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I am leveling up completely. I left my child’s father after the constant mental abuse & lying. I literally took my clothes & my babies clothes & never looked back. 2 years later I’m comfortably living, I have a brand new car, got a promotion, & my child is THRIVING!!
My ex was so scared that I’d leave him for a baller because I’m pretty. So he started abusing me and playing mind games trying to bring down my self esteem. Needless to say I left after a month.
My mom used to try to be what each man felt was perfect and it only led to being taken for granted and controlled. I think that people loose respect for you when you try to mold yourself to their exact preferences. I think that by being our own best version is a way to filter out who is not meant for us.
Your best self is an insecure woman’s nightmare as well. The fat girl who bullies me at work turned around and told her friend on the phone that she wanted braids after I walked in with mine. Yet she acted like she didn’t notice my new hairstyle 💇♀️ lol
You keeping the jewelry only makes you look like need it more then the reason it was given to you, but when leave it mean nothing to us guys how can afford to go buy more the meaning is why most guys bug the phuc out when they don't get it back on top of how long it took him to save up for it and you keeping shows that since you are still wearing it you are still keeping a piece of me with you and when you look down at it the guy is gonna cross your mind. Me I look at it like this money comes and goes and some where down the line your gonna probably lose it or someone is gonna rob you and take it from you either way it's just a material not an asset. And sorry to tell you but your cucci holds no value and the day you gotta use lubricant to get you moist its a wrapped you can try an give it away and you will have no takers and then what card will you play then.
@@hercules4171 you must be incredibly sad irl. Who even thinks about taking back a gift given in good faith, given in a spirit of appreciation and warm feelings?? Only a miser with no real generosity.👀 In which case, you may want to look up the difference between “gift” and “payment,” and go after sex workers in your temporary employ?👀🤭
@@kxlot79 I wasn't going to respond to this but women like attention so imma give you what you looking foe, the way you think shows your age and I respect my elders, though I could get very disrespectful and your a woman so no need to get into no gangsta shit. Now gifts are given when they are deserved. But when you keep things from a pass relationship and your trying to move forward keeps you at a stagnant position in your next relationship. Because we see you're holding on to something an ex gave you why in the phuc would I wanna continue on with you. And F.Y.I though I haven't paid for no cucci with a gift 😆 on that note I don't recall having to ever pay for sex, if im giving you this pipe and you hitting me off with your cucci thats fair exchange like I said what value does your cucci hold that this pipe doesn't. Tell me I'll wait 🙃
@@kxlot79 That loser @cool breez is an angry misogynistic beta male replying to EVERY comment on here that challenges his comfort zone in treating women like s*** and encouraging abusive behavior. He’s replied to ALL of my comments in a very feminine and combative tone. He doesn’t want to learn or grow, he wants to insult women period. An immature time waster who thinks he’s the prize. 🙄🥱
Touching on that person who said her man found her level up book. All your level up notes should be kept in your phone with a passcode. If you must write it down then do so but then take scans of the pages and then destroy them. That’s just my POV.
First of all if you feel like you still have to level up on the guy that your are currently with why are you wasting his time let him go be great with someone else while you figure your life out and second, If your in a relationship why are you hiding shit or have a pass code on your phone yall say you want a trustworthy guy but yet your on some sneaky shit...as they say you for the streets.
@@hercules4171 #1 being in a relationship doesn't mean you have to share every damn thing... #2 men always have something to hide and sneak around as well with women so 🤷🙄
@@ShinySilverBunny if you speak on wanting a trustworthy partner you have to show you can be trusted. And men don't hide shit thing if you know better you'll do better and stop dealing with boys who pretend to be men because his age says he is point blank. Me myself I don't go through people's phone's but if I feel like you on some bullshit imma call you out then distance myself away from you I'm not with the childish ass mind games.
I think that applies to diaries as well. Be careful on what you write, if it's delicate destroy that evidence. You never know who is going to read your secrets. Yes, we all have secrets
If the guy your with isn't trying to push you to get to your best and you reciprocate the same why would you waste your time, seeds don't grow if you don't water them.
Men submit to worthy women. Why would you submit to someone that you birth/create? Do you submit to your children as well? Submit to a sandwich, at least it will nourish you. Nonsense.
Sarcasm. Thing is I wasn't amused one bit because that statement is true, I could give you the logic behind it but why waste the time you're only going to get combative by the time it's all said and done.
