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The World's Leading, Inspiring, Life-Change Therapists. Creators of Schema Conditioning Psychotherapy®. Resident Therapists on ITV's This Morning. Posting helpful videos with tips and advice to help you, because we know you can be better.
Frog Phobia I Nik & Eva
28:18
4 месяца назад
Triskaidekaphobia I Nik & Eva
1:21
4 месяца назад
The Speakmans I Nik & Eva
2:19
4 месяца назад
You Become What You Think About I Nik & Eva
7:14
6 месяцев назад
No Bad People In The World I Nik & Eva
8:15
6 месяцев назад
New Year Resolutions I Nik & Eva
2:03
6 месяцев назад
You Have To Give To Receive I Nik & Eva
4:59
6 месяцев назад
Garlic Phobia I Nik & Eva
5:03
7 месяцев назад
Terrifying Fruit Phobia I Nik & Eva
5:23
8 месяцев назад
Food Phobia Phone In I Nik & Eva
10:52
8 месяцев назад
Phobia Phone In I Nik & Eva
12:21
8 месяцев назад
Overcoming PTSD from Murder I Nik & Eva
42:31
9 месяцев назад
You Become What You Think About I Nik & Eva
7:14
9 месяцев назад
You Are What You Eat I Nik & Eva
5:26
9 месяцев назад
Phobia of Veins I Nik & Eva
42:39
9 месяцев назад
No People? I Nik & Eva
8:15
10 месяцев назад
50 years of Claustrophobia I Nik & Eva
5:51
10 месяцев назад
Save Yourself I Nik & Eva
5:43
10 месяцев назад
You Have To Give To Receive I Nik & Eva
4:59
10 месяцев назад
Overcoming a Flying Phobia I Nik & Eva
44:30
11 месяцев назад
PTSD from RTA I Nik & Eva
43:04
11 месяцев назад
Overcoming A Fear Of Food I Nik & Eva
39:43
11 месяцев назад
Комментарии
@Baba6ita
@Baba6ita 18 часов назад
I don't understand how I don't fear cats but I fear all rodents
@kimgreenwood2818
@kimgreenwood2818 21 час назад
When i was about 7 years old I had a uncle that died. My Aunty called the house phone and I picked up the call at 7 years old and she said your uncles died 😢 of course as a child that was very distressing to hear after that I had awful nightmares about him and seeing him dead as a 7 year old child to me it left a trauma within my mind I didn't understand at that age and ever since I've always had fear of death , and fear of ill health... ❤
@eliparrish9145
@eliparrish9145 2 дня назад
I was having an attack but it stopped because I was laughing so hard. "Are you having a panic attack right now?!" then 20 seconds of advertisements before the emergency advice.
@GiannaMariano-d3m
@GiannaMariano-d3m 2 дня назад
When i see a bee i cry and run. Im young...even if its not next to me i cry and scream...
@DrLol82
@DrLol82 5 дней назад
You have an amazing figure!
@pennyandfishy7241
@pennyandfishy7241 6 дней назад
Thank you both for your videos, your emetophobia movie back in 2016 was so helpful and important aswell, have you two ever worked with cardiophobia, it would be great to see a video or experience on it ❤
@hrlyjade
@hrlyjade 12 дней назад
Honestly, im glad to know I wasn't alone with this fear. Hell, i thought i was insane for even feeling anxious when theres swinging objects. I can't get on swings, rocking chairs, etc, or even look at objects that swing/rock back and forth. I dont know why though. i had it ever since i was young and had a panic because of it-.. Maybe the need for it to stop?? Dunno, hate it though no one really takes me seriously on it
@hrlyjade
@hrlyjade 12 дней назад
Echos does it for me to, like the sound of a big drum ifyk?
@elisabethhutchinson2987
@elisabethhutchinson2987 12 дней назад
I just saw a mouse run across my floor in my bedroom and now I'm here
@user-uy6tr1nk3y
@user-uy6tr1nk3y 13 дней назад
Can you help me , I'm 55 and struggling since 8 years 6😢😢
@GROENAASMusic
@GROENAASMusic 14 дней назад
When I was a kid, I had kampanophobia. This was because I was at a playground outside Bryne Church in Norway when I was only four years old. Suddenly, the bells started ding-donging loudly, seemingly out of nowhere, and it scared me to no end. Unknown to me at the time, the church also had a kindergarten, and they utilized the bells to call the children in. After that, I couldn't handle church bells for a long time. Even now, at 35, I still have a residual fear, but it's nothing serious anymore fortunately. However, I still cringe when I hear church bells ringing, and I'd still rather stay away from large bell towers to this day. But it is also worth mentioning that I've always had an aversion to sudden loud noises, and that is likely a contributing factor.
