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Not the " Friend's " being between quotation marks 😂😂😂😂😂 and the " which one" 😂 y'all exposing each other, let us get the popcorn. This episode was much much much needed today ❤️✨
1. Woosung is SOOO fun and articulate. Love him here - any chance he can join the team/show permanently?? 2. In Hebrew there is a term for the positive jealousy that Woosung was talking about - the type that motivates you to grow and get better at your craft: "kinat sofrim" - the jealousy of the scribes (a specific group of scholars that became smarter because of healthy competition, not hatred or pettiness).
My advice to the letter person is to talk to the cousin and see how he wishes to handle it. Does he wish for distance? Does he wish for backup or less physical touch? Where is his headspace in all of it. I have a guy friend that I've been close with for 20 years now and we both ended up dating people that were jealous of the friendship and taking some distance and silence for a year or two won't change much. The friendship or in this case family bond is forever so if they want to focus on that person for a while then it isn't too many years of their life. I doubt he would marry a person that restricts him from his family and even if he did I doubt they'd last too many years. The friction is too severe.
I think we need to point out the distinction between envy and jealousy. Envy is longing or coveting someone else’s stuff (could be anything) and jealousy adds an extra element of unpleasant suspicion, apprehension, and/or rivalry to the mix. I think both are normal to feel but to Ashley’s point, it’s how to you act on those feelings that matters.
It's quite toxic. Like a relationship should be based on trust cause as soon as you are constantly being sus of them when they haven't given you a reason to, it's already a bad sign for your relationship. Like especially if the jealousy is targeted towards a family member???? Yah no. But this is my opinion obviously. People can think differently
I think jealousy stems from insecurities that's never been addressed. The feeling to be validated and be ahead of the game even though you are not fit yet to be in that game so you always end up losing but you keep trying. You feel like you are equally worthy but you fail to realize your own faults and you fail to realize the things you need to improve. So you follow someone else's path instead of creating your own. Along the way, you always feel like you need to have what they have in order to achieve what they achieved in the game that they play in the path that they created.
I say it all of the time: relationships ruin friendships. I always roll my eyes when my friends start dating people because I know that I will be ignored until the breakup happens.
Really? My sister did well hanging out with both her friends and boyfriend. She’s very extroverted and likes to keep up with people she’s close to. And for me, I’d always end up dating friends. It’s much easier to hang out with both your friends and boyfriend if they’re part of the same group.
I think if you are feeling jealous it’s important to recognize it and handle it properly. Don’t let it fester and become a constant in your life. Be honest with yourself. Find a way to release the emotion and change your thinking to a positive action or emotion. If it’s because of insecurity in a relationship whether that’s a friendship or otherwise think about why. Then either work on changing your mindset or talk to someone about your insecurities.
My cousin dated a girl like that.. and it was awkward at parties and would cry to my cousin saying us girl cousins didn't like her.. they eventually broke up and now it's just funny stories of the past
This was such an interesting conversation, I completely agree with Ashley's perspective on jealousy. I really like this trio! I hope Woosung will come back often!
There are different levels of jelousy and it's an inevitable human trait that's bound to reveal itself in some shape or form. What is important though is to be able to recognize if your jealousy level is toxic or ok. If you being jealous is invading a person's well being, then you have a problem there~
It could be another thing tho like I had a cousin whose girlfriend was supper freaking jealous over him hanging out with me and I thought that she was fucking weird for it but years later she talked to me and it turned out that she was jealous cause he only spent like an hour or two hanging out with her and for the rest of the day he spent it with us while never inviting her over to hang out as a group. it was not a matter of him cheating with his cousin but just about spending time without her
I love this trio! But in all honesty, the girlfriend being jealous of "cousins" is just crazy. usually, boyfriends/girlfriends who are jealous in that way are just SUPER Insecure in the relationship with their partner. They don't have a healthy level of trust and that results in jealousy. although being jealous of his cousins is a bit much lol
i love that woosung said that if you get jealous then that could indicate the other person is sketchy - being territorial in a relationship is often times one's instinct telling them their partner is not as loyal as they would like them to be!
