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you can be happy everyday. a guide 

Via Li
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like I said in the video, happiness is a privilege. not everyone in the world has the privilege of experiencing happiness due to so many different factors. some may not be fortunate enough to wake up feeling hopeful for the next day. one of the biggest reasons why can be your environment and external factors that are out of your control which is very very heartbreaking. hence, not everyone can be happy everyday.
hence this is very privileged video. however, for those of us, who are able to experience happiness from time to time, let's please allow ourselves to embrace it and tell ourselves that we deserve happiness. you are human hence you are allowed to feel happiness. for those of us privileged enough where tomorrow is guaranteed, let's please allow ourselves to feel joy and understand that you don't need to reach a big goal to feel happiness.
i hope this video helped some of you guys. i used to feel a lot of shame when feeling happiness. i still have problems with it but I've became a lot better at it since I tell myself nothing is ever too serious. we are just experiencing life and we should be happy about it. it's okay to feel bad emotions but just remember you deserve the good emotions too.
i love you all and sending you all the best wishes. i love you all. see you all next week!
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@via.ilyouu
@via.ilyouu 7 месяцев назад
like i’ve stated in the video: happiness is a privilege. not everyone in the world has the privilege to experience happiness which is extremely upsetting. it may be due to external factors that are outside of your control which can be very scary. my point is that, as a human being, for all of us, when those rare moments of happiness come by, please embrace it because as a human being born, you are entitled to happiness. and once again, i am very aware not everyone is able to be happy and that is something extremely extremely f*** up.
@almira2184
@almira2184 7 месяцев назад
just broke up yesterday. thank you for the video ❤
@user-dv3xo3cr8s
@user-dv3xo3cr8s 7 месяцев назад
You know what i lost all my freinds and bc of your videos i am moving on i always listen to you every morning before going to school and see mean people i watch your video "why having no freinds is completely okay " it became my source of safety i can't thank you enough
@taexemi344
@taexemi344 7 месяцев назад
@@almira2184 hope you're doing okayy , sending love and warm hugs x ♡♡
@loveamara.
@loveamara. 7 месяцев назад
literally needed this! Posted at the perfect time⭐️🫶🏾
@themazzystar
@themazzystar 7 месяцев назад
lets all be happy
@Ken.47
@Ken.47 7 месяцев назад
"I'm a boring person and I like boring shit. Sue me." I wish I heard this in high school when I felt self-conscious about how "unexciting" my life was, and how judged I felt by toxic people in my social circle. Today, I don't care; I like what I like. Thank you for your videos.
@Mochiplaysxx
@Mochiplaysxx 7 месяцев назад
Ken.47 Ur an icon ❤ and now that is definitely not boring!
@keriskun
@keriskun 7 месяцев назад
i feel the same way, no one needs toxic friends like that!! real friends will really not judge you for what you love.
@lucass1717
@lucass1717 6 месяцев назад
I'm so proud of you for growing into this mindset!! What's "boring" for some people can be perfectly satisfying for others, it's not a crime.
@oh-hannah-
@oh-hannah- 3 месяца назад
💗💗💗
@kashishnegi20
@kashishnegi20 7 месяцев назад
i don't know how can people say her life is boring cause for me she's literally goals like travelling alone not being dependent on others exploring places alone just sitting outside and doing nothing complementing people cause yoou love it....her videos are so comforting and healing for me
@MUSAFIRBEFIQR
@MUSAFIRBEFIQR 7 месяцев назад
Too words outta my mouth 💜
@loveyourself1222
@loveyourself1222 4 месяца назад
I also like "boring shit", never liked smoking, drinking, partys, being around a lot of people. I like observing views, observing people (not in a creepy way), i like nature, i like the beach, sitting at a park, taking a coffee, listening to music, just simple things
@beigepiano-du5dk
@beigepiano-du5dk 3 месяца назад
people like us have the best life in the end :) not needing unhealthy/ dangerous things and activities to be happy! are people like that really happy anyway?