@who.is_bellaaa
@who.is_bellaaa 16 дней назад
So one time when I was 7 I was in Vermont sitting on my step-moms’ lap. I wasn’t near any nests or disturbing any wasps/bees, but then one came and stung for on the pinky for absolutely no reason. But before that I was fearless, and now I’m scared of every single bug that makes a buzzing noise. I get irritated everytime I see/hear one, but no one takes my phobia seriously and they laugh instead. I love summer but I just hate the bees and they make me wanna stay in but when I’m with people they’ll just laugh if I say that. I’m 11 and extremely scared, and everyone tells me I should calm down and stuff and even this video didn’t help.
@wyntresorrow403
@wyntresorrow403 22 дня назад
I really hope for a good outcome for this woman
@karlyost3572
@karlyost3572 23 дня назад
❤😊 yes yes thank you for your advice but the greater advice is to repent and receive Jesus in your heart and his perfect love will cast out all fear and you will overcome all anxiety because he'll give you the grace to do it amen thank you Jesus 🙏💕🙏😊
@karlyost3572
@karlyost3572 23 дня назад
❤😊❤ repent and receive Jesus in your heart 🙏❤️ amen and you'll overcome all the anxiety because his perfect love will cast out all fear amen 🙏 thank you Jesus for salvation 🙏 Amen
@gw2891
@gw2891 23 дня назад
Yep worked for my wife and it wasn’t her thumb … we both enjoyed it 😂
@Lfcsue23
@Lfcsue23 25 дней назад
I remember you both talking about this young girls situation in your workshop i came to and it really stuck with me. You are both amazing and I would give ANYTHING to be able to have a session with you both 🥺😔
@LafeSpace
@LafeSpace 27 дней назад
This solved nothing for me.
@anyajanderson4097
@anyajanderson4097 29 дней назад
This was such a lovely day ❤ Honestly you were amazing, so kind and welcoming - you both helped me so much. Lots of love & Thanks, hope your both well ❤ And @pinkdolly Thankyou so much!! That's so lovely
@SephirothWaifu
@SephirothWaifu 29 дней назад
Perspective. Life is about perspective. This makes me think of racist people. Ask them, what have someone like me done to them, to warrant their hatred? I don't know you, never spoken to you, etc. So WHY do you hate me? I've never been a part of your life and clearly from a bigot, I never will lmao! Same thing! I LOVE snakes for the record, my spirit animal actually in horoscope references. Humans are irrational, unreasonable, egocentric, narcissistic , drama. Too much complexities
@Elizabeth-gy8ou
@Elizabeth-gy8ou Месяц назад
I love the Speaksmans. They do so much good! Other therapists don't bother to know more to help other people. God bless them!
@ashburokas
@ashburokas Месяц назад
When did she managed to get the sleeve tattoo during these 4 yrs? Anyway, congrats with the progress! Exposure therapy for the win 🎉
@leonor829
@leonor829 Месяц назад
I absolutely hate wasps, there are a fuck tone of them around my house. I have got chased and stung by an entire hive with my cousins when I was little. I also got stung in my ass while going to school a couple of years ago. And I had to sit on the entire day. And now I am having problems sleeping because I immediately wake up the moment I hear a buzzing sound
@leonor829
@leonor829 Месяц назад
And another thing there was a wasp nest outside my window, so at this point it just seems that I am getting targeted for no reason
@fondpond5336
@fondpond5336 Месяц назад
Thank you for this
@1family473
@1family473 Месяц назад
It changes to red on me every time… the train barriers the pop up for nothing road work lights the lot of them red red red i do like a rest so I pick up my phone and in a flash we back on green
@arifsyed2520
@arifsyed2520 Месяц назад
It feels like I am going to die of suffocation.Like Something is going to happen and there is no escape route...
@JPTAG33
@JPTAG33 Месяц назад
I have a phobia of being stuck in a closed of place while its moving, basically if i cant escape the area ill have panick attack, i seen professionals and nobody can cure me or find my schema. 8(
@feliceallysa
@feliceallysa Месяц назад
the big animal ones freak me out
@Louise90GV
@Louise90GV Месяц назад
Wow. This one has something special about it. So powerful!
@SwirlingSong
@SwirlingSong Месяц назад
Thank you so much for this! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@zbcc12
@zbcc12 Месяц назад
This looks like total B.S..... Zero explanation.
@joannesmith5453
@joannesmith5453 Месяц назад
Just had to come in on a sunny day because of swifts diving past me. I am terrified of them touching me. I cannot get to a place in my head where I can cope. Just listening to your anecdotes causes anxiety. A claw in a sleeve!!!! Arrgghhh!
@alanagallacher9144
@alanagallacher9144 Месяц назад
Trapped in a MRI scan
@BRANDON.MUSTANG
@BRANDON.MUSTANG Месяц назад
for example, a cafe terrace where you enjoy coffee with friends and other people there. then Mr. Wasp arrives. leave a comment how are you doing?
