Xav Kom Koj Hlub Kuv Li Koj Txoj Sia. 8/30/2022 

I cried so much listening to this story!! THis used to be my life. I was in the same exact shoes like you for 15 yrs and it still didn't work. Finally, after trying so much, I gave up. I had to let go. I wasted 15 yrs of my life with a LOW life who only wanted fun and & other women!! I was never enough for him. I finally had to let him go. I always think back and ask why I put up with it for that long. The only thing that my ex didn't do was physical abuse because he knew I'd put him in jail if he ever laid a finger on me, which is why he never did. I'm so happy now being single and don't have to even worry about that old life anymore. I am so proud and happy for you!! Sometimes, you need to look at your life and let go even at the most crucial point. Yes, love yourself and no regrets going back. When we love, we love whole heartedly, but once we let go, we let it ALL go. Not once will look back. You got this! You are a strong woman, mother, and daughter. Your kids are all you need. Start fresh because it's so much better.

What a happy ending! Self love is everything. Good for you, leaving a toxic person!

So similar to so many of our hmong husbands . Tu siab kawg. Nrauj os mog. Koj tseem hluas heev. Txhob tos laus li peb ib txhia.

When a woman loves their man too much, their love & goodness will be taken for granted 😢 Leave & find someone who will truly love you!

Yes, no regrets or turning back when you gave your all. Stay strong, sister. I hope you find someone who appreciates your love.

Meem txom kj txoj kev hlub no xyov cas pheej hAis lo lus hlub pheej tss nrauj li mloog zaj dab no meem txom dhau lm os

Niam Ntsuab Teev lub neej zoo li no mas tu siab tiag tiag peb lub neej puav leej raug tej teeb Meem no thiab nawj 😭😭😭😭

Ab ca mloog zaj neej neeg no es nim lo2 kua muag os li os tu siab ua luaj li os

Amen sister, glad you finally realize your self worth and move on.. People like your ex husband will never change until they are remade and reborn. Seek happiness from other things and not from a selfish bastard who never appreciate your love.

Sister, do you even love yourself and know your worth? This dog is not worth your love and tear. He is not worth your love. Heartless people like him will continue to abuse you for as long as you allow him. He is not worth shit and doesn’t deserve you. Love yourself first.

I'm so happy for you sister, you are worth it! I hope you continue on the path of self-love. Don't ever take the cheater ex back

Koj Ruam

Tus pojniam hmoob li koj zoo tshaj. May the lord be with you all!

I’m breaking the generational curse with “Good Hmong Wife” for my kids. No way will my daughter put an undeserving man on a pedestal.

You are a beautiful person!!! I’m glad that you found your worth and always love yourself first, he doesn’t deserve you!

That’s the problem with us wives. We love them whole heartily that we forget to love ourselves. We matter too.

I think the issue about us woman is we love them too much and think about them too on their need and want and we forgot about ourselves. I am like that too. I am still learning to speak up and say what I want too.

I am so glad you realized it sooner than later. Good for you sister.

A great king must have a greater queen…! Sister, you are a greater queen. This evil man has nothing worthy of a good man for you. Glade that you were able to leave this evil man and take care of yourself for another good man…with that said, it’s a good learning lesson for teenage girls not to get marry that young. Wish you luck…😩👍🤠!!!

Khee ua txoj kev zoo kom tag2 ces yus mus lawm thiaj tsis khub xim dab tsi li lawm os , thaum nws raug luag tsim nws mam tig nrhiav yus ces yus twb mus dua toj lawm awb

Koj coj li koj nws thiaj tsi ntshai thiab tsi hlub koj. Nws siab phem li ntawv, tej yam tsi tsim nyog ua koj txhob ua, tej yam tsi tsim nyog hlub koj txhob hlub nws thiaj paub tsi li ces nws yeej tsi ntshai koj.

Me viv ncau koj ua tau zoo heev

Kuv xav tau ib tug pojniam siab zoo li koj ntshe kuv yuav plhws ntshis. Tus txiv no tsis tsim nyog tau koj lawm es kav tsij mus nrhiav tus tsim nyog tau koj. Tus neeg tsis hlub koj ces koj txawm muab koj txoj sia rau los tsis muaj nqi rau nws. You need to love yourself and give yourself to a man who love and appreciate you. He may be handsome but his heart is ugly which makes him ugly.

I believe alot Hmong men act like this guy. Can't change em. Just leave em and find a better man

Wow 13 and 19 she still a baby. For her that baby love and he like young baby.

