Not quite, looks is what gets you pre-selected. Go lift like your life depends on it, dress better, become a better conversationalist and eat healthy. It'll change your perspective on women completely once you get the attention that you seek from them.
Your self esteem has improved I see. You used to say you were ugly but now you're saying you're not. Which I think is true because you can get chicks even though they might not be the highest quality. It's still something.
Mainstream? Physical appearance as a form of mate selection has always been there. Just because social media is focused on it, does not mean it never was present.
Yea looks trumps all. People like Fitxfearless saying confidence is the most important thing ever. Lol he knows looks matter he’s just capping easy for him to say he’s a Tyrone lite
I grew up assuming looks were important but then there was always women around saying they men's looks aren't important. Now I'm older I know that's Another female lie to throw you off the fact that women are more shallow than men with regard to looks. The good news is that you can overcome a lot by just slimming down as much as possible. When you're fat your features blend together and you look like every other fat guy but when you're thin your facial features and bone structure show. Half the time that's enough to make you much more successful with women.
It's good to have a balance but external things like looks only get you so far. People use it as an excuse but the reality is that these dudes looking for anything to confirm their low self esteem and negative view of themselves. By saying it's impossible give them the comfort of not trying. In reality women value looks the same as men value looks. It's nice but not the end all be all. And the women that do only value looks and money are in most cases gold diggers or narcissists with shitty personalities. These are very few women. There are a lot of average looking guys that found love and a decent women.
Been telling savvy guy he going to have to gym-max to looks-max to increase your chances with the ladies.. men and women are checking for looks and its competitive out here in the battle of the sexes and if you dont compete you wont have offspring to carry you on