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Shannon Panszi - Engender Love
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Gender Educator, Retired OB/GYN, Master-Certified Coach

This RU-vid channel is dedicated to fostering understanding and promoting positive connections through insightful discussions on gender. We provide informative and inclusive content aimed at helping viewers grasp the nuances of gender identity, expression, and biological characteristics. As a dedicated educator, I share practical insights and guidance on fostering inclusivity, understanding gender, and providing meaningful support. Join me on this journey of learning as we work together to create a more supportive and affirming environment for everyone.
Protect Transgender/Nonbinary Children
21:47
Месяц назад
Improving Patient Care with One Rule (#24)
22:14
3 месяца назад
Don't Wait Until It's Too Late #22
14:09
3 месяца назад
Overcoming Fear In Gender Inclusion
17:18
4 месяца назад
It's Not a Choice
13:10
4 месяца назад
Creating An Inclusive Gendered Business
14:50
5 месяцев назад
Episode 11 How to ask for pronouns
11:15
6 месяцев назад
I can't learn
14:31
6 месяцев назад
Defining Transition
4:53
7 месяцев назад
Desistance
6:26
7 месяцев назад
Комментарии
@Matti-iu2eb
@Matti-iu2eb 2 часа назад
BOOOOOOOORRRRIIIING!!! We are tired of having to talk about your sexual weirdness.YUCK!
@richardarcher3435
@richardarcher3435 9 часов назад
Yes, interesting. The way I see it, Nature is full of variables, in fact it is the variables that power evolution. If every creature was born exactly as a copy of its parents there would be no evolution. Therefore we should expect that, aswell as the odd differences in the body of a child, that may or may not be an advantage, there might be a difference in the brain, and you cannot normally even see the brain, never mind see how it functions, without specialist equipment. I'm not sure what I would do if someone who was clearly of one sex, asked for me to refer to them as the opposite sex. I think they would actually have to look like the opposite sex i.e. I think I could easily refer to Blair White as 'she'. So I'm afraid outward appearance might matter for me, but I won't know for sure untill tested. It's a difficult one, but its when non binary and trans people walk over binary people, disrespect them, when people are cancelled, sacked, laws made to control speech. That is where the problems arise.
@benfurbank
@benfurbank 10 часов назад
What do you do? What do you teach?
@JonCollier-jr1fx
@JonCollier-jr1fx 11 часов назад
Terrorist.
@vladislavdracula1763
@vladislavdracula1763 11 часов назад
What lmao
@RussBlake80
@RussBlake80 16 часов назад
Give up already. Go do something useful.
@sasa051
@sasa051 День назад
I will still call someone with the pronouns I want. I born free and I'll die free. 🤡
@zhcoop
@zhcoop День назад
Biology. Atonomy. Hormones. Energy. Are indicaters of sex. Gender identity is a fantasy. You can express however you want, you can never change the sex you were born with. If you have gender dysforia, you have a challenge. You can either go with the challenge or try to surpress it, and it will make you feel worse. You can accept you as you are. You are born a perfect imperfect human being, learn to affirm, accept, respect and love yourself. As you are. We all have feminine and masculine energy within. Hair, colors, clothes, nails, makeup etc has nothing to do with sex.
@korwinmcpherren9729
@korwinmcpherren9729 День назад
Please dont let this garbage infect our children and our society any more. We've been nice. We've been tolerant. But enough is enough.
@mackadoodless
@mackadoodless День назад
Ugh. Y’all are so tiring 😣
@DaddyBiscuits
@DaddyBiscuits 13 часов назад
haha. well, women started off all the confusion by wearing trousers and cutting their hair short. If we just went back to women = dress and long hair, men = trousers and short hair. Probably too cold in some places to go about nude so you can tell by looking.
@stevendeans4211
@stevendeans4211 7 дней назад
It's just a matter of education. If healthcare providers would stop trying to put drug addicts into useless treatment centers and start providing them with drugs they need, then we could end the war on drugs. Of course, the drugs would have to be made affordable if not free.
@kallel6588
@kallel6588 8 дней назад
? There are only two genders and you can't switch the one you are born as, period. No need for a different type of medical care for those that want to chabge genders. There already is medical care for this people. Psychiatrist.
@martinoconnor4314
@martinoconnor4314 8 дней назад
There are two genders, don't argue with me, take it up with God!
@maxlanz7343
@maxlanz7343 8 дней назад
Ok, groomer.
@johnkarner5669
@johnkarner5669 8 дней назад
Seriously.
@nicola3452
@nicola3452 8 дней назад
In simple language many doctors have a know it all attitude when they don't know what they don't know. Trans patients try to educate doctors but they refuse to listen or open their mind. I have also found too many that can't or won't leave their religion at home or church. Politicians and religious are very bad doctors, you mush educate them and the harms they are doing.
