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What I learned was that never do something out of your own comfort zone. That is to be authentic. Realize the inner child issues does not make who you are today.
I learned to let go and do own I don't care what other people think I started a RU-vid page to help people.. Sorry Aaron but you talk way to much about your ex step mom let me ask you are you ready to let it go of your inner child wounds? If you need a element healing I will offer you one free to help you let go
Knowing I need to set more boundaries. This is very difficult as a mother because you sacrifice so much. Do you have examples of different types of boundaries and when to use them?
Aaron when you said (paraphrased) “codependents say ‘ooh, I just love deeply’. You don’t, you just abandon yourself”. I felt my heart drop. I realized that I was telling myself I love a man deeply and I wanted him to accept my love. I started tearing up bc I realized I was giving him all the love that I wasn’t able to give to myself
Mmmm interesting why do we feel we can give rather than receive.. however I feel I’ll never receive the support n help I give or is that isn’t in the method or way I want it to be or is that I’m not able to receive it
Codependency is not needing other people's energy or being needy. Codependency is putting others feelings and desires before yours and compromising yourself.
Agreed! And trying to control outcomes in order to feel safe & secure. *Personally I think, we need to let go of being told or thinking that are needs, are not important or invalid- for most codependants that is the core of where codependancy was created. Shame. ❤🙏
If one looks to other people, alcohol, addictions, etc because they are using it to fill their voids and they feel the neeeeeed it, then there is codependency there. If you neeed someone else's energy then it is a form of dependence. Anytime you reach out of yourself to fill your voids that is a form of codependency. I'm not trying to argue with you at all. This topic is part of my work and I've studied it as a therapist, intuitive, and healer.
@@CaraHealBeFree I can appreciate that, but there is HEALTHY INTERDEPENDENCE. The Codependancy & Narcissism, as well as addictions and compulsion I refer to are clinical. Everything in moderation. After all the nature of our universe is duality. Everything is polarities, integration is the goal. Human Beings are not isolating individualists- connection and belonging are integral & embedded in our very essence. Ie:As such the dynamic of masculine & Feminine with an individual and the relationships we experience with reception & action. Too many spiritualists want to push the Everything is in us concept. Which is true, but we only evolve individually through the mirror of the external. ❤🙏 Blessings
“When you are unattached, you have inner freedom. You have no investment in a particular outcome, and so you do what is necessary in the moment. You explore every option and are receptive to all new information. You do all that you know to do, and then trust, because you have no attachment to either the result or how the result is produced.” - Charlene Belitz I’ve always loved this quote. It invokes that grounded, secure energy within me reminding me of what surrender can look like for us- in love, in work, in everything ❤️
*For a more realistic view on relationships you might like reading "Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man: What Men Really Think About Love, Relationships, Intimacy, and Commitment" by Steve Harvey. I like having outcomes and I usually get them. It saddens me to look at people judging themselves badly for having a goal or wanting an outcome, or having an expectation, there's nothing wrong with it. Can you imagine a world where people have no expectations, no agreements at all and no promises kept? Well, here's the utopia that could unfold, let's say you go to the post office and you don't expect for the people serving you to be there, or you open the faucet and no water runs through because you shouldn't expect to have water services running perfectly, you go to catch a train at **8:00** and it doesn't show up because hey, it's wrong to have expectations. I think people delude themselves thinking they have no right to desire an outcome or expect something, since they are not sure if they'll get it they decide it's normal they should have no expectation. I call bullshit to this.* *You can have expectations, for instance if you want to get married you better be transparent and let another know you are dating with that intention in mind. You are not forcing it upon someone else, just that eventually this is what you're after, you can take your time to see if you guys like each other or not, and if not then you're free to spend your time dating someone who might be interested in wanting similar things to you. Being authentic is knowing what you want, it's not necessary to vent it out on the first date, just be sure you will get it and feel the fulfillment of it within yourself already so you don't have needy energy. But that's all to it, enjoy the ride towards the practical fulfillment, but don't be a person with no vision. The bible warns against it, it says "Where there is no vision, people perish". Sure, we can live even with no conveniences at all, out in the woods, with no modern shelter, heat, electricity, no attachments. Do you think this is what life is about? Life is interesting because we can define visions for ourselves and get it. But you can't get something that you can't even define.*
After my break-up, I was in deep depressed shit. I did all the meditation, the surrounding myself with community practice but I still felt terrible. But this REFRAMED MY MINDSET. No wonder I am miserable. I am needy and co-dependent. My self worth, my mood and everything depends on how many people loves me, whether I have a lover, whether I am needed, or someone values my existence. What I have is lack of boundaries and detachment from those that does not serve me. Thank you! This is like a blueprint to my problem now
Currently in this state as well, and I have now learned to reframed my mindset and go back to having a secure attachment, than becoming anxious throughout my previous relationship. I miss being single where I was independent and secure of myself, now I don't need a partner unless they're secure as well.