I'm literally crying! I will be more happier when woosung and BM are together in this episode and also Peniel because they are close friends and i think this episode will be more funnier. 🥺
No Entiendo lo que Hablan pero me Siento Orgullosa de mí Woosung The Rose se a Convertido en un Fenómeno Musical ellos Merecen sus Reconocimientos Plissss ❤❤❤❤
I agree, jealousy can be normal but it's how you handle it. I also think in certain cases, age makes a difference. When I was younger, I was very jealous. More emotional, less rational, always ready to start something. As I grew older, I still feel jealousy, but I've taught myself to think about it before making assumptions. Once I'm able to stop, think, and use logic rather than emotion, I realize it's not something I should be jealous about and I'm able to let it go. From experience, you learn as you grow, and eventually, you will get to the point where you don't even have those jealous feelings because you've trained your mind to quickly realize before you get to that point. 😊
Yoo this happen to me! I was dating this guy and we were in the early stage and he noticed that I had a tight knit friendship with my best guy friend. He gave me an ultimatum and tried to force me to cut ties with my childhood friend! Like betch! This was strictly friendship and our families knew each other so we go wayy back so it was a RED NEON FLAG to RUNNNNNN.
9:07 i like how you pointed that out because i recently discovered that in Arabic there are two separate words for those feelings but i can't seem to find an equivalent to them in English. الحسد: which means the feeling of wanting someone else's property, achievement, power to disappear and to have it for yourself or to be satisfied with just the other person losing it. الغبطة: the feeling of wanting the same as what someone else has without wanting them to lose it. and i think that having two different words for those feelings helps you understand whether your jealousy is healthy and makes you want to work harder, or if it's a toxic kind of jealousy that could end up harming you and other people
@@LS-lr9il actually the first one is envy, but we as an Arab, especially "muslims" envy is a very bad thing. Its like when you want something that belongs to someone else. You feel envious that they have it and you don't " the feeling of wishing them to lose it". YOU can't tell someone that you envy them because it's very rude and disrespectful. The second is jealously but it can be a good thing for ourselves. Like when I'm jealous of how my friends are good at math, so I try to study hard and be good like them. " not wishing them to lose it " 🥰
@@noufAl1 Oh thank you. I always thought envy had a different definition 🤦♀️😅. But you're right. I suppose there really isn't a word for that in english. Also, I'm muslim 😊, though not Arab.
In Arabic we have a general word (Ghera) which means jealousy but we have words for what they were describing (Hasad - which means envy and Ghebta - which means feeling jealous about something and wanting to have the same thing but at the same time feel happy for that person)
I could be jealous of Coldplay too but instead am motivated by them. I don't practice my guitars enough to be that good! Woosung is right - trust is key in a relationship & it's not good to spend too much time together. Limiting friends & family connections is a relationship deal-breaker for me.
I would never date someone who'd tell me what to do or asks me to cut ties with any of my family members or friends. Family and my best friend come first always and forever. Although I'm im not the jealous type but I went through such experience. I was jealous of my uncle's ex fiancee because it felt she stole him from me. He's not only my uncle he's more like my friend. ❤
so funny to hear the story sent. I had the same problem with my cousin's gf too. Idky but the girl just doesnt get it when we told her 'we're practically siblings, with different parents.' its fine to me if you feel uncomfortable, just talk it out with your bf but to come at me, as if im a problem, huuu girl you're just waging a war here and it aint pretty. just know that its okay to feel and then, talk it out, please, we're adults.
I thought I were not a jealousy person bcs I didnt get jealous easily (I can tell from my past relationships). But then, when it comes to time where I had a relationship with someone who has a _bestie girl_ danggg I got soooo JEALOUS. I cant stop thinking how my (ex) bf used to go around with his _bestie girl_ so, yeah, I think we all have jealousy in our chest, it just depend on who we were facing on to trigger it
