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@Agumon5
@Agumon5 Месяц назад
I sometimes have the opposite problem. I cannot stop blaming myself. I cannot stop pointing the finger on myself. I cannot give myself mercy or grace or compassion. I blame myself for my past mistakes to the point of paralyzing self-loathing.
@aureliofelix3335
@aureliofelix3335 Месяц назад
The way I solved this was by learning from my mistakes, Every time I make a mistake, I think "how/what can I learn from this?". This way of thinking gives me peace, even when my emotions are running high, because I know that mistakes are a natural part of human life. I write in a diary and also make quick notes on my cell phone every time I do something I consider a mistake. I ask myself "what was the mistake, and how can I avoid it in the future". If I fail, I ask myself "what led me to fail, and how can I avoid it". It's a cycle, but it only takes you up, never down. It only takes you down when you give up and stop trying to improve. I also think that the most important thing is not to be ignorant and to see reality as it really is. I know I'm not perfect, so I won't be harsh with myself when I make mistakes. I know I can change, so I analyze every mistake I make and feel gratified afterwards. I know I'm not a psychologist, so maybe sometimes I misinterpret my mistakes. I know that learning is a slow process, so the only thing I can do now is to keep trying to improve.
@kalaiarasansk3573
@kalaiarasansk3573 Месяц назад
U wrote this from my mind 🥺
@WisdomRoad-yr4ig
@WisdomRoad-yr4ig Месяц назад
Keep practicing 🧘‍♂️
@divyasivakumar4116
@divyasivakumar4116 Месяц назад
❤❤
@yogendra0606
@yogendra0606 Месяц назад
dont point out at your self ..you have done mistakes unintentionally ..and you are not matured enough at that time and u accepted now it will heal u..dont worry everyp0ne makes mistakes...be pure from heart god will shower blessing on u
@bibhu939
@bibhu939 Месяц назад
This channel is shaping my life. Thank you so much Namo buddhhaya
@ankitchaturvedi8802
@ankitchaturvedi8802 26 дней назад
Same vro
@akankshaawasthi3130
@akankshaawasthi3130 Месяц назад
I don't know how i control my mind and concentrate on my studies. I feel sometimes empty or may be fully filled. Nothing goes right with me and I know it is all my things . daily i think that today I do it but I can't .i don't know what to do . But your videos give me positive strength may be today is not my day but I'll make it oneday.
@AnshkumarDubey-zq3vz
@AnshkumarDubey-zq3vz Месяц назад
Same thing happening withe me. Which exam are you preparing for?
@Raina190
@Raina190 Месяц назад
Same problem 😢😢I can't concentrate on my study because of regret.. but I have so many exams in this year.. and I have to pass any of them.. and 4 months are already gone from 2024😢😢
@traumagirlvalerie8420
@traumagirlvalerie8420 Месяц назад
I know how you feel but we will get through this. Keep watching his videos and know there are other souls like yourself who are going through it too and are praying for the best for you too!
@felixd1831
@felixd1831 Месяц назад
​@Raina190 there is no point in regretting because those are past events and you cannot change them. What you can do is, focus on the present moment, improve yourself, and create a better future for yourself
@RPSewminiKavindya
@RPSewminiKavindya Месяц назад
"do not expect people be like you" I really felt it.Learning from others' mistakes is crucial for our own growth. It helps us avoid making the same errors.thankyou🙏🙏
@bobblebec12
@bobblebec12 Месяц назад
I just let go now and try and be kind and if people aren’t kind walk away. ❤
@Echo_Canine11
@Echo_Canine11 Месяц назад
Gosh man.... whenever I watch these videos, I'm seriously reminded that there are still some strong anchors in this river. Thank you for the wonderful advice.