Before my mom passed away the last profound thing she said was We have to take our power or energy back from our loss things we have poured our Love into. Build our energy back up and work on ourselves.
My mum and brother are narcissistic I had a terrible upbringing . Still wanted them to love me . Started watching you for about 8 months . And now I am orthentic . They don't like me anymore. But I am glad I am free from them . I am 67 took a long while but thanks to you l am happy now and free . Thank you .
Hey buddy, I'm a nice guy, people pleaser. I need to let go of a narcissist wife that has almost ruined my life. Your videos have been a source of strength and comfort in this awakening. Thank you brother.
My heart goes out to all human souls who had to go through pain growing up. You can and will heal. If you put in the work. I, too, didn't have a good relationship with my mother. She's no longer in my life. I wish her well. Not all mothers are mothers. Not all fathers are fathers.
I, a recovering anxious, just had a meeting with an avoidant woman who is also working on her shit. After listening to you Aaron, we had the easiest conversation ever. I'm like, just breath my energy back in, just breath it in. I didn't project, I didn't go after her. I said things I was always afraid to say in the past. After getting over the first whoa, I can't believe I just said that!, things just flowed along and she really enjoyed the conversation. I was being true to what I believed, speaking my truth. No idea what will happen. I am 72 years old, and learning faster than I ever have in my life. You are doing a good thing, Aaron.
I’ve noticed too that being a people pleaser and a nice guy is cowardly. It takes courage to be authentic. I have found the Universe rewards me when I am courageous and authentic.
This is really insane... How easy it is for us to repeat patterns.. when we think that we are over something but in reality the healing progress is mere illusion and we keep repeating the same cycle again and again..
WHAT do you mean. if your inner code is off like in a narcassist he is sticking to creating pain, trauma, abuse and harm to everyone around him or her.
I found a lot in common for myself. I am very self-critical...I constantly doubt myself...I always think I am worse than others, especially regarding work achievements. But at the same time, I am very empathetic towards others....always see the best in people and it often ends up hurting me. Why are we so critical and sometimes even cruel to ourselves, but we treat others with love and respect.
Damn great content man. I now realize that all the hate and resentment I may have felt toward someone rejecting me in the past is not worthy of hanging onto at all. I now look back and I see that no one owes me anything and I don't owe anyone anything. This shift alone has virtually vanished my social anxiety. It's still there at times but I view it and I channel it completely differently now.
I feel the exact same way! I now realize that no one has ever “abandon” or “reject” me! Is was only me projecting my wounds and fears and reacting to what was happening outside…that is changing completely how I’m seeing and feeling myself, I’m so grateful
To the *worthwhile person* 🌟 seeing this, I know life is hard. It’s hard living, filled with struggles and challenges. The constant pressure to overcome and become. However you can overcome and make it better, all the seeds and keys of greatness are within you. Get up and press on. I wish you all the best in life ❤️. You can do it.
You’re so kind because you still are trying to say you met a stage four clinger that literally stalked you and crossed your boundaries. You definitely are allowed to feel safe and I’m glad you realize this.