@Hana-dc4xr
@Hana-dc4xr 7 месяцев назад
I talked to a therapist for the first time yesterday and I'm so proud of myself. That's one step in the right direction! ❤
@user-ze4zs7zu2c
@user-ze4zs7zu2c 7 месяцев назад
Congratulations!🥳
@Hana-dc4xr
@Hana-dc4xr 7 месяцев назад
@@user-ze4zs7zu2c 💗🤍💗
@JustinNathanielAdams
@JustinNathanielAdams 7 месяцев назад
Awesome 👊
@cherryuu24
@cherryuu24 7 месяцев назад
im very proud of you!
@muffinmikaela
@muffinmikaela 7 месяцев назад
So happy for you! Your positivity is inspiring ❤
@mauriciomorales7546
@mauriciomorales7546 7 месяцев назад
RU-vid needs more content like this! As someone who has never been in a relationship and is, for the most part, alone, I think you are doing people like me a great favor by posting content like this, showing us that there are more people like us out there, and that we are not alone.
@veronica_tonellato
@veronica_tonellato 7 месяцев назад
I've been having a few bad days recently, and I was about to start scrolling once again to mentally escape when a notification for this video popped up. So I'm taking the chance to tell you how much I love your channel; every time I watch your videos I'm filled with so much joy in this bright, warm, almost ghibli way. The way you portray life is so enchanting to watch. Please never stop smiling! Thank you so much for the joy you bring into the world 💜🌻
@Mochiplaysxx
@Mochiplaysxx 7 месяцев назад
Veronicatonellato ur not the only 1 I do that every day so congratulations ur doing better than me🎉❤
@jebi5488
@jebi5488 7 месяцев назад
She's so sweet and i felt really happy when she said " I want you to be happy " Such a pure soul!
@susanarteaga8154
@susanarteaga8154 7 месяцев назад
A quote from "the subtle art of not giving a F" that i really like was along the lines of "one solution leads to another problem; life is full of problems, we have to choose the problems we enjoy solving." These videos are a great reminder that hapiness depends on us, everyday. I love your channel!!
@kikiko_loser
@kikiko_loser 17 дней назад
is that a book? sounds interesting
@susanarteaga8154
@susanarteaga8154 17 дней назад
@@kikiko_loser yes! It's like a selfhelp book with a storyline behind. It's so fun I highly recommend it
@afterbel
@afterbel 7 месяцев назад
I admire the clarity of the words you transmit at 22 years old. I can identify with all the feelings, thoughts, the bad and good things that go through your mind. Thank the RU-vid algorithm that led me to your channel ❤
@im_just_vidu
@im_just_vidu 7 месяцев назад
Happiness isn't a destination. It's the journey. - Namjoon - Feeling joyous from very little things is what Happiness is. Not a final destination.
@keriskun
@keriskun 7 месяцев назад
so true!! i'm also learning to love the journey more. i used to always be like "if i reach this point of my life, then i'll be happy". no, i'm happy already.
@Deprezzed_Ramen
@Deprezzed_Ramen 7 месяцев назад
You truly make my day better, seriously. Please don’t ever stop making videos bc they mean the world to me. I’ve been kind of sad so you just posting makes me happy!! 💕💕
@Deprezzed_Ramen
@Deprezzed_Ramen 7 месяцев назад
Thank you so much!! But someone else should be the lucky winner, I really enjoy your videos though 💕💕
@sapphics4hozier
@sapphics4hozier 7 месяцев назад
i’ve been feeling so incredibly burnt out and low but you always have the best timing with these videos!! i appreciate your posts so much
@bhawyabhati7811
@bhawyabhati7811 7 месяцев назад
Was feeling soooo low and felt like crying (a mental breakdown) you're timing is so good thank you sooo much 😊
@eisleK
@eisleK 7 месяцев назад
If you like something, it's not boring. If it's boring to someone else, that just means it's not something they like. Nothing wrong with either opinion. You like what you like and vice-versa 😊
@raissatavares5625
@raissatavares5625 7 месяцев назад
I love this conversation! Just yesterday, I was feeling so shit about myself because even after achieving my goal, I am not happy, I was like, "wtf happiness even is?" And then I checked you posted this video. I don't know how, but I deserve happiness, and every day, I'll have a little bit of that. You're right. Happiness is in the big and small things of our daily life. You realized it at 22yo, and me with 25 lol
@risika
@risika 7 месяцев назад
I was listening to a podcast that said, “it’s important to live life by design rather than emotion. Basically, sticking to a routine is what allows us to be the healthiest version of ourselves (especially when you're fighting these demons ex. OCD for me). Ive had to overhaul how i approach taking care of my brain (movement, studying etc)because I recognized happiness could be found in the journey. Now I try to put in consistent effort into my habits - to make sure I do it I began recording it and posting it on YT. I’m trying to give a small, consistent mediocre effort everyday. And its crazy how it adds up and your overall baseline rises.