@MeeFeeTree
@MeeFeeTree Месяц назад
Here’s one way to put it. There’s one good thing about having mice in your house. It means you don’t have snakes because snakes would’ve eaten the mice.
@loonylinda
@loonylinda Месяц назад
i have suffered with anxiety and agoraphobia for most of my life im now 62, ive struggled, fought, and failed, mised out on so much. no one has been able to help me.
@loonylinda
@loonylinda Месяц назад
i got the courage up to go to the dentist after a long time, after a bad dental experience, and the dentist said to me that he would sort my teeth out after i had had some sessions with the hygienist for 5 sessions, but he said it would be very painful for me as my gums are receeding. needless to say i didnt go back.
@benniedrew4095
@benniedrew4095 2 месяца назад
I am terrified because they chase u and get in ur face I love bees cause they leave me alone but I HATE wasps ppl say they leave u alone but they don’t
@ng3057
@ng3057 2 месяца назад
This is so beautiful , made me cry . What a wonderful purpose you both have in this world the speakmans❤x
@francesyupanqui5768
@francesyupanqui5768 2 месяца назад
Wow that is not good corner
@nikandevaspeakman
@nikandevaspeakman 2 месяца назад
Fortunately we helped him overcome his anxieties and he is great now.
@MissSixtiesPennyLane
@MissSixtiesPennyLane 2 месяца назад
She says she's terrified yet she can sit there and look at a picture of one. I can't even look at a picture of one.
@nikandevaspeakman
@nikandevaspeakman 2 месяца назад
The same phobia can effect sufferers in so many different ways. Please dont lose sight though that you too can overcome your arachnophobia x
@lisaclabburn8322
@lisaclabburn8322 2 месяца назад
I keep seeing one but it’s not said for me as brought me and my partner actually got closer together x
@nikandevaspeakman
@nikandevaspeakman 2 месяца назад
That is so cool x
@ng3057
@ng3057 2 месяца назад
I had this as a child , absolutley petrified , im over it now , dont know how ?
@nikandevaspeakman
@nikandevaspeakman 2 месяца назад
We can naturally overcome phobias as we gradually realise they are not based on fact. Well done you! x
@ng3057
@ng3057 2 месяца назад
@@nikandevaspeakman ooh wow thats so cool ! I hope that happens with some other phobias haha !x
@angiebeck8257
@angiebeck8257 2 месяца назад
Wish i could get some help with mine Georgia i hope you got your life back
@craigtodd8297
@craigtodd8297 2 месяца назад
I had escalator phobia. When i was about 4 I was with mum and dad going up an escalator. When we got to the very top it grabbed my shoelace and I was stuck. I panicked and then dad snapped the shoelace setting me free.
@craigtodd8297
@craigtodd8297 2 месяца назад
To be honest I am still nervous 40 years later..
@nikandevaspeakman
@nikandevaspeakman 2 месяца назад
So sad to hear you are still struggling Craig. If you change your focus, on the fact your shoelace was untied, an accident nearly happened, but your dad prevented it. That way you can consider that the escalator did nothing wrong. Hope that helps.
@dogculturereveiw
@dogculturereveiw 2 месяца назад
Fear of dogs is a natural and healthy repsonse. Forcing people to suppress this is unhealthy
@nikandevaspeakman
@nikandevaspeakman 2 месяца назад
Dog are the most common pet in the world. Dogs help the blind and save many people around the world daily.
@T540L3R
@T540L3R 2 месяца назад
i got stung by a wasp 7 years ago now im a pussy
@nikandevaspeakman
@nikandevaspeakman 2 месяца назад
Please dont blame all wasps because of one. That's like having a friend treat you badly and never looking to make any new friends.
@brandyrupert6341
@brandyrupert6341 2 месяца назад
I DO PITY THEM!!!! I cannot harm one at all!!! THAT DOES NOT RID MY FEAR!! It actually makes it worse.
@nikandevaspeakman
@nikandevaspeakman 2 месяца назад
try completing a fears versus facts list.
@brandyrupert6341
@brandyrupert6341 2 месяца назад
Ok so my fear comes from having GIANT wood rats as a child and my dad telling us that if we got out of bed at night they would bite our feet and watching that sewer rat movie. My dad was a twisted person he thought our fear was hilarious.
@nikandevaspeakman
@nikandevaspeakman 2 месяца назад
Just consider that it was your dad who created your fear, the rats did nothing. Also they wood appear bigger to you as a child. too
@brandyrupert6341
@brandyrupert6341 2 месяца назад
How is she in 2024??
@nikandevaspeakman
@nikandevaspeakman 2 месяца назад
Linda actually likes mice now! After we cured her she went on 'I'm a celebrity get me out of here' and she faced rats daily with no issues.
@denbondombe6640
@denbondombe6640 2 месяца назад
I got an airline advert before this video.
@nikandevaspeakman
@nikandevaspeakman 2 месяца назад
LOL!