I've just noticed KS and his minions going after women who wear makeup or get some plastic surgery done. It isn't because of their love for natural beauty. It is because of the doors and options they open to women that marginalizes them.
Yes! My ex fiancée used to get strangely insecure on the few occasions when I’d mentioned I may consider a breast enhancement for MYSELF to feel better. He’d make the most obvious remarks like, “If you do that then you’re gonna change,” or “You’re going to get more confident and then you might be weighing out more options.” That told me everything about how insecure certain men are.
@@laundrybasket2689 At least your ex-fiance was honest about his insecurities. The KS followers are trying to make it look like a woman is condemned or bound to what nature has already decided for her and will never succeed with makeup and plastic surgery.
@@SonyaOutThere Oh, I agree with you. I also wouldn’t doubt my ex fiancée is a firm subscriber of content such as KS. His misogynistic rhetoric should be banned as well as anything related to MGTOW. Women have had it hard since the beginning of time, and channels like that just further encourage and continue all kinds of abuse toward girls and women.
This is straight bullshit we don't mind the make up on your face we don't mind as long as it's lightly applied, we don't won't are women walking around looking like they're about to go audition for a circus act...and far as the surgery if you go get it done at least do it to where it's damn near unnoticeable we don't wanna wake up next to the burger king mascot and as far as the breast and butt it's you females that have to worry about the long term effects us guys just don't wanna hear you about cry about it later because someone like me is going to tune out your voice and turn up the radio.
Lol. I sell out every jewellery that’s gifted from toxic people. I hate wearing them so i buy what i like with the money instead. I don’t want the soul ties.
Ohh yes! I had an ex fiancée whom I learned later on was a malignant and abusive narcissist. After he became comfortable and confident in our relationship he would make all kinds of comments which gradually eroded my self esteem and it even created a trauma bond. He was emotionally abusive and had a serious anger problem. I was too young and inexperienced with anything like this to know better. He used to hate ANY idea of me leveling up (physically or professionally), unless I was working a dead-end job that made me miserable. He wanted me unhappy so that HE was always looking good/better than anything else I had going on for myself or what I truly desired. I recall one day he literally yelled at me with “I feel like breaking up with you right now!” as he accused me of flirting with his cousin after I left a simple comment of “Happy Birthday” over Facebook. SMDH. There are SO many things I could write about him that were so messed up. My ex really is a basket case and should be locked up after all the BS he put me through. It’s been years since he left and I’m still not 100% right after all the emotional roller coasters. He’s married to a (and I am not exaggerating when I say this) VERY ugly woman, who I can only assume must have never put up with all the garbage 🗑 I did. Or maybe she does and is happy being his doormat.🤮 Bottom line: I have had to rebuild my self esteem and self worth, which has taken years of my precious time (after that breakup) for me to realize what an abusive, misogynistic monster that ex of mine truly is.
@@Sweetpea77799 Omg you went to the gym?! How dare you! Smh, lol. I swear, most men need to come with huge, red warning labels. It’s baffling how many of us go through wasting time and practically being tortured from jealous, insecure, evil men.
yes. love this! why i stopped spending time w/men who want to be w/u but don't give u no money & go to cheap places. & try to insult u to lower yo confidence. boy bye🏃♀️
I have to wear prescription glasses similar to yours and the men go crazy. I still do my makeup really nice though. Guys have a thing for the nerdy girl look 😜
The man I pined over for years fell in love with me after I leveled up and lost weight but then he cheated on me a lot due to his insecurities. Once I became the woman he wanted he couldn’t handle it.
Aunty shera let me tell you this you are stepping on their necks purrrr you look amazing 🥰😍😍 also shera you are the best at first I wasn’t listening very well I thought I was cute lol I changed my see through clothes got a beautician new hair purses levelled UP 🔝 and stopped feelin sorry for these men they are not trust worthy just use them while you can tuh 💅🏾💕
Facts sweetie. Put your foot down. I met a much older older guy and I do not play games with him. He opens the doors for me from the car to what ever door I walk thru. People just stare at me and him. Always dress nice, look nice and smell good, you will get whatever you want. I never ask him for anything he just gives me what he thinks I like. From trips to handbags to placing money in my bank account. Again, I never ask he just provides. Men like pretty women who look good. Listen to Shera, trust me....xo and I have my own career and my own place. He told me he likes to provide for me because I work and have my own life. Always stay busy
@@michelleapple1214 I love this! I’ve been doing this too now talk iS cheap actions only and it’s been working out so well omggg life is good when you treat yourself as the prize put yourself your feelings and career first I’m so happy for you 🥲 level up gang 💰
I have your long playing videos on 2 different devices at once, and it keeps me motivated when I need a level-up "booster-shot".I know Im not the only one! I appreciate your long videos.Its like having you visit.
