You Were My First Love And Broke My Heart | Eating With My Ex: Tom & Franki 

Merz It takes time to learn.

At most maybe two years to let go of person and that experience. 7 years too much man. Got to get over it.

Girls do that I'm in the same thing. Taken me 6 years to get past my first love.

@Fritz Muller agree for most of them bro. Feel you!

Everybody had same situation we don't have to bore people on RU-vid we don't not put are personal life for everyone to go threw it

I agree with him I'm like thst now I had exes who message me on Facebook apologize to me it's like u waited all this time to say sorry yrs later why see that's the prob both sexes hsve to realise this u can't shit on people and then expect them to be jolly when they hear from u it's like b.s. sorry

Love our boys I just did same to my exe she left me for someone else and when that guy left her she came to me and say sorry but she didn't realise that once I said to her that I never did the same mistake twice

Yes lads!wasn’t expecting our boy to pull through, mad respect. She doesn’t love him just seen he’s going places in life and thinks she can tag on, nah mate our boys got better things in mind

Bright future same with me bro, my ex gf left me for someone else and then that guy left her...after 10 yrs i DMed her telling that i kept thinking of her everyday for the past 10 yrs and then i told her sorry i wont make the same mistake twice and i told her i have no feeling anymore towards her

Yeah, he's in a better position financially and socially, so she was gonna try him

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Yeah, the question he wanted to ask was if she really loved him, and he figured out that she never loved him. So he walks away

Exactly

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This is actually how wormen think

Classic

AriM8 , exactly

Everything women do is backwards and that’s facts 💯

Like a cat

most women think like this

Respect for the boy proud of man

@@ASJacob lmao true

He just dodged a Trainwreck

Or he took it deep in the chest and realized there is no way with her and had his first exit

Sad loon he is. Narcissist

He us a fool

@@rODIUMuk bro who u calling narcissist, the girl or the boy? Clearly the boy isn't I don't know about the girl

@@Gianni.chellini The boy is a clear gas lighter and narcissist . The weak way he acted was horrible. Did all this to show he is bitter and resentful. Moron

You feel me bro....i am going through smth like this... and i really wish i didn't have a heart only my mind.... My heart is telling me to go back to her and my Mind is telling me no....

@@animeglobe1588 I feel u bro! But pls don't hahaha wish u luck ... If I were you just cut everything

@@animeglobe1588 , I share your pain, man. I really do. Only you know the situation, and you have to make the right decision for you. I would say this...if you are young and she is a first love, think about dating others, gain some more experience, learn what you really want in life, give yourself some time. I married my high-school sweetheart despite knowing it was a bad relationship. I stuck it out 26 years. She had an affair and then asked for a divorce. Love my children, but otherwise, those were 26 bad years. Good luck.

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Agreed

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So on point! If it was the other way around, everybody would still be shitting on him (I don't need to explain why) and giving all the sympathy in the world to her.

Adam A Good boy, concerning the matter of love, there no other deciding moment as indecisiveness. Never what they say, it's what they do,

@Prec1cs Epar she is a looker ill admit but i also will say she the type that has tickets on herself.

Trashy woman with no self respect let alone for him, big my man for leaving

She’s just horrible, rude, condescending, big ego & thinks she’s all that. She isn’t shit. He made the right move & that takes confidence & self respect. Well done to him.

she holds anger and bitterness in her face. he seems more innocent. like she’s trying to charm her way into controlling him...!

That umm sounded like gayi bhains pani mein 😅😂🤣

@@Gianni.chellini What does that mean?

@@44aske it means in short term 'big problem' u r in deep 💩💩💩 Its a saying we have in hindi my language

@@Gianni.chellini why would you say a saying in a language no one would understand that too a saying. Strange..

Umss can be misleading though

You are judging her by her looks... not her heart.

@@unaninanine3743 I'm judging her by her response which was um.

In this context, yeah. Um is the most clear response, shockingly.

