@@StompingRabbits If woman lies to you catch her red handed, like a dog owner can only correct puppy when puppy pees inside the house. Always be a Gentleman and call her out she will later appreciate this quality in you of not letting her get away. If she still lies 2nd 3rd time then she has no respect for you. No respect = Game over forever, go get another woman. SOLUTION: You have to juggle at least 3 women at the same time -- till you find that one good woman that is a #keeper. Only when #keeper asks you to be excusive you stop seeing others ok ? now Keep HER laughing, not you laughing, for the rest of HER life. Take stand up comedy classes. Keep learning. You are searching for that one keeper.
I watched this whole video. I am a 67 year old ( yes 67). Currently and have been dating much, much younger girls then me. This is the absolute way of life with women. This gentleman has it figured out. So listen to him. All my life’s wisdom from experiences is on his white board. Well done young man.
I'm 65 and date much younger women as well, but think he grossly exaggerates. My life experience with women has been very positive, with a few exceptions. I think categorizing "women" as this way or that way does a disservice to the male/female dynamic. I could easily retitle this as Men will lie to the Women they want most to gain the upper hand. Are there women like this? Sure. Are there men like this? Yep. We would all be better served if this "class" was directed towards behaviors and not gender.
I have continually dated women half my age and I've seen no great change, but the point of my comment wasn't to focus on gender distinctions because most of the behavior described in the video is easily applicable to men as well. This isn't a male versus female problem, it isn't gender specific. @@vision2080
@@WhippetsI mean but it's true though. I know people don't want to here that but this is people's constant experience. It may not be yours but most of us have been going through exactly what Casey is saying. That's why he said his entire dating life is on that chalkboard. Reality is a this is who women are. And it makes them sound bad but in reality it's for their best benefit and that's ok. It serves them best. And we have to be taught this to make it work. Human relationships are a very complexed and complicated institution.
What's true is that he was probably sexually harassing this woman hard, and she went overboard to get back at him ... and ONE example hardly creates a pattern. Anecdotes don't cut it and my experience, which in relative terms would more than likely match any other person's, has seen absolutely nothing that resembles this type of behavior, and even if I had seen one or two similar injustices, again that doesn't create a pattern when 99%+ of these interactions are perfectly normal. There are ignorant and destructive people everywhere, male and female, each in their own way. @@ALtheelectrician
Some women want u to treat them like your girlfriend while they treat you like their lil bro. That’s why if you want your girl to beg you, you gotta speak the same language as her, if she ghost then ghost back longer, if she act dumb, act dumb, if she pull back, pull back and never argue and never show her emotions.
So well said! I find it utterly annoying when I know a woman - I should say girl - is playing games or shit testing. As a mature, sensible, and logical guy, it's like, "I know WTF you're doing..." and it's just pathetic to go on pretending like you don't know what they're doing🤦♂ I'm an adult... I don't play games anymore lol@@JonThompson-bt8rw
@bootcamprag false game. Your not on point. Where does the pimp smack originate from? Women feel good making their man happy but they get high off his game! When my wife and I argue I already know the cookies coming with creme later ya dig. Her argue is awaiting my dominance. She wants to be checked. Daddy issues I guess!
This is so true. I’ve been married to the same women for almost seventeen years & listen up guys! YOU CAN NEVER LET YOUR GUARD DOWN! NEVER!!! You can never let yourself get comfortable in a relationship. The moment you do, no matter how good looking, how much money in the bank, even the fact you have children with her MEANS NOTHING to her…. It’s sad but 100% true. You mean nothing to her unless you are able to play your hand correctly. Man up & realize the bitter truth. It’s a hard pill for most of us men who where raised in the “ TV show “ generation. If you don’t, you will be left , paying the bills , while she is getting d*cked down by some other guy that knows & understands this.
Exactly! We have to be better prepared when we start seeing a woman and when we enter relationships because women are ALWAYS ten steps ahead of us and they are very calculating by nature.
Not every single women from decades ago was like this, at least not that extreme as of today. Urban settings, civilisation, abundance, security creates hoeflation.
Nah - they were always like this, they just improved and adjusted their psychopathic games of manipulation to fit the more increased competitive environment.