@pamodarajapaksha694
@pamodarajapaksha694 Месяц назад
🙏නමෝ බුද්ධාය!☸️ ✨අප හට මහත් අනුකම්පාවෙන් අර්ථයෙන් ධර්මයෙන් අනුශාසනා කරන පිංවත් ස්වාමීන් වහන්සේට මගේ නමස්කාරය වේවා..!🙏☸️🍃🪔 🙏සාදු.. සාදු.. සාදු..🙏 ✨පිංවත් ස්වාමීන් වහන්සේට මේ භවයේදීම උතුම් චතුරාර්ය සත්‍ය ධර්මය පරිපුර්ණ වශයෙන්ම අවබෝධ කර ගැනීමට මේ ධර්ම දානමය කුසලය හේතු වාසනා වේවා..!🙏☸️🍃🪔 🙏සාදු.. සාදු.. සාදු..🙏 🙏තෙරුවන් සරණයි පිංවත් ස්වාමීන් වහන්ස..!☸️
@T.M.SRathnayake
@T.M.SRathnayake 10 дней назад
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@mayuraovinda4731
@mayuraovinda4731 Месяц назад
I watched your all videos and am sri lanka. and monks like you are very rare and also in Sri Lanka is even more . සාධු සාධු සාධු 🙏🙏🙏
@JA-eb2tj
@JA-eb2tj Месяц назад
There are lot of them in the villages but in social media it's so hard to find someone like this thero..
@YvonneDearden
@YvonneDearden Месяц назад
Thank you for your wonderful Buddhist Wisdom
@bob.hudson
@bob.hudson Месяц назад
This is one of the most difficult lesson to learn... Once you stop focusing on others and you focus on yourself, you then realise that you have to forgive yourself for your own mistakes.
@chandanaedirisinghe8732
@chandanaedirisinghe8732 Месяц назад
My best friend uses her valuable time to talk to her boyfriend and meet him. But she cannot use that much time for those things because she has many lessons to cover. She is studying Biology, and she has lots of work. She has already missed so much work. I want to tell her all these things but I can't. I'm afraid that she would get me wrong . what should I do?
@julbro8451
@julbro8451 Месяц назад
The Buddha was a great psychologist!
@felixd1831
@felixd1831 Месяц назад
He had psychic powers. He can see your mind in this life, in all your past lives, and in all your future lives
@HaharuRecords
@HaharuRecords Месяц назад
He wa way beyond that..But no God
@supipiaravindya2932
@supipiaravindya2932 Месяц назад
ඔබ වහන්සේගේ හඬ ඇහුවමත් හිත නිවෙනවා හාමුදුරුවනේ..අපේ බුදුහාමුදුරුවන්ගේ ධර්මය,දර්ශනය ලෝකෙටම කියල දෙන්න,ලෝකයම සාමකාමී හැමෝටම සතුටෙන් ජීවත් වෙන්න පුළුවන් තැනක් කරන්න උදව් වෙන්න තව තවත් ශක්තිය ලැබේවා...තෙරුවන් සරණයි 🙏☸️
@andrewwater5836
@andrewwater5836 Месяц назад
So wise words. Namo Buddhaya 🙏
@ramitamaharjan7458
@ramitamaharjan7458 Месяц назад
Plz make a video on how to deal with people who intentionally cause trouble for you ( like roommates, tenants, in laws etc) how do you deal with such people?
@reachtosky942
@reachtosky942 Месяц назад
Even I am searching for the answer everyday
@tikagurung9338
@tikagurung9338 Месяц назад
🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹Wandana Bhante jiu Hajur Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu
@TusharChavan-gp1bu
@TusharChavan-gp1bu Месяц назад
Love from India👌
@shubhasmitasahoo493
@shubhasmitasahoo493 Месяц назад
Thank u so much . I will try to change my behaviour towards pepole who misbehaves me . May god give me the strength for dealing with them calmly
@patriciawee5095
@patriciawee5095 Месяц назад
It seems impossible for me to do house chores. Why is it? I tried so very hard on my mind planning. But, when come to doing it, i always feel overwhelm. Although when talk of Dharma or sharing n spreading your videos, no problem at all. And I love doing it. Thank you Venerable. I hope to meet you one fine day Namo Buddhaya🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@nickyjones2709
@nickyjones2709 Месяц назад
I have the same problem. Mind you I have too much clutter and old clothes and post from years ago and I don't know where to start.