@mingoogie544
@mingoogie544 7 месяцев назад
I was not feeling well these days it's not that I'm sad but I'm not happy either .... Ur videos always make me feel positive
@SpicyCarrotss
@SpicyCarrotss 7 месяцев назад
Thank you so much for creating this video.I have been struggling at the moment with way people percieve me and this really showed me that I can be a happy without validation !!
@oh-hannah-
@oh-hannah- 3 месяца назад
6:53 This part genuinely almost made me cry. I'm in that stage of life now. Thank you Via, you have no idea the amount of lives your are changing 💗 You saved so many other girls who are, today, the same girl you were! How wonderful is that?
@TF_charlotte
@TF_charlotte 7 месяцев назад
whenever I'm not in school i feel happy. i hate the environment and basically have no friends there, so i feel depressed and lost every time I'm there. but last week i took a weekend trip with my sister overseas and i haven't felt happier. i feel it's easy to say that u can feel happy when ur travelling but for me i just think when leaving my whole life and situation at home with school, i immediately find happiness. for example,walking to starbucks and getting coffee was so much fun and made me so happy on my trip but doing it at home i don't get anything out of it. so idk i think ill be happy after graduation
@darthvader8839
@darthvader8839 7 месяцев назад
I really appreciate this video! I've been trying to be more grateful and notice the little moments this semester, and it's helped me to stay grounded. "Why can't today be your day" is a wonderful quote to live by, and it has the same vibe as Futurama's "Good news, everyone!" I hope everyone can exclaim that there is good news somewhere, and I hope they can be in a place that celebrates it :)
@musashiera
@musashiera 7 месяцев назад
ı genuinely dont like commenting videos but ı want to say a bunch of things about how ı feel these days ı was feeling like ı am a boring person with boring interests especially because of people around me cause ı started uni like a month ago and trying to make friends but their interests and mine are totaly different ı dont like going partys drinking smoking and that kind of stuff ı am into a quiet life but ı also didnt wanna be all alone and started to act like them to not to be lame and felt shit however watching your video reminded me that ı dont need to be like them and just be okay with it ı can be lame in their eyes that doesnt matter cause all ı should care is what my eyes see about me ı should do whatever ı want to feel happy so thank you for reminding me that ı appreciate it and felt happier ❤
@i_love_rescue_animals
@i_love_rescue_animals 2 месяца назад
I'm late to your channel, and I'm probably one of your oldest subscribers! This video is pure gold. EVERYONE should watch it. 🙌🏽 ❤ LOVE your videos. Even though I'm practically old enough to be your grandma, I am inspired by your videos. They are also a comfort to me as I have less mobility now and can't do as much as I'd like (don't feel sorry for me, I still get around fine, I just can't walk or stand for very long periods). Since my world is starting to shrink a bit, this message reminds me so well of what I already knew - but STILL need to be reminded of! You're a gem, Via! ❤
@toko_yami
@toko_yami 14 дней назад
I always find myself coming back to your old videos and learn a new thing everytime....i don't think words are enough but i really wanna tell you how much you makes some of us feel seen and loved .Also helping us in so many ways i can't thank you much❤❤❤
@1234DKFN
@1234DKFN 7 месяцев назад
Via li. Ill tell you something, from when I was 13 years old until now 24 , I ALWAYS THOUGHT MY GOAL / DREAM IN LIFE WAS - TO BE HAPPY , TO FIND HAPPINESS. you are right. From being hypersensitive and coming from a chaotic joint family , things were never easy. All I needed was calmness and not getting stimulated. And never had goals or dreams. All I wanted was to be happy *sigh* I think i just moved from solving one problem to other and called it life. School exams , college exams and so on. For my family to think I'm deserving. I never thought otherwise. This video got me so over my toes. Like maybe you're right. Maybe I was happy a million times in b/w. Maybe I didn't care to check on those and thought this isn't happiness. Okay. This Is kinda life-changing :)
@brightnesslight542
@brightnesslight542 7 месяцев назад
ما شاء الله .. شخصيتك اكثر توازن واكثر حب وحياة شخصيتك تختلف عن الفيديوهات السابقة مبارك لانك اصبحتي شخص اقرب الى نفسك اكثر ❤ شكرا لوجودك في حياتي🇮🇶🌷
@jrd2007
@jrd2007 7 месяцев назад
via your videos saved my life......... im 16 and my life has always been shit..... i had been thinking about putting an end to this but.... your videos gave me hope......
