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Kelli Miguez
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Hi, I'm Kelli and I like talking about pregnancy loss. I don't know why, but I can't shut up about it. I've been through 5 heart-breaking losses, and I simply want to spread awareness and acceptance about this type of grief.

If you find yourself on a similar, perilous journey while TTC, I want you to know that you are not alone.

SO much love 💖💖💖,
Kelli
My First Miscarriage Story
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4 года назад
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@myminutiaeyoga
@myminutiaeyoga 16 часов назад
THANK YOU <3
@laclika13chico
@laclika13chico 2 дня назад
Ok what will the specialist do? Wow useless video
@mariagiannakopoulou1180
@mariagiannakopoulou1180 5 дней назад
If they gave the baby vitamin K, then this is a recipe for jauntice, because the infant's liver cannot process vit.K. And prolonged jauntice in an infant can be neurotoxic. Half of the things the med system does puts our health at risk. No reason whatsoever to give vit K to an infant. Supposedly because "their gut flora is weak and they need help".
@calebandchristinacox5565
@calebandchristinacox5565 6 дней назад
This is great! I have had 5 consecutive pregnancy losses & now getting on the wait list for a reproductive immunologist.
@moll443
@moll443 9 дней назад
Thanks for this video! How are these type of things diagnosed?
@Titoo126
@Titoo126 14 дней назад
my tip is use an Ice pack or if you don't have an Ice pack near you then use a Fruit from refrigerator 😂 like mango or a cold banana.. it hurts way less if you cool the injecting area..And for knot you need to inject it slowly.. and never Ever ever rub or massage the injection area right after injecting..or even press the area. just hold an alchohol pad very gently. these helped me giving my enaxoparin shots..hope it'll help you to..xoxo ❤
@thewizmans9599
@thewizmans9599 15 дней назад
There is a lot you can do actually- first things first progesterone!!!!!!
@HHbbbHHBBB-ih4xs
@HHbbbHHBBB-ih4xs 18 дней назад
It was challenging and unbearable because of how critical my health situation was. but I am grateful and happy to have ordered Dr Aluda herbal supplements on RU-vid which I used and it shrunk my multiple fibroids completely💃💃
@HHbbbHHBBB-ih4xs
@HHbbbHHBBB-ih4xs 18 дней назад
It was challenging and unbearable because of how critical my health situation was. but I am grateful and happy to have ordered Dr Aluda herbal supplements on RU-vid which I used and it shrunk my multiple fibroids completely 😊😊
@juliediaz1149
@juliediaz1149 19 дней назад
I have had a miscarriage at 13 weeks and the doctor still would not help with progesterone.
@HHbbbHHBBB-ih4xs
@HHbbbHHBBB-ih4xs 19 дней назад
It was challenging and unbearable because of how critical my health situation was. but I am grateful and happy to have ordered Dr Aluda herbal supplements on RU-vid which I used and it shrunk my multiple fibroids completely!
@mikegilmore4921
@mikegilmore4921 25 дней назад
Love your videos. You dive deep into the researches and give very insightful knowledge. Not just generic answers.
@julianna7673
@julianna7673 28 дней назад
I don’t understand why testing embryos PGTA is not helpful ? What is helpful then ? Or basically IVF makes no sense for people with miscarriages ?
@KelliMiguez
@KelliMiguez 28 дней назад
If someone has had multiple miscarriages, the chances of it being a chromosome issue is low, and progressively lower as you have more miscarriages. PGTA is meant to help find healthy, chromosomally normal blastocysts for implantation. IMO, for recurrent miscarriages it doesn't give you much return on investment. Unless, you have other risk factors for chromosome issues, or if money is no issue. IVF sadly does not solve miscarriages. If you have tried everything else it might help in 2 ways: help with timing (and maximizing) expensive treatments like IVIG and as a diagnostic tool.
@julianna7673
@julianna7673 28 дней назад
It’s important to feel hope but I wondered if there’s anyone who feels the same as I do - stories of people getting the babies after years and years of trying SCARE me… I mean , I always think ‘it’s time if you life …it’s all your finances ..it’s all the pain you had to go through ‘ - was a baby really your life goal or did that person become obsessed cause it wasn’t happening ? I know it will sound rediculous but I spent my 20s becoming a lawyer through so many hurdles just to realise I hated it. I’m now 34, I had 2 miscarriages already and I can see that my life could be good if I never wanted a child …not like I can fix my desires but I already feel I’m becoming fixated and going into this long painful process and it scares me 😔😔😔 I want a baby , but realising a have to dedicate my life and leftovers of my youth and go through all this pain upsets me so much :((( I know people will say ‘well may you don’t really want one!’ But I did more than anything . I wanted 3… two are now gone (((
@KelliMiguez
@KelliMiguez 22 дня назад
I know what you mean! I struggled with this too. Sometimes I would work to try to convince myself I didn’t really want a baby. I found stopping a desire, especially one rooted in biology and hormones, to be very difficult for me. In hindsight I can say that I believe my life would have been good either way, but I don’t know if I would have believed that while in the middle of the struggle. I’m sorry for your losses and I’m extra sorry if anything I’ve shared has scared you. Sending you love and light 💖
@sunnivs
@sunnivs Месяц назад
It does not help me to count down to week 12, as I Miscarried at 17 weeks. 😔 but I do think it is a good idea to keep busy. 👍
@thursdaysdaughter
@thursdaysdaughter Месяц назад
I lost my first baby at 17 weeks.. and then had an ectopic pregnancy 5 months later... I got to the end of 2023 and realized I had spent around 900 hours playing video games just to try and distract myself from the pain in my brain. Now I'm pregnant again with hopefully our miracle (untested) IVF baby and every day is torture trying to make it past 17 weeks, hoping we don't have chromosomal issues this time... Need to figure out a new video game to dive into. (Mass Effect trilogy was by far my favorite of last year.)
