There is much easier way to ask. Say that your second cousin is really self-conscious of her small breast and want to get a surgery and you worry about her. Ask her if just by accident she know good surgeon. And then ask if she or any of her friends used said surgeon services.
Nailed it ! You misssed the crying girl on the curb though. There is alaways a young skinnny girl trippinn out and crying about how she lost her friends (that ditched her because she was too messsed up....)