@Swish 107.5 exactly

Of course she expected a man who told her he's been thinking about her for 7 years to want to date her. What else is she meant to think? Why would she love him as anything more yet when she barely knows him at this point? He's silly to let his ego get the better of him.

He asked 🤷🏿‍♀️

@@IndefinableSin He wants a romantic and intimate relationship with her, outside of that she has nothing good to offer him.

Isabelle Cohen but the issue is that he still had feelings for her and she admits that she never loved him but saw him as a friend.

Ridiculous why you people think she know if she loves him or not girls never be this honest like we are if they broke up maybe she cry every day but protect herself nobody knows. And look @ the perspective a good example is David Beckham and his wife women's often are not sure about what they feeling and a deep friendship is really important for the most girls woman's. Girls attitude is he is my love of my life and in the same way i have a deep friendship. Look into her eyes and they tell everything about she loved him trust me even she say she never loved him.

Most men are raised by single mothers who program them to think like women and only view reality through the female perspective.

Fact!

Everybody be like: how come I'm the only one who emphasizes with the guy. When literally nobody in this comment section likes that girl and her attitude at all Like wtf i just don't get it lmao

@@endrina425 well you are late, at the time when the video was posted everyone commented negative on the guy

@@arbaazkhan4887 uhm ok that makes sense 😯

Exactly

yh its his mind not me lol

Relatable. A kinda fucked up feeling.

And gained a level 20 prestige.

Theres nothing like a feeling of slamming a long silver bullet into a well greased chamber. 😁

That's a king way to describe it👀👑

Respect

Like a hot potato lol

OK emo

OK emo

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Emo Queen no he can’t women don’t like this shit he’s too nice

Why german/switzerland dad wtf xD

Megan where ?

@@Thepinkxx have you seen those pictures of people before and after drugs? Well, this is how Megan would look like

She kinda looks like a darker version of Sanza

She looks like the Buzzfeed English girl

@Joys Destiny i’m confused?

Exactly! How are people not seeing this?

@@hollyw2203 Because these ladies of today have zero accountability! It's easier to blame the man than own up to what THEY did wrong. Well except for yourself 👍👍👍👍

They were at school though, and he was immature to think after 7 years she’s still be into him

I agree. 7 years and he stills thinks about her! He was really in love with her and for her to tell him she never loved him? He made a good call.

Dude loved her at the time.. No need for torment or stroke her ego. Out of Love & respect you let them ones go

He’s a sad loser

@@rODIUMuk no he not bro. Ur not understanding homie

Thanks for explaining this. People never make sense to me. You made sense out of this.

He was a freak! Incel! He did her nasty and will always he lonely

@@rODIUMuk damn who hurt you?

i was flattered.

Now he wont compare, hes matured, cause he can now see crystal clear that shes nothing special, shes a narcissistic chav 😂 no depth there..obvious.. social media chav and aspires to be on only fans 😂 girls like her are ten a penny

Jeanette Lamb I agree with this comment.

Exactly

Totally true!

So true

Right! Very nicely said.

She looks like a snake.

David Stephens Idk maybe but this days most girls do anything for🤑🤑🤑

She was interested in the money he can bring in. Obviously he is doing good financially.

It was pretty perceptive of him to pick up on it and he was smart enough to walk away....most people get blinded by their own emotions and can't see what the other person is really saying.

@@battison.1010 yeah she looks like she would rinse him clean if he had money pretend she loves him and leave

She liked his status as he was liked in school. But it was never about him personally. Many women only love your status. But its not what you as a man experience when you feel connected to a woman. Most women will objectify you as a man: your status, money, job. Careful guys. Shup your dick for 20 secs and take a more thorough look. There are some sweet girls out there. Pretty too. But they not on tinder or isntagram. You wont find them there. They all like her.

Me too!

Her face is one terrible rash.

She will have many cats later in life for letting him go😅

@scott warwick 😅😅😃😃😃

Id bang her

John Lukach I don’t like her expression but you don’t have to demean her appearance just because you don’t agree with her

Friend* but good point

Listen their story carefully.

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Yes that was gross when she said that , so condescending

thick

thats a bingo!