@chocolattefeverdreams4228
@chocolattefeverdreams4228 2 месяца назад
Im so glad you made this video, I'm currently studying for my final IB exams with the mindset of 'once I go to uni everything will be fine'.
@larauerc
@larauerc 7 месяцев назад
you shifted something in my brain. I needed this so badly. subscribed. ty for being you 🙌🏻🫶🏼
@keriskun
@keriskun 7 месяцев назад
so happy i've found your channel!! it really helps me everytime i'm depressed to remind myself to be grateful and that makes me instantly happy tbh
@anabeatrizlima5221
@anabeatrizlima5221 7 месяцев назад
your videos make me feel so at peace with myself
@amazonrocks7349
@amazonrocks7349 7 месяцев назад
I know I'm not really your target audience, but as an asian american male who was pressured by asian parents to pursue medical school and failed to get admitted, this video speaks a lot to me. Not to mention my recent heartbreak where I dedicated years of my life to someone who's been in my life since near the beginning, only for her to tell me she doesn't feel the same way and that she wants to keep our lives separate. Sometimes it's so difficult to be happy, but I really do resonate with what you said about happiness not being the final destination. I feel like even if I did achieve everything I wanted it would only be superficial/fake happiness masking my internal insecurities. For so long I've always dedicated my life to making others happy, but I need to learn that I deserve to be happy too and that only I can build my own happiness.
@sukilovescitrus
@sukilovescitrus 7 месяцев назад
i havent been feeling good these days & oh how much i thank you for the title !! i love you. i totally agree with your comment. happiness can really be a privilege. but to falter i do think sometimes it's as simple as waking up or seeing the blue sky or seeing someone you hold dearly be happy... the way you view things make me adore you so much. love u, v !! i'll watch now
@L33yur1m
@L33yur1m 7 месяцев назад
you're litterally so cute and pretty and i like how you make people understand their worth hope you know your worth more and do the right thing for yourself lots of love 💖
@tamizaki6724
@tamizaki6724 7 месяцев назад
I found your channel a few days ago and it already has helped me so much knowing that someone else understands how I feel. Thank You
@vikysarchive
@vikysarchive 7 месяцев назад
im so glad people like you exist :) you're making the world a little bit better everyday
@user-ul1se7po2d
@user-ul1se7po2d 7 месяцев назад
i love your vedios because i feel them and they feel me espetelly i am alone with 2 or 3 friends but all the time ALONE it just makes me happy to see your vidios and they defenetlly motivate me thak tou we really appericiate you and the hard work of edinting ex....
@a_ashii
@a_ashii 7 месяцев назад
Thank you so much. "Happiness should be the journey, not the destination" that really hit me hard. Her channel is my therapy
@pandiispanda
@pandiispanda 5 месяцев назад
Your videos like these always make me cry in a good way, just being reassured the way you do is genuinely so nice
@TheMarissaHope
@TheMarissaHope 7 месяцев назад
Your videos have been the "confirmation" and reinforcement I've really needed in my own pursuit of happiness and healing, I just wanted to say thank you
@roro02
@roro02 7 месяцев назад
Thank you so much Via, i have been really struggling with my mental health at the moment but your videos always help to cheer me up.
