choices.
I would never be with a woman who lives her life like Jennifer Lopez, Kim Kardashian and Lori Harvey when it comes on to men. I can't spend the rest of my life with a woman like that.
I hear ya - Deano! I agree with StephIsCold, though. Showing that you have been pre-selected tells a woman a lot about you - it tells her that other women want you as well. And it’s very exciting to a woman, this makes her want you more, perhaps even start chasing you. No woman wants a man that no other woman desires… where’s the fun in that? It’s just the way women are hard-wired - go figure! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
It’s crazy how women can have all of the standards in the world but the minute a man does the same thing it’s a huge problem. This is a laughable matter.
Steph really changed on how I think about girls they don't want real love they need to be filled with emotions they don't want nice guys they want guys with money I'm never getting married or having a kid 💯I'd rather have neices and nephews I am a uncle in fact ima teach them about the game and to hustle and not mess around be safe boys and men we only live once don't let a female take that from you.
It’s crab in the bucket mentality. Let this quote sink in, I have never met a man who disliked me enough to tear me down but I have met plenty of men that have torn me down to build themselves up.
Which is one of factors why the prison is filled with young men over a women or to fit in or stuck in their ways not knowing any better. They just trying to survive but pulling each other down in the process
Exactly same here, that's why most people especially in the black community I avoid, just get successful and more financially successful as well quietly with the selected few in my circle. The rest is history, the graveyards and prison systems are full of crab type people above ground and underneath it.
It's not the same because women GET ran through, we DO the running. So we don't attach feelings and get legitimately hurt when we do it. They do. And to compensate for that women went on this entire movement to act and move like men in the digging marketplace. But it's not the same because their true nature comes out. So they can try and act big and do 304 phases and get ran through but they don't realize it doesn't add prestige to their status like it does men, it just makes them a used up 304 where with men you have to be a G to be able to have women let you run through through in the first place.
The body count argument can be destroyed with a simple concept. If her ideal man did everything she did in her past with other men, would she still love and accept him. There you go
My ideal man is with a low to normal body count but I still accepted my partner after finding out he had high body count. Cause the point is even though we’re not equal in that way I’m not dating him for his damn body count I’m dating him for the person he is today.
@@yume.mp4 You know damn well that you liked him because other women did. Your competitive nature kicked in that's why you accepted him. You ideal dude is a dude with a low count but Mr ladies man got into them draws. We see you missy. lol
@@kickerse13 🤣🤣 bruh, it’s funny cause yall so wrong. friend zoned him for 4 months because i wasn’t interested, didn’t find out his history till months later until i actually started dating him. all the men i dated before had very low body counts, this just so happens to be the only guy i come to find out who had a high body count, was turned off by it but overall i accepted him, u can’t let insecurities get to u, something men can’t seem to accept. 🤐
Was With my Cousine and her friend hanging out last Week, as soon as I said I wouldn't date A single Mum or a women With male friends or high body Count, it turned into a debate. Hilarious
Nothing but facts steph . Your close to that 400k subs 🥶🥶🥶. That “I’m bout to buss” face is hilarious . Women hate on each other because they can’t get what the other have. Us men can’t fix things like height . We can get colder in other aspects . Stay cold fellas 🥶🥶🥶
I agree. Showing that you have been pre-selected tells a woman a lot about you - it tells her that other women want you as well. And it’s very exciting to a woman, this makes her want you more, perhaps even start chasing you. No woman wants a man that no other woman desires… where’s the fun in that? It’s just the way women are hard-wired - go figure! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
Goes to show you how weird the world is that the bad thing like a high body count is praised and a woman that (allegedly) preserves herself is shamed. Weird place
Men: “Ladies sleeping around is bad for you, don’t do it.” Women: “DON’T YOU DARE TELL US WHAT TO DO WITH OUR BODIES IT’S OUR CHOICE! MEN DO IT TOO!” Also Women: “Ugh why do I feel so empty? Why do I feel so degraded? Why aren’t any of these guys taking me seriously?” Men: “We told you not to sleep around..” Women: “DON’T YOU DARE TELL US WHAT TO DO WITH OUR BODIES IT’S OUR CHOICE! MEN DO IT TOO!”
@@paulk3313loool I have a feeling when this new generation and the next of new women come around they gon have a lotta regrets when they reach old age just by the decisions they made in their past alone and turning down good men who would've been what they needed.