Thank you so much, Aaron. Ive been too nice, too needy for new friends since my darling husband passed 2 years ago. People prey on a widows vulnerability! Now, Im roaring back to my authentic, assertive, unique, self. I dont want to be popular. I want to be simply my true, free spirited, spiritual, non conformist self! Im loving finding my inner Tiger again! 💚💚💚
What I love about this is that it is a lesson for ALL relationships (not just romantic) but also in business. I am always putting out music and music videos with the energy of NEEDING and almost begging people to like it and share it. That hasn't worked for me for the last 10 years LOL and hearing you talk about it really snaps me into reality. Posting and sharing with people because I simply love to make music and share it is the way to go! Thank you for sharing this
Aaron, you have no idea how much your videos are helping me every day lately. I’ve been having a difficult time with a breakup and whenever the tears start to flow I put one of your videos on and get my wits about me. Thank you.
This resonates deeply with me. I was a nice girl, people pleaser, & very codependent specially with romantic relationships. Now that I am older I have understood that is ok to say no & also to have self love. Thank you Immensely Aaron for sharing your Amazing Words of Wisdom with us for that we are immensely grateful My Soul Embraces your Amazings Souls Divine Souls of Light Namaste 🙏 💝
Thank you. This was the most helpful tip I have heard to breaking codependency, to see the flame and others as separate! What a freaking relief!! Thank you!
I definitely was a people pleaser. After watching many of your videos, watching the same ones time to time. Numerous times, working on myself. My shadow self. I have realized the past trauma that has created this persona of me. I’ve stopped people pleasing and it’s been the best feeling I’ve ever had. I feel lots of happiness and energy return to me. Energy and happiness that I sadly have never had. And I am 28 years old. Aaron doghty you have changed my life for the better and I appreciate you and respect you. Thank you.
Omg, you are so right! It's a good thing to know we're all connected BUT if you're co-dependent you actually need to feel the separation especially with people who are toxic. This makes perfect sense to me. Thank you.
What you said about empaths "feeling the separation" between them and others is so powerful. I feel it's totally what I needed to hear, as I usually feel "too connected" to other people to the point I am doing all the things you mentioned. THANK YOU!
Aaron this information is game changing!! Within this last year, I've been really into energy work, understanding chakras and meditation. But your breakdown of shadow work, being authentic and what it means to be in your own frame is POWERFUL!! It allows for the meditation to be transformational not just relaxing. I just learned I am an empath and as strong as I appear, I have not been very good at holding my own frame. It has caused me emotional exhaustion to the point of wanting to leave my entire family (I'm married with 4 children, 28, 17, 15,13) 28yro is out of the house living her life. I have terrific kids, I just learned I don't have boundaries and it's most likely due to having an alcoholic mother. I have been pouring and pouring out at a higher rate than pouring in! I am exhausted!! My mother is still alive and nothing about her has changed. I'm not slamming her because although she was/is an alcoholic, she was a loving and present mother. However there was (and remains) an undercurrent of "It never being enough" of her being a victim and my sister and I to this day, despise a victim mentality. I am now 55 and feel like I'm out of gas and it is 100% related to all of what you're saying! Not having boundaries, people pleasing, being an empath. FUCK THAT!! I stopped doing a lot of things!! I've got work to do!! IT'S A NEW DAY! THANK YOU
😊 You seem calmer, more confident, and self-assured now. Your former energy in your earliest videos seemed more frantic and desperate. I’m happy that I could be a witness to your journey-it’s been authentic. Thank you for inspiring my own healing and growth! ❤️
I’ve been doing your candle technique and I’m also focusing more on being in my body. It’s been helping a lot. I had this weird connection with someone and basically he has very bad ptsd. He was emotionally unavailable and I was anxiously attached. I was thinking of him all the time. He had a lot of stuff going on in his life and became barely responsive. He did something that really hurt me, not thinking to tell me at all. He then called me selfish for only thinking of myself when I got angry at him. The funny part is that as a codependent, I was always thinking of him and self abandoning. Interesting how my self abandoning and putting all the attention to him was selfishness to him. Lesson learned!