@deannag4581
@deannag4581 9 дней назад
@@nickyjones2709 My advice would be to just start somewhere. Do a little bit here and there and it will start to become a habit and you won't think about it as much. Make the activity enjoyable, too, like playing music while you're working. Don't be too hard on yourself and just see every little bit as progress and success. I hope that helps 💛
@RiyaJoshi-cm2fx
@RiyaJoshi-cm2fx Месяц назад
Its a very big fault on us to find out the other fault you are give so good lesson for understand this mistake❤
@surajmatta2544
@surajmatta2544 Месяц назад
Namo Buddhaya
@MohammedAhmedAhmmy
@MohammedAhmedAhmmy Месяц назад
Can you make a video on how to stop addiction of any drug like cigarettes and all? I really want to quit it but theres something inside me that brings me back towards smoking.
@atharvakulkarni3921
@atharvakulkarni3921 13 дней назад
I have personally broken 2-3 addictions of myself so if u don't mind ill give u some advice 1. Become aware that ur breaking your habit means if u already start smoking again and then u worry then there is no point the deed is done. 2. Don't think about sacrifice what u are sacrificing it will often backfire in ways for eg like one cigarette is fine and mind will play all types of tricks Instead focus on positive what you are getting from quitting for eg a better health and better life so we can provide for our family. 3. Hardest point is when we do realise we messed up but u should realise that the bad habit didn't form in one day so it will not leave in one day either it will take just as much time or can take twice as much aswell . 4. Most most important thing is to reflect everytime what u did wrong and identify the trigger what caused u smoke again and the more u do this every time u will improve. Love yourself as it is a slow process and don't give up
@nithya7201
@nithya7201 10 дней назад
When you thinking about smoking you start thinking about that disadvantages (dangerous)of your health what's happen when you smoke 💯
@tokyo8533
@tokyo8533 24 дня назад
I was fed up with my mindset my thoughts my view points....I support everyone but i alwaya blame myself ...Your vedios give me hope that I can fix my mind and it gives me hope to live..thank you so much❤❤❤
@sindhuudayakumar7979
@sindhuudayakumar7979 Месяц назад
❤Karuna cheyvan enthe.......... thaamasam. 🙏🏻🙏🏻💗💗 Krishnaaaaaaa❤❤❤🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💐🌹💗 Loka Samasta Sukhino Bhavantu Namo Buddhaya ❤❤❤🎉🎉
@lipikathakur1150
@lipikathakur1150 Месяц назад
Namo bhudhaya 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻🌹🌺
@user-we7ki1qj1y
@user-we7ki1qj1y Месяц назад
Thank you so much, very encouraging!!!
@dumeshiellawidana9486
@dumeshiellawidana9486 Месяц назад
Thank you so much..!!
@user-qn6qu3co3j
@user-qn6qu3co3j Месяц назад
Wonderful. Thanks a lot sensei.
@gungun_arya.
@gungun_arya. Месяц назад
you're amazing motivator 👍💛
@positivity_23
@positivity_23 Месяц назад
Thanks for all your videos ⚡️
@ambikaupadhya431
@ambikaupadhya431 Месяц назад
I felt so happy listening to you 😊
@AnniePraveena
@AnniePraveena Месяц назад
Thanks so much 🙏 stay blessed
@potensvita
@potensvita Месяц назад
You bring peace to me
@sangeetanair3643
@sangeetanair3643 5 дней назад
Beautiful ❤️
@matarasriyani9256
@matarasriyani9256 Месяц назад
Namobuddhaya .Theruwan saranai .🙏🙏🙏
@samilarungapamestry6466
@samilarungapamestry6466 Месяц назад
Beautiful..
