Reclaim your power after narcissistic and emotional abuse! I am a certified International Life Coach and Breathwork Practitioner. I offer one to one coaching packages to build your confidence, strength and courage.
That underlying sexual attraction is a bit of homoeroticism and jezebel controlling spirit. They not even aware THEY are possessed by it. I love women we are beautiful but I'm a HETEROSEXUAL WOMAN. Commenting constantly on my breasts n if I have a bra on or off...she was jealous/in love with me.
You have a calming influence on me Petra. You have been such a help to me on my healing journey. Beyond thankful that I was lead to your channel. Love & blessings sweet lady xx
Thanks for sharing however I am not fully convinced about your conclusions concerning some people you know personally. Why? Something up there does and should include - Truth AND Reconciliation Day" too. If my choice in T-shirt when scrolling through only old videos on RU-vid suddenly out of the blue feels unsettling to someone runnng a coaching business and not in a good way while they are wondering if that person is playing the victim while only pretending to have the right to wear it then that is not my problem it is their own.
You can easily deal with abuse when you don’t know it’s happening. The coping starts when you start learning what actually happened and why your life was what is was.
They are rude, and have no boundaries. They want to know your business, and go into a rage when you don't want them in your business. You ask them a question that isn't even that personal, and they won't talk about it. They are stalkers, and may snoop around where you work. A lot of them have a smirk and fake smile when insulting you. They gaslight your entire conversation. They get a kick out of insulting you. They are bizarre and toxic. I learned after this to never divulge too much information early on when meeting these agents of evil forces. They send a lot of silly text, are obsessive, and demand to know your every move.
The irony is that narcissists will always PAINT your relationship with them as a healthy one , just to mind fog you and distort reality in order to completely control you . I hope now , with your terrific insight and revelations , Petra , your listeners will go on the much healthier and positive times ! Thankyou SO MUCH for the part you have played in my journey back to recovery ❤👋🙏
Thank you 🙏🏽 I'm so used to Toxicity and Red flags i wouldn't even understand what a Green flag is. I pray for more positive people in my life. Healthy friendships, family, love etc
Thank You Petra for see it more clear 🙏🥰 It helped me to go further ina healthy relatinship to "near qnd toxic" friendships. I've just ended one (of a couple - before) toxic friendships for 1 month ago. The sister of my ex covert narcissist as I was in a relationship for 10 years in year 2004--2014 as I run a awsy from - O discarded him and left him abrupt april 2014. Then I was deadline with a öot if years of hoover, stalking and harrasment from him between 2014 -- until year 2021. I got NC year 2021. Then he died february 2023 and his kids informed me about his dead and they wanna help with the funeral etc cause it was their first parent who has died and I admit to help them - all 6 kids of him ... the ex narc. Not for him it was for the kids. At that funeral I got in contact (of course!) with the ex narcs younger sister - again after 10 years. I started to help her too cause her/their father died 4 month later after my ex narc has died. 🙄 It was devestating for my ex narcs 6 kids and for his sister 2 familymembers had died in a time of 4 month 😒 Well this sister of my ex narc are specisl but now I know for sure that she is ALSO toxic. It has been 1 1/2 year that I have helped that family and the kids have react "normal". As normal reactions can bee I ment: grief and a huge of practical things to do - but at least we have solved it all together 🙏 The younger sister of my ex narc has been sooo much to manage and she has menthal issues (at least borderline tendences) and I have discoverd that se ALSO has been taken advantage of my empathy and kindness etc. Specially this last of couple of months. So my "job" is done now. I have helped her (the sister) more than her relatives has done for about 1 year and she is not dumb or so and also 56 year now... (I'm 65 year now) but Enough is Enough. I could write a whole book about hiw ugly things she has done and the Play Innocent "Angel" and people don't see it. She IS mean and VERY manipulated so my descition was: Go NC last August and even my ex narcs kids understand what I did. They are Thankfully understand that their father was a covert narcissist and ALSO have seen what his sister (their Aunt) is doing and have done to take advantage of my kindness etc. The kids has grown up with her around them in their childhood (with their narc father) and understand my now NC to her. But. It took a whole year (or 1 1/2 year actually!) for me to admit: She is real toxic too 😤 Noe I only have contact with my ex narcs (grown up) kids cause they are "normal" (not toxic or manipulated) as their father was or their Aunt also is. I feel VERY relief of my descition to go NC to - both my ex covert narc who died and to his toxic - but still alive - younger sister. They are NOT gonna to destroy any more of my inner peace. No Way - No More!
I agree . I myself am dealing with my own issues. My kind , the passionate ones, find it really difficult to control our emotions! But , hey , recognition of one’s own problems is the beginning of it’s solving.
I knew someone who said she'll be a doctor so she can buy a village in the Philippines. Or how her dad picked up a classmate from school because he missed the bus.
I had a friend like that from high school. It was always their needs, being her on and off boyfriend problems, over mine. She'd say I could afford Michael Kors bags, and that I would have no problems. It took me getting assaulted by her ex boyfriend for me to end it. She still would try to get in my life, speak of themselves. It's always been about their drama - whether it's her not getting along with her Korean freshman year roommate from freshman year college. It's also energy. There's energy in the words. And whether or not a friendship feels forced. No friendship should feel "forced" but narcissistic friendships feel "forced" because you're walking on eggshells around them. Listening to this feels like I"m listening to Bridgerton but it's about how to set boundaries and have healthy friendships.
I was the victim of narcissistic soulsister/ from Hell. I believe it physically and mentally has killed me. I never loved anyone more and never suffered more. I don't see how I could ever recover ..... probably. Never 😢
20 years ago I met someone , I called Soulsister. I loved this person more than anybody, never have done more foe anyone, I adored her .... a year later, it was someone unrecognizable. It became slowly but surely Hell. 20 years later. I have lost everyone and everything, I isolated myself, and there is nobody who understands me. I cry daily and lost all interests. I wish I could have met someone who went through such abuse with " a friend".
Dont forget people can have a lot of Narc traits without being full on NPD..Narcs have empathy too, they jusg dont know how to apply it..Peiblem with Narcs and ither cluster Bs are they havd bkack amd white thinking you are either all black ( bad ,unloveable all the good stuff forgotton smd yiu are their enemy) or you white ( All good , loveable, safe ) Narcs can feel loss amd they can be trauma bonded etc...Narcs lack abject consciousness...And compartmentalize..
Hi Petra! This is realy a precise description of narc people. But what is your experience, can narcisist also give to us or is this just a roleplay. How to heal ourselves, to not experience again narcisistic friendships. Must be that we are not completly functional. The red flag is when you feel you are not needed from them, the moment they have other suppley you are not interesting for them, valued as before, you are discarded.
Thank You Petra! Im staying strong through no contact. I really hope my strength heightens after my divorce. It’s sad when you can’t glow together. Selfish and no empathy kills it.
i ended a friendship about a week ago she texted me yesterday and said looked over our texts i did nothing wrong you got upset again (oo that pissed me off when she said again cus both times she started the fight ) by the way im coming to town lets go to Applebee's its on me . i said no thank you and you can have the freesoap from this bath and relax spot that is there we buy bar soap , oil scrubs etc i dont want it take care . then she said oh i was just going to bring it too you but thats fine ... SO ONCE AGAIN SHE WILL NOT ACKNOWLEDGE WHAT SHE DOES .. SHE DOES NO WRONG
