Hi, I'm Kelli and I like talking about pregnancy loss. I don't know why, but I can't shut up about it. I've been through 5 heart-breaking losses, and I simply want to spread awareness and acceptance about this type of grief.
If you find yourself on a similar, perilous journey while TTC, I want you to know that you are not alone.
If they gave the baby vitamin K, then this is a recipe for jauntice, because the infant's liver cannot process vit.K. And prolonged jauntice in an infant can be neurotoxic. Half of the things the med system does puts our health at risk. No reason whatsoever to give vit K to an infant. Supposedly because "their gut flora is weak and they need help".
my tip is use an Ice pack or if you don't have an Ice pack near you then use a Fruit from refrigerator 😂 like mango or a cold banana.. it hurts way less if you cool the injecting area..And for knot you need to inject it slowly.. and never Ever ever rub or massage the injection area right after injecting..or even press the area. just hold an alchohol pad very gently. these helped me giving my enaxoparin shots..hope it'll help you to..xoxo ❤
It was challenging and unbearable because of how critical my health situation was. but I am grateful and happy to have ordered Dr Aluda herbal supplements on RU-vid which I used and it shrunk my multiple fibroids completely💃💃
It was challenging and unbearable because of how critical my health situation was. but I am grateful and happy to have ordered Dr Aluda herbal supplements on RU-vid which I used and it shrunk my multiple fibroids completely 😊😊
It was challenging and unbearable because of how critical my health situation was. but I am grateful and happy to have ordered Dr Aluda herbal supplements on RU-vid which I used and it shrunk my multiple fibroids completely!
If someone has had multiple miscarriages, the chances of it being a chromosome issue is low, and progressively lower as you have more miscarriages. PGTA is meant to help find healthy, chromosomally normal blastocysts for implantation. IMO, for recurrent miscarriages it doesn't give you much return on investment. Unless, you have other risk factors for chromosome issues, or if money is no issue. IVF sadly does not solve miscarriages. If you have tried everything else it might help in 2 ways: help with timing (and maximizing) expensive treatments like IVIG and as a diagnostic tool.
It’s important to feel hope but I wondered if there’s anyone who feels the same as I do - stories of people getting the babies after years and years of trying SCARE me… I mean , I always think ‘it’s time if you life …it’s all your finances ..it’s all the pain you had to go through ‘ - was a baby really your life goal or did that person become obsessed cause it wasn’t happening ? I know it will sound rediculous but I spent my 20s becoming a lawyer through so many hurdles just to realise I hated it. I’m now 34, I had 2 miscarriages already and I can see that my life could be good if I never wanted a child …not like I can fix my desires but I already feel I’m becoming fixated and going into this long painful process and it scares me 😔😔😔 I want a baby , but realising a have to dedicate my life and leftovers of my youth and go through all this pain upsets me so much :((( I know people will say ‘well may you don’t really want one!’ But I did more than anything . I wanted 3… two are now gone (((
I know what you mean! I struggled with this too. Sometimes I would work to try to convince myself I didn’t really want a baby. I found stopping a desire, especially one rooted in biology and hormones, to be very difficult for me. In hindsight I can say that I believe my life would have been good either way, but I don’t know if I would have believed that while in the middle of the struggle. I’m sorry for your losses and I’m extra sorry if anything I’ve shared has scared you. Sending you love and light 💖
I lost my first baby at 17 weeks.. and then had an ectopic pregnancy 5 months later... I got to the end of 2023 and realized I had spent around 900 hours playing video games just to try and distract myself from the pain in my brain. Now I'm pregnant again with hopefully our miracle (untested) IVF baby and every day is torture trying to make it past 17 weeks, hoping we don't have chromosomal issues this time... Need to figure out a new video game to dive into. (Mass Effect trilogy was by far my favorite of last year.)
This was very informative and your information is correct. As a pharmacist and also a user of enoxaparin, I agree with all you said and you said it in a practical and effective way. I'm so sorry no one sat you down and told you these things beforehand about the shot (we are trained to do so especially for new patients using something so important like this for the first time) but I'm so glad you found your way through. My one qualm is don't advise people to put their medications into a different syringe. Problems can happen where doses aren't transferred completely or needles don't match the type of subcutaneous injection you need. But, if you were able to do this accurately and safely, and it was helpful to you, I wouldn't stop you. Thank you for your video and I wish you a healthy pregnancy and healthy delivery ❤
This is really great. I had a loss at 14 weeks which was quite traumatic, and am now in the early stages of pregnancy again. I love the 'two paths' idea <3
Thank you for this. Really need that positive thoughts in my head. Thank you for reminding me again. Just wonder after how many miscarriages you had until you realized all these positive thoughts.