Most girls are dumb thats why . Massive ego

Dude oh my god it was so toxic

It was for him. Men are like that.

We raise past loves high up on a pedestal as time goes by and compare them to all the next ones especially if you haven't seen them in a while or they got away, then you meet them again and realize they are just a normal person like everyone else and it was only the illusion you put into your head...

im a child of god... very special

While she might come across as a bit full of herself here, they were 17 when he was first with her. People change.

​@@playza6780true brother another thing is.. She was his first love.. And first love is memorable and beautiful not because the person is amazing or beautiful or something extra ordinary.. But because it's the first. Time when our hearts are pure untainted and the experience is magical.. My ex who I begged to stay with me after I failed to secure an engineering job.. And she got a decent paying job...she Left me... I struggled a lot and was jobless for almost 3 years few years down the line...I started my own construction company.. Which is worth a lot now..met her in the road while I was taking out my suv..she was waiting for her uber..we exchanged glances she recognized ..exchanged number...she called me after two days we spoke a lot..she broke down saying she was very miserable and all..she had a day off came to meet me at my site..we became friends and long before you know she wanted to have another shot I told her I needed some time to think..and i saw this video..instantly I knew I should not go for it..Although we got physically intimate thrice...she was mad upset..but not me anymore..

Well that just basically means she don’t or will not love him. He made a right choice

GrRRrRrrR mEn BaD, wOmEn gOoD 🤣😂

EXACTLY!!!! He respected himself enough to say NO I'm not doing this anymore. Move on with his life.

Because she is still 25.....

she does, (inside). She just was acting strong

Nah she looked broken, don't be too hard. She was about to cry if the camera's weren't there

Because she had a different agenda. She thought shed get media attention, clicks and likes and followers if shed be with hin for a while. Milking the lost love story. Thats why it seemed she had virtually no emotional reaction. She's nor a good actor though. She didnt even try to act. That is one manipulative woman dwl. Quite shocking. Let that be a lesson gents. Dont just take a woman cause she looks good in your eyes.

daniel sou - only Manginas do that

Female versus male brain. Women don't want to be seen as easy, therefore she leaves him the door open enough to make the move. It's man's job to lead, and a woman would expect that, not the other way around.

Bec she said maybe the time and age...

Honey glazed Gammon then maybe its time for a new door.

Honey glazed Gammon if they’re exes, then it’s pretty dumb to pretend she’s not easy, he’s already smashed. But then why pretend they’re just friends? That just makes it look like she can’t commit, and if she can’t admit she at least liked him in that way then she’ll never admit it. Your logic is basically let the woman say whatever she wants because she’s insecure and let the man constantly read in between the lines. AINT NOBODY GOT TIME FOR DAT

I felt the same.

Exactly no one understands that

That's exactly what I was thinking. He realized he had been carrying around a feeling that she hesitated to express. No point risking it.

yeah she laughed when he asked that question, not exactly good for his ego lol

Yea and that's exactly why he made the right choice

Ehhhh she's ok. Got that falcon nose

fbird90nw what’s a falcon nose?

Busker Busker it is used in tearing the flesh of rabbits and small rodents as they dive through the air, faster than any animal can run or swim, and then rake their claws across their flesh

Idk I find her so so beautifully

i dont get how men get fooled by a girl who doesnt love them, into thinking she does. All love that men get is transactional/conditional on him performing well and providing and protecting. If a man believes in hollywood romantic love he is a flat out sucker

@@jasonmodica5117 well there is women that can make you feel loved just to get something out of you. Sometimes you cannl tell and sometimes u cantn

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She was young maybe she wasnt as into him as he was into her at the time but that doesnt mean with more maturity things might not change. Sure I might be wrong but she seemed excited about trying, maybe it wouldve ended the same but maybe it was worth a shot? Not sure

@@anz10 He compared her to others for 7 years because he thought she did love him at the time. When he heard that she didn't love him, it was no longer real to him and the rose colored glasses shattered. He immediately saw more than what his dreams were, instead he saw the full reality of their compatibility and he no longer liked it. With her one sentence, he moved on.