Wow 13 Xwb. Vim nws tswj koj thaum 13 los lawm. Koj thiaj Hlub Hlub nws tag siab. 13 xwb tsis yog kev hlub os kev vwm thiaj qaug quav lawm xwb. Tabsis kuv zoo siab heev ua koj tawm Tau lawm Os sister aw. Peb cov viv ncaus hmoob mas siab ntev heev. Wish you the best okay

Hmoob muaj ib los lus hais tias npam thiab heev neeg muaj heev neeg tsim nws hnub los tsis tau txog xwb mog hnub twg nws hnub npam los txog ces nws thiab paub os mog me viv ncaus aw!

Learn not to love too much es hlub peb tuskheej thiab

Tsis muaj txiv yuav los tsis tuag li os. Ib tug txiv zoo li no na. Ua ntej ib tug neeg yuav hlub koj yuav nyiam koj koj yuav tsum hlub koj ua ntej tug koj tus kheej kom zoo nkauj saib yus tus kheej muaj nqi luag thiaj saib koj. Koj twb saib tsis tau koj ces leej twg thiaj yuav hlub koj .

you are too nice

Good for you lady!! Mob txaus thiaj ua taus 1 siab mus tsis tig rov qab. Hnub twg koj yuav kiag txiv ces nws plawv nres. Tim nws lub siab phem txhob txwm ua 100 tsav yam kom koj uv nyob tsis taus khiav tawm mus. Nws khav2 tias muaj zog yajphom tawv2 tas li ces tsis muaj hnub swb koj, tabsis Hnub no nws thib mob lawm.

Txiv neej ntiaj teb no cov phem tshaj plaws ces yog txiv Neej hmoob ...

You deserve so much more, glad you moved on. Love yourself first. Only wish you happiness, love and good health...

Leej muam aw!!!! Hauv lub ntiaj teb no txiv neej tuag tag lawm los!!!!!! Cas koj ho mus uv tus txiv neej zoo li ko os!!!!!!!

tus me niam tsev aw!! txiv neej tag lawm los ua cas es yus nyob yus los yeej tsis tuag os mog ..

Peb pojniam txhob ntshaw txivneej txoj kev hlub os vim tsis kav ntev. hlub yus tus kheej yog qhov tseem ceeb.

Woua ua cas peb cov poj niam hmoob yuav rua li os es peb cov txiv neej hmoob maj pheev tshaj plawg thiab rua hmoob aws

Txiv neej zoo tseem tshuav coob os.

Me ntxhais Aw kuv xav tias ntshe yog kuv tus txiv thiaj Nto qaub ncaug rau kuv xwb no es koj zoo li kuv thiab los tu siab kawg os

Hlub lawv dhau lawm lawv thiaj saib yus tsis muaj nuj nqis.

Kuv yog txiv neej tab sis kuv yuav hais Tia's koj tus txiv no yeej tsis tsim nyog koj yuav lawm nej cov sister txhob ntshai2 cov txiv neej coj li tus ntawm koj

Yuav txiv zoo nraug thiab poj niam zoo nkauj ces yeej nyuab siab tag li xwb los mas. Lam yuav tus average uas muaj lub siab zoo xwb thiaj tsis mob mob lub siab.

Lady I wants you to be my SPECIAL LADY!!!…🙏❤️👀4 me and U💕

Kav tsij hlub koj tus kheej thiab hlub koj cov me nyuam cov txiv dev zoo li koj niag txiv ces kav tsij muab lawb cuag lawb dab mus os me muam aws

Bring some of that love this way lady! You deserve better.

kuv lub neej twb zoo li thiab os tab si kuv yog hluas nkauj hluas nraug xwb os,tu siab kawg li tiag,luag mus tham lwm tus los, los yuav yog yus txob hias xwb yog yus hias thiaj tseem maag ntau thiab,tab si pheej tso tsis tau li lawv pov tseg thiab😥

Ntshaw2 ib tug niam tsev zoo tus nyob zaj neej neeg no

Niam lau txg txj kj paub ce kj twb mob laug tag lawm o

Happy that you have left him you deserve better than what he have been treating you.

😢😢😢😢

Txhob tos tus neeg tsis hlub koj vim nws yeej tsis hloov rau koj ib zaug kav tsij hlub koj tus kheej yeej meem nrhiav kev kaj siab xwb..ib niag txiv tsis tsheej haj li ko txawm mus tus tshiab los yeej kav tsis ntev na! Txog txij luag nti qaub ncaug lawm ces txawm dhau os mog..

