Very cool video A month ago, I ended a five-year relationship. My soulmate made the decision to walk away from me, and even though I've done everything in my power to get him back, I can't help but feel disappointed because I can't see my life with anyone else. I want to say that I've tried everything to stop thinking about him, but I simply can't. I miss him so much and I don't know why I'm saying this here.
I learnt the hard way that saying goodbye to someone you love is difficult when a 12-year relationship ends. But I was unable to let him go, so I made every effort to get him back. I eventually sought aid from a spiritual counsellor, and he was able to assist me in getting him back.
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Heres my situatuon brad. What about an ex wife that filed for divorce 2 weeks ago amd currently lives together with 3 kids. Ive listened to your no contact but in my situation how much no contact or contact or what do you recommend.
How long have you two been separated? Take my free quiz at www.marriageguy.com/quiz But for reference, the tips from this vid should apply (look for the blue thumbnails on my channel) here: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-Rke_l-Uxupw.html but if you have a unique situation, consider signing up for my Mend the Marriage coaching service, at www.marriageguy.com/coaching
Hi again! Being married/ living together is one of the exceptions to the no contact rule, seeing how you have shared responsibilities together. Please refer to this vid: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-Rke_l-Uxupw.html
30 days no contact is nothing. In these dynamics, one or both people are insecurly attached and need sometimes a year or more to work though issues in order to have healthy relationships. Unless this process has started, it will end the same way. If the avoidant partner doesnt want to work on it, dont expect anything different.
Hey Brad. I enjoy your videos except that I don't believe 30 days is a magic formula for a no-contact period. Instead I believe that indefinite no contact is the way to go. THEY have to come to YOU. Also just wondering whether age gaps can be a factor? My ex, with whom I was falling in love after 3 months of dating (plus he'd asked me out 3 times over 7 years - COVID lockdown got in the way on the last occasion but we finally got together Feb 2024) is 15 years younger than me (although I look the same age as him - if anything I look younger as he's a bit overweight). As he didn't have the manners to given me even ONE reason why he disappeared, I have no idea if the age thing is it, or if it's something else. I have been in strict no contact for the past 2 months now and do not plan on breaking it, even though he had a big milestone birthday last weekend. I myself dated and was briefly engaged to a man who was 18 years older than me so I don't believe age gaps in themselves are insurmountable barriers.
I don't know. I saw very closely how a woman broke up with a man she was in love with for years. And then the man really disapeared. Total no contact. Within some weeks the woman found another man and moved on. And when the ex finally sent some messages a year later she just did not care, the ex was nothing for her.
hi! I'm from South India... can I use the 30 day no contact? or does this apply to men based on where they belong to? he started limiting communication for nearly 4 months now... but we talk for 2 to 5 mins once in 3 - 4 days... he's done a lot of help to me... he has taken care of me... he's now telling that leaving me is difficult for him but he's afraid that we can't be happy together... he wants to be friends... what should I do now? please help Brad
Nice work not sending her a happy birthday. Blocking indicates she is still emotionally attached to you - stay in no contact. She will most likely reach out but do no respond until she says something significant - humble and regretting the break up.
It's only been two weeks of no contact and she contacted me too know the name of some pills for headaches. It confused me so I just gave her the answer and the conversation ended. I still have curiosity cuz I still miss her but I been trying hard not to think of her but it's been hard if she keeps popping like that each 2 weeks and she originally broke up with me. Any advice? We broke up almost 2 months ago but on those 2 months she broke no contract 4 times for simple questions.
At this point, you either move on or try to get her back. So what's it gonna be? If you want to try to get back with your ex, then you can reach out to your ex after the 30 days straight of "no contact" period is over. In doing so, it's best to treat the situation with fresh eyes, so it's crucial to keep things fun and light and gently coax your ex into responding the same way. Here are the basics on what to do when it comes down to it. I also suggest you watch from start to the end and NOT skip any parts so you can maximize these tips: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-7PcfGeJqUYo.html including asking yourself these very important questions to ask yourself before starting the process: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-t6I5k55pnCE.html but if you need the step-by-step process on what to do, including what to text or say during the process, either hire me as your coach, refer to my other vids or get the 2.0 version of my Ex Factor Guide at www.breakupbrad.com
So me and my ex were together for about 8 months and were long distance. We broke up because I wanted him to communicate properly and he didn't want to. We've been in no contact for 3 weeks and 2 days and during that time he's blocked me on all his social media and he heard me talking on the phone with his mom and telling her what happened when she asked me. When the breakup first happened I did a little bit of begging and pleading and afterwards sent clean slate text #2 and started no contact. Do you think I still have a chance of getting him back?
The issue with distance paired with his communication skills, or lack thereof, are huge obstacles. As you've noticed, the distance will always be a major culprit. Is this long distance scenario temporary? Because if it isn't, then it may be as good as over. Watch/review and apply the pointers here first: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-GQY4N04uvtA.html AND ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-5nfWRJRrnAs.html However, if you believe your situation is unique and there may still be a chance between you two, then let's take a look at your situation in-depth via my one-on-one coaching session at www.breakupbrad.com/coaching
I’m just a stranger on the internet, so take my advice however you like, but if even if he does come back to you, you should pay very close attention to his behavior, and keep paying attention. I don’t know how you broke up with him but if you gave him time to get right, and you should really consider how much time you gave him and how much you demanded (not saying you did it wrong, just telling you to think critically about it), then he still made the choice to not fix his behavior. If he comes back and doesn’t respond to your needs in the slightest, then he doesn’t understand and he’s not trying to. And if he says sorry and goes strong but only for a few weeks, then you still need to maintain your standard. In other words, you might want to rethink if you even want him back. If he’s not the right partner and won’t be responsive or considering then it’s not going to ever work out, sorry.
Hey brad my ex bf wished me happy birthday and also put a story on his insta wishing me birthday as we follow each other but he had hidden my user id and didn't write my name , seemed like he didn't want to reveal to anyone that this story is for me he only posted a pic of mine on his insta story, what it means?(He was also dating someone else but broke up 2-3 months ago and still they follow each other on insta)