@@nomercy2959 If you don’t even know they exist that’s because they see you and RUN!!!!! You are so chaotic and toxic healthy people want nothing to do with you. Glad women are choosing better and have excommunicated you from all social circles :)
@@nomercy2959 If you don’t even know they exist than is certain they see you and RUNNNN AWAY! Glad they are choosing better and have decided against you altogether :)
I'm fuckin dead. Dude made a white board to logically categorize. This is how insane women can be. Thank you for this channel and your dedicated hard work
I don’t understand why men take woman so seriously. It only hurts in the end . Don’t let them get into your head.. take what you need and go . Simple . Good luck .
The sad thing is that you have to pretend to take them seriously, even though you haven't got a hope in hell of doing so. So, if I've got a woman around me who I can't take seriously, that's a liability I've got hanging around. A much younger married woman has been pursuing me for months. Next time I see her I'll have to tell her to stay clear or I'm going to have to teach her how to have an affair, as she's hanging around me like an irritating fly.
Agreed. The Bible is written in parables, which are lessons to be learned regarding life. Women have been used as weapons for warfare, and destroy men who lust after them. History bears that out. @@christopherpeter9274
Salute to casey for breaking down this masterclass. He's the only rp creator that puts it on the drawing board and actually teaches this shit better than anyone
Leave her alone. If she later on tries coming back, use her for sex and when she figures out she’s being used, send her this video and tell her her choices are why you view her as an object.
I agree that woman really do place you into either the boyfriend or fuck boy category. I've had at least 3 girlfriends tell me that they thought they weren't going to hear from me again after we hooked up for the first time. This always confused me until I become red pill aware. They had placed me in the fuck boy category. And I'm no giga-Chad or anything I just figured out how to progress things quickly with women in my twenties. And believe me I struck out many times lol
Yea shyt bro i really do felt that a lot They re texting me kinda "i know u ve got a lot of girls on yo arsenal. Im just too insecure with u" and idk anymore lol
@@rudra3354 Girls will give a lot of non-verball cues like playing with their hair, smiling, laughing, etc. If you dress decently, are in shape, aren't weird, and can hold a decent conversation, then going in for a kiss should just be the natural progression that happens at the end of the first or second date. Maybe the third depending on the situation. Thats the point there is no rush and nobody should feel rushed or pressured and typically things happen quickly when there is no rush counterintuitivly.
Think about the type of woman who would quickly and voluntarily give their bodies away to men who they don't expect to hear from again????? Lol 😂 😂😂😂......those women actually felt lucky to sleep with you. They actually got an ego boost,from giving their bodies away to you....... complete 304s,but hey,that's at least 80% - 90% of American women.
They go to some very extremes, deleting all pictures of past boyfriends, throwing out all gifts from past boyfriends, and the #1 thing they lie about is the number of past boyfriends. (Body count) And no, they dont count the one night stands, the casual hookups, bad sex, drunken or drugged nights from the club, a guy they were ashamed of,etc etc as their true number.
@@jeansollot6419 🤣🤣. Either you're a used up 304 female or the world's largest simp. Learn the facts: the higher anyone's body count is, their ability to pair bond with their partner disappears, toxic relationships result because one partner is always going to have that feeling of resentment toward the other. Tell me: do you want your man to have sloughen his meat in 100 different women, (and God knows how many partners they had before) or do you want a man that's had 3-5 at the most? That's what I thought. You can lie to yourself all you want, it's not weak to not want a high body count woman, it's just outright disgusting, not to mention she'll be an awful mother. Certain genes are either turned on or off based on the woman's experiences/traumas not to mention all the left over DNA still in her. I'd be ashamed of myself having a kid with that, and I'd feel so awful for my kid having all these defects because of it. Have fun marrying a simp with no standards, while you still are out chasing the chads and Tyrones. (And even they don't want you anymore)
A pop culture example of incongruence is Walter Whites marriage in Breaking Bad. Walters wife genuinely loves him as a Beta male but when he begins to become the more Alpha “Heisenberg” his wife begins to detach and has an affair with her boss. You can see this incongruence slowly manifest throughout the series as the Heisenberg character takes over his psyche and you observe his wife becoming more detached to the point she wants out of the marriage.
Yes, and her "boss" is on the Beta-Loser side of the paradigm. Curious, but I don't recall Walter having a mistress/f buddy in the series. He did have the "ex" college flame who married the rich guy but by then it was too late to rekindle their romance.
