A person should stand up for his or her spouse when his or her family is wrong. Too often we allow our family members to trample over our spouses leaving them in tears, helpless & even suicidal.
im a christian and I have to say mufti menk is the best preacherci have ever heard. He is funny and yet that is tue very thing that carries his message in a powerful way. Bismillah al raheem al rahman wa alieakum salaam Mufti Menk
+steven rowe thats good brother Islam is not like the Western media portraits it it's all about worshipping one God and thats Allah (SWT) and following the teachings of the best of creation the prophet Muhhamad ibn Abdullah (PBUH), its all about peace love and harmony its the inly divine religion, learn more about the Quran and the Sunnah of the prophet (PBUH) also watching these type of videos will help alot, try doing all of this as soon as possible because shaytan will try to push you away from it. May Allah (SWT) guide you and give you strength to to find the truth incha Allah
+steven rowe You are very close to us brother. Peace be upon you. And when they listen to the revelation received by the Messenger, thou wilt see their eyes overflowing with tears, for they recognise the truth: they pray: "Our Lord! we believe; write us down among the witnesses. ~ Quran 5:83
some girls aren't just suffering at the hands of the mother-in-law also the husband sisters and brothers wife's just because the husband is too much of a coward to stand up for his wife
Sarah Dunn sister May Allah (swt) protect u and u r son ! Be strong as a mother Marium ra. She raised her son all by her self ! Lots of love for u guys !!
Sharm's Kitchen True say. I Got married in Pakistan. Hubby has been in this country good few years but doesn't take responsibility. Been to hajj. But his still the same
Every so called practising sister should watch this too, then they may realise how hypocritical many of you sisters are too ;) Don't automatically assume this message is for us brothers and men only, this will be your own ignorant foolish downfall sister :(
I’m a Christian but I really love this man. May God bless you. Your videos are really blessing my life. Your messages are so educative and would make our homes and the world around us a better place
That’s what Allah teaches in the Quran that’s true Islam . Allah is the true name of God the creator Arabic Name for God . If you love this mans talk you would love is Islam this religion May Allah guide your heart to the truth Ameen
zee Zia Brother let him just watch and learn we should try to give them knowledge about islam and they can decide for themselfs not forcing it upon them because if they have the knowledge then Allah (swt) will guide them if he chooses to and missguided if he chooses to
i'm not from english speaking country and my english is very bad but his speech is very easy to understand. may Allah SWT grant him and us jannah. ameen.
He is only Sheikh, Imam who has said something Important in Islam about women. He has shown that women are not a burden. While so many women suffer from their marriage as men always take women for granted and their punching bags. So many Imam could ve step forward with this issue which is the main, the main of the basic of Life and could ve saved so many marriages in their towns. Thank You so much Mufti Menk , you are genuinely good, honnest and touching.
Brother , join him , he will lead you to the straight path to Paradise. And Only if God ( Creator of Mankind , and all that is in existence in the heavens and Earth )
I have watched a lot of his videos on facebook and here on youtube. This guy deserves a gold medal for he is changing the globe into a better world. I am not a Muslim but I love your messages. Your words are making changes in the society.
What a energy this man has been blessed with. As always he is right on the spot. Ma sha allah. I like that ending note where he mention we doesnt need to know everything about our spouse. Absolutely right. Give them their space. May allah grant us understanding. Ameen
I am catholic. My family from Lebanon. We have always been Catholic, which is why my great grandmother came here. In my opinion this man is respectable, kind, honorable and even funny at times.
+Joseph Carey He represents what islam is about and hope it enters your heart to look into islam my dear brother. I wish you peace and blessings to you and your loved ones...
satish reddy Mufti Menk is what he is because of Islam. I am writing this, but I cannot assure I'll be able to read your reply any sooner. Coz death waits for none. It's never too late. Try with genuine intentions. Good luck, best wishes.
@@naveeedd there are other muslim scholars in islam,but they never talk about serious issues,they only care for men's sexual desires,respect,love,superiorty,taking care and for women only obedience and patience left,specially here in pakistan😠😠
some husband's just like to stay away from their wife and kids 99.9% of the time on purpose, and torture their wife and kids emotionally with separation.
Relationships are not one sided. It takes 2 to show respect & love. Watch the movie Fireproof, & Courageous. Read the book the 5 love languages, love & respect, and love dare, books. Work on these with your husband. Relationships take 2 (1 man & 1 woman), not 1 person to make the relationship to work. Treat each other as equals, for your relationship to work. Man must also put effort, time, emotion, care, love, into his wife, for the relationship to work.