@tishasaini9945
@tishasaini9945 7 месяцев назад
I just can’t describe in words how much you got me through I have been binging on your videos for quite few days and like I relate to you in so many ways but still really learn from you. You are just a pure soul and like idk how to express gratitude but girly believe me or not you cured me you got me through my worst mood swings like I was dealing with a lot of self doubts and the way you speak you let your thoughts out or even jotting down your words on your journal it’s a whole new concept to learn from you and like I can’t thank you enough for the happiness and same amount of understanding you passed through.. Thank you so much❤️ and yeah I hope you grow more and more you deserve it!✨
@udita3207
@udita3207 7 месяцев назад
Hey Via, just wanted to say I really relate to this video, so thank you for articulating the concept so well! I just turned 20 and also just had the whole realization moment of how a year doesn't seem like much but in 5 years you can achieve so much if you try a little everyday. I'm also reminding myself that I can be happy everyday. If I'm worried about something and I can do something about it, that's great. And if I can't then there's no point worrying. I'm allowed to be happy even if my life is not perfect. If you wait for the small perfect moments to be happy then at the end of your life you will realize you wasted most of your wonderful life looking for imaginary perfection when you could have enjoyed it all.
@It-is-me-duh.
@It-is-me-duh. 2 месяца назад
Dude you are like age old saint with tons of good advice mentally
@denisse.martinez
@denisse.martinez 7 месяцев назад
your literally the best person ever !!! you don’t know how much you help me especially with my mental and emotional issues
@tonynightmare
@tonynightmare 7 месяцев назад
You’ve pretty much summed up how I’ve been feeling recently. I’ve been in “purgatory” and I guess I looked forward to those pockets of happiness when I arrive to them. Thank you.
@qts6
@qts6 7 месяцев назад
Love u girl fr!!!!! The comfort your words give me. Hits the spot ALL the time.
@cleened8013
@cleened8013 7 месяцев назад
thank you via, i want you to be happy too. been away from yt for awhile and all of your videos, all of you is pure magic. i’m at a low point, and I’ll never get over how great of a gift you are through your messages and art bringing in big joy + understanding into my life, thank you thank you thank you
@user-fs5zp4sf1b
@user-fs5zp4sf1b 7 месяцев назад
thank you soooo much for this video, that’s exactly what I needed..💗
@jinn255
@jinn255 7 месяцев назад
I stumbled on your channel randomly today through a topic that caught my attention and now been going through all your videos. I just wanted to say thank you for putting such a valuable part of yourself in your vlogs. It could be such a scary things for so many of us to not want to show or even talk about these parts of ourselves, even to those that are the closest to us, that it could be so incredibly isolating. Especially for a lot of us that goes thru youtube and or other social media only seeing everyone else best sides and moments, achieving their own dreams. That could leave some of us thinking what's wrong with me, why cant I achieve the same or even thinking if I even deserve or could appreciate even a fraction of those moments in my own life. Going to stop ranting, but I really appreciate the genuine nature you put your thoughts to words in your vlog topics showing that everything is and will be more than ok if not great. So thank you again for putting out the things that a lot of us only keep in out own heads.
@rachameal
@rachameal 7 месяцев назад
thank you so much for this via. this video has helped me to reframe the way I think about happiness. when you proudly owned the fact that your life might be boring to others just helped to put into perspective that life is supposed to be lived for the person living it.
@lauchimclauch34
@lauchimclauch34 7 месяцев назад
I love this woman. I really needed to hear this today.
@Changbins_wife-mu9bu
@Changbins_wife-mu9bu 6 месяцев назад
the way you give me the comfidens to do those things even wenn im at my lowest
@mygpjm
@mygpjm 4 месяца назад
im so happy I discovered your channel, it’s genuinely helped me a lot. I decided to start a self care journey coming up to 2 years ago, it’s not been linear but I’m definitely getting better and your videos have just been a massive help recently. I like a lot of stuff that’s considered boring to some people but I’m starting to like that about myself :))
@lynnnnbetta7622
@lynnnnbetta7622 7 месяцев назад
I had a rly bad day but then the next day I was totally able to turn it around. And I think mostly it’s because of your videos and seeing the happiness you find in doing “nothing” and just wandering around solo. I had the perfect day doing the same just doing things as I felt like and going places as I felt like. I was able to catch the sunset and it made me happy cry because the day was so affirming of me just spending time solo again and wandering around and journaling. I usually don’t leave comment so sorry if this sounds all wonky, but just rly wanted to express how much I rly appreciate your vids and how they helped me!
