The balance between the masculine and feminine has been out of balance for hundreds of years. The imbalance has created an unhealthy male energy, that’s the cause of war, violence, greed. Healthy male energy is very beautiful.
Love, Peace & being High is a way of life I appreciate your comment but the balance is truly off scale which causes issues in male female relationships. I enjoy healthy male energy as it allows me to become more feminine safely. ❤️
Healthy male energy is very charming. Generally women like men who consider them as equals. Whereas "toxic masculinity" is where the person doesn't like his feminine side or he has suppressed it for too long and that is why they won't respect females in general.
I totally believe and notice this, but particularly in the West. When I think of true positive masculinity I think of Freddy Mercury, not Stormin' Schwarzkopf.
@@highvibesonly8296 Are you stupid? toxic masculinity is a made up word to destroy men and men's masculinity! like yeah men and women do need both sides but to use cringe words like "toxic masculinity" makes you sound like a radical feminist, and also there is nothing wrong with men acting manly and women acting feminine!
The nice guy stuff giving gifts for getting sex or whatever is weak, all giving should always be unconditional. Forgiveness should be unconditional. Love and reverence should be unconditional. No matter if you’re feminine or masculine.
Forgiveness should NOT be unconditional. It must be earned. A person who shows no remorse should not be forgiven. Just the person should not let hate consume them. That's what I believe.
Mia Meow “UNDERSTANDING BRINGS FORGIVENESS “Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.” Everyone makes mistakes. If we are mindful, we see that some of our actions in the past have caused others to suffer, and some actions of others have made us suffer. We want to be forgiving. We want to begin anew. “You, my brother or sister, have wronged me in the past. I now understand that it was because you were suffering and did not see clearly. I no longer feel anger toward you.” You cannot force yourself to forgive. Only when you understand what has happened can you have compassion for the other person and forgive him or her. That kind of forgiveness is the fruit of awareness. When you are mindful, you can see the many causes that led the other person to make you suffer, and when you see this, forgiveness and release arise naturally. Putting the teachings of Jesus and the Buddha into practice is always helpful.” - Thich Nhat Hanh from his book LIVING BUDDHA LIVING CHRIST
This opened my eyes about some of my ways. The past 6 months I’ve been trying to please this girl, from the moment we started talking I had that thought that I wasn’t good enough and that she wouldn’t accept me which led to me catering more so to her and what she wanted rather than being my natural confident self and enjoying the company. I completely lost myself in the process of trying to be with her. I became extremely indecisive even when it came to things as simple as saying a word or answering simple questions. I wasn’t focused at all on my hobbies and was more so worried about saying something stupid or saying something that might offend her, my whole life was me thinking about her and the potential relationship. I became extremely clingy and started to worry about what she was doing when she wasn’t with me, or if she was actually asleep when she said she would go to bed. This is not the way I want to be, I realize that I have lost a lot of masculine energy and today that starts to change. Ima carry myself different and ima assert myself a lot more and take more chances when it comes to everyday life. Focus more on me and let the rest come naturally. Forcing yourself to be a nice guy is not going to make things better for you especially when it comes to a potential relationship. Never change for anybody but yourself.
Yes, very well said. I know my response is much later but I truly hope things worked out for the best for you and that you fully came back to yourself. Never compromise yourself for anybody- they are not worth it- and the ones who really care for you will never ask you to compromise yourself. Peace and Love 😍🥰
Really enjoyed the information you went over in this one. I needed to hear this one. Please do more on polarity and surrounding topics. Thanks. Namaste, much love, keep it up! ✌🏽
From my heart to whoever reading this I hope you appreciate the greatness you hold from within. YOU are perfection just the way YOU ARE . You radiate love, kindness, strength, passion, will and light. You are beautiful! Wish you such a blessed and bright day. Cheers! 💙🌺
I have found that teachers also have a huge impact on our kids’ development for life; good or bad!! We all have distinct memories of how positively or negatively a teacher has affected us that has stuck with us no matter how old you are. Teachers are with kids more hours in a day than parents. We need more really good teachers for the priceless impact they can have on kids. It’s definitely a team effort between parents & teachers! Blessings of God’s light, love and compassion to all! 💗 🙏
Megi Stardust Totally agree! Anyone that can help you to get on a better path or save your life emotionally or physically, is way more valuable than the ridiculous amounts of money paid to athletes! I’m sure after parents being home with their children will realize that as far as valuing the good teachers, so hoping that changes very soon! Blessings to you, Megi! 🙏
Ahmed Abdulai Yes, teaching them these things, since these types of things aren’t taught in school, so we are the teachers at home that are here for life occurrences. Some listen and some have to learn on their own. When you hear them teaching a friend, you know they really were listening. Teaching others is easier than ourselves sometimes. We’re all on our own journey, so having loving support, guidance and compassion; especially as they move out on their own into this world, letting go as a parent is difficult. Sending them the daily loving energy is so very important for them and us as parents. Thank you, Ahmad! Blessings to you.