Yes, once they're set on an archetype (beta/alpha,) it's next to impossible for women to stop the receptors from eliciting the emotion she's created the mental structure for. I would venture to say that it is impossible 99.9999999% of the time. If she thinks guy X is a dork, she's going to think that of the guy regardless of what the guy is.
Same! I caught it a week too late! But, more is in store.. I keep this dude primed whenever I need to make moves on a girl i really like now. You don't need him for girls you don't like as much. Notice that shit is easy cause they know you don't like em as much. Which is essentially what you have to mock. One girl asked me to come on short notice to a bar. I acted like I was trying to make it, but ended up just saying meh. Let's save it for the weekend..I'm in the exact other position now. It's weird when you're the one shutting it down. Ya gotta curb that urgency
Joe Rogan sums everything up with one line: "Aspire to be the person you pretend to be when you're trying to get laid. If you can be that person all the time, you would have a much better life." OK, you can all go home now.
That is a fact, you never know how someone really feels about you or what they think about you ,you only know what they tell you and they could be lying right through their teeth. That goes for anybody your own brothers and sisters your kids cousin's girlfriend wife anybody.
@@bk_8338 women can only gain what you allow them to gain. Operate from a position of power and getting what YOU WANT when dealing with women,or it's in to the next. I don't really care about what a woman wants.
That's what I'm going through now.. been treating my girlfriend like a queen and being nice and present and talking of the future. Now she wants to wait to have sex again until we are married. She's a great person and if I'm patient I will be rewarded. Just a test and a game. I'm backing wayy off of her now but still nice and respectful. Maybe not as present. I'm not putting pressure on the future and not talking marriage or anything. Just day by day. I text her a little to show her I care and I'm still here but Casey Is exactly right. ShE controls the pace, not me. I think I know what to do going forward it just involves a lot of patience and confusion on how women operate..
sounds like some marriages. Certainty in a relationship is not sexually appealing. There is no mystery, concern, or worry, time spent away, ect. Emotional shit that women go through.
Guys there's never been a better time than now to: Stay off dating apps Do NOT date anyone at work Do NOT date anyone from your gym Do NOT cohabitate Pay down/off any debt Stock up on necessities/supplies
I had a woman in mind and thought I was onto a winner. I thought she was quiet, single, reserved and shy. Turns out she was still with her man, not only that she was flirting with a drunk and grey haired dude right in front of me. Learned both these things at the same time. Women are masters of manipulation. Never understood why people in relationships mess about with other people. Just feels cheap and nasty
A man can physically make people do things and control the area around them, though might or intelligence. Women can't do that. A woman's tool is sex and manipulating the strong men around them to do what they want.
Pretty much all of them are single. The amount of times I've been hit on by married/taken women or seen them hit on or admit to wanting to with other men is frightening. Then they turn in the sweet, docile faithful wife routine for their husbands, then when he's gone it's back to the h0rny single women on a Chippendales night out mode. I pity men in relationships, or even those dating. They've always got other men compartmentalised for other things, usually attention and more s3x.
Casey, bottom line is no woman in the entire world is worth all that effing drama. If i need sex that bad I will pay for it, and in the long run it will be far cheaper mentally and financially
Through 40 years of life. Everything this guy says is spot on. What I try very hard to get through to young men I talk to is "is this really the life you want to live"? To me, its pretty miserable. Just be happy alone. Much easier, much happier.
Yeh. A lot of young guys wasting their life in servitude to some gal they think loves them. A real tragedy for the young guys who get suckered into this.
Yet men do, and get put through the wringer by their women, thinking it means hell be happy if he does it. Meanwhile, I'm stood on the outside watching men get hollowed out by women who don't give a rat's arse about they treat him.
not every human is built to be alone. some people can become physically ill from being alone too long, the mental strain causing an adverse affect on the body. don't preach being alone, preach positive mindset.
This year I left my LT GF. I was done with her craziness. I stopped being attracted to her and I definitely wasn't attractive to her. I was so wrong about women and relationships in general. You've explained this all so well in this white board videos. I've been watching a lot of self help and psychology videos but nothing makes me feel concrete like the way these videos do. I'm definitely going to be acting differently from now on, in all my interations with women.