This man is amazing its comforting to know a man of such great knowledge is exactly what i believe in too. May allah grant us all with pious partners with imaan.
Look at the difference in the teachings of Mufti menk and zakir naik! I wish every Muslim, well not just Muslims, non- Muslims too follow your advice. It feels so good to listen to you☺️
"A person should stand up for his or her spouse when his or her family is wrong. Too often we allow our family members to trample over our spouses leaving them in tears, helpless & even suicidal."
My wife sent me a link of this video to me....😪😪😪!! I know she's going through trials,May Allah make it easy for her and me to get through this In Sha Allah.I love you Sweetheart
A person should stand up for the justice for or against his spouse. Your spouse will respect you when you do that otherwise you will become a football between team spouse and team family members leaving the husband helpless and even it may lead into a bad situation but, when you stand with the haqq Allah will stand by your side.
I have learned do much about Islam through listening to Mufti Menk. One of his videos showed up on my You Tube. I believe God is using him to deal with my attitude towards Islam. It has changed Masha Allah.
Im a shia and i listen to many of his lectures. Just because i follow ahlulbayt does not mean i can not learn lessons and morals from this great man mashallah may allah bless him and lengthen his life inshallah.
I appreciate the advice on making Dua. However when it comes to great islamic scholars, you should know that that is a dua most of us use constantly when mentioning their name because we want allah swt to preserve their life so they can continue teaching all of us about the ummah of rasoulallah saws. Even if it is a fixed time, the dua itself shows allah swt how appreciated the scholar is and that is enough for the scholars to receive plenty of blessings(inshallah) just by any muslim making any sort of dua for them. However, I do appreciate you looking out and giving me advicd, I just wanted to give you my perspective.
You are shia and do you know the teachings of shia? It's in their books they hate the righteous calips. They curse the prophet wife aisha our mother. They call out ya ali instead of calling out Allah Shia is a not Muslim. Maybe you are shia by name and you don't really know about the fundamental teachings of shia but you should learn.
I know allll about shia islam thank you for being ignorant though. Me and this person had a difference but still respected each other and you come and be completely disrespectful. As fot aisha please research battle of jamal and find out why she went to war with ali and her own brother muhammed ibn abu bakr fought alongside ali. Come on if you want to debate ill go for days its no problem but as a shia i must try and unite all muslims so i watch other lessons and appreciate all even if we have difference theological conclusions. But unfortunately there are muslims like you who are ignorant and do not respect anyone with a different view. Even if you want to say we are wrong ok no problem your choice but atleast look at how the prophet pbuh treated peoole from other religions all with respect as equals in humanity as long as thry didnt try and stop his message. We both agree about his prophethood but we follow his bloodline just like the quran follows bloodlines from other prophets but no the lastmessenger allah doesnt choose his family he lets society pick the leader from his friends. Come on lets open our minds here and see the truth.
Tania K sorry if I come across rude to you sister forgive but it makes me VERY angry when there are sect of people mocking the prophet wife which is aisha the mother of all the believers and YET they claim we are Muslims. How can someone say understand my perspective while his perspective is mocking aisha peace be upon her. If you actually study shia it's in their book full of cursing and contradictions and worshipping imams Again sorry if this is rude but it's a fact i can bring evidence . No need to sugar coat it or pretend
Thank you thank you thank you Sheikh. Am currently going through this with my husband's family. Wallahi for no reason other than their jealously and Control (wanting to control me, use me e.g wanting me to do their housework, teach their kids etc). They spread false rumors about me, disrespect my family and ganging up on me anywhere they meet me. I don't feel defended/protected by my husband.
Almas Mohammed I do understand . I got married in Pakistan . How much I done for them. But still get rubbed in my face. I get used from my husband. Ones he get what he wants . E.g. money etc
MashaAllah! Mufti menk is my fave sheik. Everytime I want to destress and clear my mind I tend to listen his dawah, he is basing in reality with surah reminders.
MashaAllah, dear Mufti Ismail Menk, may Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala continuously reward you with all rahmat possible so that you may continue help others, all the way. And may Allah also make many more copies of people like you so that more people could be helped to see, understand and go to the right direction. Amin. Salaam from Indonesia.
Thank you so much for the awareness. Young married couples don't know their right and as a result they r not able to grow happily in their married life.
Ma-sha-Allah. Am so addicted to your lectures.May the Almighty Allah bless you abundantly to continue guiding us n spread more sense to the world.Indeed you're a gift to this world .