@nanogiardiniere
@nanogiardiniere 7 месяцев назад
i just love you so much, watching your videos makes my day better and I feel more motivate to do ANYTHING, tysm, you're my safe place🫶🫶
@onlyyaaradhyaa_
@onlyyaaradhyaa_ 7 месяцев назад
I loveee herrrrr she is my fav 😭💗 her videos are my mood maker rn lol 🌻✨
@pookiewookiebear14
@pookiewookiebear14 7 месяцев назад
your videos always come at the time i need them most. tysm
@maracesp
@maracesp 7 месяцев назад
You are so right, one day I woke up and said to myself, it's time to smile more for every little thing that happened to me during the days💝
@KatarzynaMokosiewicz
@KatarzynaMokosiewicz 6 месяцев назад
this channel is gold pure gold
@ttomatobird
@ttomatobird 7 месяцев назад
thank you so much for spreading this message, i feel like many of us need this reminder since its rlly easy to get sucked into life and forget that this is OUR own life that we're living, not another person's. we should live for ourselves and our definition of happiness, and not get too caught up living for another person's definition of happiness. thank you again via, and i look forward to your video next week
@minakshi.p_04
@minakshi.p_04 6 месяцев назад
Your videos are slowly being my daily pills☘️ we all deserve happiness of all kind
@lucymitlehner8334
@lucymitlehner8334 4 месяца назад
Thank you so so much this made me extremely happy ❤️❤️
@bluehourcore
@bluehourcore 7 месяцев назад
this reminds me of smth my mom said recently in a convo. i'll try to translate it the best i can. she said '' in this whole wide world, anyone and everyone can cause you pain: your friends, partners, family, relationships, colleagues etc- EVERYONE, but happiness is something only you can create for yourself. most of the times, creating happiness for YOU is in your control." ( i can't translate all the nuances from the original hindi but i tried my best lol) and it's like yeah often there are many external and internal conditions that can be obstacles to you, but at the end of the day, we all d!e alone, so take control of your happiness whenever you can.
@TIKI-hb7by
@TIKI-hb7by 7 месяцев назад
You know it is very upsetting when you’ve experienced happiness and we’re thriving then, but now due to some reasons that happiness is not there and you know that you will never get to experience that happiness or whatever that was because you are scarred and traumatised. Because even if we unfold a paper that was folded, no matter how hard we try, there will always be those creases. I don’t know if it makes sense to anyone but If someone is going through that, I hope life becomes easier for you❤
@xx_note.to.self_xx4504
@xx_note.to.self_xx4504 7 месяцев назад
I think i’m legit going to watch this video everyday for like a month since in my brain i agree but i really need to believe it
@marwatamant3
@marwatamant3 7 месяцев назад
I had the same reflexion a couple days ago , even when you are going through tough shit, it’s important to notice the few things that made you happy in your day and to acknowledge that it’s admirable to feel happiness in this few little things/moments even when you have issues on the side or if you’re going through a hard time. Like you said happiness is a privileged not everyone can feel it so when you do (especially you are not in very peaceful situation) you can be very proud of yourself. ❤
@stephy2223
@stephy2223 7 месяцев назад
i was having a mental breakdown, feeling hopelessly empty, wondering why i cant seem to become happy when i saw the title. i felt like giving up but this video managed to calm me down and i feel a bit more hopeful and motivated. i feel like we have similar personalities (i only know you through your videos so i cant obv say for sure) which is one of the reasons why your videos bring me so much comfort, seeing you is like seeing myself and watching you do the things you like alone or not gives me so much hope. i feel very stuck in my current situation but im gonna make the most of it. watching your video made me realize i dont have to get out of this situation to become happy, i can find happiness even in the littlest things. ive been trying to improve myself but ive been in a slump recently. i hope one day to be as independent as you are and that thought alone gives me a lot of courage, thankyou
@taexemi344
@taexemi344 7 месяцев назад
via, you know ,you're like my big sister , who helps, and is just very amazing, your videos are really comforting, i love them, everytime i watch your video, i feel a lot better and remind myself to be happy, via never lose yourself, you're the best, because of you i'm more consist of my journals, ever since i've watched you ,i'm way more confident in myself , i was never like this, you made me a whole new and a better person, i love you via , truly, i wish you to be always happy and to shine , i love you via
@princerockson1404
@princerockson1404 5 месяцев назад
realest human being I have ever seen !... all this stuff in my mind couldn't have been expressed better! thank you, god bless!