These are very good points. This proves why a lot of this "ignore her and treat her like shit" thing only works if you are an alpha type, and perhaps only for casual sex.
it's not about treating her like shit, it's about treating in the manner of what you want comes first. that's why walking away is so important when you dont get what you want from her
@pa-dn1vh So true! I have found the same myself. Whenever I have come across as just a "regular guy" I have met quality women. When I have had a luxury car, a killer apartment, etc. I get prettier girls, but gold diggers. Casey himself wavers a lot on this point. In some videos, he says he met great women when he was just a regular guy. In others, he says you have to be "stacked" to get the top women.
Im here laughing almost tearing up by the truthiness of all this, I got absolutely burned and EVERYTHING Casey is saying I saw in my last situation ship and it got me absolutely dumped for doing the wrong things.
Neither do I. I go through my life in a dominant position with a lot of presence and authority. It attracts women up to the point they discover they don't and will never have power over me, which is their cue to leave very early on. All of them. Judging by their reactions, I'm the first guy they've met who has boundaries and doesn't tolerate their crap.
Casey out here doing the Lord's work. If there's anyone I'm paying money to listen to, its this guy! All these redpill guys wash rinse and repeat the same hollow bs. This guy is spitting raw fact that anyone who's ever dealt with women is aware of.
This is an absolutely brilliant lecture that I needed to hear exactly right now. Literally the answer I seek to a problem I’ve been confused about awhile. I’m on what I understand now as the fuck side of the fence and was confused as hell. I really don’t waste my time chasing low pleasures though. That’s so much a waste, realizing that too. I’m 50, it’s never too late but to have this information literally as a young man at your fingertips now, there is zero excuse. Thanks 👍
@@keegancollins6202 you know man it hit me today. And I thought of this. Have you heard the parable of the white elephant? Well that’s what we with this ability but with morals will eventually become. It’s always a matter of perspective. See where shit leads you. They’re really not worth a damn anyway if we’re being honest lol.
Always what the woman wants first. That's not Alpha that's actually BETA! What I want is what's most important to my life and if she is not going with that program she outta here.
Casey still worships at the furry cup as do a lot of men, dancing around this wretched behaviour pandering to their whims just to get some unenthusiastic cat at the end of it. If he wants it, just pick them up in a bar on a weekend for a night.
I got to say Casey you you nailed the s*** out of this I can't believe a guy at your age bracket got this down incredible I don't care what anybody says you know what you're talking about
This was hard to watch... I made every mistake with the last girl I dated, and I lost all my value. She broke me. You live and you learn. This game isn't for the weak
Loser, Lover, Provider & Friend. She has a disqualification paradigm and many guys never get past her Loser threshold. Lovers get the wild stuff for free. Providers can get generic vanilla action, and have to pay plenty for it. Friends are there as a handyman or an emotional tampon.
You are right about the Paradigms, but the thing is, most Women never consider their partner their "Lover", because they aren't even in Love with them. Actual Lovers, are truly rare in this world, and rarer now than ever.
GUYS i have enough experience to tell you this guy speaks the truth. lean into these mindsets they look darker from the outside, you need to field test them in order to get it. dont stay behind your keyboard.
It all rings true from my experience. And it's also a bit disheartening that they force you into games of checkers. I'd rather just exist but men have to be aware of the way they operate and a lotof it is kind of dirty. I dont see why any man would get into a long term relationship honestly. It's like you're in that seat until she finds an excuse for you not to be. Fuck that.
You should always put what you want first. You push the game where you want it to go. If sex is the objective, Its better -you- move in that manner and see how -she- responds...not the opposite. But playing her game is a fools errand. the difference is you need to make choices quick
And with everything he is saying ( which is 100% the truth) all women will lose interest in you over time ( no fault of your own ) no matter what you do or say! And if she really ever had Real loving interest from the beginning. Newsflash a lot of women only use men you are a paycheck,a ride, a place to stay a baby daddy ( if they want kids) and a handyman if she owns her own place.
Truth! Relationships are basically unstable. Over the long term her interest will always run to dissatisfaction. It’s just a question of when. It’s not your fault or even her fault on an intellectual level. It’s taken me a long time to realize this. She’s biologically wired to get frustrated and or bored and bail out at some point. She’s designed from the caveman days to be impregnated by multiple men over the course of a lifetime. Modern day reality doesn’t change her biology.