Mufti is one of the best whom well explain reality of life comparing with the religion. May Allah! always bless him 2 make to guide people in your path.
salam.. where can I find real man like that.. who can lead me and my children to jannah. i tried my best already to make my husband happy. but stil he hurts me. now everyday I suffered, no more laughter only tears.. I pray to Allah oneday he wil changed, may Allah guide him to the right path and if I'm not good for him may Allah send him someone who can make him complete n forget all the bad things he do. Ameen..
wa alaykumu salam.sister am not married yet may ALLAH grant me a good wife but ,the best advice i can give is be patient sister ,this life is full of tests and problems and make more du'a .who knows may be ALLAH will give u an obedient and pious children who will make u forget your suffering.again this life isn't perfect every one of us has special task ,some have mental disease,some physical disease ,others have poverty etc.be patient sister and may ALLAH bless u and your husband
Salam sister, may Allah accept your du'a...the only thing I can suggest is probably pray at night..a few hours before fajr prayer. Hope it helps, I pray that my mom would have the happiness that she deserves as well
Dina Larry wa salaam sister, im so very sorry to hear your situation!!! I would not advise you to leave your husband right away, as all marriages have ups & down. Make duaa as much as possible. try counseling. . now if all that has been tried & you're finding no solution dear, then alhamdoulilah it is your right to get a divorce. May Allah swt help you both inA ♡
Dina Larry Marriage is a sacred and the first relationship between two human beings (Adam & Eve) created by Allah Almighty. Our biggest enemy the devil always tries his best to destroy our relationships, to destroy our and our children's Deen. Recite Sura Baqra every day or play it on a computer/laptop. InshaAllah Allah will bring peace to your family. Try to pray all five prayers on the right times and remember Allah by saying SubhanAllah, AlhamduLillah, Laa-elahaellAllah, AllahuAkbar as much as possible.
I'm a Buddhist girl from Sri Lanka.i really respect his speeches and teachings.As I'm suffering alot from these problems,I forgot what is love is and how to feel love from husband.felt alone, insulted.my husband's mom gave permission to my husband that he can talk and keep his ex girl friend as his so called friend and can keep contact with her.she also told him it's not wrong to talk with females those who I felt and I saw who behave bad with him in messages (beyond friend ship).with her permission,next day he started talking to that girl, and message me telling I'm informing u that Im talking with that girl. My heart cried and I asked from myself "does he really respect me as his wife" even after this his mom says he is right.i m feeling alone ,feel to cry how he can disrespect me
No, he does not respect you. He has shown and proven that by carrying on with extramarital relationships with girls who he is not married to. You can choose to stay and cry all life by tolerating his abuse in the name of your culture and community or you can choose to divorce him and live with dignity because Allah has prohibited that the believers suffer oppression and made divorce an option. The choice is yours.
for men, if you don't really sure enough what the of marriage, or if you think that the women is just a disposal fun, or if you think that you still a child of mommy's dotting beloved son, or if you think that marriage is such jailed burdensome bond, if you think that marriage is for gaining anything ( like to have offsprings, or partner of sex' or if you think that marriage is just a ritual culture for publications. better for men to just live alone. so no case, no burden, no jailed no anything. you will fully freedom.
im not being rude but no attention given to your rude remarks because what you said was either childish or selfish, when did i say that woman are for fun only or they are not to be respected? but yeah some of them they do all evil things these days like cheating on their husbands, curse on their own parents and worse of all keep their husbands away from parents
Subhanallah.. i really respect this man, i like whatever he speech, i like him as brother muslim.. Great greeting From Indonesia for all of you brother and sister
***** Thanks snoopysoleil for answering my question. OK....if Muhammad was aged 25 when he married Khadijah aged 40 in 595 AD, did Khadijah bear all 7 children? Isn't it unusaul for a handsome young man of 25 to marry a woman 15 years older than him? Have you come across this practice in the Islamic Sunnah & Ummah....men marrying older women after all this is an example of the Islamic Prophet for his Ummah to emulate & follow. If the children were born every year, Khadijah would have been 48 years old when the last child was born? Is this possible in a old desert lifestyle ...where people aged & died in their 40's & 50's? Is it true that Khadijah was already twice widowed when she married Muhammad in 595? If 2 of his 3 sons died, why did this happen to the sons of Prophet of Allah? What happened to this 3rd son? Is Fatimah the mother of Imam Husseyn; the one who was butchered by Sunnis in Karbala in 658 AD? If Muhammad's 3rd wife Aisha (aged 6) ...was his favourite, why did they not have children? Some present day Arab Royals (King of Morocco, King of Jordan, Imam Aga Khan etc) claim direct lineage to Prophet Muhammad, is this accurate? Is Muhammad buried in Medina? Can a DNA comparison be made to establish if Muhammad is the close relative of these people....& also if the genes have any divine power? For instance....will Allah intervene to prevent Muhammad's grave being disturbed? Some Muhammadens have told me that this grave is a complete lie....to fool his followers & that the grave contains the body of some commoner & not Muhammad! How would you know without opening it & examining it for evidence!!?