Great video 🔮 The divine masculine and feminine has been massively under attack for a long time. Its now the time for us to fully awaken to that fact and take back our innate power so we can find balance and peace with each other 🙏💜⭐
Wow!! This is what happened in my relationship that just ended. I had lack of trust and he was a total people pleaser. Also I could never relax and feel safe in his masculine energy. Thank you for explaing this in detail.
Ugh ! This is my experience now . Sometimes I’ll even act like I don’t know something or act afraid of something just to get my husband to be in his masculine .. :(
Unfortunately the society is creating feminine men and masculine women. This is creating a hell in the relationship when the natural tendencies are completely gone awry.
It hunduism it's called shiva shakti. Shiva is the masculine polarity and Shakti is the feminine polarity. We all have shivashakti within us. If you cover one eye with each eye and look at your face you will realize one side looks more masculine and one side looks more feminine.
OMG the “typical” situation happened to me. I was naturally very feminine, but at the age of 19 I found out that my dad cheated on my mom , and I actually became more masculine. Luckily, I found my purpose and it resulted in me having more freedom.
So I’m confused. If you have wounded feminine, doesn’t it mean you would have the people pleasing, unworthy, lack of barriers traits, not the masculine traits?
it tilted my balance. six months later with a lot of shadow work and meditation, it’s much more clear now that my divine masculine was in overdrive and in defense.. denying the much needed healing of the divine feminine. my takeaway was that the scales had shifted heavily for the sake of avoidance. meaning utter chaos lol. especially since i’m a libra 😉
@@Mosdefinitelyable wounded masculine means you are not expressing masculine traits, therefor, being a people pleaser / nice guy. wounded feminine would be the opposite, not expressing you’re feminine traits,
I am very much in my wounded masculine energy. I have a lot of failed relationships where there was just no trust. I'm so closed off as a partner also, scared of showing vulnerability
Going through a breakup right now, my inner masculine and feminine are so wounded it's unreal. These videos are really helping me. Thank you for everything you do x
Let's go deeper into the real truth. The true "spiritual" journey is letting go of form and gender ideology. YOU are not broken. Wherever YOU go there you are, the Soul. The you that you "think" you are is not you
Yes thank god someone said the truth 😂❤ althoug what he says is partly truth. i can relate to being feminine with bit of wounded masculine. My dad was abusive in a multiple ways always cheating so that left me in fear that men arn't trust worthy and i have fear that love will leave me. That makes me more controling in a relationship beacause i lack to trust people. I understand that i need to work on that for my own good and happiness. However to think that u need to put yours self into this box in order to think that you are now healed is funny 😀 you don't need to feel guilty as a women if you are leading and assertive they are positive humen qualities for both gender. Same goes for a men . Men shouldn't feel less of a men if they are emotional and vulnerable. In lot of cases expectation and pressure that we put on our selves about what is a true feminine and true masculene can cause harm to our true identity. Every person is unique with both feminine and masculine and if you want to find a relationship thats hapy and fulfilling u should find a partner that matches u and isn't scared of masculine qualities u have as a women or vixe versa ❤
True but you're here on this earth playing a role, and part of that character you play has a particular biology(your sex) with a particular set of accompanying traits(your gender role if you will). Though God may have come here to play as us, we didn't come here to play as God if you get me haha you're not the unlimited, you're limited to certain roles/functions. It's not about eliminating the ego completely, if it was only that simple. It's about developing a healthy ego as opposed to a neurotic ego, becoming who you are meant to be so to speak. I certainly haven't got the hang of it yet but here's hoping. Have a good one
@@MsMeGUka i don't really think he's saying that, but I appreciate your view. I feel he was talking specifically about polarisation. And there are different levels of awareness and reality. At one level of reality what he's talking about is true. Everything is energy, just like at a separate reality there is no selfhood but rather an expression of source. The wounded feminine energy and masculine energy needs to be healed through shadow work at this level of reality, and he's talking about energy not necessarily based on gender dynamics. Anyway that's my take away. LOL! Have a beautiful day!