@9min exactly. everything she say is micdrop. so proud of myself after 3 yeaars of on and off listening. I knew all along innately what she was saying was true, I just had to fully grow my backbone. As an independent, almost fully leveled up, near middle aged woman, got a backbone of steel. Shera speaks on it 95% of the time in my opinion. Of course our views are unique but all and all.... SHE GOT IT LIKE THAT AND SO DO WE! *1st comment ever*
51:12 The lady who wrote that is either ugly or young and insecure. What hes doing to her, he will do to you. Thats nothing to look forward to. When you're pretty, attention is boring not flattering. Another womans man creepily staring at you isnt a compliment...him providing for u is.
Jamaica isn’t impressive? Whether or not you can take yourself there it’s very impressive! From the beautiful people, to the food, to the natural beautiful resources. JA is very beautiful and just as impressive as anywhere else in the world.
Someone i know an older male asked me what man im doing this (diet and workout) for… omg i started laughing on the inside 😂😂😂 i told him for myself 🤣🤣🤣🤣 (we don’t think alike 😂😂😂)
@sheraSeven thank you so much for this! You are a phenomenal advocate for us women! I love love your channel! I always feel confident and healed everytime i’m on your channel. Thank you for all you do!
I was just watching one of your videos with terraine hicks the the Royal bloodline oudh video yesterday and omg your transformation is absolutely amazing to watch you over the years has been truly inspirational and I love this look thank you !!! 😊💛🧡❤
Looking nice ✔️ try some cat eye shape glasses also 😻 Talk like a librarian. “ Sssshhhh be quiet” 😂😂 I appreciate these laughs I needed a laugh today 👍🏾
My ex loved to tell me that I will never be able to make it as a RU-vidr and writer and now I have 2 books on Amazon that sell daily and my main channel has 30k subscribers and he tried to gaslight me and said that "it was his own insecurity talking" well, you are a 37 year old grown man, you should have thought better before emotionally abusing me until I join the pickme horde! I told him clearly we are NEVER getting back together, I only have time for SUCCESSFUL men that will be proud of my entrepreneurial mindset!
I know it's not my business but I think your natural lips are way sexier, more beautiful. They have a more natural, perfect, beautiful shape. But nevermind. You are the first level up channel I started to follow and though my perception is not the same as yours in general, I still look up to you, because essentially, you encourage us not to feel guilty about getting what we want and being all about ourselves. I'm leveling up from doormat to sugar baby. I take the money and go, my suggar daddy never even kissed me. And I'm starting to take pride instead of feeling guilty for using my feminine power. It's now. I won't have it forever.
... if it’s not your personal business... why comment that in the first place 😬. I don’t understand when people do this lol. What did commenting on her lips do for you? Then you proceed to compliment her channel... 🥴 But never mind
Men want you for a certain reason you also attract them for a reason which is why level up makes total sense to me now. If it's something like money they wouldn't move in desperation mode, sad to say. They wouldn't go to the extreme like other men who are either, good looking,wealthy, have a good body or all in one. They go after you because they are missing a factor that is mentioned above. Not to be racist or anything but that also indicates the flavors of options that you will have. Having just wealth defeats all the missing factors that they might not have,not totally but their options will go plenty. I always believed there is a reason for everything. Why does a man chase you everywhere in the first place? You offer them a solution and they decline. Either they want 1 or more things which isn't reasonable if it's not worth the risk if you look at the overall picture of the situation or person. A real alpha wouldn't go merry go round after merry go round. Even a person with just looks wouldn't take too much of an effort because they know they can get better or simply they don't need to do it because of how plenty their plate is or just not desperate. Now aside of what's mention above. Game also matters which relates to ego and pride. Like I said, there is a reason for everything. I don't blame the person at all. In my perspective, age and many factors contribute to it,some of them are already mentioned above.
Oo Shera love u were requested of to talk like a Liberian... She included loans and money 😆😆 and I thought l love money. I just love woman thank you 🙏❤️🤣