@thelordofliberty6984
@thelordofliberty6984 9 дней назад
This is all fine. But we have to accept that if gender is just a social construct, then race certainly is as well. To accept the transgender community, we must also accept the trans racial community. The fact that our society allowed Rachel Dolezal to be fired from her job with zero pushback is unacceptable.
@tiasmith3499
@tiasmith3499 9 дней назад
There's 2 genders, that's the end of it.
@joaon4444
@joaon4444 16 дней назад
It is impossible to please everybody even with that inclusive language. Secondly, you will loose more clients because of that insanity than the ones you will acquire on the minority you are trying to reach. Besides Gyno is for women, period. If you don't understand that please let go of your license and go back to uni for some gender studies or whatever.
@albertfralinger2711
@albertfralinger2711 17 дней назад
I can’t imagine any man diagnosed with breast cancer cares about gendered talk or pink ribbons. Why would they?
@julia-ff9kt
@julia-ff9kt 20 дней назад
You are not inclusive. You are EXCLUSIVEly offensive and you are a hypocrite. I am offended that you label me a cis woman. I have not given you permission to assign to me a label invented by people who, I have observed, are often misogynistic, and yet you feel free to do so without compunction. How dare you attempt to cancel my biology and the biological reality of 52% of the world's population in deference to a tiny minority of people who, up to this point, just got on with it with appropriate medical support. You are part of the (hopefully temporary) insanity which has gripped the western world. I don't know whether you are a medical professional or just a PhD; whether you are a biological woman or a transgender woman. It should be irrelevant of course, but if you are both an MD and a woman, your advocacy of ideology over appropriately labelled women-only health care is deplorable. History will be as kind to you as it has been to the trans movement's cruel and notorious founder, Dr John Mooney. Shameful man.
@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal
@KrishnarajRaoUrbanNaxal 20 дней назад
Yup. We should get comfortable with doctors asking women, "How often are you getting these uncontrollable erections?" or saying things like, "I see that your vagina looks incredibly similar to a man's penis and testicles, but by that, I am not implying that you are not a woman. You are most certainly a woman, and you will most definitely get pregnant, so let us continue your in-vitro fertilization treatment". Yup, doctor, your language has to change for sure.
@5117danielle
@5117danielle 20 дней назад
Call it Men's Ob/Gyn.
@jamesblank4115
@jamesblank4115 20 дней назад
You're not losing patience you are lost
@OsageNation987
@OsageNation987 20 дней назад
LOL
@4lb280
@4lb280 20 дней назад
WOMEN are the only people that need an ob/gyn! TRANSGENDER MEN ARE MEN! THEY WILL NEVER BE WOMEN. You are insulting to women everywhere! I am not a "cis" woman, I am just a woman. I hope your patients see this and have the brains to go elsewhere. You wouldn't come within 10 feet of me or my newborn baby. I'm so sick of this bullshit.
@pudgeballroundpants1941
@pudgeballroundpants1941 20 дней назад
This type of "thinking" is how people can be turned into a "useful idiot" no matter how high their IQ is.
@NotYourBusiness-v8y
@NotYourBusiness-v8y 20 дней назад
stop listening to lunatics.
@SzaboB33
@SzaboB33 20 дней назад
Woman in the doctors office should by default mean woman as a biological sex, why would they bring up something, like gender?
@proudatheist2042
@proudatheist2042 21 день назад
So, you were trained to take care of biological WOMEN with WOMEN'S ANATOMY AND HEALTH CHALLENGES, but you want to pretend that the whims, wishes, and delusions of boys and men are VALID?! You are the illogical equivalent of a psychiatrist who affirms the delusions of a patient with delusions who sees things that aren't there! Your moralistic, grandstanding virtue signaling doesn't change the truth! WOMEN exist! Trans identified males are NOT women, and will never be women!
@ehehehehehhh
@ehehehehehhh 21 день назад
As a nursing student, I wholeheartedly disagree with your approach and I find it frankly disturbing that well-educated healthcare professionals like you (claim to be) are easily swayed when it comes to their professional practices due to different political views.
@ik1437
@ik1437 21 день назад
So, excluding the majority of people just to include a tiny minority? I don’t think so! I’m aware it’s ”just language” but that is how we make sense of things. Nothing needs to be changed. Just because many people are born with extra fingers, we don’t refer to the amount of fingers on a human as a ”spectrum”.
@ShannonPanszi-EngenderLove
@ShannonPanszi-EngenderLove 21 день назад
I address the idea of the "tiny minority" next week. I'd be interested what you think after you hear it.