@ceciel__2684
@ceciel__2684 7 месяцев назад
Every video from you makes me feel so better than I was before!! Thank you so much via, you do an amazing job 😚🥰
@user-jo4rh4oy3f
@user-jo4rh4oy3f 7 месяцев назад
i cried through the whole video. thank you so much! i currently live in a situation where happiness is the last thing I feel. (war is not good for the soul). even though i live in such danger and uncertainty right now you inspire me to look for the happy things in life. and try to smile. 💝💝💝
@sle4108
@sle4108 7 месяцев назад
Oh this means a lot to me. You indeed can be happy every single day because happiness is a choice. My OCD used to inhibit me from achieving happiness everyday, I used to feel like I could only be happy for a certain number of days before something bad was destined to happen. Love it
@Sara-gs7nw
@Sara-gs7nw 2 месяца назад
I was not having the best day but this gave me some perspective :) thank you so much! I really appreciate you and your content🌟🫶
@everydaypya
@everydaypya 7 месяцев назад
THIS IS SO TRUE! for me, happiness doesn't have their own specific definition. create your own definition of happiness that's what make life even better.
@user-xz4en6jf5p
@user-xz4en6jf5p 3 месяца назад
I sincerely think you just changed my life. I just watched a few of your other videos and you transformed my way of thinking. I forever thank you.
@harrietho8336
@harrietho8336 6 месяцев назад
I resonate with Via a lot on a lot of things that she talks about in her videos: not having my first ever relationship even at 23 years. old, being happily independent and loves to explore. I feel like she is, in some ways, an online twin. One thing is, I love her videos of her little accounts and reflections on life. They're really comforting and something I need to hear on a daily basis. I admire Via a lot for these videos that I'm really appreciative of
@isislauraalvarez-g4418
@isislauraalvarez-g4418 3 месяца назад
This is by far one of the best videos you've ever made. I wish many more people had understood that much sooner.❤
@mochiminj
@mochiminj 7 месяцев назад
Via Li, just so you know, you are my favorite comfort person. You are like a warm hug. I genuinely feel so happy and understood every time I watch your video. Love you!!!
@AkumaChakai
@AkumaChakai 7 месяцев назад
Watching these videos make me feel so much more comfortable in my own skin (does that make sense?) Like when I go to school I don't feel like I should follow everybody else's standards(parents, friends ect.) And I've started opening up more about my own feelings and needs. I've gained a more healthy relationship with the people around me by doing that and I feel great :)
@shenherose
@shenherose 7 месяцев назад
I really love the fact that you are talking about happiness and that everyone can receive it anytime. Today was an emotional day for because I'm tired of people making me feel bad and having me cry at times and that no one takes the for me too. Even though I prayed, it was not enough because I've been craving social interaction for a long time and it has not changed. Your video was another for me and that hopefully I be blessed with just one good friend and that will be enough for me. ❤❤❤
@Nourann7
@Nourann7 7 месяцев назад
The point about complimenting someone is so true!! I always have the urge to compliment anything I see pretty or someone and then feel like wouldn’t that be weird?? But no it feels great and it makes the person in front of you happy then why not??
@azzahra9165
@azzahra9165 7 месяцев назад
completely agree with you!!! as you said that happiness isn't a destination. after i broke up with ex about 2 years ago, i realized that there is no line that separating between happy and unhappy. all i need to do is just try to see the happiness from new perspective. so i started with appreciate and enjoy the simple things that i've got and then my day feel lighter. anw i can't stop staring at your gorgeous hair. i love it!❤️
@lucass1717
@lucass1717 6 месяцев назад
I am so grateful I found your channel. Your videos make me feel so so safe, living the life I want rather than the life I am expected to live. Even if I feel like no one understands or no one aproves, I know it's okay, and your words give me the reassurance I need to feel more at peace. So I hope you know that what you do has a HUGE impact, it matters, it changes the way people think or approach some things, and I greatly appreciate everything you do.
