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Jules you are such a light!...

We love you Jules! #YouGoGirl

Jules tunakupenda😍, happy to have you back, missed you😘.

We missed you ❤

That exact point on having kids, is the same as I have. I RELATE 1000000%

❤️❤️❤️

We love her for her..periodttt!!

Me too,21 as well in a few months thou' but she's talking to me as well

Love to ya Jacq

Thank you so much Lornzie ❤️. Mapenzi Tele!

Well then you will be very pleased in the following weeks ❤️

Yes they totally should

That's easy to say...what if your husband has a problem and you are ok,will you still adopt. Or you are the one having the problem and your husband is ok,are you sure he will be ok adopting?

@@generaliabacha7827 Lol that is none of your business but just so you know, we are both on the same page.

@@donnajoe4442 periodt! 💯

@@generaliabacha7827 comprehension skills...she said if they dont end up with one which is including your scenarios the option of adoption is there.

@@sylviaireri9930 But when she says 'we dont end up" she is assuming eg the doctor will declare both of them as having the problem. But in most scenarios,one of them will have the problemll...and remember probably while dating you had said if you dont end up with one,you will adopt. Now one of you has the problem and along the way in most of the relationship,one partner will fewl they can be tied to your problem yet they can have their biological kid . Its easy to say 'we will adopt" untill you get into the real situation!

Me too I love her and always love her insights!

The Giveon part got me screaming though🫶🏼

Sounds like an in-betweener ayee!

@@gracewaithaka4142 giving an inbetweener exactllyy🤣🤣

I felt that!

I used to feel that way too😧now I am 32yo and it's when I feel ready for everything, relationship/marriage and babies, after healing the crazy traumas I had.

Is she engaged?

Omggg that would be the best news 💍❤️

Lol i felt that..you can't fast foward or skip coz you will miss it .🤣🤣

@@KenyaLit Yeeees!

I find Lornzie,too secretive and doesn't open up much . Introvert you would say .Which is still okay 👍 we all are different and there is perfection in that. Shikie is Kati Kati . hehe

Noticed that...

Judy sending love right back to you. The thing is I know exactly what you mean. A good friend once told me that if there was something about them that I didn’t like then it’s because I see that same thing within myself and it’s also something I don’t like within myself. That hit my hard. It’s okay to not like me btw Even though it may suck! I appreciate your honesty Judy and all the best ma xoxo

Hey @dee anne.. I'm with you on the childless bit.💯💯💯... Maan deep down I just want that.. Also rship wise.. I'm so comfortable being single

I also want to be child free but that "what if I regret" thought still gets me. And I'm 24 too. I wish more women start speaking about this..for people like us to feel that we're not alone.

@@corrinebichage me too. I'm very comfortable being alone. But people keep singing you'll be 50 and lonely and I'm just like what if it's true. I'm bothered so much

@@wambuimburu8317 they keep saying you are still too young ndio maana unaongea hivi. Ati utachange in future. What if I don't? It's like someone is always waiting for me to change my mind.

@@deeanne6692 ahh Yess.. Eti "utachange tu sahi unasema tu hivo".... Maaan! Marriage and children isn't all that, 😑

YES

I also want to be child free. But I'm so scared to even say it loud

@@deeanne6692 just say it, to yourself first before anyone else. Also, you don't have to tell anyone else if you don't want to. Your uterus, your rules.

@@deeanne6692 I used to feel the same But following childfree people makes you realize you're not alone and it's normal (my mum once told me it's not normal and I should seek therapy)But I now feel comfortable saying it to people and even putting up childfree posts and memes on my social media without a care on what someone will comment