Vim Koj twb tsi hlub Koj lawm ne lawv yuav ua cas hlub Koj os sister yus yuav tsum hlub yus thiab lauj

Dag xwb os yg phem npaum no yeej yuav g tau li o

Zoo siab nrog koj os me viv ncaus aw koj ua yog kawg lawm mas

Sister, you are a beautiful person. You went into this marriage with 110%. Don't regret your decision to divorce him. Be happy and move on with your life. Your kids love and support you.

Puas Yog mas!

Koj muab nws hlub dhau hwm dhau nws thiaj saib tsis taus koj.

It makes my blood boiled!! Good for you sister! Now he gets to taste his own medicine!

Love to have a good wife like you.

I'm so proud of you for divorcing your husband. He was not good to you. Your story reminded me of my ex. So glad I left him. Best decision of my life!!! But wasted 10 years of my life trying my arse off to make it work. It only works if you both try. Never works one sided. Wishing you well sister. Wishing you love.

Yeap, u love and love until ur fed up then you leave with no regrets. No matter how long it takes for u to realize, when u leave, ur stronger than yesterday

Bravo bravo!!!

Tos lawv pheej ua movim los lub neej siab phem thiab nti qaub ncaug ntov mov rau poj niam e nim muaj tiag los.... Cas txiv neej siab phem ua luaj kev hlub g muaj tseeb li....

koj yeej nyiam thiab ntshaw tu niag txiv dev lau ko tiag22 li koj nyuam qhuav muaj 13 xyoo xwb es koj twb mu yuav nw lawm oh my gosh

Remember to love yourself. It’s only you that can do that. You treat him too good and there’s nothing wrong with that only if he treats you good too….

Tus mi sister esssss, koj txoj kev zoo mus rau tus neeg LIAM yuam kev lawm xwb os. Sim neej no ces yus yeej tsis kam li os. Kuv yeej tsis kam xaiv leej twg, especially ib tug txiv liam. Thov hlub yus tus keej, xaiv koj tus kheej, xaiv koj txoj siab, xaiv koj cov menyuam es ua neeg nyob. Yog nws tsis hlub yus ces qhov nrooj qeb dav lug, hais zoo zoo es, cia nws mus zoo tshaj.

When women find their worth and leave that is when men will only find regret.

This story because he doesn't care and like her she loves him too much

You're only treated the way you allow people to treat you. I'm glad you got rid of the dead weight.

ตอนมีเราอยู่ทำไหมไม่เห็นค่าจะมาเห็นค่าตอนนี้มันสายไปแล้ว สุ้ๆนะค่ะ

It doesn't matter if u're a husband or wife. Once ur love one disrespect you by intentionally spitting on your face, it's over and time to leave.

Nej cov uas nej muab nej tus txiv los yog tus poj niam nyiam dhau qhov nyiam li kojj ces lawv tsis hlub koj li ko tiag. Vim nws paub tias koj nyiam nws tshaj nws nyiam koj lawm, txhob muab nws nyiam dhau thiab txhob muab nws tiam zoo npaum li koj nws thiaj tsis muaj2 plhus, ib hom neeg tsis sawm hlub li koj tus txiv ko.

A suggestion: each person should love themselves first before love someone, even if the person is the one sleep next to you every night. Ya’ll women need to be smarter when come to giving up everything for a man. Your future should be your priority not a man.

I was 22 married my wife aged 16 years old. When we were together I told her what class in high school she should take to get advanced after finishing high school. She was in accounting class in high schools after graduation. She went straight to the MSB 2 years come out work in US Bank all her life. Now both us work in US Bank

Good job sister. Better late than never.

Tuag lau !!! Thaj !! Koj os tau Poj niam Toyota Supra cas khaw cia? Ho mus yuav lub Kia xwb hahahaha.

This was once my story too. Im living life now. So sister stay strong. You're a strong woman. Love your self and your kids.

Since the husband loves being treated like trash, continue to treat him that way, sister. U cherished & treated him so nice but he doesn’t appreciate u. He only seems to respond to being treated like trash. U tried throwing that trash away, but it keeps coming back into ur life…so do what u will with that trash.

Muaj hnub koj tus txiv tsis hlub koj vim nws hloov siab lawm os. Koj tsis yog tus txhaum os.

