How To Handle The Grief When Someone You Loved Died | Buddhism In English 

My mother died 15 hour ago 😢😢😢 in accident and I can't handle this situation in 17th age 😢 love you so much my mom 😭😭😭😭😭

Well for me it worked somehow. My mother died after having suffered a most horrible cancer for a long time, and the last thing she heard was the dhammacakkappavattana sutta which I facilitated her via earphones. Anicca is one of the three absolute and undeniable realities, there is no way to circunvent them as there is no way to live without breathing. Thanks for the compassionate advice!

For those who lost the love ones and are in suffering. It's painful because you love them, honor that. At the same time, aware that it's the truth in life, embrace and let go. They just go back to where they were. Don't hang on to the grief, but keep the good memories and forgive yourself to move on. They will always have a special place in your heart, you aren't forgetting them. This is how I handle the lost of all my family members. Hope this helps.

Lost my dad in 2017 and my mum 6 month ago...my mum and I were extremely close and I miss her every day I still grieve everyday

May Buddha Bless Everyone Especially Those Who Are Having Difficulty In Thier Lives🙏

An elephant named Arjuna died in wild elephant capture operation it has caused me so much grief i had never met him in real but the whole karnataka state people are sad i don't how to forget the pain its hurting me inside 😫🥺

The practice: 1) know that it is the truth, that you are going to lose the people you live 2) Treasure them, in the limited time you have with them, treat them with kindness. 3) dont make a dead loved one the source of your pain. Cos your loved one wont want that. Even with practice, we will still feel the pain with a loved one dies.

Everything must be left behind. Namo Buddhaya 🙏

We lost our beautiful cat Jett today, one of 8 but she touched our lives in the 6 years we rescued her and saved her from several illnesses, sadly this illness we couldn’t beat. We are so happy to see your video tonight and as we cry we incorporated joy and laughter and happy memories she left us. Thank you for your timely video.

I lost my grandmother 7 days ago.I cannot forgot this.I cried a lot.Before she died I had spent my whole time with my grandmother.I really missed her. Love you lot my grandmother❤. Her last days was very hard.I wish I want to see her...she always supported me.I never forget her. I want to spend my day with you again🥹.Rest in peace.

I lost my mom in 2017....I was in shock for 1 year but then I realized this is the toughest reality we must face everytime

I lost my dearest one my husband due to COVID two years ago. Only the individual can feel the deepest. I am still feeling the lost till today. Even though practise meditation, being busy with choas, very close to the creator and the universe, at some gap sadness is always there. 😢

Lost my partner for 3 yrs now. Still miss him so much😢😢😢

"For whom passion is abundant, suffering is abundant, For whom passion is little, suffering is little." ❤

That's very wholesome. Nobody wants to see their loved ones sad. Especially after their death b'cos then their passing away is the cause of your sadness. That’s being very unselfish. I want to live like that. Namo buddhaya 🙏

I was never ready to face losing my Mother 😢 i miss her immensely 😔💞

Don’t make the dead one become the source of your pain. Make people around you become the source of happiness ❤❤❤ Thank you for beautiful teachings Namo Buddhaya!

My father passed on January 1, 2024 from stage 4 lung cancer. Although I experienced grief & continue to, it’s not as bad. I was able to spend his last moments with him, to care for him, pray for him, sit with him, laugh with him. I am forever grateful for those last moments ❤ When my mother passed in 2016 suddenly, that was much worse for me! I didn’t get to say goodbye. Any experiencing loss & grief, take it one moment at a time. Think about the good memories! Honor them forever ♾️

My grandfather passed away on 04/04/2024....could not cope up with it.I could not speak last words with him.He was a really good human being. Rest in Peace Babuji 💐🙏

Love them unconditionally while we are here .Resolve unkind feelings and any situation that might have come up while they are here. Forgiveness is key.