@@darkriku12 Yes and it's good he did, however it seems from the comment section that people think she should somehow be held responsible for him spending 7 years of his life not getting over her

Pia Love lol your more bothered about the bill! Hahahha

Pia Love 😂😂😂

He is a quantity surveyor man

The only reason I liked this comment is because I've once paused the video on older episodes to check the bill and what they ordered:)

Should have gone to Nandos

@@carlnew2829 How does someone just change his mind so fast? literally moments before he was saying how he couldn't find another girl like her and like how he was comparing all his new girls to her. No way did he just change his mind like that

@@AhmedHassan-vq8ou he was probably hurt/angry and shell shocked maybe. The way she reacted to him saying she was the love of his life. He probably in that moment thought, why bother over someone who doesn't see him in the same light.

@@AhmedHassan-vq8ou she just told him she never loved him lol why he shoul give her a second chance?

Ahmed Hassan 2:05 is when he changed his mind

@@AhmedHassan-vq8ou: Erm, well you can [change your mind quickly] if you end up assessing that (for example) things wouldn't work out. Especially if you're learning how different you and [her] are or what you learn changes everything. I've been in a position where from one thing someone has said I've had to change my approach completely, despite still caring a lot.

Yeah but only for game, as soon as she’d got him she would have got bored and fucked him off

JustGame that’s why either smash or keep the mystery alive

I dont think she cared either way. Its all amusing to her. Its more likely she considered doing it again to get media attention.

It will be here biggest regret

@@justgame5508 in fact my man now should see her again, take her to dinner, bring her home, break her ass, and then tell her "ciao ciao" and don't see her ever again

Tumu Gaszghu facts

Tumu Gaszghu Agree 💯

Nah I'm sure she's a bad person, sorry. As for him I can't say. Maybe he's really immature but the girl right there is evil that's certain.

someone with sense in here ! :)

Boom and there it is, the nice guy. That’s why men in particular need to realise the nice guy is the last guy she wants to be with.

Sam Bee I don’t he did the right thing.....

Sam Bee the fact that he's a nice guy is why this happens.

Clandestine Reactionary yeah you right when you treat women like you don’t need them. They beg to stay with you.

Although lots of people will feel sorry for him we need to remember that he will find the right person for him and live a happy life with her it’s all a part of the journey to get to where ur meant to be

There's a lot to be said for that. Never look back.

Idk, I've had exes hook me up with their friends and we share hobbies so I don't see why not if you both moved on

people who still linger being friends with exes just tell me they have separation issues

Yes !!

@@noneyourbusiness341 Not necessarily. I had to remain friends with my ex because she was friends with all my other friends.

What u mean

@@lacria2749 he didn't know her. He said they hung around in the same friend group, spent one night with her then proceeded to compare her to every girl he met for 7 years. He built up a big fantasy in his head

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He knew he cant b played again, its called being a real man

@@projectx9528 facts

I am the 1000th like congrats

lol

Absolutely, I won't date her, she's aging fast, and she thinks she's all that, she saw him more like a friend, and he realised she never loved him the way he wanted to be loved even though he worshipped her, fair play to him for seeing the light and being a real alpha male.

defo that steak was banging

TheLordStuart oh hush. She’s in a different league. He was hurt by her not reciprocating his initial love for her

Self respect is the most important thing

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He needs to keep it moving too many girls out here.

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It's not always easy... Each person takes their own time..

4ever Akp If you really love someone you never stop loving them.

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@@carlnew2829 I would agree, I've experienced similar. However he asks her what mindset she's in and whether she's single. Why ask these questions if your intentions aren't to explore the possibility of trying again. He played himself because he allowed his feelings of heartbreak override the chance to be with someone he had feelings for. He judged he too harshly for her actions as essentially a child (after he had started rumours about her no less)

He didn’t though if she didn’t love him the whole time they were together he clearly wasted his time.

Yup... he still that #douchebag from high school.