Yep, women naturally want excitement or newness.........or the emotional rollercoaster 🎢. You can only provide newness and excitement for a limited time in a real committed relationship. You can only keep a woman on an emotional rollercoaster through toxic manipulation,which is not a healthy, loving relationship. It's a lose lose....... unless your just using women for casual sex.
@@painter8237 correct,women are always looking for reasons/excuses to move on to what they PERCEIVE as a better man,or to a new exciting thrill That's why you do the bare minimum for a with women. You never try to keep a woman. She isn't yours,it's just your turn.
Interest. When both partners are in their early to late 80s it does not matter at that point. Attraction to people is the least of your worries. Unfortunately you will hardly find couples that stay together for the long run anymore. @@CatoH-y7f
I feel like this is my biggest problem additionally girls see me as an alpha based on looks and assertiveness, but then I pull back I think based on experience myself not having a lot of it.
I pull back when they reveal just how gross they are. It's women who kill my libido. I have that constant fight between my testosterone and being repulsed at what there is out there.
Once again Casey you’ve NAILED it!! As you’re explaining this, I’m analyzing and processing my current relationship (that is ending because she literally is crazy), and I’m analyzing a potential woman that I’ve met. And in both cases, what you’re teaching is spot on! I was a psych major and love analyzing human behavior (especially women), but I’ve never really thought about the “congruence” aspect as it relates to relationships. This concept is game changing and vital for guys to be aware of, understand, and use to our advantage if we want to win in this relationship game. I’m currently coaching one of my good friends on a situation he’s going through, and I’ve got him watching your videos now. Keep doin’ what you’re doin’ bro. You’re killin’ it!
Yo bro I left my baby mama of 7 years now I’m back on the dating scene and this new girl like me after a week and kissing and touching she left me on read I didn’t really care and forgot about it she called me that night bitching about why I didn’t check up on her and she mentioned the guy should chase the girl I was like wtf lol after she calmed down she left me on read I was like ok whatever I’m done with this idiot o never responded it’s been 2 weeks and now she is posting on Snapchat i feel like she might come back if she does should I allow her or cut her off (she had an amazing ass) lol
if men want to just get laid asap, they need to come from the frame of abundance, as well as making the congruence of what she wants from you, to be in line with what you want from her. if the men who want to just get laid, but act like a guy who doesn't just want to get laid, there is no congruence. if you just want the s3x, do not do dinner dates, do not buy them anything, etc. you have to lead the interaction towards what you want asap. get her over to your house, etc. if she insists you meet in public that's fine, but you have to set the intention of going back to ur place after. you need to be sexualizing in your dialogue or else she wont put you in that category. her emotions and how she acts towards you is completely in line with how you're acting. so you have to know what you want, and then act accordingly to get it.
This sounds about right. I tend to just single out the girls who are obviously fine with hanging out with you. From there each girl is different but I just mirror them in regards to how fast or slow they want to go without being too passive either. Its remarkable how fast you can escalate a girl when she is comfortable.
All these stupid games. Let’s be honest most men when they go out are looking to get laid. The amount of money a man spends on a couple dates he can get a HOT YOUNG escort…. That LEAVES when the funs over. F these games.
this isn’t my experience .. I always f*cked on the first and second date .. the key is to BE COOL .. not talking yourself out of the p*ssy is the only thing you have to do. just be cool, and you won’t even have to try, the women will.
It's not quite that simple sometimes. Sometimes the ego of a woman will want you to beg and plead her to stay like a Simp,so that she gets pleasure in your pain at her dumping you and an ego boost in the process. It's not much fun for the woman when the man nonchalantly says well there's the door,with indifference,plus she subconsciously sees that indifference as masculine energy and strength which entices her to stay. It's just like when the man levels up and gets a better looking woman,and all of a sudden she is mad at him and jealous of the new woman,and wants to return,even though she has already lost interest and dumped him....... remember,it's all a game to women. Remain emotionally detached at all times,and indifferent.