@SwarnapravaTripathy-rf8rd
@SwarnapravaTripathy-rf8rd Месяц назад
Wow amazing explanation
@ravenmaniac428
@ravenmaniac428 Месяц назад
Thank you.❤ 🙏
@georginahuq9033
@georginahuq9033 28 дней назад
Thank you.
@yakshithrao9168
@yakshithrao9168 Месяц назад
Tq u namo buddhaya
@reenachazhikulathil4116
@reenachazhikulathil4116 Месяц назад
Jai gurudev.. Namo budhaya
@aishwaryamadabhavi939
@aishwaryamadabhavi939 Месяц назад
Golden words 🙏
@nandhinirangaraj4045
@nandhinirangaraj4045 Месяц назад
Wonderful reminder 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@pronunciationway8502
@pronunciationway8502 Месяц назад
Great lesson🙏 Namho Budhaya🙏
@sarithabalaji8572
@sarithabalaji8572 Месяц назад
Thank you🙏🌹 sir be blessed by the divine
@bindukdas7182
@bindukdas7182 Месяц назад
Thank you❤❤❤
@uthpalasanjeevani7157
@uthpalasanjeevani7157 Месяц назад
Thanks for share this valuable teachings in this new year...
@krishkrish9374
@krishkrish9374 Месяц назад
Thank you for this message starting a special day😌 Happy new year 🎉
@sonali_0310
@sonali_0310 Месяц назад
Namo budhhaya 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
@saivijayalakshmi2312
@saivijayalakshmi2312 Месяц назад
Thank you sir🙏🙏
@corlisscrabtree3647
@corlisscrabtree3647 Месяц назад
Thank you 🙏
@Thusith_
@Thusith_ Месяц назад
Namo buddhaya ❤
@user-bn7gt9xf9b
@user-bn7gt9xf9b Месяц назад
Lot of love from Bangladesh. Thank you sir.
@ManohariMalki
@ManohariMalki Месяц назад
Namo buddhaya....❤❤❤
@Sllpp6909
@Sllpp6909 Месяц назад
Bahot sadharan gyan tha...🙏
@ongleon4468
@ongleon4468 Месяц назад
Thank You 🙏🏽 Namo Buddhaya 🙏🏽
@jjamesbyerly
@jjamesbyerly Месяц назад
This meditation is very relevant for parents, and how to correctly guide children. Thank you for this wisdom.
@MM-vo1ij
@MM-vo1ij Месяц назад
This teaching was what I needed!Thank you🙏
@24HK340
@24HK340 Месяц назад
Namo buddhaya... 🙏
@hsmint
@hsmint Месяц назад
The habit of finding fault on others. When we point one finger towards others, we are pointing 3 fingers at ourselves. We should find what good or bad we have done ourselves. We always think, "Why cant they behave like me?" But no one can behave like us and act according to our wish, people are behaving from their perception. Understand that everyone is suffering, so do not find fault on others. That said, there are people who we should find fault on, ie those that we love. But use the correct approach, never use anger and violent. Speak to them privately, also to praise the good things they have done. That way, the listener will be more receptive of what you suggest to him/her to improve on.
@Users370
@Users370 Месяц назад
Such wise teaching ,thank you 🙏🪷
@akashkv6135
@akashkv6135 Месяц назад
Best of the best
@apekshadandi7767
@apekshadandi7767 Месяц назад
Namo buddhaay bhantiji 🙏🙏🙏🙇🏼‍♀️🙇🏼‍♀️🙇🏼‍♀️
@imashanimasha7728
@imashanimasha7728 Месяц назад
Namo Buddhaya !🙏🙏🙏💐
@huongNguyenL
@huongNguyenL Месяц назад
Thank you 🙏🙏🙏
@nandanialgoda880
@nandanialgoda880 Месяц назад
Very valuable advise. Namo buddhya!
