I am Desmond Cassell and this is my channel about my journey called life and all the ups and downs that comes with it. I’m blessed to have 4 beautiful children Decorey (14) Jericho (9) Kalia (5) and Kobe (2) and my Girlfriend Zakiya James. Thank you so much for dropping by.
Obama was HOPE AND CHANGE, WE GOT NOTHING!!! KAMALA WILL DO THE SAME BECAUSE SHE IS ON THE ELIFE TEAM LIKE OBAMA. IT APPEARS BLACK PEOPLE GET EXCITED FOR SYMBOLISM AND NOTHING ELSE. ARE YOU REALLY WOKE WITH NO DEMANDS, SHE THE FIRST BUT AFRICAN AMERICANS ARE NUMBER 400 ÷YEARS STILL WITH NOTHING!!! REALLY FAM??❤
Kamala dingy as hell. I don't care if she's black ..is she qualified? And then we got fake ass Trump and his production team with this 👂 bs. It's time to go back to the island and learn how to grow some food , this country going to shit.
From the outside looking in and having watched y’all since Kiara was pregnant with Jericho I think you need time to yourself. Self reflect and establish a life outside of your children and women. Get you some friends, be around like-minded people. We know you’re a good father. We’ve seen it since you were fighting for custody of your oldest. What you are doing now is no different than what you were doing when y’all were married as far as cooking and helping with the kids. Not taking sides, I think she’s looking for some accountability on your end and not the blame game. I also think that with the age gap between yall and how young she was when y’all got married she had to grow up pretty fast and now that your able to give more time to yall kids she’s focusing on her more and not having to parent 24/7 by herself. Take some time to heal first 😊
People shouldn't judge you they remember it's a mom to your little son not right to blame you so call RU-vidrs people she did her😮't part to you Kobey mom wake people on RU-vid delete the foolish rude people on RU-vid.
Des..continue to work on you. First, find out what God requires of an alpha/ masculine male and what their role should be a marriage/ household. The Bible can clear a lot of questions you may have deep inside. Both should hear each other out and really listen to each other and not be on the defensive, but both take accountability for each other's faults. Dont stop doing you , just like she is traveling and pouring into herself. We tend to and are willing to pour into others so much, but we tend to short change ourselves. Consistency shows change , not only words.. she is scared and needs to feel safe, and that takes time. Sometimes, when you step back a bit and focus on you ,what will happen is have her questioning (why he is not pursing me as he was )its not a game, but its appealing to see the healthy version of you. Ask God to quide you. He knows best. I know its hard , but stop listening to negativity and haters. They will never go away. Many are just envious on the low low... Don't let anyone live in your head. rent-free!
YOU ABANDONED KIARA AND THE KIDS FOR A " GOOD TIME " AND THEN YOU HAD A BABY.. WE WATCHED KIARA SHRUGGING TO MAKE ENDS MEET WHILE YOU WERE BASHING HER ON YOUR CHANNEL.. I PRAY KIARA FIND REAL LOVE A MAN THAT WOULD LOVE HER AND THE KIDS UNCONDITIONALLY..
You need to get your own place and be single for a while. Sometime we run back to what or who We’re comfortable with. Just because y’all get along don’t mean y’all need to be together. When you try to force a relationship it just makes things worse.
I understand how Dez feels and Kiara both feelings are valid . You’re doing right Dez by speaking your mind and having no regrets . I believe Kiara guard is up but at the same time she’s comfortable with you there. Sometimes with us Cancers smh it can be little moody lol but meaning like she knows how much you want your family now but she also see how much work you’re doing that’s great . Pull back some , sometimes you got to remove your energy so that she can see full what it feel like without you asking her this as. that or pouring into her keep being a great dad and great co parent to her but stop the extra stuff and give her what she believes she wants…Space to do whatever without your input or you as a distraction. Be honest and say i’m going to give your space to date and do as you please I will move on and respect what you said. The moment allow her to face her reality and truth without you being their then yes z like a lady said up top get that lady an uber home lol
Hey Desmond, I follow both you and Kiara. You both had stuff on your channel about each other that wasn't cool. I still have mad respect for both of you. I understand what Kiara went through, and my heart goes out to her, "I have been in her shoes"!!! I also know that it takes two to make it or break it. I am in no way, going to downplay Kiara's feelings....they are real!!! I am also not going to downplay your feelings, feeling you lost your children! There aren't many men that show an interest in their childrens' lives. I have mad respect for you because of that!! I do believe a lot of what happened to you as a child played into how you handle things in all of your relationships. I don’t personally know you or Kiara, but I do believe with the proper counseling, you both could be great together❤❤❤!! You both just need to understand, accept, and agree that you both went through something traumatic, in your own ways! To Kiara, in her heart she feels you did more, by how you were treating, and speaking to her, or not speaking to her at all....being silent. In your heart you feel she did more by taking your kids, not just out of the house, but a great distance away from you. You are both correct in how you feel!!! I can still see you do have love for Kiara, and I do see that Kiara has love for you too, but she is apprehensive. She was quite a bit younger than you when you both met, got married and started a family of your own, on top of becoming a stepmom and other drama that came along the way. On a side note, I don't believe Kiara ever treated Cory different than Jericho or Kalia.... she loved them kids as if she birthed them all herself....and now Kobie too!!! I know you know that, I just felt like making "others" reading the comments aware. You should only care about what you and Kiara feel, as well as your children....that is it...PERIOD!!! No one else's opinion should matter. Now, I am not saying for you not to reflect on some of the comments. Because those who have grown to love and care for you, Kiara, and the children, only speak from the heart!!! We care for you all, individually as well as a family!!! Give each moment to God. If you BOTH really want this to work, it will. It is going to be work, any relationship is. It should be with God being FIRST in your lives, then the spouse, then your children. Speaking to God (having a conversation with God is prayer), who is your Heavenly Father, on a daily basis will guide you through life. Beware, where there is good, there is also evil. So, always take everything to the Lord, trust in him alone!!! Both you and Kiara just need to communicate with God and each other. I would love to see the "Cassell Family" back together, but I will not coerce/pressure either of you into a relationship. Sorry this was long, but It was my heartfelt words spoken here. Take care, your friend, Angee I am Kiara's friend too...lol❤❤!!!
Dez I see you Brother… keep DOING THE WORK AND ASK GOD FOR HIS HELP. Jericho may need to watch the videos so that he can get an understanding of why you guys were apart. All he knew was it happening. I’m sure he had questions too as he has gotten older. Me as a Mother of 4 . My husband and I hv chose explain our experiences with them as well. BEING TOTALLY HONEST NO MATTER HOW MUCH IT HURTS. He deserves that . Kiara is a GREAT PERSON AND I TELL YOU SHE IS VERY STRONG.
Hi Desmond, ok so I understand her when she says you were dating. Yes, she was too, but it's about the timing. It seemed to us that you began dating sooner than she was. I think that's why the comparison is frustrating. My guess. I gotta try your wrap that looks so damn 😩 delicious