@@JonThompson-bt8rw I agree with most of the things you said, except for the part about remaining emotionally detached and indifferent at all times. If that's how you conduct yourself in relationships, then you'll never experience love. It's okay to love and have an emotional connection with someone. If it doesn't work out, it doesn't, but never regret loving wholeheartedly.
Definitely not lying experience taught me a lot of the stuff that he was saying. And seeing the women perform based on what they wanted from me based on what they categorize me as it's hilarious looking back. 🤣🤦🏾♂️🥶👍🏾
First off uncle C , I would like to let you know I'm grateful for you and your team . God bless yall. Secondly, I can see why some men have became monks. It's a devoted life but it's 100% easier than playing these games with the women of today. Keep up the great work as we take in your knowledge and may God have mercy upon us men
I remember all these head games when I was younger and how they were just playing me when I was serious and had my own place and they still rejected me because I failed their Sh!t test,yet I had my own place, car and decent paying job/career-- I guess i wasn't their fit or they thought they had figured me out..Well, it's their loss.Good thing I'm enjoying my singlehood and don't need to put up with this games nor make any priority for any woman.
Just imagine for a second, all these hunks and alpha boys and confident dudes and “men’s men” and such… focus on and think about and make their lives about this same and single topic, women women women women!!! 😂😂😂😂 I think they say some or a lot of truths, or helpful things regarding dating and relationships, but some time ago, I had the exact same thoughts as you when I was watching Rich Cooper, “is this ALL you have in your life??!!!!”.. Looking at it in that way cracked me up… 😂😂😂😆😆😆
Dude rich Cooper is in a long term relationship he has a load of hobbies it's not why he does what he does he does it because some his content might save a life. He genuinely wants the best for people when they connect there agency to there goals. Besides he talks about health and wealth as well.
Through all the red pilling I might have realized im with a good girl and I need more advice on working on myself to not only improve the relationship but just to improve my life regardless of my partner choice.
Men: It's worth noting that the greatest discernment you need to have in this day & age is the ability to identify a jezebel spirt. Seriously, look into it and avoid women who have this, because it is very dangerous on many levels. Knowing this will put you in a position of your own personal power and not addicted to the minge.
This is 100% spot on. Going back to my past relationships, and I've had many, also fucked more women than the average guy, this video really connects the dots on why things turned out the way they did. Great information!
What's 100% spot on and what dots did you connect? I enjoy Caseys content but it seems a lot of the men on here are blindly agreeing with everything he's saying. Men should be discussing these ideas and concepts, not following like sheep...
@@PB22559it’s because we are so stupid when it comes to women. They never tell you straight out what they are thinking because they think that they are smarter then men and most of the time they are. That’s their advantage. We wait as men for them to tell us but there is no advantage for women tot tell us what they are thinking
@@PB22559thank you I’m glad I’m not the only one who thinks this. This video kind of contradicts most of his other videos telling us in relationships we need to be alpha and show no signs of emotional attachment, but now he’s saying guys who show these alpha traits are a turn off for women seeking relationships. It makes no sense😂
Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it
there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.
@@TrentReeves-c2k this attitude of desperation, simping and attachment is what turns women off, my guy. Yes. You do feel this way. So how do you let go of the attachment? By realizing the delusion behind it. Theres no sense in being attached to a woman, they're hypergamous. Being attached triggers their hypergamy to think they can get a better deal.
I’m really enjoying the videos. I didn’t think I would. Some real good stuff here and food for thought. I have some of my own ideas but this has been very eye opening.
💯 Facts! Exquisite my friend. Thank you for the 💎 💎 💎 its a huge conformation, it sucks but it's real, gotta stay on point the game never ends and we're all in it.
You can't be a weak man. There are two types of women that date weak men. 1) The woman that left the weak man. 2) The woman that will leave the weak man.
Very true, honestly even when looking at race. I know many women who want to get dicked down by a big black guy, but would never date them, for example.
Casey I can’t thank you enough. I’ve been chasing a girl for 6 months, but thankfully I found your videos. Now I know where I stand and I’ll just play along.
I stopped dating cause woman have a agenda..and 2 many issues...and their communication sucks..you can tell whats going on...keep a diary when dating..u will. Observe and know !! Your notes don't lie
As a 75 yr old, still in the game, in a 40 yr old relationship.... I would add: to have fun teasing and playing it as a game AND, if she deserves it, let her play too.
