I've been dating a man who fit my list almost to a tea! I thought it was too good to be true. We fasted and prayed together for God to show us if it was his will for us to be together. He mentioned to me one day that sometimes the "silent treatment" is the best thing to do. I thought nothing of it until one day when we disagreed on something, he gave me the silent treatment for days!!!!. It wasn't even a major disagreement! We never spoke again and I thank God that I saw his true colours before it got any deeper. He was also a "Christian". Counterfeits can sometimes appear to look, walk, and talk like the real deal. Be careful ladies n be very prayerful.
Miss Tee I greatly commend and admire that your love for yourself and God was greater than for this man. Many women, maybe even myself wouldn't have made this decision for numerous reasons. I am currently building my relationship with God after a recent breakup with a "counterfeit" too. This man seemed perfect 2. Took care of me better than no other; even better than my parents. PERFECT!! Eventually he started getting verbally, emotionally and psychologically abusive and NEVER apologized for his behavior. He'd always blame everything on me. He got physical 3 times and gave a "half-assed" apology where he basically blamed me for provoking his actions. Hope youre staying strong and that god will bless you soon with the beautiful spirited husband you deserve🌹❤
We all must Trust Yahuah,For there are ways that seems right to a man that leads to Death and Destruction. Yah shows us through the Ruach of his Glory the little things that we do not pick up on.
I can testify to this, I almost missed my now fiance. When he first showed interest in me, the first thing I said was the devil is a liar. I wasn't attracted to him. He was my height, darker and skinny. But the Lord gave me the same scripture in 1Samuel and reminded me He looks at the heart. Anyways I humbled myself and got to know him, and I fell in love with his Christlikeness! I love how effortless our love relationship is, no drama just a love founded in Christ and desire to love each other well! One year of courting long distance, one month of engagement, and we are getting married in a few weeks! The Sovereign Lord rules and reigns!
Glory to God! Mine was Almost the same. I rebuked the devil, I said he is not my type, he doesn’t look like my type 😂 but he is Gods type for me ! I blocked this person 3 times but our spiritual connection was undeniable. He is God sent because when I moved out of my own way and Came into alignment to his will, my heart was opened, my eyes unveiled and everything was just so effortless. We even have the same spiritual gifts and future kingdom goals are the same! Only God can do that!! He said he has ordained this! I am in awe of how God honors prayer and truly gives us the desires of our heart!🙏🏽 Jesus!!
May he grant you the desires of your heart and prepare you for the kingdom marriage he has in store for you. May the wedding bells ring in alignment with his perfect timing!!
Ladies you won't miss it, as long as you're in God will his will is going to be done. What we decide in our flesh God trumps that. The guy im talking to i dismissed him because he wasn't everything i was looking for but God gave me a change of heart during our time apart so when he came back i was able to receive. God is all knowing and he won't send you someone he know you're not ready to receive. Remember his will trumps all. So stay in the fathers will.💜🙏🏼
How long was your time apart and what caused the time apart and how is it now? Sorry for all the questions I’m currently going through time apart and giving God room for Him to align us back together or for Him to align me with who He feels is better, thanks in advance ❤️
Same here. My exfiance is a wonderful man . Loves me and loves Christ but struggling with anxiety disorder and cold feet. I broke it off for a season yet Lord is telling me he will heal him and we will marry. I love this man. Y'all pray for us.
Loveeexx email me if u want. danilaroche8@gmail.com. I have alot of discernment & wisdom. Maybe I can help you with your man. Trust me the Lord wants u married more than you do, but he has to get BOTH parties ready.
Girl I had a vision someone sent me a blouse just like what you're wearing but it was rose gold. The blouse looked big and honestly I didn't like it. But when I tried it on it fitted perfectly. My God I have been asking God for the revelation of this dream and bam there you are in a similar blouse with the title of this video. God is just too mind blowing. I thought that was what the dream meant but I never wanted to jump to conclusion
I can actually confirm everything you’re saying in this video because that’s my story. God blessed me with the most wonderful, amazing, Christ-like man 18 years ago and we are still going strong. May God our father continue to bless your marriage and baby Nathan as well as your daughter in Jesus name. You’re an inspiration for other women and hope you never change. Stay blessed my sister in Christ 🙏🏽
The men ive been meeting say they believe in “god” or they say I’m a Christian but no fruit. I definitely want someone I can share Christ with and have biblical conversations with. The men I meet are nice but I can’t share that part of myself because they don’t relate it falls on deaf ears. I am just working to stay encouraged.