It feels to me like you are talking about my SP. Same situation, same response I've got from him when I felt ignored. It was terrible I spent thinking of him for almost 4 yrs 24 s/day in the end I felt scared because it felt he was manipulating my energy.
@Carla Beatriz it's a terrible feeling. Hope you're over him and nurturing yourself. Six months later, I rarely think of him. I'm still releasing some resentments in general about relationships, but I'm feeling much more whole. Best wishes! 🩷
Do you watch a real candle or do I need to close my eyes and imagine the flame. This is my first couple of days of trying it and also I can not find a way to feel or bring the energy back to me. Please help me anyway you can. I want to be myself again
@jasonlewis6926 a real candle. Ask your guardian angel or anyone you pray to to help you clear your energy and restore, return, and integrate your energy that you left outside of yourself. Ask for healing.
We should stop suspecting everyone of bad intentions. People who treat us badly are not necessarily bad, they can also be sick. Think about people who have schizophrenia, depression, and other disorders. Before we judge someone as a monster, let's first make sure that our loved one has not developed a mental illness that could result in suicide.
They are some people that think that you are speaking only to them. It happens to celebrities as well. I do agree with him, you have to set boundaries and protect yourself. That's why celebrities have bodyguards.
YES! ONLY this past few days i realize my big sister has an infeareer disorder n that leads her to behave certain way. at last i break free bcos i hold her as my autority figure!!
I feel much safer with nice guys. Guys who are helpers and kind and gentle and sweet. Also, my boyfriend that I’m in love with started as a friend who I wasn’t interested in at all, he broke through the friend zone and we’re talking about marriage now. So nice guys definitely finish first to me
I believe the nice guys Aaron is referring to is the codependent/people pleaser that do it out of unconscious programming. Some people are just temperamentally agreeable and it isn’t a programmed pattern that give off the neediness vibe.
I feel like this video was made for me!! Recently started a journey to become more independent and less co-dependant and never realised before how much damage I was doing to myself! Finally spending time to choose me bc at the end of the day, I’m with me for the rest of my life!!
Absolutely love Aaron. He's taught me so much about myself in such a short time. I'm not fixed at all, but now I know my patterns and what I need to work on.
I've been a people pleaser and a "nice guy" for so long, it's kinda hard to act differently, cause I don't know how not to exactly, cause being blunt a lot times borders on being rude, or at least in my mind trying not "hurt" people - cause tensions and also constantly thinking other people think you're somehow weird and off, is a terrible way to live but I am and will be working on that vigorously
Aaron-I know this sounds funny but I am an elementary school teacher and I feel the same way about being out in public! I’ve taught in the same town for over a decade and a trip to Wal-Mart means running into 10 people I know-lol! Luckily, most people are respectful of my time but I can’t imagine how awkward that would be for you for someone to want to stop and have a long conversation. Boundaries are absolutely important. But you know what I thought as you were talking about people thinking you’re their soulmate or twin flame?! There’s a good chance that many of your subscribers are in your soul group! That’s why we resonate with you! It doesn’t mean that boundaries should be crossed of course. That’s part of our human experience-learning to be in our own frame (as you so eloquently explain). Thank you for being vulnerable and always sharing the real you and your own circumstances. It makes you SO much more relatable than those who don’t share who they are. You are a great teacher, Aaron!
This year I learned about Limerence. I had an extremely imbalanced and lost friend who was suffering from this. I was a bit startled because to me it strongly resembled the delusions of fantasy in the mind of a narcissist. Healthy people don’t fall in love with strangers online they have never even talked to. 🙏 Namaste
Aaron...yeah your energy has definitely shifted and i can literally see it and feel it in this video..i m recently going through that passive aggressiveness thing you talked about and when you explained it...it hit deep...I m literally feeling so calm right now..thanks for again being the catalyst to my yet another spiritual awakening.