Yesterday i lost my best friend my girlfriend my love she was everything to me she was suffering from so much pain but i am happy for her that now baby is resting in peace and i also know that her soul will never die only physically she is not here and one day i will name my daughter on her name her soul will always be with me i will always love her i will always be attached with her and one day in afterlife i will meet her and hug her

Simple and practical that can handle one of the most difficulties situation in our lives. Treating others with kindness is so powerful. I very much appreciate for sharing words of the Buddha. 🙏

නමස්කාර වේවා ‍ ගරු ස්වාමින්වහන්ස .🎉

My sweet cat Harley passed away this year. He was very lovely and friendly. We all miss him. ❤

I lost my dad in 2022 I’m still trying to live life without my dad. 4/112024 I lost my one and only sister to a sudden illness. She was my BF she was my world. It’s been so hard for me I think about her everyday I cried myself to sleep wishing I can hug her again 😭💔😭💔 I’m so broken she took a big piece of my heart with her.

This is great ,I try to always live by this, but it is not easy

We have to let it go, no matter how hard it is. Thanks for sharing this

My mother died 2013. When I was coming to be with her for one month, unfortunately she has died 20 minute before I have landed to the airport. When I went to see and touch body was cold and left this world. My world is shattered. But I am thankful that she is no longer suffering. RIP mum 🙏🙏🙏

I had a strange sensation when my most beloved dog, Mika, passed on. I was filled with a sensation of bliss. I spent the last few months of her life caring for her with utmost love. I gave her all I could, even the last evening till the last moment, I was there for her. I was very sad to lose this lovely being as I loved her the most. What helped me the most were the memories of how we spent the last few months together when I knew she had late-stage kidney failure. She died before she reached 4 years of age. We all grieve differently, as attachment varies with our relationship with the being that is dying. I have lost one parent, but my grief for Mika was very different. I agree that we must love the dying with care, kindness and compassion, as their time with us is short. That act gives us great solace.

My mother died 7months ago,a week before my engagement.its a really hard to face that pain but i faced,she is my best friend she is the most loving person in my life but i have to face that much of pain.My only wish is for her soul to rest in peace as a tribute to the one who raised me and brought me to where I am today. Namo buddhaya.

Thank you. I just lost the lamp of my soul, my mother. I'm devastated. The holidays are over me. On top of that they terminated me from work Wednesday because of my grief. Now what???? Pls pray for me

Yes... be kind to everyone... you never know when or if you will see them again.

Mom dies6whwn i was 4years old. Papa died 6 months acter i left my country to study abroad, (he died when i was 21years) now i am 23years old ...it still feels very new...i feel broken when i think of him.... I just Love him like nothing else and I'll always love him till i die ....

I lost my mother... I lost from last two years...but I am trying to complete her wish and dreams... I am trying very hard but I am not able to achieve... I am so sad and broken...😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

Two days ago, Wednesday morning around 11:30am my male lovebird gomu passed away. I tried giving him cpr and mouth to beak. Sprayed water and gave him water but still he didn't survive. He was the kindest. He loved me more I could ever love him. Ii couldn't sleep and cried a lot. I did take him to hospital but it was too late. Vet were not avian expert. I really wish I could have saved him. He's presence mattered to us. My wife is pregnant and she's been sad and crying. Life is ruthless. Why do we get attached even though we know that it's gonna hurt us someday. I was very practical amd tough person but when my gomu the LoveBird died. Only then I realised what softie I am inside. I even cried at office at home, morning. It felt like world ended for me. You're right they have to go. Today or tomorrow. That's truth we have accept. Indeed, lil bird taught me a lesson to love unconditionally everyone because we never know when's the last day.

That is so kind and loving. Even though it hurts you you can still smile for the good memories created together❤❤THANK YOU😊❤

Your last one minute was the most powerful -

The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat,known suffering,known struggle,known loss and have found their way out of the depths.These persons have an appreciation,a sensitivity,and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness,and a deep loving concern.Beautiful people do not just happen. (Elisabeth Kubler-Ross)

Really because we love someone ..that people die we cannot control ❤❤

Thanks for your advice.Really appreciate it..thats why i try not to cry too much and feel the pain cos it will keep coming back and we must understand that if we dont accept the truth, the pain will be in us forever and that is not what their wishes, we must respect them and believe in the care and happiness they have given to us is priceless, we must always remember they are still living in our hearts though they physically left us, just be positive and start to pick yourself up again and life still have to go on, be strong and get up to be a happy person for them as they have begun their lives in a better place , try to leave the shadow of their death and surrender all yourself in God's hands.🙏

Thank you so much! My brother died two months ago, and I am so grateful for all the good talks we had about life, wisdom etc. while he was ill. I knew it was over when he got too tired to talk. Now I am grateful for these years. 🙏

Wow I needed this. Thank you.