You have a point. What about a brother who is not as mature in Christ but open and willing to grow? God may bring someone like that... Just be open. I believe God will bring your spouse soon.
Dani LaRoche I often think of that. So I try to ask God do I have crazy expectations of where this person should be within their walk. I’ve recently had to lay the desire back at the alter and say God you know who I need better then I do. Thank you for the encouragement I appreciate it 💕🙏🏾 God bless you sis
I thought my wife and I would grow together but Lust was the Foundation of our Relationship. And when i left the church where we both attended because I wasnt growing no.matter how much i devoted myself to the fruit. I realize that I only joined the church because of my wife, it was my Lust not my Trust in Yah. Now i feel like we are in opposition on many things.
😂 am I the only 1 ? Almost every of the post relates to me ( at the very point ! ) 😄 Amen to the msg ♥️ and I'm going ask something that I suppose many would ask... What's the age difference between you 2? :)
2017 God told me I’m already friends with the guy I’m going to marry and I was sooooooooo mad. LIVID. I begged God to give me someone else 😂😂 3 weeks later he shows me the guy and then BOOM I instantly loved him. It’s like scales fell off my eyes and heart in that moment. Still in the waiting/wilderness stage but I can see the way things fall into place is going to be so divine and unexpected.
Thank you for this encouragement sis, our sister Shaneika Byars said the same thing, our husbands will not be our type 😲. We have to focus on Kingdom over everything and accept our Abba fathers will no matter what it maybe. For those who have lists, you may want to bin them lol and just be willing and open to what Abba has in store for us. 🙏🏾💯❤
My sister I love you in Jesus, from day one the Father have bring me to your Chanel he use you so much into the life of his daughters, who are Struggling. Your a Anointing woman of God.😇💜
Conformation my Sister, I had to summit my list yesterday to God, and I repent at his feet. Because I know it’s not my will but His will be done. The Lord also told me, we all need to Examine the list we have that is why most of us are still single because of the list we have it’s not of his will.
There was something that Ive been thinking about soulmate and I just realized that a lot of times we want qualities that we dont even possess like someone wanting a rich person but they aint rich.Plus Im sure we dont fit 100% of the description of their preferences either lol They may as well think "oh God I woudnt date someone like that" lol It seems like we expect some angel while we are just terribly HUMAN.
My blessings come the way the Most High reveals and shows me them in the rare gift of prophetic visions and dreams. Since my youth I've had the rare gift of seeing the future and it comes to pass exactly the way the Most High has revealed to me. Since my teenager age I've been having dreams and visions about my future husband and I already know his completion height and heart because the most high has revealed it to me. Became I am always at his feet in the throne room there are no confusions about what he shows me because he speaks to me clearly. Also I've had friends an additional people's prophesy into my life regarding his Inward and outward as well and without them knowing the prophetic dreams the most high has shown me they actually match the vision God has shown me too. So I personally believe he will come the way the most high have shown me and revealed to me (the most high shown me what to expect so there is clarity and no confusion of just accepting anyone into my life who's interested in me) prophetically the most high is always true to his prophetic visions, purpose and revelation.
I find it hard to skip your videos , I watch until the end . So much wisdom and revelation. Truly Holy Spirit led. Keep doing what you doing, definitely learning a lot and God is truly using you.
wow Woman of God thank you for this powerful encouragement! I was one of those people who had some of those carnal non negotiables on my list! had I not put aside the flesh and decided to be obedient to God's will for my life I would have missed my blessings! How God joined myself and my husband is a divine connection, and your story is so similar or resonates in many ways!we have been married over 3 years now! I am jamaican also my husband is a pastor and we pastor a congregation here in the UK. We are still trying for the fruit of the womb, please pray for us on this matter as well.
I know what I like but I was willing to let that go when he revealed to me what the most important thing is. So I focus on looking for Christ in him first before I consider his physical attributes. No matter how handsome a guy is, if he doesn't have what's important, I cut him loose. No time to waste. Within 30 minutes of conversation with a guy I should be able to tell if there's potential there or not.
That height one stung at me honestly 😩 I’ve dated some short men but mostly tall men. I’m more attracted to tall men than short men. I’m praying that He helps me with this one. Thanks for sharing.
I believe that I am in the season of marriage. This is just confirmation, because one morning when I was asleep, I heard the Lord say to me would you give up your will for My will. My spirit responded, yes. Of late these types of messages about the way my blessing would look is not what what I expected. Your video is confirmation. I am like you Kadshina. I cannot marry someone I am not attracted to or who is younger than I. However, I pray for willing obedience, because Daddy God knows what is best for me.