***** Hi snoopysoleil84....thank you for trying to answer some of the questions I posed to you. Perhaps, other Muslims reading this might try to answer these questions too. My response:- 1. If the Arabs at the time of Khadtijah were bad at record keeping....how good then is the record keeping...which subsequently was used to compile the Islamic Quran ...or the Hadiths (oral traditions) 2. If the twice widowed Khadijah had produced children from her 2 previous husbands...who & where are they? How many children did Khadijah produce all together from her 3 husbands? 3. As to the deaths of the 2 infant sons of Muhammad, if Allah is the creator of all ...why would Allah allow his creation to die? Also...It has been proven that infant deaths occur due to premature births, under developed birth canal in very young mothers (the primary cause of deaths in mothers & babies in developing countries) and poor ante-natal provision......The births & deaths have nothing to do with the unseen Allah! 3. If Husseyn was not killed by a Shia or Sunni but by a criminal...what were his reasons to do it? 4. If Husseyn was the clear blood line of Prophet Muhammad (his grandson), why was there any confusion as to the rightful heir to his empire? 5. There was NO Sunni Shia separation by 650 AD....only political support & adherence at that time (to Mu'awi & to Husseyn). Does that not lead to believe that Islam is a political, religious faction....rather than a true spiritual faith? 6. If the killing of Imam Husseyn was a criminal act & not a Sunni act to stop his followings.....why was his severed head taken all the way back to Damacus, Syria....to be displayed for 6 moths in the Ummayad Mosque as a clear warning to Muslims...particularly the followers of Imam Hussyen??? His severed head is now interred in the Ummayad Mosques....& is daily visited by grieving Shias to this day. 7. You say the 'criminals' strayed from the path of faith.....what do you mean by this? What was it ..that they strayed from? 8. Mu'awi was the designated Caliph...who moved the Islamic Caliphate from Mecca to Damascus (an Assyrian Christian city conquered by invading Arab Islamic armies). What qualifications did Mu'awi possess over Imam Husseyn...to remain with & not stray from the faith? 9. If you & the Islamic Ummah are unsure about Aisha's age during her marriage to Prophet Muhammad; how can you be so sure of the recording of your Hadiths & even your Quran? By the way....where is the original Quran...the ones the scribes wrote on? I refer to the pieces of wood, stones, bones, parchment, palm leaves? Did you know that some of those leaves were eaten by goats (quran & all)? Or why did the Yemeni & Saudi government intervene to stop German scholars analyzing & studying a very old Quran found in the loft of an old house in Yemen? 10. You refer to traditions of the old Meccans....are some of those old traditions still retained today? I refer to the Haj, the circambulation of the ka'aba, the shaving of the head, the 2 piece cloth, the abolution, touching the Hajr Aswad? The word ka'aba is not of Arabic origin...where is this from? (the proper Arab word for the ka'aba is Baitulla al Hahram) If those traditions are considered pagan & un-Islamic, why has Islam retained them even today? 11. If Islam is tolerant, why did prophet Muhammad not build himself a new mosque in Mecca in 622 AD, instead of destroying the place of worship of the so called Pagans in 632 AD? Is that why, Sunnis...to this day follow that example & destroy places of worship of other faiths....including those of fellow Muslim Shias & Ahmadis? Please answer & put questions to me as well.
Bro. Ahmed Irfan, Did u hear the whole massage clearly? What ever u r saying Bro. Mufti Menk said Beautifully. He did not said to disrespect Mothers but to do what is right! Coz mothers r human too n humans make mistakes! And off course if wife is wrong , she needs to be taught too. Last of all as a mother I hv to always remember that I hv to answer for my deeds to Allah one day. Just because im a mother-in-law, i should not bad mouth or putting her down or v/s.
My husband is like this. He lets all his family treat me like trash and never says anything, never. His mother almost hit me the last time I saw her just because I stood up for myself and my husband didn't say a word. Right now I'm sick at home and he is spending his vacation with them, instead of staying with me. I'm so depressed because of him and his family and I don't know if I can take it anymore. May Allah help me cause I don't know how much I can take it anymore.
