I value my peace, quiet and freedom. No wife, no kids, no problems. Unfortunately for you savvy guy, you will learn the hard way when you settle for a single mother. I offer my deepest condolences. No cap. 👍
Exactly! When you realize that women don't love men, this world is a very messed up place to bring kids into, and the game is rigged, you're eyes open up. I wouldn't trade being single for the problem of a relationship, ESPECIALLY marriage. Unfortunately, Brandon won't know until he gets hit with the one-hitta-quitta by one these broads outchea! 😢
Just having a woman by itself does not guarantee happiness and peace. Having a woman who is right for you is amazing. There is more to life than just having a woman, even the right one. Men don't live by women alone, but every other good thing that life has to offer along with the right woman is true fulfillment !
@@EvilBard666Why would you want to be with a person who constantly disrespects you and belittles you. Your not making any sense right now. Do men nowadays really lack self respect? SMH.
I'm still finding it hard to cope with this, I really feel terrible about being alone for the rest of my life but I cannot marry a woman and expect her to be attracted to me, it won't happen, I never did
I have accepted that I will be alone, so I don't feel that I am playing myself. My music is more important to me. I am deadly serious. I spend every moment to get on my music.
The guy is so desperate I suspect he is hiding something. And who told him that there are no happy single men? Isaac Newton, Jesus Christ, Tesla, etc all achieved their purpose because they chose to live and die without alone.
I'm more upset that I'm wired to want that. The way I see 99% of women treat the guy they're with, on a mental level I want no part of it, but at the end of the day you want a woman anyway and it's frustrating to desire being with an obnoxiously petty creature that belittles you for fun, but part of the reason they know they can get away with that behavior is because they know how much you want them and how little options you probably have. So yeah I do appreciate being single for what I don't have to deal with, but hate the fact that no matter how hard I try I'll never truly be happy with it
It's like being used to chronic pain or a bad smell. Yeah it doesnt feel as bad as it used to, but it's still terrible, and if you suddenly had it better you'd realize how awful you've had until now.
I repeat I am okay being alone!. I'll rather be alone than settling for female with kids. I am not a desirable man but I do not care at this point I am focusing on bettering myself. Mind you I am in college. I see females and interacting with them 24/7. Still single.
One thing I've realized as an undesirable man. Beating myslef over this chicks like it won't change anything. The chances of me finding a girl is very slim to none. It's like being sentenced to lifetime.
I been in 2 bad relationship in the past it not fun the times that I can wish that I can unsex a few of the women I been with in the past. True I don't want to be single forever but I refuse to be a stepfather to any womans kids nor be used by a woman thinking that I could have sex with but(never give you the box and she take you money and have sex with other men she likes and used you.) Yes I'm undesirable and I don't have options but being in a serious relationship with a single mother nor letting a woman take my money is DEFINITELY NOT A OPTION
I respect your opinion Brandon, but don't throw everyone into one bag. If you want a single mom, then go for it, betabuxes are always in the market for damaged goods, but don't diss guys who rather to stay away from those sorts of relationships. There are plenty of tragic stories out there from dudes who went for single moms. Imo coping is taking a single mom and raising her sex oopsie daisies... But whatever. Who cares? In the end, nothing really matters if you're a loser.
Nowadays you have dudes who not getting selected at all that ish hit me right in gut damn that was too real of a statement, thanks for your infinite wisdom bro
I can agree to this, I'm 22 years old, and I have never dated a girl or been in any Relationship ever. All I get stuck in is pointless online situationships that go nowhere. People at work look at me like I'm crazy because of this, and idk even know what to say half of the time. 🤷♂️
@EvilBard666 I guess 😅 I'm still waiting for it to begin. Hopefully, I'll find my Goddess at some point, someone I can cherish and be together with for a long time, but idk everyone seems to be scared of commitment nowadays. 😒
You know what brother I really hope you get what you ask for because that's the only way you will understand why sometimes it's best to be alone. Nobody can explain this to you. You have to experience for yourself. You will get sick of it sooner than later. You will see.
@@EvilBard666 Dude I'm talking about Brandon willing to accept any woman willing to sleep with him and treat him like a Chad. In other words hell yeah you are better off alone than having to compromise yourself to the extreme of dating single moms for example.
Interesting video Savvy Guy, whilst I do get down over my lack of luck with vvomen, at the same time I’ve made peace with the fact that I will live the rest of my life alone, and no it’s not a cope. Believe me, I have tried to establish relationships with the ladies, but I always got greeted with an avalanche of instant rejection (because of my sub3 looks), so I gave up on dating, as for my bedroom fun, I just pay a mature age lady of the night. Savvy Guy, I don’t think it’s a good idea to wife up a single mother with kids, she won’t respect you, and why would you pay for another man’s kids?, don’t do it. Unfortunately as a non select man, you don’t really have a choice whether you’re going to be single or not, it is what it is.
