It took me years of hard work to forgive my mum. The relief was huge and I am very proud of myself, It was VERY hard. My brother did the most horrible thing and was hurting me many many times. I was always forgiving him because despite it all I loved him. I can´t and don´t want to forgive him for the last thing he did. I can´t let him hurt me again and again. I am not a negative person, I am not eaten with anger or hate. I am just protecting myself. Finally.
"Remember, suiciding will never provide answers for your life problems" - - where does this come from? Ultimative statement with no proof, explanation or elaboration.
Such a good explanation and guidance along the Buddhist lines. Taking the core dhamma to so many. Thank you Venerable. Your clips have helped my life in many ways. ..namo buddhay
Practice the pause, apply brakes, reflect the possible outcomes of my decisions, my anger...is it even necessary to react....Practice the pause....watch hot breath blowing out from your NOSTRILS. Remember, since we are not the sole inhabitants of this densely populated world, there are bound to be external disturbances of various kinds, such as noise and interruptions by visitors. We cannot always live in “splendid isolation,” “from noise of men and dogs untroubled,” or in “ivory towers” high above the crowd. Right mediation is not escapism; it is not meant to provide hiding-places for temporary oblivion. Realistic meditation has the purpose of training the mind to face, to understand and to conquer this very world in which we live. And this world inevitably includes numerous obstacles to the life of meditation.😂
I am sufuring from enxiety since one year and I fill so much pain from those enxiety thoughts but now I disided to practice this things I hope I will be get recover from this enxiety 😊thank you so much bhange ji
Speaker: "You are one of all these idiots, who think that what is happening with them is significant. Nothing like this. You is one body of millions who has to be processed by the system. Shut up, go to psychiatrists and take your pills quietly ( and gain weight, blood pressure, blood sugar, other harm, lose your workability and relations, but shh, they musn't know about this until it won't be too late for them )" 😄
Thank you very much, your teaching, your thinking helps me a lot with my life style. I am a very calm and happy person. In the past I felt anger , jealousy and that's all change ❤❤❤ thank you 🙏