@ro2974
@ro2974 7 месяцев назад
via i just love the clips and how cutely aggressive you are in delivering your words 😂❤🥺 this was very grounding and comforting! thank you sm for uploading this~
@elluno6046
@elluno6046 7 месяцев назад
I had a similar realisation some months ago. I realised what happiness feels like, and it wasn’t anything grande. It was snowing late at night, the street lamps made this cozy atmosphere and I stuck my head out the window and smiled, laughed and just felt happy. There was no specific reason for my smile except the fact that if someone asked me “What was your happiest moment” It would be this exact moment.
@user-oq9jm6gj2o
@user-oq9jm6gj2o 4 месяца назад
i love ur speed in speaking, have a nice day
@itaint
@itaint 3 месяца назад
ily thanks a bunch
@issanomaly
@issanomaly 7 месяцев назад
Thank you for this free therapy. Recently, I've gotten into the whole concept of romanticizing my life. Finding happiness in mundane and simple things. I would go out and see a cat or a dog, stand there for a while and smile. I would pass by a some lovely flower the ones that mostly go unnoticed, I would pause a moment to appreciate it and maybe click pictures. Currently, making yt videos is making me so happy so I'm doing that without thinking too much about it's numerical performance. My favorite artist dropped his album today and I've been smiling so much since the morning! These little things are making me so happy :) I've been feeling so lonely for a long time but recently, I'm finding solace in my solitude. It's still hard for me to do certain things because of my social anxiety but sometimes I do force myself to do shit and end up enjoying it. And for that, I'm really proud of myself.
@whatsgiureading
@whatsgiureading 7 месяцев назад
your videos are one of the tiny things that make me happy. thank you
@derinstt
@derinstt 7 месяцев назад
Your this type of videos make me feel so seen and make me feel positive, Thank you so much for that 💕
@feliciazhang2852
@feliciazhang2852 7 месяцев назад
Thankyouuu so much for sharing this. i feel really comforted and related. I love you❤ let us be happy
@randomgirl55
@randomgirl55 7 месяцев назад
Love your humanity and how your personality is real and truthful ❤️❤️❤️
@pudding4beerus
@pudding4beerus 7 месяцев назад
I've been really struggling with my depression lately, and your videos always cheer me up even on the worst days. Thank you so much for all your lovely videos! I can't wait to see what other videos you make. ❤❤❤
@flomuller353
@flomuller353 5 месяцев назад
this made me so happy. thank you
@Kei-bb7rt
@Kei-bb7rt 7 месяцев назад
I don't understand people who says that ur life is boring...so what is interesting life then? I'm slowly recovering from OCD, but I'm having a hard time finding joy in life. I feel like I'm doing nothing but living. I'm trying to free myself from the belief that friends are needed to have an interesting life. And a handful of people around you. I freed myself from a toxic relationship where I spent practically 24 hours a day with a person and it honestly wasnt make me happy. But I still thought that I need someone to change my life because what can I do being lonely?Watching your videos, I realized how wrong I was. You showed me how life is worth trying new things, even those that seem stupid and boring. I always watch your vlogs with interest. It's amazing how ordinary things can make your life just good. You are my big inspiration. I started doing ordinary things that I considered boring and pointless, and they started to make me really happy. I didn't realize how interesting it could be to spend time alone, even just to go to the park or for a coffee. It's so obvious and yet hard to understand.Thank you for the vlogs you record for us, they really motivate me to just go out and enjoy the moment.
@p1tbullzzz
@p1tbullzzz 6 месяцев назад
Hi, what are you symptoms for OCD and how does impact your daily life? (you dont have to answer if your uncomfortable). I ask because I think I might have it. Also glad you're starting to enjoy life again, especially when you're in your solitude. I think its important for us all to be comfortable in just doing ordinary things alone, people shouldnt need a "interesting" life or someone else to feel happy. 🫶
@mami2679
@mami2679 3 месяца назад
OMG WHY ARE YOU SO MEEEE I was just telling my therapist that I spent my life looking for that one friend that was gonna last forever
@LucySharma-uo8tt
@LucySharma-uo8tt 7 месяцев назад
❤ I am so happy that I am the first viewer🎉😊 love you and your videos so much ❤️
@sp0nge92
@sp0nge92 6 месяцев назад
felt like shit today and watching this video literally made me so happy i love you so much
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