Hi Aaron, my understanding of this is that masculine and feminine energies represent duality, which we are moving away from in 5D. Masculine energies have been dominant on the planet for a very long time, whilst the divine feminine has been supressed. We are now moving into a time of healing these energies within ourselves individually and collectively, to come into balance and wholeness. I am a woman with strong feminine energy but for me, there is nothing more attractive than a man in touch with his feminine side in a balanced beautiful way.
When you say “the feminine wants to be lead by the masculine” I think many masculines think this means they should control feminines. I don’t want anyone leading me lmao I want to lead myself 😂 I do want that comfort of masculine energy because I’ve never had it in a healthy way, so the idea of being safe resonates. There’s a big difference between “letting a man feel like a man, and a woman be a woman” (gender roles) and tapping into the energies in a healthy way for your specific partnership. I think more people need to understand this.
Yes this is exactly what I have been thinking! I saw many women and men on the internet saying that when they life in this plurality, if they be more feminin that will also mean that they are going to life in these old gender roles! It's like: don't be so independent, be more feminin = don't start your own business, let your man do that and you can stay home and do nothing. THAT'S NOT WHAT IT MEANS! There are so many successful highly feminine woman out there and I think it's time that we include the term that every strong woman needs a strong shoulder. Because I feel like it's seen as though successful men need the support of their woman but if a woman wants to be successful she has to do everything on her own. Wich is not true. And I saw sooo many woman say that they want to go into their feminin power but if they will they can't build that business or those dreams. We all have both in us! And being an independent person is different from letting yourself be led by your man! (like him telling you to cancel this meeting or making a decision so you don't run into trouble cause the feminine just wants to create and explore and maybe doesn't recognize such things)
@@fireshine4105 that is so true, I’ve never thought about it that way. I definitely have that mindset of needing to do everything on my own 😅 but everyone needs support! And I would much rather be in my feminine energy tbh than overexerting myself (which i do all the time). It so important to have that balance, and it’s nice to have a partner that is supportive of that. I see so many weird comments on the internet too, toxicity and misunderstanding is everywhere unfortunately! Learning about how to balance our own energy would help so much and also to understand healthy relationships in general
I am glad that you are showing the positive side of masculine and feminine energies. Many times when we think of masculine energy, the shadow side comes to mind of power and control. But it is much more than that. And extremely important! And without it, it is true, the feminine can't relax and flow. I'm glad you are making these videos. Thank you. Namaste 🙏
Great video and needed for many ⭐️ I define the balanced/healthy/empowered Masculine towards Feminine as “4 P’s”: - Presence - Protection - Provision - Patronage ✨
Amazing Aaron this is exactly what has happened in my relationship because I really have a wounded feminine and cannot trust the masculine so then I make myself the masculine, I make myself the controller, and it has been a cause for the end of the relationship. Knowing this is so empowering and I hope it fixes this!
Another thing to check out that may shine some more light is attachment styles... also the dynamic between your care givers growing up. You will be re-creating that dynamic so that you can heal it! Hope this helps!
Wow! This is better than going to a psychiatrist. LOL! I think I've learned more today than any psychiatrist was able to explain. All he wanted to do is flood me with medication. I feel so much better listening to this and no, I don't take any medications, because I don't like them. :) Thank you so much for sharing all of this information. It helps so much! :)
Good on you for not taking their "treatment", psychiatrists are glorified drug pushers. Psychologists it seems are the real deal but I'd imagine it's not as easy to get one without money.
This is the video I needed to see right now! I asserted my boundaries and because I did this- the masculine backed off- hurts but I understand why… this explains a lot
I love your work Aaron,we are here and fully awakening,but I’ve been awake my whole life,knew I didn’t fit the “norm”!Im holding the light so others may see in the hour of darkness!❤️👍
I’ve never been attracted to super sensitive and emotional men. But I’ve also never been attracted to Alpha Males either. Both are a turn off to me personally. I need something in the middle. Balance is key.