Wow! I prayed for specifics when it came to the gentleman “I” wanted. God went above and beyond, I never mentioned the physical appearance. I prayed for the fruits of the spirit. The thing is... he’s on another continent😂. But with God all things are possible.
I would not describe it as a "unnatural connection," I would describe it as a supernatural connection - it's just-- you feel it deep in your soul. You just can't help it. There is no other explanation than that it comes from God. THIS is what a soul-mate is.
WoW😳...maybe , probably most definitely the reason why, The LORD💖 told me, my BOAZ is pursuing me....BUT....HE HASN'T TOLD ME WHAT HE LOOKS LIKE🤗... 🎶💃♥️🕺🎶
That thumbnail says it all!!! You looking like "Yeap... God did it!" 🤣🤣🤣 *Update: Now that I've watched the video, I still say "THE THUMBNAIL WAS ON POINT!!!" Thank you for sharing this!!! We so need to hear this, instead of being stuck on "what we think is good". Don't be a Jonah ladies!
Beautiful testimony and reminder that Gods' ways are not our ways, nor are His thoughts our thoughts. PERIOD Thank you for sharing this sister, it was a blessing to listen to 🙌🏾☺
I know I've missed so many blessing over the years and now that I'm older I see things more clearly. I've missed out on a life partner and careers in the past but now my heart and mind is open to so many possibilities.
Yes! The dream God gave me showed me a black man who was a preacher. Handsome though God showed me in dream through the mans words. I want you to see my heart. Don’t focus on my look. Just my character.
I love that you talked about our WILLINGNESS. The Lord showed me that He wants us to willingly allow Him into our situations because He is not going to force us even though He wants us to follow His plans
I understand! Have asked the LORD to help me let go of "sun-kissed and chocolate-dipped" skin color preference I have. 😂 When I rewrote the qualities and characteristics of my future husband in April, I excluded all physical descriptions. I know the LORD knows what I like BUT what/who He knows is best for me has absolute presidence. 🙌🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽
Thank you Kashena, the Lord is using you and your husband's testimony to give hope to many others. Thank you for sharing and bringing much hope to us (your brothers and sisters in Christ). May God bless and provide for you and your family abundantly. Keep shining for Christ!
I am EXACTLY the same in regards to age. I’ve said on SEVERAL occasions that I am completely against a man being younger than me. We could be born in the same year and I’m like “nah, that’s a no for me bruh.” Also, I read 1 Samuel 16:7 LAST NIGHT girl. The lord had me reading that last night.
Well I was dating someone and at first I wasn't attracted to them I actually cried because I felt sorry for not thinking he was handsome and guess what?Months later I never felt more attracted to someone in my life lol I was like "I would even trade a famous good looking guy for him.I would rather to have him because he suddenly he felt extremelly attractive to me " Even the traits I didnt like I was like "wow that's cute" lol once the cupid hit you are done.
Hallelujah Jesus ✝️🔥such a precious, beautiful, powerful and encouraging testimony and Word Amen thank You ABBA Father allowing me te hear and receive this message praise you, Lord
Just was studying this a few days ago, As we as a society are so set upon our appearance on the outside to cover up the not so good looking on the inside, because we want others to think we have it all together, but The Lord God Almighty knows that in our heart we are crying out for something so much more than the Approval of Man , but a Savior a Redeemer ,a strong tower all in all . I pray for us all to not only look as to be completed., But to actually be Complete internally in The Lord Jesus, I pray Amen Amen & Amen.😇 Blessings Sister in Christ. Thanks
When I was 22 years old I never believed I could be with someone younger than me either, but God took that lie away by showing many other examples where the woman is older than the man. It was more just a cultural thing for me that I didn't think it's okey to be with someone younger. Now I'm open for meeting someone younger. But I guess it goes the other way for me, because I don't want someone much older than me...
How often do Gods blessings come packaged differently than we expect !! I’m SO glad God opened your heart to receive your spouse !! Thank you for sharing your story !!
Thank you so much for this word and your testimony! It really ministered to me about my standards and the list I currently have now. I really don’t want to miss out on God’s blessings by being to strict on the husband I want him to bless me with. I’m gonna pray and ask God to help me have a open heart ❤️ about who he wants to bless me to have as my husband...
Wow this is so similar to my story with my husband, I almost turn him down because he was younger than me, eventhough he checked off everything else on my list.😀
wow what i wrote down is the same as urs to a T except I asked God for a man in the ministry cos that's where I'm moving my life.This is crazy cos I have him in my head and he looks just like that list 😁😁
First things first, you cannot tell God what is best for you. He gives you what he sees is a match and you pray about it and build on it and trust that it is Gods blessings.