Ugh I want to get pregnant again but I'm nervous now:/ I am 41 and have endometriosis and PCOS on top of just having a recent miscarriage. This gives me some hope though:))
@@Sophie2570I’m glad you commented on this. Gives me a chance to update. Still pregnant!!! I’m 26 weeks now at age 42. Baby girl is doing well and is healthy 💗
Just did my first shot- COMPLETELY PAINLESS🎉 A veryyyyy slight burning sensation maybe 1 minute after administering it but that only lasted maybe 3-4 minutes and was very minimal.
There’s many things such as low progesterone which can help maintain a pregnancy. Some women’s TSH is high and needs to be under 2.5 to lessen changes of a miscarriages. There’s so many things that can help with a miscarriage. As a PCOS woman I am aware of all the things that help women maintain a pregnancy.
Thank you Kelli for sharing this and all your previous videos too. Helped me a lot. Greatings from Czech Republic. Wish you and your family all the best!
Thank for sharing, I am currently feeling like this and these videos are helpful. Please contine to share reaources, there is not enough info out there
Thank you for this! I am currently on Winthrop every 12 hours and …🫠 My mom sent me this and it was so comforting because I felt alone in this. Everything you touched base on is what I’ve been struggling with.
I had an early loss at about 7 weeks before and even though I'm 12 weeks I still feel anxious and worry at times it might be because it's my first time becoming a mom Hearing the heartbeat definitely helped me be a little less anxious
I lost our little girl at nearly 20 weeks in August. Currently pregnant with lovenox shots with our rainbow baby at 10 weeks. So refreshing to hear I am not crazy, though it feels like I am sometimes.
It's all about energy. Bioenergetics has the answers. Estrogen causes miscarriages. this has more information... ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-sDu-bLKwnSI.html
Lower estrogen as much as possible, take progesterone before and throughout pregnancy, and avoid eating all polyunsaturated fats. That's what's doing it. The rest is a bunch of nonsense to hide the truth from us. In addition, eat a high metabolic diet that includes lots of natural sugars from things like fresh OJ and honey, lots of milk, some meat, lots of gelatin, real ice cream, oysters once per week, and beef liver once per week after the first trimester.
You know it depends on the person. You may be able to do something thru more natural means or not on a case to case basis. That doesn't mean you blame yourself, it means you are trying to empower yourself and do natural things. ...nothint wrong with going to a doctor for advice too.
I just had my first appointment and he said I'm 5weeks based off my last period but it didn't feel like a real period so I feel like I need an ultrasound. This video is helpful for bad news to me too. It's crazy how Dr's just tell you the same thing you know yourself and now I'm waiting for an ultrasound. This is my first baby and I haven't had miscarriages but my friend miscarried at 3months so I'm stressed and just wanna know exactly how far along I am. I'm waiting for insurance to approve it but I'm in a mom app and I posted about this and the ladies just say "well the Dr can't do anything until 8 weeks the ultrasound won't really tell you much and you should just go based off last period" but I think I'm farther along. I couldn't imagine back in the days before ultrasounds this waiting is driving me nuts
Hi Kelli! I've had four miscarriages, and realized that my testosterone is also been rock bottom (most recently 9ng/dL). Would you feel comfortable sharing how low yours was? I'm also realizing that my only live birth was right after a course of DHEA - although that time my T and DHEA levels went up too much. I don't have access to my fertility clinic right now due to insurance/finances, so am thinking of cautiously self-administering a low dose of DHEA, so here I am on the interest trying to do my best to figure things out.
At the moment I cannot imagine getting pregnant and enjoying it ever again. These tips of 'distraction' and kind of denial is the only possible way BUT - my worry goes way beyond 12 weeks. The question is ...when do you accept you ARE pregnant and start preparing etc. I only expect bad things too...early miscarriage is the best option compared to other scenarios. Not sure how positive thinking changes the fact that baby can die on week 25, 37 or even after birth....HOW to live with those thoughts?
Did you find a way to? Same question . Also this ‘you body tried your best’ is unsettling …my body is the one who gave me this bad embryos to start with thanks very much