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DAILYVLOG #230: Today I'm talking about a current pet peeve of mine when people talk about dying. I think I'm allowed to feel this way ;) oxoxo
Mare is a Canadian RU-vidr sharing her journey in daily vlogs. Mare has a son, Thomas, who is deaf and on the Autism Spectrum. In June of 2017 Mare's husband Jeremy committed suicide after battling depression and anxiety for years. They shared their story for a couple years on this RU-vid channel.
Mental health, self care, women's health, special needs and being true to yourself are VERY important to Mare. She strives to include helpful content every day as she uploads six days a week.
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15 сен 2024

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Комментарии : 33

@kylagaudiuso4561 6 лет назад

Your hair looks adorable curly with a toque!!!!

@destinywolfe 6 лет назад

I have to say... thank you for the reality check. I am guilty of that.

@Andreagamestoday 6 лет назад

Love your rants 😍😂

@Polarbear338 6 лет назад

I agree with you & the word stupid has never sat well with me either.

@irenedavo3768 6 лет назад

Only found you today! I do not like people saying brain dead

@irenedavo3768 6 лет назад

Sorry you lost your husband ....not sure what to say ! ❤️

@kathleenwprince 6 лет назад

Yes, 100% agree with your thoughts... After my Dad's heart attack a few years ago, it really stung whenever people casually said "oh it gave me a heart attack..." when mentioning something relatively insignificant. People can be really insensitive. Loved your snowy walk, so beautiful! Xo

@annaandgary1 6 лет назад

Agree whole heartedly with your rant!!!! People don't pay enough attention to their words. Love the torque good job S&K😊 you do know her sooo well. Beautiful walk in the snow, you know how special that is to me. So glad Thomas is having a nice visit with grandma. If your never been to BC add it to your bucket list for sure🤗

@TravelingNana 6 лет назад

I was in a coma following a car accident in 1993. The expression that bugs me is “ I slept like I was in a coma “! I have called people out on that one. I tell them it’s not funny.

@Sandler23 6 лет назад

Barb Butler rather than feel outraged like the social justice warrior you are, use the situation to your benefit by saying that you were once in a coma and start a conversation about comas rather than just walking around angry all day.

@TravelingNana 6 лет назад

Sandler23 I said it bugged me, I don’t feel enraged all day. Life is way to short, I often educate people about brain injury. I rarely am enraged!

@TravelingNana 6 лет назад

Sandler23 also, why did you refer to me as a social justice warrior? It sounds critical and the last thing I would expect from a Mareathoner. I feel like I am being unfairly judged as you don’t know me.

@23ofSeptember 6 лет назад

I think he was calling you out. The expression isn't meant to hurt anyone's feelings. If it offends you, you are being way too sensitive. Life is too short to be offended by the English language.

@patricefreeman4804 6 лет назад

You always have such a positive, optimistic attitude. You really are an inspiration to others. Thank you for sharing your days with us!!! 💕

@annabeltemple230 6 лет назад

Not insensitive at all. In my case, people still toss out the phrase, 'spastic' -and since I have spastic Cerebral Palsy, that word is cringe-worthy. Words matter.

@tanyac5709 6 лет назад

100% agree with your ENTIRE “rant” side note have you watched Tamara taggarts ted talk “two conversations that changed my life” it’s so so good

@allisunflower 6 лет назад

Yes Mare! This is how change is made 💕💕💕

@nikaay 6 лет назад

I know when my cousin passed away suddenly in a car accident, it really bothered his sister when people would say "i'm dying". I can understand how irritating that would be.

@guesswho1297 6 лет назад

I understand where you’re coming from and while it doesn’t make it ok I don’t think majority of people mean to upset you. Exaggeration has always been a thing. Even things like “first world problems” could be upsetting to someone. Yet it’s said by lots of people.

@misstracey301 6 лет назад

Minimalchaos I agree. I think people are so numb to these phrases that nobody stops to think that what they are saying is offensive or that it may hurt someone. If you just read through these comments you will see that people are triggered by all kinds of different things. What may be hurtful to me may be looked at as over sensitive to another. We are a society that gets offended over everything these days. Even writing this comment I am nervous that someone will be offended and I mean absolutely no harm or hurt to anyone. For these reasons I personally chose to just let things like that go. Nobody knows that a certain thing they will say may affect me in a sensitive way if they don't know me or my story. This is not to say that many over dramatic statements don't grate on my nerves it's just I choose not to react to it. I hope that makes sense?

@Caseyberger_ 6 лет назад

I’m with you on the words thing! It gets to me when people say things like that I even get frustrated when someone says something like, “oh my back is killing me”is it really? You are totally not overreacting or being too sensitive. Ps your outside shoots make me miss being home in Penticton so so much. Especially by the creek. I used to live in the same complex you live in now when I was in jr high school.

@valentineyoung4327 6 лет назад

There's power in the tongue. We have to watch our idle words. So glad you like living in Penticton, me too. I like your new toque with furry pom pom and T's reindeer cardigan. Pretty curly hair after swimming. Nice to go for a quiet walk by the creek. Good vegan meal. xx

@paulag3528 6 лет назад

Ohhhh #newintrowhodis 😘

@BrittsM86 6 лет назад

Words are very important. My brother In law is mentally handicapped and I can't stand when people say the "r" word. In any way they say it it bothers me I wish I had the nerve to say something especially when these ppl know me and my family. Drives me crazy!!!

@hellokittyisacutie.1510 6 лет назад

I agree. So much needs to Stop!

@RobynRoberto 6 лет назад

You’re not being sensitive AT ALL.

@maremchale 6 лет назад

+Robyn Ferguson thank you

@JannetjeW 6 лет назад

I'm with you with the words!! My rant would be: being a person 59 years old, with a lot of health problems,operations and things,a lot of pain every day. That it would be my 'own fault'?? I should ask the universe for a better health? Or I must be a very bad person in a former life!

@jodywatson6673 6 лет назад

I agree on all the 'words' my personal pet peeves are "I am starving" and "She or he is[was] dressed like a homeless person" Freak I hate that! Breath....exhale....Peace, Jxx

@catchingupwithcaren3674 6 лет назад

love your wavy hair!!!!

@denisemarlin8547 6 лет назад

I live in BC, but girl, I love Penticton. #retirementgoals I only have 17 years to go 😝🙇🏻‍♀️

@dianawarkentin6074 6 лет назад

Thinking about your rant. The vlog you unsubscribed to, what bothers me about that is they took their dislike of that Christmas gift to such a public forum. It’s one thing to dislike the lime green doily spare tire cover great-Aunt Gertie gave you, but to mimic hanging yourself about receiving such a gift on You Tube...disgusted. Words do matter, and sometimes they hurt more than if somebody physically assaults you. See ya tomorrow!