I would say ladies this is an awesome message for we shall not be carnal minded buuuuut...God gave me the same scripture, and the person who came to me was not sent from the Lord but every time I prayed for confirmation, signs would work in my favor that things were going right, however, I had a gut feeling because of the looks that this person was not for me but I relied on thats same verse and the signs of confirmation going forward, sad to say that guy was the Devil in disguise, try to destroy me and everything that was attached or related to me and if it weren’t for God’s Grace and infinite mercy I would’ve been destroyed. I am saying all this to say..stick with your list because.,if you ask God for a fish He is not going to give you a snake!
I did a video about the counterfeit as well. No one will check everything from your list. In all this use the wisdom and guidance from the Hy Spirit. We all have different experiences.
Beauty For Ashes so true, it’s left me at a different mindset all together. It’s almost a catch 22. Hit or miss, but I do know now once you see any red flag to move on, thank you 🙏🏾
Hallelujah !🙏 I subscribed to you when I saw we had the same name Beauty for Ashes lol. Very profound message ...and yes ma’am when God blesses you sometimes it’s in ways you would have never imagined. I know this firsthand.
You are such a blessing!😭 I can relate to your testimonies and spiritual battles. It's like every video is a checking point in my life and I am getting answers/directions to all my questions on this long wait and desire for marriage. You are truly a blessing for me and God speaks to me through you. May God continues to abundantly bless you and your family. ❤
Wow.. You have just settled something I have been wrestling with . you are such a blessing and every time I listen to your testimonies... I get so encouraged
Good day my sister much peace and blessings unto you. I finish my morning prayer not to long ago in my prayer I ask GOD that my husband will be attracted to me it's funny how you spoke on the characteristic of a person's inner self, for me I have dated some less than non attractive men in my life I would not really date a very attractive man I had children gain weight had c-sections from bearing children and now they are older gravity has hit some places on my body and I am just not happy although I am working on walking , exercise and trying to eat a little healthier let's face it things are what it is on this morning I didn't stop to think that GOD could be saying to me that this man my husband has a good heart and what I worried about him accepting my flaws shouldn't be an issue I am so nervous about it to the point where it consumes my thought of I hope he is attracted to me. I am open to receiving my husband please pray for us for GOD to give me a sign out my husband and how to receive hi with open arms and how to love him. GOD bless!
Hi Kasheena, you and I share some of the same values my age limit is 5 years! I’m learning to trust GOD and not my desires because at the end of the day, God knows what’s best for me !!🙌🙌
Thank you for this beautiful word amen so true 💖🙏🏽😃 I recently Had a dream that I got in engage 🥰 I’m believing god for it I have been praying from my future husband since I was 16 I am now 19 turning20
OMG!!!!!!! I am currently talking to someone who is younger than me and he is concerned that I won't love him as much as he loves me because I'm older than he is... It may not be God ordained but I just doesn't find it a coincidence but maybe a sign as to how I stumbled upon this video....
Girl please pray for me.. I'm based in South Africa.. I'm unemployed and a single mom raising a 8 year daughter.. It's tough.. I need finances.. I'm Christian as well waiting for the Lord to bless me with a spouse.. I left an abusive man 2 years ago and I've been single since..
I'm praying for you sis! I left an abusive relationship two years ago also. I have two little boys. Also currently unemployed. Going to school and waiting on God's promises. Keep taking steps forward. God is with you.
I’ve been dating the same man for six years I wasn’t attracted to him he’s 6”4 I’m 5”4..he was different from my type we are interracial couple hes white and I’m black more so are personality differ. He’s ten years older and had served two terms as a marine he’s 43🥰 I’m 30 . We first started dating in 2014 . Yes a no no for me too was marrying someone younger . I’m not married ,but I gave the lord my list such as ; reliable , trustworthy, genuine , respectful, loyal , caring . I don’t really have a appearance list more characteristics. However ,my type is a bit tall for any race dark or lighter hair or eyes 👀. I didn’t find out my boyfriend age until four months into the relationship I was shocked because I never dated someone that much older . Just hearing a lot of marriages testimonies/ prophetic words these last months .
Thank you for sharing sister in Christ. God bless your marriage ❤️ I’ve updated my list several times and my focus has changed and I want to align with God’s choice. I have had “counterfeit” come my way & am praying that God makes this person clear to both Him & I.
