Greetings People of Earth. My names Jaks, So Today I wanted to just give a brief explanation of what my channel is about and what we do here. So I started RU-vid in November 2015 because I had no idea what I wanted to do for the rest of my life. Now I run a Small Farm in Alberta Canada. This Channel is dedicated to being happy, healthy and living a good life. Join the community and lets be happy together.
It's all performative. However let me say this. Some "extremely vocal" minorities in any group will be negatively polarizing people away from the broader group. So I understand them saying: "I don't like the community" It feels like a threat to the rights you do have.
From my 🏳️🌈 brother: -faster pace of walking -swaying hips and butt while walking. -consistent, prolonged eye contact. -never been in a relationship/still single with a woman. -piercings, jewelry, painted nails
An alternative possibility after years wise; "The Most MISTERIOUS until totally demystified when the Divine Light breaks up all that Mist, and Mistyness, and all life's Riddles by the Light of Day in "Days of Future /Past" by The Moody Blues!
I just find if a guy self identifies as masculine, he has something to prove, and I can't be arsed with that. There is nothing wrong with being masculine/feminine or being attracted to masc/fem exclusively, but when you need it to be written on your T-shirt (figuratively), it's a bit cringe (whichever one you are). Your actions should speak to your personality. Just be yourself and let others perceive you however they will.
Yes, agreed. But, I feel he challenge isn't separating the fantasy from reality. It's stopping yourself from comparing your life to others. People treat social media like a mirror. Reflecting the live of others on their own. Regardless of the fantasticalness of it all. Causing people to fixate on what they believe to be self-perceived flaws. Things they need to fix, change, or remove. All for the sake of vanity, popularity, love. To remove the emptiness, loneliness, the hurt. Yes, we are all capable and deserving of love. But, fixing are self perception and getting to a place off self acceptance doesn't mean we'll find it outside ourselves platonicly or romantically. As such, despite understanding our value and worth as a person, it doesn't remove the need for human connection. As such, people would choose the parasocial connection they creat online. Than deal with the harsh reality of being alone. Yes, we are responsible for our own happiness, making the most of life, and be okay being alone. But, just because we get to a place of being content. Doesn't mean we still don't hope for something more. And with constant bombardment of social media. It's unsurprising how some lose perspective. Wanting to achieve what other have in love, money, popularity, physicality, etc . . . But, your right, social media is a brief look in to people's curated lives. Allowing admiration and personal motivation turn to jealousy and hate serves no one.
i sit in the middle. i love all kinds of girly things i also love to work out, and to engage in competition. yet i have a heightened sense of empathy that no "masculine man" could really give. i am truly human, as we all are. humanity is a special, nuanced thing.