Peb cv poj niam peb ruam ruam lawv tsi hlub peb losbpeb nim ua txhua yam rau lawv. Tsuj kiag kuv twb ua ib yam li tus no thiab. Tab sis muaj ib nub kuv khiav tawm ntawm nws mus. Thaum ntawm nws tig los khauv xim kuv ces kuv mus deb deb lawm es nws nim khauv khauv xim kuv nws tuag lawm

Nqa koj txoj kev zoo mus hlub tus hlub koj os niam laus aw muaj ib hnub yuav tshav nws ntuj nrig nram qab ha😠😠😠😠😠

Good for you the beginning of the story my blood pressure so high omg you are so patient too long lady. I am 👏👏👏for you lady. Good luck to your future…

Tiam tas los ntshe koj tshuav nws nuj nqis lawm pob

Sister I feel you. You did it for your kids lucky you didn't have a stroke. If you didn't have those kids you would have moved on. Get over him there is more to your one life okay.

When you've tried everything then maybe you have to fight fire with fire. Only then will he realize.

Ok ok enough of the comparison a phone vs a human

😂😂😂😂😂🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

yog ib leej txiv phem npaum li ko es ho nyob zoo abtsi od, los yog koj zoo npaum li ko los koj yuav tsis nyob ua poj nrauj ntev od.

Glad you got out of there but damn that's a long time in a toxic relationship. Plus not sure why it took that long for you to realize self love and finally be selfish to give value to your life, soul, and spirit.

Tus niam tsev aw...tus txiv dev liam tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws zoo li ntawv tseem hlub nws ua dab tsi, txiv neej nyob ntiaj teb no tag lawm los ua cas.....koj nrauj nws lig dhau lawm, tus txiv dev zoo li ntawv tsis tas teb2 nws lawm

Poj niam Sony yeej yog koj lawm > Niam tsev!!!!!! So kua muag pib dua tshiab.

Twb tsis yuav tsis kam rov mus yuav lawm es pheej ho yuav mus ntuas thaub ua dab tsi na poj hmoob taub hau loj e?

Tus txiv neej ko tsi yog koj tus os nkj hmb aw

ua ib tug txiv tsev zoo kom xwb twb yog koj kawg li lawm os.koj yog ib tug zoo niam tsev. koj haig yog lawm koj tug zoo nkauj thaj siab zoo thaj. cov niag neeg lwj neeg liam kom kav tswj ua laib mug swb roob kom txaum2 mam mug nyob qab choj xwb. zoo koj muab rauj koj nyob kaj siab lug

Poj niam hmoob/Asian, es nej nim chawj nej niag txiv npaum li nej yog qhev ntag los? Vuag. Tos lawv ntsia nej zoo li ntaub so tsev los nej yeej … ub… just speechless. Ua ntej tej txiv neej no yuav saib peb poj niam khuab qhov muag, peb yuav tsum tsa peb tus kheej sawv hos. Ua zoo nkaus yus yog daim lev pua ntawm taw rooj, ua zoo nkaus yus yog qhev, ua zoo nkaus yus sawv tsis txij lawv hauv caug xwb lawv ham tsis tsuj, so taw, thiab siv cuag qhev xwb las as.

Don’t let anyone treat you like this!

Koj tus txiv ntawm kom ces khiv xim ib yam xwb!vim koj yuav nws ntev zog lawm khuv xim ces koj twb yuav tsum muab nws cuam thoob khib nyiab los ntev lawm tam si koj twb tso tau lawm ces nrog koj zoo siab thiab txhawb siab rau koj txoj ke zoo nawb mog!

I wonder what kind of parents you have. 13 yrs old vs 19 yrs old, why didn’t your parents call the cops and press charges on him? If a dude that old is influencing and taking my daughter that young from school, he would has been behind bars. He has no respect for my daughter and me so he has no right of way to come near my daughter.

Tus txiv neej zoo lí koj tsis tsim nyos ủa neej nyob ntiaj teb

Vuag, cas zoo ib yam li kuv tam sim no ntag. Txiv hmong ces tsi muaj tus zoo li lawm. I feel every bit of your pain. Sim neej no ces kuv tsi muaj kev cia siab lawm. My husband is exactly like yours. Shed so much tears that cannot cry anymore. Sister, I've learnt that everytime you forgive them you love them a little less. When they love you the most, you're ready to let go. Someday I'll be strong enough to let go.