@SunshineState12
@SunshineState12 20 дней назад
absolutely agree. only females are women.
@bepitan
@bepitan 21 день назад
intersex are in fact either male or female and rare as hens teeth.
@SunshineState12
@SunshineState12 21 день назад
well...... only women require ob/gyn services, seeing that only women have vaginas. lets not erase women :)
@ambervictoria11
@ambervictoria11 22 дня назад
During the last debate both trump and harris were strictly referring to women and using female gendered language when discussing the aborti0n issue.
@ambervictoria11
@ambervictoria11 22 дня назад
Also I used to work in a urology office and I can tell you a lot of the male urologist felt extremely uncomfortable when "women" patients came in for anything. I think it's weird they have any male reproductive issues you go to the urologist but women? Do we go the urologist, the gynecologist or the gynecologist? Like why isn't there a separate branch of urology for men? That's because urology includes "men's" reproductive organs plus the urinary system. It's so weird in my opinion.
@ShannonPanszi-EngenderLove
@ShannonPanszi-EngenderLove 21 день назад
Yes. This is common, and often a problem for the same reasons as mentioned in the episode. There are more than "women" who require these services.
@kenlau457
@kenlau457 21 день назад
And why not? Only females and women can get pregnant. Biology and reality do not care about your language.
@christinajose285
@christinajose285 21 день назад
Yes because only women can have an abortion. Men can't get pregnant. What is so hard about that?
@vertivox
@vertivox 23 дня назад
Ok..Interesting Topic..Yeah.
@sezztooley
@sezztooley 23 дня назад
this is so cool and extremely helpful!! ❤ i'm not an OBGYN at all but it's so helpful for all of us, even me as merely a gynecology patient, to help create an inclusive space!
@ShannonPanszi-EngenderLove
@ShannonPanszi-EngenderLove 23 дня назад
Thank you. I am glad you found it helpful. Feel free to share.
@4lb280
@4lb280 20 дней назад
Can women not go anywhere without men pushing their way in to our spaces??? MEN DO NOT HAVE WOMBS and do not menstruate. Are you a woman pretending to be a man, or a man pretending to be a woman?
@user-fi5mm4lp7i
@user-fi5mm4lp7i 28 дней назад
Do you mean different words like the following? Bleeder to denote a woman who menstruates. How about chest feeder instead breast feeder, totally denying women's anatomy? Maybe breeder would be a good candidate instead of mother. A US senator on the senate floor said women were only breeders when talking about the issue of abortion. Oh, another one, pregnant people instead of pregnant women. Only women give birth. Men do not and no one person's delusion can make this different. Call the vaginal opening a hole. The is listed among other choice words as c*nt, sn*tch, box, quim, cr*ck. The term hole is used in the BDSM community to describe the vaginal opening for the purpose of humiliating and demeaning the submissive and result in the heightened s*xual experience of a masochistic submissive. Words have meaning and many, many words throughout the centuries have been used to malign, denigrate, fuel hatred, and incite violence against women. The Australian court judgement in Tickle v Giggle pronounced there is no such entity as a woman, sex is ever changing. Three women are mudered very day in the US. Women face misogyny everywhere. Young girls/women hate their bodies enough as shown by their readiness to request double mastectomies. Many of these young women appear on You Tube. Yes, words have meaning. Speaking privately to a patient has its place. However, hopefully you and all your colleagues will refrain from supporting publicly misogynistic language.
@mmisia1024
@mmisia1024 29 дней назад
You don't even realize your position is already passé. 😅
@MH-qw6nc
@MH-qw6nc 29 дней назад
I know you think you’re doing good, but you’re attempting to bend the world to your utopian vision of this new sex-less world. You say sex is different to gender but you didn’t advocate to change women’s health to ‘female health’, a more obvious solution if you truly believed in a distinction between sex and gender. In any case, your ‘gender diverse’ patients would benefit so much more from building resilience and confronting reality rather than retreating from it with the aid of all the so-called authorities in their lives. I’d really beg you to step back and think about what you’re doing in your position of power over vulnerable people. Dig down and really ask yourself, are you being intellectually honest? Are you being brave enough to acknowledge truth even when unpopular or offensive to the people you care about?
@amagui2611
@amagui2611 29 дней назад
Is this person mentally challenged? Gyne-greek for woman Logos(logy)- greek for study of So... NO, it is about women and as far as I know, only some people that suffer a disorder may have female reproductive organs as males, the other way around or both at the same time. Key word being "disorder"
@chaimbentorahministries1668
@chaimbentorahministries1668 29 дней назад
This is getting annoying. Stop already
@torontohomestead9254
@torontohomestead9254 29 дней назад
I will make a point to never get any services from a doctor that speaks the way you do. Words matter.