@Izan8236
@Izan8236 Месяц назад
Today only i got to know i had my 5th miscarriage...and also today is my birthday...and watching ur video
@youtubular123
@youtubular123 Месяц назад
This was very informative and your information is correct. As a pharmacist and also a user of enoxaparin, I agree with all you said and you said it in a practical and effective way. I'm so sorry no one sat you down and told you these things beforehand about the shot (we are trained to do so especially for new patients using something so important like this for the first time) but I'm so glad you found your way through. My one qualm is don't advise people to put their medications into a different syringe. Problems can happen where doses aren't transferred completely or needles don't match the type of subcutaneous injection you need. But, if you were able to do this accurately and safely, and it was helpful to you, I wouldn't stop you. Thank you for your video and I wish you a healthy pregnancy and healthy delivery ❤
@MelanieKing
@MelanieKing 2 месяца назад
This is really great. I had a loss at 14 weeks which was quite traumatic, and am now in the early stages of pregnancy again. I love the 'two paths' idea <3
@sindhumunot7867
@sindhumunot7867 2 месяца назад
How many days after u hv tried to get pregnant
@kaitlin8669
@kaitlin8669 2 месяца назад
The whole not trying didn't work for me. Just had my 3rd miscarriage.
@kaitlin8669
@kaitlin8669 2 месяца назад
China is pretty advanced in this area.
@beyourself2788
@beyourself2788 2 месяца назад
Thanks for sharing, I’m going to start it tomorrow, this was very helpful!
@LittleWitch1990
@LittleWitch1990 3 месяца назад
At how many weeks are miscarriages more likely to happen?
@samanthakwait8782
@samanthakwait8782 Месяц назад
Miscarriages are at a rate of 50% in the the first trimester. I’m coming off of two 10-12 week miscarriages. Good luck to you❤
@meiliang8397
@meiliang8397 3 месяца назад
Thank you for this. Really need that positive thoughts in my head. Thank you for reminding me again. Just wonder after how many miscarriages you had until you realized all these positive thoughts.
@williampiper6915
@williampiper6915 3 месяца назад
Thank you for an informative and friendly presentation.
@brookebenton8192
@brookebenton8192 3 месяца назад
Ugh I want to get pregnant again but I'm nervous now:/ I am 41 and have endometriosis and PCOS on top of just having a recent miscarriage. This gives me some hope though:))
@ShotCallerTaylor
@ShotCallerTaylor 3 месяца назад
Hope is not lost. I had a miscarriage last year and now I'm 15 weeks pregnant with my healthy rainbow baby! Oh, and I'm 42 years old. 😳
@Sophie2570
@Sophie2570 28 дней назад
My mom had me at 40, and my sister at 42! Never lose hope!
@ShotCallerTaylor
@ShotCallerTaylor 28 дней назад
@@Sophie2570I’m glad you commented on this. Gives me a chance to update. Still pregnant!!! I’m 26 weeks now at age 42. Baby girl is doing well and is healthy 💗
@duasohail2015
@duasohail2015 4 месяца назад
Can you done karotyping test ??? And what is the result of this??
@natalienaranjo9597
@natalienaranjo9597 4 месяца назад
Thanks so much for sharing, well said! ❤
@Elle_b00
@Elle_b00 4 месяца назад
Just did my first shot- COMPLETELY PAINLESS🎉 A veryyyyy slight burning sensation maybe 1 minute after administering it but that only lasted maybe 3-4 minutes and was very minimal.
@jasminmalfaro
@jasminmalfaro 4 месяца назад
There’s many things such as low progesterone which can help maintain a pregnancy. Some women’s TSH is high and needs to be under 2.5 to lessen changes of a miscarriages. There’s so many things that can help with a miscarriage. As a PCOS woman I am aware of all the things that help women maintain a pregnancy.
@lay6603
@lay6603 4 месяца назад
Please tell me
@lovexoangel
@lovexoangel 4 месяца назад
Ice, an angle, and injecting slowly
@zdenkasimanovska1797
@zdenkasimanovska1797 4 месяца назад
Thank you Kelli for sharing this and all your previous videos too. Helped me a lot. Greatings from Czech Republic. Wish you and your family all the best!
