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Is it possible to develop a "everyone will disappoint you" script at a later stage? Because, I remember being much more niave regarding new friends at a younger age? Or is a input at early 30s not a part of life script?
The summary at the end for me felt like the best of all worlds. I agree with you, we should be empathic and congruent as Carl Rogers mentions in his person centred approach while being open to the needs of the clients. I personally also think that before you start direct confrontation and giving solutions, that the person must first have a good idea about who they themselves are and how they got to where they are now. If they do not dwell in the past and can handle criticism well then I guess it is good to switch to more direct approaches and either guide them to solutions through hypotheses together or by directly talking about it. It can also save the client time if they are ready for solutions instead of looking to understand themselves. For those who like to know where I am coming from. I speak from personal experience as a client and I am not a therapist. I have just started my applied psychology bachelor and so my opinion on the several approaches might change over time. Have a nice day to all who read this! :)
🎯 Key Takeaways for quick navigation: 00:00 *🧠 Fondements de la compétence interrogative en counseling* - La compétence interrogative en counseling repose sur des bases solides. 01:08 *🔄 Stratégies de questionnement en thérapie centrée sur la personne* - En thérapie centrée sur la personne, les questions servent principalement à clarifier la compréhension du thérapeute. - Le questionnement socratique, utilisé pour réajuster la pensée du client, diffère de l'approche centrée sur la personne. 03:14 *🔍 Clarification de la perception et alignement avec le client* - Les questions visent à clarifier la perception du thérapeute, en se basant sur les mots ou les signaux non verbaux du client. - L'alignement avec le cadre de référence du client est essentiel pour des interactions efficaces. 06:19 *📝 Questions appropriées selon les modalités thérapeutiques* - Différentes approches thérapeutiques nécessitent des types de questions différents, adaptés à leur cadre théorique. - Le questionnement dirigé peut être nécessaire pour évaluer les risques, en particulier dans les situations de crise. 09:18 *💭 Questions et profondeur relationnelle en counseling* - En travaillant en profondeur avec un client, les questions peuvent parfois interrompre le processus émotionnel. - Certains types de questions, comme celles portant sur des actions spécifiques passées, peuvent détourner l'attention de l'émotion présente. 11:40 *🔄 Stratégies de questionnement en thérapie cognitivo-comportementale* - La thérapie cognitivo-comportementale utilise des questions socratiques pour encourager les clients à examiner leurs pensées et leurs croyances. - Les questions peuvent créer un certain inconfort, ce qui peut être bénéfique pour la prise de conscience et le changement. Made with HARPA AI
Nice, I just finished mearns and thorne and Counselling in Action 4th edition, amazing book! Just read also Tony Merry's Learning and Being in Person centered counselling and the recent development of PCE-CfD and the difference between PC/PCE approaches. Wish me luck on level 3 :D! I just did the exercise to fogure out some of my own configurations you menitoned, tried to google an excersise to do this and could not find anything. You guys are the best!
Thank you so much Counselling Tutor, your videos are so helpful. I am about to embark on work placement so watching these tutorials is going a long way in alleviating my nerves. Thank you 😊
Hello, I like your videos, but they seem to be aimed at helping counsellors. I find that a lot online. The help is for professionals, whereas sufferers are told to help themselves. Do you do any counselling yourselves?
So what are the four pillars? I heard nothing of subsance until the 10 minute mark which s where you lost me with your chatter. Is there any medical or (neuro-)physiological evidence of any benefits of Gestalt therapy?
You guys are true lifesavers. I have been running around to no avail trying to find the answers that you have so graciously answered here. I however would like to know if the therapy notes are same or a component of case conceptualisation where we might need to hypothesize about the client's presenting issues. Also, how important are mentioning the client's physical appearance, tone of speech and such non-verbal cues in the session notes.
not excelling in academics, athletics, careers, as measured by comparisons to others, is just how life is. It's not a pathology which requires seeing a therapist. The therapist will tell you to just accept it. There's a whole counseling theory called Acceptance & Commitment Therapy,
Congruence should be in the service of client, we cannot bring something that will derail the conversation, and tell the client that’s what he did was not a good response, may be he or she don’t know the other way to respond it.
Interesting, are you responding to th agreeing or did they say something incorrect? Im just curious as sometimes i take everything they said as right and realised that people have different views on what certain skills mean, so interested to hear
Good job. I'd like your opionion of the title of my book that I'm about 2/3 finished. Considering this, Men are from Earth.....Women are from some other place! Bet it hits #1.
I asked my therapist about this, . I asked, if my mother came to you and told you about her sensitive, paranoid, emotional, dramatic daughter (everything that my mother thinks I am) would you be as kind to her as you are to me? My therapist was very kind to me and very validating and it made me wonder. Do I deserve to be validated? Do some people go to therapy looking for validation and end up being challenged instead? (i didn't feel that that was my experience.)