@EveBlight
@EveBlight 29 дней назад
I am a woman..thus anything relating to my female organs will fall under the bracket of womens care. Men cannot be women, women cannot be men. It is a perversion of nature and erosion of womens rights and the right to feel safe. The most misogynistic belief that exists is that men think they can determine what it is to be a woman. They cant.
@DI-ry1my
@DI-ry1my 29 дней назад
Why can’t you be culturally accommodating to the women who want it to be called women’s health? Aren’t you supposed to set aside your assumptions and ethnocentrism so you can provide the best care to each patient?
@ShannonPanszi-EngenderLove
@ShannonPanszi-EngenderLove 29 дней назад
It is unclear to me how using the term "Obstetrics and Gynecology" is not acceptable.
@amagui2611
@amagui2611 29 дней назад
Don't play dumb, you know exactly what this person is telling you, medically speaking you have biological individuals, either male or female, as a gynecologist I assume you learned the female anatomy, the role of each hormone, the way they are controlled by the ovaries and the stages of an egg or if there is an embryo and how it changes the body. I challenge you to explain here, how a male would produce any of those changes unless it is a female with a lot of external changes that make her look like a male. And don't mistake this as hate to trans people, everyone should be free to live their lives however they see fit, however, you are talking as an MD to other professionals in the field. It is not only wrong, it is also irresponsible to be entertaining this nonsense in the medical field. We are NOT frogs, we cannot change our biology just because we say so.
@DerLiesl
@DerLiesl 22 дня назад
⁠@@ShannonPanszi-EngenderLove Simple. Inclusivity. A lot of people have problems with language and reading. Non-physicians find l”Obstetrics and gynaecology” is difficult to pronounce, to write and to remember. Everybody krapjes what a woman is.
@bensmith4563
@bensmith4563 День назад
​@@DerLieslThis lady comes across as not knowing what a woman is
@kalmakoff99
@kalmakoff99 29 дней назад
Do you gender a newborn? Doesn't it matter medically? What is gender assigned at birth mean? Is a persons biology unimportant or irrelivant? Do infants have feelings about what sex they are or what to define themselves? At what age then do we consider the childs feelings about these things? Help! I don't understand.
@ShannonPanszi-EngenderLove
@ShannonPanszi-EngenderLove 29 дней назад
You designate a biological sex. Gender is different. It cannot be seen. My episode to help explain this distinction is not on RU-vid however you can listen to it wherever you get your podcasts. It is episode 2, Gender Unraveled... podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/engender-love-podcast/id1730287785?i=1000644905132
@robbarnes9047
@robbarnes9047 29 дней назад
Speaking for myself and MILLIONS of others, you and people like you can take your "challenges" and GO TO HELL.
@Alex_Cohl
@Alex_Cohl Месяц назад
As a health care professional in europe who have worked with trans people for more than twenty years now, it infuriates me to see the consequences on the real life of human beings because of the disinformations and the lies of hatefull biggots. Giving birth to many opinions based on fallacies and ignorance. Many people believe today that surgeries are being done to children and that hormones are given to kids like candies. Never in my entire career have I seen such things. Although, I have seen many young poeple taking their own lives because of the irreverible damage that forced puberty imposed on them. Because, in spite of all our efforts, we couldn't help them face familly and society pressure, the guilt slapped on their little faces and the distance forced by parents from loving and caring communities.
@akgus1
@akgus1 Месяц назад
just like how a kid isn't allowed to touch alcohol until there brain has developed properly a kid should not be touching stuff that affects there body even more then alcohol which includes transitions im not against it to be exact im against kids doing it they shouldn't be allowed to if they still want that when there 18 and above go ahead i could care less but allowing a child todo something that changes there entire life down the line is horrible and shouldn't be supported and you might argue that after puberty it's very hard to transition since the bodies already gone through immense changes but it's better then regretting something you can't come back from
@ShannonPanszi-EngenderLove
@ShannonPanszi-EngenderLove Месяц назад
Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I will address transtions in a different episode. This one is how far are we willing to go when we don't agree.
@martinhaines2884
@martinhaines2884 Месяц назад
I heard that this advantage that say male ( i use that in general terms ) has is 1. Testicles 2. Testicles that produce testosterone and 3. Your body receives that Testosterone. If you have ALL 3 of those. You wouldn't qualify for the Female ( Again i use that in general terms.) category. I believe xy chromosome isn't where the advantage is. The question on fairness and advantage has to be defined. Thoughts ?
@ilmareofthemaiar
@ilmareofthemaiar Месяц назад
Second comment :) I did just reply to your query on the previous video.