Omg! I used to be such a “People Pleaser”! I took on that persona, because some of my siblings were failing in Life and I felt I had to take over and try to over please my Parents. This way they wouldn’t be too disappointed or sad. I think I also picked it up from my Mom. She would over extended herself by helping everyone. I did the same. Until, I felt like a fool. I felt no one appreciates me, because they thought it was normal practice for me to do for them. Not anymore. I assist people to help themselves… But, they have to assist me when I need help. I delegate now. I never over-extended myself anymore. I’m 50 now… No more! The rest of my Life is mine. ❤❤❤
Aaron!!! We had almost an identical upbringing. What you are talking about caused me to have intimate relationship problems for over 30 years. Only after my dad passed did I address this issue because I needed to know why I couldn't sustain a romantic relationship. Thank you for all you do. You have helped me and so many others!!!
I recently found your channel and I’m having a whole personality change. Last year was so tough for me I’m so glad to have found your videos their so informing and helpful!
I’m so happy to be on your live!! You have helped me so much I had Anxious attachment and you help me explain this to my friends and for myself!! I love it! I’m now looking to attract positive love 💕
Love this about separating. It’s so selfless!!! - you’re so right. So disembodied to be all one! I know I’ve been there! I’m now on the other side ❤️.. that’s where the power is xx
I really appreciate your video's! I lost myself again because I went back to my ex and it's just horrible! I just started getting codependent again for no reason. I had to listen to this again. Detaching and going to move out. It's just so draining
Dude, I felt this so hard! Especially the part where you essentially said "you know when you're going through a transformation and you become angry at yourself for the past?" I connected to that because I've been working on inner work and manifestation for the past 2 years with a specific focus on building my confidence. I had become judgemental to others who didn't believe in themselves, and even my old self, because I felt impatient in wanting to help others or wanting to change my old self. It definitely takes a bit of time to adjust and shift into a more confident or non-people pleaser state in a humble and loving way - found it SOO easy to judge and stuff because of the Ego. Even started hating the fact that Egos exist! But they do exist for a reason for our protection as an organism on Earth. However, we do not need to judge what is or isn't. Great job at explaining that in this video. Thanks again for your videos Aaron, and hopefully people will be more respectful of you trying to just enjoy your present moment! Keep up the good work man :)
I will tap into my logic to make important decisions at this time and not be swayed by my emotions. And I will remain flexible in my thinking so I can learn from others who may have valuable knowledge I need at this time.
Omg I love your tube. I was an independent person before and don’t care any BS people. I take Own charge my life and suddenly I met a guy I was did not realise it that i lost myself on him .i was expect being get validated from him and finally we broke up , I was broken Heart until I was browsing about how to move on after Break up , I was watching and hearing many Ted talks and you tube, THIS ONE - CO- pendent talks are awake me and slap my face and I talked to my self “ WTF and what’s wrong with me” Now I am Back to my self where I am Being badass and no care other people validated whatever what I do. I am more confident now and awake ! THANK U!!!!
Hey Aron! I dont think people are only attracted to you and your old energies. I think what you do attracts men and women, and the thing is that not too many guys are spiritual, like you and I think girls have a tendency to be attacted to spiritual men. This is coming from another man! Also your explanation and videos about neediness helped me a lot. I used to add people to my facebook to have meaningful relationships with and I could not even meet up one of them. I let go of that neediness and boom, people started to add me on facebook and started talking to me. Phase 2 for me is, how not to be needy now :D
You may want to examine why you engage in Facebook. I was on for seeking approval and acceptance. How many friends did I have, how many likes did I get, who said I was pretty. I realized that I needed to work on self acceptance and self love. I have completely stopped Facebook. I don’t miss it. Start by deleting people you don’t talk to often or you barely know. It’s been freeing. Good luck.
