I have family and dont want to see any of them EVER and couple years ago i told every"friend"to fuc off. Stop looking at other people they are mostly just pice of shit, just want to use you. Get a dog and cat and stop thinking that anyone is better than you. Fuck they fake family pictures and fancy lifes... Its just a lie.. Arent you smart enough to figure that out!! You look like disant and honest guy! I wish you luck, dog cat and to start loving yourself.
I can see how difficult it must have been to make this clip, so kudos to you and be proud of taking this step - slowly abandon all the restlessness, work on your anxiety and depression, and put those moments of past regret "in the past" - because this is a start in the right (good/better) direction. But no path is linear, it's side-swept by the unexpected and unwanted, but all those curves and corners, twists and turns: it teaches us. I genuinely believe that everything you've been through is a testimony to who you are today: a man with a lot of truth to tell. So use that knowledge to your advantage; see where it WILL take you from there.
I struggle with this missing piece. I swear though, I'm not just saying this... the more faith I have, the more I talk to God, the more I believe in his plan for me, the better I feel. He shines light on us, especially when we need him most. In your darkest places there will be one still with you. Just try talkin to him
Hey man. You are stuck in a limbo. You gotta find your way out. Understand what stopping you from having your own family. This is your ultimate goal in life. Nobody can help you but yourself. Good luck
If you have a home, sell it and scale down. You don’t need a ton of space. I know how you feel though, I’m 60, alone and broke living on SSDI. You’re not alone my friend, I’m experiencing everything you are
You will keep on being miserable until you give your life and everything you have to the Lord Jesus Christ, "For God so loved the world, that He gave His only Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish, but have eternal life" -John 3:16 And if you repent and feel sorrow over your sin, then be glad for "Blessed are those who mourn, For they shall be comforted." -Matthew 5:4
My friend, the most absolute positive thing you have is a place you can call home. You're not homeless (not yet at least and prayfully never). You have heat, water, food and a/c and electricity. Be strong and ask the Creator of the Universe to give you more to live for. Cheers 🍻 and brotherly hug 🫂 🤗
Having listened to the video and read many of the comments I know many people ask "how did I end up like this?" mostly rhetorically, but I think I have a clue and I want to share. The problem with the modern world is the extreme competitiveness. Every little short coming in every little aspect of a person is weighed against everyone else and the winners get picked. I myself had certain advantages like high intelligence, natural athleticism and good parents, but I found that the smallest differences like weighing 20 extra pounds would make the difference between whether women would generally find me worthy of a date or completely ignore me. Now apply that thought process to every single aspect of your life including whether you have friends, the nature of your job or career, your mental health, and so on. It's a tough pill to swallow but I think the right answer for all of you struggling, is that you simply have to get to a place where you can improve on every possible aspect that you can, because the world is really that competitive, and you can only win by beating out the competition. This isn't red pill nonsense - I'm not selling anything - just telling you what I've observed from my own experience. BTW I'm 58 years old, have had several long-term relationships but also some long spells in between with virtually no attention from women, so I have a sense of how fine the line can be between success and failure in dating and relationships of all kinds.
Can so relate, no friends even tho when i was in school had few close ones. Have 2 children and an ex wife , now living back with my mum at 42. Feel like everyone has moved on and happy. Miss being loved More than anything. Job feels meaningless, and cant see any future thats worth while. My mental state alternates between anxiety and deep sadness. Hope you find the answer to your situation brother.
Atleast u got ur own house I have no choice but to remain in the care of Massa at his big house I'd do anything for my own unfortunately I don't have any of the items stated above either ur not alone
I'm an elderly lady, I don't have any friends, I'm alone, no one has wanted to be in my life as friends for years. I'm pretty much like you are. But I don't let it get me down. Perhaps God is Prepping us for something Greater to come. Think of your life like that, & don't let it bring you down.
I feel you, but after I took a meditation , yoga and Ascension retreat now I realize all was in my head. Life is journey the journey make me happy . I Just do the things want to do and learn. I blieve the law of attraction is real and the universe is my friend!!!!!
Im feeling the exact same way. Zero purpose zero connections that are more than surface level. Lost my job in February that paid extremely well. Bills piling up, even tho im doing side jobs. I’ve stopped caring and im worried now.