@sanyamraman383
@sanyamraman383 Месяц назад
Thanks sir 😊
@ARSAGAMING69
@ARSAGAMING69 Месяц назад
Namo buddhaya ❤🙏
@ChamilasanthiKanapathi
@ChamilasanthiKanapathi 21 день назад
Idea what
@M.Ojha9435
@M.Ojha9435 Месяц назад
Thank you❤❤❤❤ Namo Buddhaya❤❤❤❤❤
@sarthakstudy5147
@sarthakstudy5147 Месяц назад
I can't explain , I am going through the problem now but today you unexpectedly uploaded the video ❤
@lovadesi
@lovadesi Месяц назад
Perfect teaching at the right time .
@user-gu9qz5ns7v
@user-gu9qz5ns7v Месяц назад
sadhu sadhu sadhu...! Namo buddhaya..!☸️🪷🙏
@user-lh9id7ee2c
@user-lh9id7ee2c Месяц назад
Good msg thanq for doing the video
@martacabrera5026
@martacabrera5026 Месяц назад
Thankyou 🙏❤️
@rod2623
@rod2623 Месяц назад
Thank you
@flyme2009
@flyme2009 Месяц назад
i will keep it in my mind namo budhaya
@wangchusherpa3085
@wangchusherpa3085 Месяц назад
Thank you so much for the teaching.❤ Really helpful. Namo Budhaya
@rashmipoornima584
@rashmipoornima584 Месяц назад
New year with a new lesson...
@rasikasurendragamage5860
@rasikasurendragamage5860 Месяц назад
Thank you for all these videos I really appreciate these videos thank you🙏🙏🙏
@Aizen__sama__99
@Aizen__sama__99 Месяц назад
I listened your words seriously.
@user-gx6rr8gf4l
@user-gx6rr8gf4l Месяц назад
Namo Buddhaya. Thank you. 🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤
@nileshmedhe2212
@nileshmedhe2212 Месяц назад
Vandami Bhante ❤
@OmBirajdar
@OmBirajdar Месяц назад
Thankyou really for making such videos , one understanding them can really change his way of living and perspective
@MasterBuddha001
@MasterBuddha001 Месяц назад
Thank you sir
@aravindadharsh
@aravindadharsh Месяц назад
Thank you... Right message at the right time.... Namo Buddhaaya.... 🙏🙏🙏
@arunamurugesan2125
@arunamurugesan2125 18 дней назад
Thank you so much. Your words means a lot to me.
@jessicabillone2643
@jessicabillone2643 15 дней назад
I wish I found this channel two years ago
@Steveoaudioandstuff
@Steveoaudioandstuff Месяц назад
Inspirational
@Eshadow..
@Eshadow.. Месяц назад
namo buddhaya 🙏🏻
@ratnabahadurgurung9850
@ratnabahadurgurung9850 Месяц назад
Excellent advice thanks a lots.
@Maahir397
@Maahir397 Месяц назад
Thank you every time ❤😊
@orrphase77
@orrphase77 Месяц назад
Wonderful advice. Thanks alot my dear❤💓💗
@mamatachhetry3225
@mamatachhetry3225 Месяц назад
Namo Buddhaya❤
@user-nl1wt3ux1c
@user-nl1wt3ux1c Месяц назад
Namo buddhaya😊
@crimped357
@crimped357 Месяц назад
thank you for this wonderful advice, namo buddahaya 🙏
@karenstephenson
@karenstephenson Месяц назад
That's very true!
@oskarumesh2394
@oskarumesh2394 Месяц назад
❤❤❤❤❤❤ Well Said.
@BandulaSarath-fv3cy
@BandulaSarath-fv3cy Месяц назад
Namo buddhaya 💐 💐 🌹
@sisiradeshapriya2348
@sisiradeshapriya2348 Месяц назад
❤❤❤ I’m very happy after watched this video. I’ll try to do so. ❤
@kpopsweetie8106
@kpopsweetie8106 Месяц назад
Namo Buddhaya! 🤍🙏✨
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