I watched this over and over as I suspected I was being needy in a New 3 1/2 month relationship and it’s so painful to see the truth in videos like this . So I watched this around lunch time yesterday for the last time as I was driving to my partners house . Then this morning she confirmed my suspicions that I was pushing her away by being needy . I’m a little scared that I’ve arrived at this place at 54 years old I’m certainly going to be making the effort to better myself love and peace to you all x
Don't worry anymore my friend, I know of a man who can help you bring your ex back within 3 days. He helped me a few days ago He does a perfect work I'm assuring you, you gonna testify ....
You’re very brave and authentic sharing all those trauma! And it’s very reassuring people actually can do that. That people will actually look at their past and figure things out! Thank you! 😊
I used to be scared to be vulnerable because I thought I wouldn’t be accepted. Thanks to you I’ve realized my worth and how amazing I am as a person. Sending my love out to you :)
This is RIDICULOUSLY GOOD - this should have 1 mILLION views and likes. It’s absolutely insane. The amount of therapy and coaching and suffering I’ve had and this is streets ahead. Thank yOU
Be proud of yourself that you've become such an inspiration to so many people! You are helping others discover their authentic selves as well. I struggle with social anxiety too, but can't really make my mark on the world and help the human race expand, in isolation with no connection.. I struggle with that stuff too. You are SAFE you are LOVED you are PROTECTED 🙏
I resonate with this heavy!!! When I was growing up, especially as a little girl, I was outspoken, vocal and felt free to be me, but I let the formative years of bullying get to me and it followed me well into my early 20's and mid 20's. But as a more confident, whole woman in her late 20's, I have had awakening and in the healing phase. Thank you for this!
Hey Aaron, love & appreciation from India, I’ve been watching your videos for more than a year now. I need to be honest with this, your videos and ideas/opinions have helped me outgrow low-vibrations & many more other things. Do continue making videos & spreading your experiences. Just a tip, you should actually write a book consisting of all the topics you’ve covered. I’m sure it will be a great help for people all over the globe. Your vibe is amazing! Keep on
That authentic was on point. People think being vulnerable is bad..but I think it depends...but we also need to stay aware of ourselves too cuz we can slip and make our boundaries weak
I was very needy in my last relationship. Everything you talked about,Aaron,I did it. I always seemed to want to be in his frame,and not in my open frame. Fast forward 22 months and I still struggle with how I behaved in my relationship with him
Forgive yourself. You did the best at the time with what you knew and with what you had. Look at it this way, you can now see where your mistakes were made and more than likely will never repeat it! You've grown- woohoo 🙌🏻❤️✅
So powerful!!! Beyond grateful- I can’t even begin to explain how synchronistic this is for me to come across this message at this time- THANKYOU SO MUCH!!! 🎇🎇🎇💜🙏
I relate to this so much in so many ways. I lost my dad as well when my son was young and I’m a single mom. I was so depressed for so many years. He’s almost 7 and I can see these same people pleasing behaviors in him. I need to help heal my kids just as much as I need to heal myself.
Thank you Aaron for you videos. Going into self. Finding what serves you. Making/feeling separation. Settling boundries. Then putting out better energy and repelling the people that sucks your energy. Healing and Letting go. Filling your own cup. Beautiful. I am creating a better version of myself. In a life transition. Lost my job and alot of other things however it's not a loss. It's a win. It gave me a spiritual awakening. Much love. Keep doing what your doing.
I just heard your latest podcast snd I just want to say that I like the repetition and the various ways you reinforce the same idea so that I can get it in my subconscious mind and I also enjoy hearing about your ex step moms stories. It helps me to understand your back story so that I can better understand you now. She needs to be put on blast anyways and it helped me out a lot deal with my toxic family! I’m glad you always follow your instinct and are always true to yourself! Ugh haters are irrelevant. You do not have to explain why you do what you do if they were intelligent they would already understand 🙏🏾
Your putting out healing energy to broken people who are instantly attracted to someone who is strong in themselves. They can attach to that and feel you will heal them which isn’t the message and this unfortunately is how a anxious attachment people are :/
I found myself hyperindependent, but upon falling for someone else with childhood trauma, found myself in codependent patterns and people pleasing energy. It felt very conditional and not like the unconditional love I know is out there. My father is the same way, alone by choice but because our attachments to people just get so deep and we abandon ourselves. Working on healing this on a cellular level. Your videos always help me process. Thanks dude
What Aaron speaks about with trauma is 100% true. To those that haven't had that out of body experience or been to that plane...you won't truly understand what he's talking about. It can be a walk though hell, but man...he nailed it perfectly.