This is more important than people realize! I always thought something was off with men who want to be overly masculine, as if they are compensating for something else. It’s okay for men to have some feminine energy as well!
Hi Aaron! I am so thankful for the RU-vid algorithm that suggested your videos to me most recently. I already know that I'm going to watch this video several more times to finish processing it. Thank you very much for making this content. It really helped me understand some things about myself on a deeper level and the people in my life. Peace & Blessings from the most High. 🥰🙏🏽🙏🏽.
More on this Aaron! I have been studying polarity in relationships but never heard the tension part. Interesting for sure. I think more conversations need to be done on this because relationship (especially when it is healthy) helps us all.
As a therapist and Life Coach i always thought i had to be THE NICE GUY lol. After doing my own Shadow Work on myself i figured out THATS NOT WHO I AM. Exactly what you found out about yourself. Having a dad i felt like i had to please cos i wasnt good daughter enough i became people pleaser as you did. Working on being AUTHENTIC allowing myself to speak or react the way i FEEL not the way im SUPPOSED TO helped me a lot. Thank you for this amazing video.❤
Women can’t trust in the masculine and have to become masculine to protect ourselves so idk about this. I feel like I can’t just start practicing surrendering to masculine energy in the world bc then I’d be abused and taken advantage of. It’s just sad the state of the world. Men and women have gotten so far from our natural feelings hormones thoughts etc. like when he said be more emotional express urself “dance” I’ve been taught that emotions is weakness and I shouldn’t show me express to other ppl how I’m feeling. It’s just a lot to hear that now I have to work on all these things when I’ve adapted due to the state of society today. Maybe this worked in the 50s but 2020 is a new age.
It works today bae. My leading energy is masculine and yesterday, i broke my heart and i let my masculine deal with that pain it almost killed me. All that close offness is terrible. My divine masculine didn't like that tho so i am better cos i have been able to heal the wounded masculine. Despite having a leading masculine energy, i once dealt with people pleasing. So it's really about letting go b. You are doing well, accepting as you are doing with this comment is a step so you are doing well. Applause to you.
I think this is something that a lot of ppl struggle with but in order to heal the root cause of the distrust we need to heal ourselves. When we have the belief that others can make us feel secure, loved, safe, or happy we give our power away. But if we truly understand that our emotions (joy, love, security, etc) comes from within us, we can understand that even if another person doesn't "show up" we've got our own back.
Negative Masculine energy is damaging. I too have been hurt by negative masculinity and having lost trust in men it was difficult. After marrying my husband he taught me to trust in a steady man who cared about others, who did nice things for me, and treated me kindly. Before getting married I felt like I had to act feminine to please my parents. I act more masculine than my adopted mom would have hoped for. My husband is okay with that because he usually has somewhat more feminine energy. Just because a majority of men are negative in their broken masculinity doesn't mean that they are all that way.
You have to be discerning, you can’t just trust any masculine. But the idea that the whole world is like this, that you can’t ever trust a man, only holds you back
Great video!! I’m a female and seriously tired planning our future, I want/desire a decisive man who takes control as I become the best version of myself. I already communicated this to my child’s father and soon I’m ghost!
Very glad you took a break from the current conspiracy theory videos. I've been watching your videos daily for about a year now and I just can't put any of my energy into the negative events of the world any more. This is what I came for. Thanks bro, you have taught me alot and kept me on track
Aaron, I normally agree with you but I think this video is missing the female perspective. Telling men not to be nice guys could be interpreted by some to mean ; Don't be chivalrous; Don't be a gentleman ; Don't help women - Some men might think that they look weak for just being nice. As a woman; I deeply value genuinely kind men. They should be honoured and loved- They shouldn't be told to stop being kind to women. It's true that some women don't appreciate them but it is also true that some men don't appreciate kind and loving women.
@Abraham If a man isn't nice to me...I'm leaving. Life is too short to waste on men who are unkind. Nice men make better husbands. Bad boys are time wasters. Smart women know this.
thank you, again! You Have been such Pivotal part of my healing after a Relationship became toxic, and you have helped me see all the places I need to heal in me, to move forward. Thanks Aaron!!
All of this polarity is *such an eye opener* to the *facts and truth* Any one else *really realizing* something about them selves and the relationship they're in? I'm definitely looking at the balance I'm trying to create in my life with that sense of security from my own work, through my RU-vid channel and other sources, to create the security I crave but also make sure that it's still a feminine energy that is dominantly me, to find a *balance within myself* that is lacking in the exterior world.