Being a stepdaddy has genuine advantages, even in work, if you have a woman, you will be more respected and have validation. Its is an underrated solution for many men. Its not for everyone, but for sure has good perks.
I was just watching a video on a dating coach channel he's saying females go for confidence men when in reality females go for looks and money confidence means nothing.
This is facts. Yes I'd rather be single at this stage of the game, but if I was happy about it I wouldn't be subscribed to savvy guy or other channels on this side of youtube
A single mother will never be for me personally but I respect your perspective. At the end of the day, a man does what he wants to do. I can't imagine working a job I hate NOT to establish myself or even my own legacy and children but to establish another man's legacy, children, and bloodline. I'm toiling and sweating to sustain another man's seed. That's incredible insane to me. I couldn't do it and NEVER will.
We can keep trying to fool ourselves but reality sets in. Yesterday, I decided to go for a walk in a park to get some exercise and all I seen were couples and families. The fact that I don’t have anyone really hit me and loneliness started set in. My mind started to flood with negative thoughts and I had to get out of there. Now here I am in a deep depressive state with suicidal thoughts. I agree with what you said, some of us should have never been born.
I agree. But some guys completely give up on dating woman and they just go to clubs to pay for woman to be with them while they are over there, and look for woman online even tho they in theyre mind say they give up on woman, one way or another man still have that craving for having a woman
I actually said that in a video i made a few months ago that you have people who say you don t need a woman I said we should stop lying to ourselves and pretending we don t need a companion
This is based af. I'm 17 years old, khv, and people keep telling me it's normal to be a virgin at my age, but I'm already feeling like ending things. These people are completely stupid.
No, you gotta do whatever you can do. Letting go of emotional attachments, societal expectations and giving up completely on women is what I recommend every man to do. It’s better to be by yourself than with an immoral gold digger. Also, I’d never go with a single mum LOL.
Thinking you need the aproval of people around you to be happy is a bad place to be savvy... I dont need men to like me, why would i need women to like me? The only think i need from them is help to bust. I can pay for It or even do it myself. Anything else you think you need is an illusion thats gonna put you in bad situations.
@savvyguy4180 There multiple websites where women search mean to do quickie for fun and they describe they deepest desires in bed yet most of us here I bet was taught by 3vil parents that people are good, there is no such a thing as z3x and people don't lie and it's all your fault. God d4mn I can not comprehend the amount of 3vil they put us through. Like other teenagers did all the "prohibited" stuff yet our families knowing how life works told us it's wrong and we have to be saints who don't do anything related to the mundanity of this world. Like wtf, cockblocking your own son like that is truly wrong.
I beg to differ. I believe whatever life path and circumstance takes you, go for it. As a man I am not triggered or take any real issue of what another man wants to do with his life. If a man wants to swallow the pink pill and be a step-crash-dummy simp, knock yourself out with it. Be the Beta bucks for some of these ungrateful women want (but watch out for that Alpha when you come home early one night). I don't care. For it all was never ever for me. Remember this as a man you don't have to settle or do anything that you don't want to do with women that you don't really care for you. You can live on your own fantasy island. But just remember just talking and having all so knowing personal proclamations is all so different than living one's life experience. I am okay being alone forever. Its my life okay. It not something that I can just talk about, I have lived and continue to survive all it all of my life as I am now a senior citizen. You can still be alone in a relationship. You can still be alone with anybody. I live now with no responsibilities to anyone.and no one that tells me what to do. I do what I want when I want. A man can have two loves. Love of money and love of that female flesh. After I went total bankrupt trying to be superfly with woman who used me, had a circle of men and didn't give a damn if I lived or died, I therefore went all in on the love of money (thankfully early in my life) and changed my life around for the better. Any amount of money big or small gives you power. It is for yourself and not wasted on females who don't care for you. Woman go around saying "I don't need a man". What to stop a man saying I don't need a woman? Actually women do need a man more because we provide financial and physically security (for every is a atm and a body guard to women). When a man needs and wants a woman, he will go out to get it when he wants it. I said enough already. Want to listen to a life coach, Andrew Tate teaching are not all that bad.
It’s not about coping, it’s about having some respect for yourself. If you want to beta buck then fine, but it won’t be how you want it to be. People chasing a woman, or a relationship are still chasing that blue pill ideal.
@@TreSwayy Desperate people have no self respect. On the other hand, some men actually prefer being single, even though they can find women if they wanted to. People do think differently. But Savvy is totally different. He wants to become rich and buy a wife, lol.