A women's sexuality is her greatest asset to a man. When she gives it away freely it becomes devalued and men on a subconscious level understand this. Women are biologically wired to be very selective and protective of their sexuality. It's equivalent to a wealthy man that squanders his money and expects women to take him seriously for an LTR when he's now broke. He wasted and readily gave away a key part of his long term appeal.
Steph:You think they chasing Russell Wilsons? No they chasing Future and pookie and Ray Ray you gotta accept that. Facts 💯‼️ U HAVE TO EARN YOUR VALUE AS A MAN -STEPHISCOLD 🥶
It's pathetic and all by design... destroy the family system and destroy society. Imagine raising a child in a feminized system that will teach them they should be a victim and hate themselves.. fk all that.
That’s not true at all. Real manhood and toxic masculinity are too completely different things. Actually total opposites. Real women understand the difference.
These women has forced me to be just as bold and disrespectful as they are when it comes to judging them on how they look. They literally don't have no problem tellin you how short you are the shit is ridiculous. I'm 5'7 I have always had 2 women my whole live but I'll be lieing to say I haven't been rejected alot because of that by other women. It's too the point that I don't approach or pay women no mind at all I'll just stick with what I already have. It's like height is the only thing that matter now days. It also makes it hard for me to sympathize with today's women.
Bro I’m 6’0. I box and lift weights. Make about 65k a year. Not a bad looking dude and I still struggle with women. It is what it is. They don’t understand how hard it is to get women.
It’s not a phase bro, you ever heard of the saying “once a hoe, always a hoe?”. We are all creatures of habit. If you have a girl that takes pride in getting bent over by multiple men for that short term thrill, believe me they love doing it. It’s not a hoe phase, it’s hoe behavior.
Your speaking the truth. Every bit of this is knowledge I wish I had 10 years ago. And every man young and old should pay attention. I have taken these lessons and changed my life...
@@darnellwilliams8783 ⬅️ *raised by a single mother without a strong figure in his life (…and if you did have a “father” he was weak for your mother)* *your momma, grandma and auntie has molded you in their image and that’s a pathetic sight!*
Aye yall lets keep it a buck. Steph is like that dope older brother that we all atleast have seen/had once in our life. He's just cool as hell, gets hella chicks, and walks around the house with a tank top on and occasionally walks into your room to slap you on the back of your head. When y'all talk he usually disses you bout how you a lame, but in reality every time he talks with you he gives you invaluable game and you inevitably became a dope alpha just like he is. Thats him. He's that nigga.
Steph you the shiit my G‼️ Keep doin' what you doin' much appreciated. We out here putting in the work, getting them results. Just fvcking growing each and every day💯🥶
Steph probably not gonna see but ever since I started watching his videos beginning of the year 2022 I have become cold like ice 🥶🥶 Like every time I remember I was a bitch I drop down and do 20 push-ups. Every time I blue pilled I do 30 sit ups coz I ain’t no BITCH anymore I be digging their souls out now. I love your videos keep inspiring us bro🤟🏾🤟🏾🤟🏾
The only thing I’ll say Steph is if you have a homie who is spending money on cars and jewelry that he DOES NOT have just to flex or to feel better about himself, sometimes putting him in his place and letting him know that maybe he didn’t make the right decision given his circumstances is the responsible thing to do as a true friend. I have a few friends who spend money they simply don’t have or could be using to build a future or retirement…. Lmk, G….
Straight facts as you get a little older you start thinking about has she been with anyone I know you don't want to be at the reunions and see someone that smashed yo girl
Listen guys.. just get on your shit and stop worrying about what women think.. When you become valuable you won’t need to care about what anyone thinks
I do not respect any women that shames men genatelia or height. It's a form of body shaming which obviously its more impactful than body weight because it's something you cannot control, you born with it. I've never in my life heard of a man telling me or others about a women who had excessive labia after he banged her. Men for the most part keep those private details to themselves, not go on social media shaming women telling the whole world like women do to men! 💯
pair bonding. once a woman has sex with more than 3-5 dudes, her ability to last in a loving relationship diminishes. divorce rates are getting higher for a reason.
They can charge 100 grand for a nissan shitbox with 3 previous owners, doesn't mean people gonna buy when you could get a hellcat for 80 grand. They think being a rent-a-car means they're desired? No, ppl just want to get from point a to point b.