I've known about this for a number of years now and I've tried to explain it to quite a few people, the importance of masculine/feminine polarity, or balance in a romantic relationship. I tend to lose people fairly early in explaining it, especially the men. Perhaps it's not a masculine subject to talk about, so they get bored and tune out. Women seem more open to considering this stuff, from what I've experienced. Or maybe it's the way I'm approaching it. It makes so much sense though, I'm not sure why so many people out there fail to understand it or even take interest in it, with all the dysfunction we see in relationships now.
Thank you so much. The realization that the spiritual path I am walking down for the last year led to me becoming less and less masculine helps me a lot to take back part of that masculine energy now. Eye opening!
I am male in this incarnation and naturally carry a more feminine energy. This has been a great challenge for me to embody, more so heal. As I become aware of how I’ve in a sense “run away” from my own natural frame, to embody a “masculine mask” to people please, to be accepted by society.
The insightfulness I have gained from just listening to Aaron insightfulness I'm more in touch with my surroundings and willing to step outside the box into the unknown
Omg..i can’t believe how word to word i felt, talked to my bf, and why i had to leave my last relationship..I hope all men and women hear this, it’s TRULY is liberating💜 I want to relax into my men’s arms, I want him to lead and feel safe so that I don’t have to be masculine but be creative.✨
The information is mind boggling and very new to me. Perhaps another video on this will get people to get use to this and understand it more because this subject also plays a big role in good and bad relationships.
This was explained in a way I could understand clearly. Thank you. I have become aware this weekend that it is my wounded masculine energy that's holding me back from creating the life I want.
Wow that was a crash course in self- awareness, relationships and childhood wounds! It was immensely helpful and I would love to see more divine feminine - masculine content. Thank you from a divine feminine woman. ☀️ 🙏 🌟
I do appreciate you specifying masculine and feminine energies. I‘ve always naturally had more masculine energy than feminine energy (I’m a gay woman). But I want both polarities within me to be organic and healthy. I just went through a breakup so it’s a great time for me to recalibrate. My stepdad was not a people pleaser but he was a “nice guy” otherwise. My mom did cheat on him and I think that did have an influence on my relationships with the women I dated.
Incredible video. It is eye opening to look into the root of nice guy/people pleaser but filling up your own cup and validating yourself instead of needing external validation is key.
I could never figure out how to balance I was always so emotionally sensitive, insensitive, leading more masculine when I felt threatened, insecure, I would switch between two people. I see where there is imbalance. This is such crucial information.
Ultimately we want to each balance both, so each person in a relationship has a balance of both. Does not need to be exactly balanced within each person, but each does need both masculine and femine energies, and healed.
Phenomenal content Aaron! I would LOVE more info on healing the masculine and feminine energies within! Thank you for sharing this. I will certainly be rewatching this one a few times to let it all truly sink in. Much love & appreciation for you. 🙏💖🕉
Access to both polarities is a powerful life way, according to many indigenous societies. As a gay man, this is my power to live in both of these polarities at the same time, without favoring or leading with one or the other. Its only binary thinking and overvaluation of masculinity in our culture and society that shames many of us out of our feminine polarity. I myself have a wounded feminine challenge with people pleasing and feeling unworthy however being in a career position of leadership, and having a more freedom centric life are allowing me to move into a more healed state with my masculine energies.
This was a great teaching.🤓Thank you for the examples from your own real life experience. 👠🥾 I’m definitely sharing this with my community. 🌟 Blessings to you.
I like how you say "practical and relatable" I think that men or women who are angry with the opposite sex, are making their own issues worse. It is harmful to direct fear and hate towards the opposite sex in general. Healing is within by accepting ourselves on all levels, becoming the best self we can be (our ideal life ) We shouldn't get hung up on the physical in terms of cosmetic surgeries, etc...
The amount of effort and well thought out perspectives in this video are truly mind blowing. Thank you for this Aaron!!! God bless, cant wait for the next upload!
Thank you sooo much 🔥❤️I was listening to you since last night and I didn't realised everything about the reality itself and being a prison or slave of my own thoughts, that childhood trauma hits me deep. Old cycle pattern which always and always fallowing 😢.