@christyp4264
@christyp4264 4 месяца назад
Thank for sharing, I am currently feeling like this and these videos are helpful. Please contine to share reaources, there is not enough info out there
@kringlekeep4821
@kringlekeep4821 4 месяца назад
Nice to see you back
@aminajay335
@aminajay335 4 месяца назад
Hey just came across your video today.I'm 24 years old and I have lost 5 pregnancies.at this point I do not know what to do anymore 😢
@Ashley-yy4fq
@Ashley-yy4fq 4 месяца назад
Thank you for this! I am currently on Winthrop every 12 hours and …🫠 My mom sent me this and it was so comforting because I felt alone in this. Everything you touched base on is what I’ve been struggling with.
@maxineleinweber8869
@maxineleinweber8869 5 месяцев назад
I had an early loss at about 7 weeks before and even though I'm 12 weeks I still feel anxious and worry at times it might be because it's my first time becoming a mom Hearing the heartbeat definitely helped me be a little less anxious
@GaryLeffew-zp3wx
@GaryLeffew-zp3wx 3 месяца назад
How is it going
@anabnana23
@anabnana23 5 месяцев назад
I really needed this video. I'm trying not to obsess and this was helpful. Thank you so much!
@rebeccalaz5646
@rebeccalaz5646 5 месяцев назад
You're a genius! Thought I was going crazy. Back on loveox and got a new brand "meitheal" I have to force the needle in. Thank you
@lyndseycooke7720
@lyndseycooke7720 5 месяцев назад
I lost our little girl at nearly 20 weeks in August. Currently pregnant with lovenox shots with our rainbow baby at 10 weeks. So refreshing to hear I am not crazy, though it feels like I am sometimes.
@NoKingsNoGodsOnlyMan
@NoKingsNoGodsOnlyMan 5 месяцев назад
It's all about energy. Bioenergetics has the answers. Estrogen causes miscarriages. this has more information... ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-sDu-bLKwnSI.html
@NoKingsNoGodsOnlyMan
@NoKingsNoGodsOnlyMan 5 месяцев назад
Lower estrogen as much as possible, take progesterone before and throughout pregnancy, and avoid eating all polyunsaturated fats. That's what's doing it. The rest is a bunch of nonsense to hide the truth from us. In addition, eat a high metabolic diet that includes lots of natural sugars from things like fresh OJ and honey, lots of milk, some meat, lots of gelatin, real ice cream, oysters once per week, and beef liver once per week after the first trimester.
@BarnettCL
@BarnettCL 5 месяцев назад
Thank you so much for making this video.
@puritykawira3042
@puritykawira3042 5 месяцев назад
I always get miscarriage at 8 weeks,now 5 times....am really stressed up n almost giving up.. brightened ovum all the time, kindly advise
@caitlinsoliman1658
@caitlinsoliman1658 5 месяцев назад
You know it depends on the person. You may be able to do something thru more natural means or not on a case to case basis. That doesn't mean you blame yourself, it means you are trying to empower yourself and do natural things. ...nothint wrong with going to a doctor for advice too.
@Randoariia
@Randoariia 6 месяцев назад
I'm supposed to be at 7 weeks, and I haven't had that first ultrasound yet... so this is helpful for any future bad news I may receive, thank you
@EdraIzzo
@EdraIzzo 5 месяцев назад
I just had my first appointment and he said I'm 5weeks based off my last period but it didn't feel like a real period so I feel like I need an ultrasound. This video is helpful for bad news to me too. It's crazy how Dr's just tell you the same thing you know yourself and now I'm waiting for an ultrasound. This is my first baby and I haven't had miscarriages but my friend miscarried at 3months so I'm stressed and just wanna know exactly how far along I am. I'm waiting for insurance to approve it but I'm in a mom app and I posted about this and the ladies just say "well the Dr can't do anything until 8 weeks the ultrasound won't really tell you much and you should just go based off last period" but I think I'm farther along. I couldn't imagine back in the days before ultrasounds this waiting is driving me nuts
@manywaters23
@manywaters23 6 месяцев назад
Hi Kelli! I've had four miscarriages, and realized that my testosterone is also been rock bottom (most recently 9ng/dL). Would you feel comfortable sharing how low yours was? I'm also realizing that my only live birth was right after a course of DHEA - although that time my T and DHEA levels went up too much. I don't have access to my fertility clinic right now due to insurance/finances, so am thinking of cautiously self-administering a low dose of DHEA, so here I am on the interest trying to do my best to figure things out.
@Parentingtips007
@Parentingtips007 6 месяцев назад
My prob was that my amniotic fluid was very less
@julianna7673
@julianna7673 6 месяцев назад
At the moment I cannot imagine getting pregnant and enjoying it ever again. These tips of 'distraction' and kind of denial is the only possible way BUT - my worry goes way beyond 12 weeks. The question is ...when do you accept you ARE pregnant and start preparing etc. I only expect bad things too...early miscarriage is the best option compared to other scenarios. Not sure how positive thinking changes the fact that baby can die on week 25, 37 or even after birth....HOW to live with those thoughts?
@julianna7673
@julianna7673 28 дней назад
Did you find a way to? Same question . Also this ‘you body tried your best’ is unsettling …my body is the one who gave me this bad embryos to start with thanks very much
@shasia0785
@shasia0785 6 месяцев назад
I just had it done with my doctor in Canada