I said this and I admit I'm lying to myself. But what can we do in this position. After the hurt, pain, and mind games you give up for your mental, but always return to the search. Instinctually. It's cope to say otherwise yes. Even the bible says if you can't resist the need, you should marry so you don't burn.
Savvy when u mentioned u dont get a brand new pc when its brand new u get it when its been worn out all the heck. Back in early 2001 i got ma first pc it was used worn out had bugs viruses.. but ever since early adult hood ive alwayz got brand new pc s from retail stores
@@EternalSkeptic27 Yes it is. It's ridiculously cheaper to the point of hilarity. Why do you think people do it? Whatever you'd pay in the United States escortmaxxing would get you 4X that in every conceivable metric in South East Asia. It's literally cheaper to pay for a two-way flight and live in SEA in a 3* hotel with full service for a month and pay for box than it is to live on average in America monthly and do the same, even WITHOUT hotels or P. Assuming you live on an average US income 61K a year your month's paycheck would last you around 2-3 months in Thailand alone. If you don't believe me see for yourself.
It is literally the only option at this point. Even if you are a Chadlite let’s say, why would you want to date women with a 10+ bodycount? Western women literally have 0 desireability at this point.
If single male loners have the mental capacity to handle it, being alone forever could be awesome! Why should single male loners take "whatever women's available" if or when they are content being alone?? It sounds like a societal validation tactic to shame them for no reason.
I can understand what you’re saying. There are certain men like Paul in the Bible who was fine without a lady, but most men are not like Paul. Most of us really crave one. To imply anything different is dishonesty. As I get closer to 30, I’m more accepting of things like single-moms. If a 50 year old lady was interested in me, I would take that. I just need to make sure that it would reasonably work out in the long run. Agreement on certain fundamental values and life direction are a must, and of course having complimenting personalities. Levels of tolerance just depend on how much each individual guy in this position wants it. But, be wise. Being married to a woman that gives no or very little companionship and intimacy is far worse than being single. It is like rot in your bones.
not gonna lie I'm basically to the point to where I'm starting to cut myself here and there because of the trauma and bad experiences that I been going through, my negative experiences outweigh my positive experiences especially since I'm now 33 and about to be 34 in August. never had a girlfriend or been in a relationship, don't got no sexual experience which means the type of women out there now is most likely experienced when it comes to the bedroom.
@@Desolate_Soul_1992 I know bro, it's really getting to the point to where I'm thinking should I do it but than I always think if I do it my family gonna be hurt devastated but that's the problem because almost every person in my family not living the same life me and my brother living to where we feel unwanted by women.
Damn, it's tough out there bro, I listen to a song called painted black by the rolling stones and it explains everything about the black pill of what us blackpillers go through on a daily basis.
@@blacksavage6255 A few days ago, a woman walked off the sidewalk as I was passing by. When I turned around, I saw her get back on the sidewalk. I was the only one walking down the sidewalk so I know she did it because of me!
I think to me parents, spent they're hard earned, money for a kids that just give up on the opposite sex did your mom and dad give up i don't think so.
@@EvilBard666 It just goes to show how bad guys have it now. I just feel sorry for guys who want AI girlfriends but honestly I don't even blame them. Things are messed up.
a lot of these guys...particularly ones who comment on these kinds of videos...are in their early 20s. this is why the fear of a "single mom" being their lifemate is so scary. once you're past 30, it's not a big deal.
@@savvyguy4180It’s a sacrifice you gotta make like KevinT905 used to say remember? Taking his advice helped me in my situation, but each to their own. I have no intentions ever of pursuing women. I’m not motivated at all.
You talk about race, but where im from i think its a bad thing being white and unattractive compared to being blk and unattractive. I think theres plenty of white women who would get with a blk guy just bc hes blk. Where im from most the white girls are always with blk guys or have mixed children. Only the tall white chads or the big white guys get women.
@@Lowclasswarrior778 He was clearly being sarcastic but you're still 100% right, MGTOW is cope. It's a fact that married men are less likely to be depressed and are more financially stable than non-married men. MGTOWs never had a say in the matter.
every man deserves a good woman it's sad some of us like me will never have a wife or what it feels like to be loved I really hate this it sucks not being chosen
I understand how you feel … but being single is a lot better than being with a single mum out of desperation. The reality is a lot of men will remain single and never settle for such women.
@@Halo-uo9qh Yeah I been hearing about certain guys struggling above 6 foot and it's hilarious how much people put so much focus on height when face matters more to most people.
@@mitu123Copperit’s bc people think just being 6 feet plus it’s flowers and rainbows 🌈 am 6’2 and females standers be crazyyyyy unrealistic and i struggle with woman
That’s actually sad and pathetic dude. You lack this much self respect that you would live with a person who doesn’t even like you and take half or most of your stuff when she leaves. SMH.