@@ellekay8657 And what does that make her? Cause she damn sure isn't innocent as well!

@@ellekay8657 i bet ur one of those chicks who uses guys and dump them afterwards.

The funny thing is , I think she loves him but is so out of touch with herself she can’t bring herself to choose the right man

Why

Unlikely

hina sofy because he is absolutely husband material...

@@hinasofy229 if she didnt snatch a chump by then, she will have less and less mating options cuz her looks will be degrating ever so faster as the years pass by, thats why

@@Garo10 30 is young and I highly doubt if she'll have any less chance of meeting new people.

Señor yeah

Señor he’s smart dumb ass. he realised what he delt with it’s not being ‘butt hurt’

Emmanuel Ater nope, didn’t you see that she wanted to start over again but he was too immature to let go of the past

Señor exactly

Señor Señor: yeah she wanted to start over but even a baby would know that she didn’t mean it or anything else that she said in this video first of all she stuttered when he asked if she ever really loved him but out of all honesty it’d be stupid to think she really did! This guy isn’t a fool she clearly thinks he’s got a bit of money now or some how she only said things would work out because the cameras were rolling ( It had nothing to do with his maturity) it wasn’t sincere and I can understand that from a person who can read a lot of body language and the structure of her tone

Alright his name and place please

And he don’t want to go through again with a same person

"Alpha". . .

@@lubaniskie i've since refrained from using vague and low-resolution terms such as Alpha and Beta.

@@Jchamaon now that's growth right there man; seeing your mistakes and having the resolve to change them. You've turned it around like an absolute champ. Also, using the term 'low resolution' in this context is absolutely quality 👌

@@lubaniskie @Lubz M. Thanks, brother! I attribute my expressive and linguisitic ability to watching Dr. Jordan Peterson frequently online. As for the guy in the video, he actually rather conducted himself like a man with high self-esteem and well-identified end goals! That's why you see him handling his heartbreak with equanimity and dropping one "No" after the other with neutral tonality and emotional stability. 7 years of pain, man, and he went through self-reconciliation during a probably less than 30-minute-dinner!

Exactly proud of him for the way He had hold on his emotions, trust me it’s not easy, I can assume that even when she said she just liked him as a really good friend and it broke his heart, he might’ve still wanted her back because all of the memories start coming back at you but again the guy had full control on his emotions and didn’t let her play with him this time.

I think it's more important to say "no" than to say "yes" when comes to emotional and mental health... and sometimes we need to say "no" out loud to ourselves or to someone else to finally be able to see life for what it really is.

100% right. Finally someone with sense! lol

Gigi H I think he changed his mind when she said she didn’t really love him like that

Amen!

@@makonen6832 he dodged a bullet lol not her, he clearly changed his mind after what she said.

It's the other way around I think I mean you can't break a man's heart and then decide whenever you want to give a go again. He loved her and she thought she was better than him

Actually, I believe sometimes we realize that what we thought we had was something else. In the early part of a relationship, our minds are clouded over by our romantic feelings and it is impossible to be objective. He needed the time and distance to see her for what she really is, and it just wasn't for him.

I agree he realized she ain't worth it if a man who hasn't ever made u feel stupid for getting with him he asked her did you really ever love me in she says um that right there was the ground work

i thought that exact same thing.

😂😂 He's a hero. More men need to waste the time of women.

Paula Erdbeer exactly like you lol

@@jonathanxavier2026 if he's a hero then I'm an astronaut.

UK_Boy Nah u

Jonathan Xavier alright calm down incel

that was what i was told to do. u think all this happened without directors ect

J empath u judgemental much? There's more to it that don't get seen by the public, editing plays a big part.

@@nicktubara simp alert

@@Jempath lol man I'm just being straight up to you regarding what reality tv entails, although I've never been on one myself I've watched plenty enough to know it's all for viewing pleasure and not to be taken seriously. And this thing trying to call guys simps it's getting old man lol.

@@nicktubara this is not reality tv. Like tf are you talking about? Stop being a simp then.

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