My man, how are things with ya now? I wouldnt mind hearing an update on things. Keep up the good work, you are valuable. And, from the short thing of what i heard that you had done i actually wish to see other countries like you already have done. So, my situation is a bit reversed. At least in terms of experiences had :o
I know astrology and I can help people who are really desperate. Astrology is not a magic bullet but it can help deal with the situation. If you are in a funk it will give an idea when the situation will get better. I am not looking for any personal gain but want to help people just for the sake of it. I read a book by a buddhist lama before the pandemic - and it said if you have an issue then find someone who is going through the same issue and help him get out of it. That will in turn will solve your situation. I could not get a chance to test it out during the pandemic.
People are stuck in situations for various reasons. The primary reason being lack of love as most of our relationships are transactional. The second reason is they are just working to survive and not doing anything that pleases the heart. Everyone will have an extended family of some sort but it is often toxic and not dependable. I have faced a stagnant two decades like a still motion picture and it is difficult to visualize anything will change but fortunately I know astrology and it gives some hope of leading a normal life in future. Nowadays it is a sign of great health if you have some kind of job, pay your bills , have no addictions and at least have a glimmer of hope for the future but how long it will last unless something changes.
I felt this way in my 20s and thought marriage was the answer. It's not! Just makes everything worse. The thing that makes me look forward to each new day is a positive attitude based on gratitude. Rather than comparing myself to others who have more or better, I think about those have have virtually nothing - and how lucky I am for the blessings I DO have. He says he doesn't care, but it sounds like he cares alot. He need a plan of action to improve his situation. Things he can control. Exercise, stretching, diet, sleep, work. 37 is young. He can change if he overcomes fear with action.
Man i wish i could give you a hug and spend the evening hangjng out with you as friends just talking about life and laughing about the futility and beauty of it all
Sorry to say it y’all, I’m 51 years old and it has always been that way and has never changed. There was always hope but that quickly slips away. Then I think of the masses of people before me that lived out a complete life this way. A living, breathing nightmare. With all that, I try to think about this situation when interacting with others because the odds are that they are feeling the same way and I need to give to them what we both desire, some form of nurturing. Final note: song Invincible by Tool.
You have to buy a cheapest property in a countryside and fix it and live in it. And you will get friends by repairing it. And you'll be happy by living in it.
I'm 44 and in a similar position but finally found the motivation to change and I'm working on it now. Things can get better. Hope you're doing better today. Give us an update if you have a chance and feel up to it. Please take care of yourself.
Please believe me you are young. Make a plan. One positive step each day. Seek counselling and maybe contact your doctor or health professional. You can make changes. Best of luck.
I’m a 39 year old man from London, in a very similar situation to yourself. I don’t think you squandered your money seeing the world; that’s a position the vast majority of people don’t get to do. I’m here if you want to talk about anything my friend.
STOP BLAMING OTHERS FOR YOUR PERSONAL ISSUES, I HAVE LEARNED TO LIVE WITH MYSELF AND ITS LESS EXPENSIVE, LESS HEADACHES, ANYTIME I WANT TO BE AROUND PEOPLE I JUST GO TO A PUBLIC PLACE SUCH AS A MALL, OR PARK OR FESTIVITIES WHERE THERE ARE PEOPLE AND TRY TO SPARK LIGHT CONVERSATION NOTHING DEEP. IT'S HARD FOR INTROVERTS TO HAVE MANY PEOPLE AROUND THEM ALL THE TIME. I HAVE BEEN MARRIED, MY THREE CHILDREN ARE GROWN AND ON THEIR OWN, I DO HAVE GRANDCHILDREN. HOWEVER, THE ONLY THING I CONTROL IS MY MIND. BODY AND SOUL IN YHWH'S HOLY NAME. TAKE CARE OF YOUR TEMPLE FROM HEAD TO TOE, THAT'S ENOUGH ENERGY FOR ANYONE PERSON. ENJOY WHAT LITTLE YOU HAVE NOW, NOT WANTING MORE BECAUSE NO ONE REGARDLESS OF SKIN COLOR, GENDER, OR WEALTH IS PROMISED TOMORROW. NONE OF US OWN TOMORROW WHEN IT COMES TO THE ESSENCE OF LIFE WHICH IS IN EACH TIME YOU INHALE AND EXHALE, HECK NON OF US OWN THE SECONDS THAT HAS PASS. I HAVE LEARNED TO BE THANKFUL FOR WHAT I HAVE, AND LIVE THIS LIFE TODAY AS IF THERE IS NO TOMORROW
I do security. Not for the money but to watch out for others. Not a hero but i did have my cinematic moments. Pulled over a hit and run driver and I'm not a cop! Stopped a lady from jumping off a bridge. Put out a truck fire by myself. Doesn't happen all the time but I remember,When I retire and put away my badge. Anyway as security you always interact with the public, I don't feel lonely.