My fiancée passed away last month. It is one of the hardest pains ever. But I am still strong and our memories together will live with me forever. I am moving forward following my goals with all the good I learned from her and I will make her proud one day. Namo Buddhaya!

Thank you for your wise words.

I had a miscarriage earlier this year. I didn't know my baby in person but I love her dearly. I miss her every day and I don't feel like I am ever gonna be truly happy again. I feel like I don't deserve to be happy again. The day she died something in me died too. Meditation helped me with the grief but this day changed me. People tell me, it's better this way.

Thank you for this video!

Wow! This is profound!

You are a guide for me 🙏 thank you 💔❤️

Beautiful advice ❤

Very wise words.🙏🏻

Beautiful, many blessings ,🙏

Your videos give me strength ❤

Thank you❤❤❤

Great guidance sir Thank you

Thanks God n universe angels and thank you so much thero❤

Thank you ❤❤❤ Namo Buddhaya❤❤❤

So beautiful. Thank you. Namo Buddhaya 🙏💖

Beautiful advise. Thank you ❤

Thank you my dear😊

Nice speech🎉🎉🎉

Namo buddhaya great advice🙏🙏🙏

Thank you dear for your nice advises, nice blessings

My favorite channel ❤ thank you very much 🙏

Namo buddhaya❤🙏

Namo Budhaaya... 🙏🙏🙏

You are such an amazing person. I am so grateful that I have gotten to know you. ❤ ❤😊😊

Celebrate the life... Makes sense.

Really Really needed of this & you came😊Thank you so much Dearest Bhanteji 😊😌❤️🙏Namo Buddhay 😊😌❤️🙏

Namo Buddhaya 🙏 ❤

My best friend died at 19 after falling into cardiac arrest... All I can say is thank you 🙏

Thank for download becouse no network at home , I can watch many time

Sifu, thank you for this powerful wisdom. It has helped me on this day! Namo amitofu ☸️!

“Don’t make the source of your happiness become the source of your pain.” Thank you for these words.

Thank you so much for teaching beautifull thoughts guruji.

❤❤❤namo Buddha 🙏🏻

I have been watching you for three years and now I have so many things to scatter away among the people surrounding me.

Thank you for kindly and respectfully sharing truth with us.

Merci pour ces conseils de sagesse . L impermanence ,le depart de nos etres aimés est cependant tres difficile à accepter . 🙏🇨🇵

Tq very much sir 😊

Namo Buddhay 💙

Everything we see is left behind🎉

Yes 🤍💛🧡 Feeling Love to them & being Thankful to them 🤍💚💙 no big pain 💜💙💗 Love & Thank & Nature 😘☘️ Thank you!!!

The last part made my day

Thanks to your video , I learn a lot from you 🙏🙏🙏❤️ Thanks to Buldda 🙏🙏🙏❤️

දෙවි පිහිටයි හමුදුරැවනෙ❤❤❤❤

Thanks thero.l follow your videos.l wish to meet you in Sri Lanka 🙏🏻🌸

Namo Buddhaya 🙏

Lost my mom this past Saturday the 16th. I'm going to miss her so much

Hello watching and listening from 🇲🇴

We have little time this people Namo budhaya 🙏🏼 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

Theruwan sarana from Italy.

Ur speech is simply relaxing so immensely, really when we hear ur speech, truly getting some divine feeling in your TRUE words. Pls keep motivating us. 🙏

thank you so much!!

Nammobhudya dear freind ❤️😊💕

Bhante, please provide us with a guided impermanence meditation. 🙏

Thank you so much..!!

So true!

Tqvm for Sharing.. Sometimes we are really very Sad over the Loved ones passing away..But we Still f to move on in Life without them...Noting is permanent.. One Day we too disappear from this world..We leave behind our Sweet memories.. Always be kind , Speak politely n Happy with everyone.. Namobudaya 🙏❤️🙏

This is really for me the best advice. I ❤️ ever listened too.I have my son that will be gone soon because of his own behavior. Its really bad.And i do expspect it very soon. ❤❤❤Thank you so much for this video. It will give me some thing to hold on too.I have bad panic attacks and thats a bad fear.❤❤❤

Namo buddhaya ❤