Watching your vids Are always a very emotional time for me because you’re so open and vulnerable about everything that Has happened in your life that it just gives me the strength to be that person I want to be and not be scared about being vulnerable my mother is narcissistic the father of my youngest child is narcissistic my younger sister is narcissistic and she’s my half-sister she’s not my mothers daughter she’s my father‘s daughter but I’ve noticed that my mother always deflects things onto my fathers side of the family as though they are what’s wrong with me MEOWING she being a narcissist and narcissistically abusing me mentally my entire life is what has caused problems within my mentality and then as a result I always sought out Narcissis so that I could help them but it backfired on me so now I’ve decided that I DFC about anyone but me!!! I have to make sure that I am happy, healthy, wealthy, and wise. I am the only person I am responsible for on this planet besides my children until they are of legal age.
Thank you Aaron,this was powerful ❤️ I’ve been doing your frame technique and yes it does make a difference on how I feel within myself. And also I am able to observe other peoples shadow aspects a lot easier,I’m able to understand them and be more compassionate. Much love to you,thank you for everything that you do. 😊🙏🏼❤️
The only time I’ve felt safe in a relationship is when I’m on not in love with the other person… I didn’t love someone who deeply cared and adored me, and then I finally let myself have feelings and I got deeply hurt. Not being in love I had control and there was no risk of being hurt or feeling attached.
Just recently subscribed to you. Co-dependency for me wS a result of child abandonment, only recently at the age of 37 am I now making boundaries with toxic relationships and letting go of him and I becoming self aware. I am now starting to feel like my true self. Great videos Thank you 👍
Thank you Aaron, I have been looking for connection in the way of people who relate to my soul. This is why I don't have to apologise for being me and meeting my own needs. No more saying sorry for having boundaries that don't fit others expectations ❤
You are so openly expressive and vulnerable that maybe some people believe that they could take advantage of that but they don’t realize that due to your past experience with narcissism you have your guard up against such things.
I’m always nice and helpful and open and honest with people and as a result people always think that they can do whatever they want to me and I’ll just let it go which I do just let it go because it’s not worth me being angry or upset over and giving them the pleasure of knowing that they caused that emotion within me.
Authenticity. Saying and doing what I have every right to say and do because I have a right as a human being to my boundaries. I have pretended to be at fault just to keep the peace. I have let someone have their way with me because I was more concerned with him feeling rejected and his ego if I said no. Something as simple as realizing I actually have the right to my boundaries and people have a right to their own boundaries was a life changer for me.
This is what exactly I was looking for. Thank you for bringing up codependency issues in such an easy and simple form👌👌. I have started to realise my codependent patterns and working on it.✌️
Don't worry anymore my friend, I know of a man who can help you bring your ex back within 3 days. He helped me a few days ago He does a perfect work I'm assuring you, you gonna testify ....
This has been my question for such a long time it’s so crazy for when it starts to be a clear question and you stumble on things you need to hear/see when you become open to answers.
Aaron you are my inspiration bro. I have always suffered with being a people pleaser, but i am working day-by-day, step-by-step to build my boundaries, my identity, and what i want out of my life. I believe most people pleasers suffer from low self-esteem, so I think when you build your boundaries, and believe in yourself, your self-esteem goes up, and then the people pleasing reduces.
Wow! Amazing! This is such a great and very, very helpful video, cause I recognize myself in it and I'm going though the same process of changing my vibration and energy, thus recognizing all these patterns. Thank you Aaron for your honesty and openess. 🙏❤️👌🙂
