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Blended and Black is dedicated to promoting harmony and balance in mending, broken and blended millennial families. Our mission is to remove the stigma surrounding Step families while helping our community release their pain, redefine their roles and adjust to their new normal.

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How to Coparent After Infidelity
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5 лет назад
Should I call my man's baby mama?
5:37
5 лет назад
NYC Class June 21, 2018 @6:30pm
1:10
6 лет назад
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@lashaybrooks9966
@lashaybrooks9966 5 дней назад
Obviously way too mature and woke for Switz! I’m glad she did the shadow work and did the self healing. I just pray she continue to grow and stop vacationing with them and create her a new family!
@businessman688
@businessman688 9 дней назад
Its amazing that you understand all this
@mrs.jasonmiller4763
@mrs.jasonmiller4763 14 дней назад
A narcissistic high conflicted bio mom is a huge problem in a new relationship and my heart goes out to the children involved in these situations. I have been dealing with this for 12 years and it's been heartbreaking.
@dr.majidahsmith9006
@dr.majidahsmith9006 15 дней назад
Friendly suggestion: The music was overbearing and hard to hear the interview. Please either eliminate that or lower the volume for future shows. Thanks It's great that Mashonda did the healing work and is in a better place. I hope she finds true love if she desires that.
@cjwsk2318
@cjwsk2318 24 дня назад
N not over him B) as if she can do it on her own, never did, never will,
@AnonymousAnonymous-qw6qo
@AnonymousAnonymous-qw6qo 2 месяца назад
Bs! I alienated my child because the father was a pos a druggie etc I do not want that thing lol
@rastarecordsent
@rastarecordsent 2 месяца назад
Aww well she did more den 1 so Ik she still want n she got a whole bf but was crying on my phone n saying she wanted me back 1nce anither stick go inside u it’s wrap
@04Mrs
@04Mrs 2 месяца назад
WOW!!!! You just described my husband BM TO THE T!!! Unbelievable!
@LMC_33
@LMC_33 2 месяца назад
Just fix your families….
@kelsiemitchell8499
@kelsiemitchell8499 3 месяца назад
14. Don’t date a guy with a BM especially if he has several! He should have these boundaries in place way before he gets involved with another person.
@Pepperoni-and-cringe
@Pepperoni-and-cringe 3 месяца назад
You walk away from that shit. the fuck😂
@phenitagomes1292
@phenitagomes1292 3 месяца назад
Sometimes she doesn't want him, sometimes she's bitter because he's not doing his part as a parent. And so she's bitter that she has to do it all by herself. I understand that there are women that are still in love with their child father but I wish content like this would keep a space for women that don't want their child father, don't care who they go with or where they go but they're bitter because they have to take care of the child alone. Also I'm not speaking about women that have multiple children. Sometimes you can just have one. All you have to have is 1 become a mother.
@xtina3592
@xtina3592 3 месяца назад
I told my bf his ex wife calls too much about the most random stuff, at inappropriate times, nothing serious and it makes me feel uncomfortable , he claimed I'm jealous
@glassycreek1991
@glassycreek1991 3 месяца назад
It a bit of karma if you pair up with a failed man with children. He failed his woman and he failed his child but here you are helping him avoid consequences. Know that whatever mess you get yourself into was your own fault for touching a single father with a living baby mama. You should have left him to figure it out or rot. That is their problem and destiny. Leave them alone.
@glassycreek1991
@glassycreek1991 3 месяца назад
What the hell! this video should only be seconds long, consisting of the words "don't date a single father". Have standards please!
@jellybean3144
@jellybean3144 4 месяца назад
Don't need to know any of the signs...you only need to know NOT TO DATE BABY DADDYS. Let him find a chick who's baby daddy isn't over her, and the 4 of them can hang out 😂
@mrwealthysoon
@mrwealthysoon 4 месяца назад
Men we don’t need 13 reasons because a women with a Kid under 18. Runnnnnnnnnnnnn
@hollywilson738
@hollywilson738 4 месяца назад
This is so true!
@naturiatinajero6677
@naturiatinajero6677 5 месяцев назад
Why have a baby with someone to just be with another
@AntiMasonic93
@AntiMasonic93 5 месяцев назад
The sons are not put on a pedestal. We are treated like sh*t by our mothers as well.
@cheyennerose1888
@cheyennerose1888 5 месяцев назад
My bf has 2 autistic boys with his baby mama and she tries to make my life with him miserable...do i leave even though I love him and his boys or do I cut my losses and leave?
@monicadupree7928
@monicadupree7928 6 месяцев назад
She's soo gorgeous. Just beautiful!!
@g_s_g9658
@g_s_g9658 6 месяцев назад
Why she always talk about Alicia 🤔 Swiss had a other women pregnant in the marriage before alicia the Daughter is now 15 years old. THE MARRIAGE WAS A MESS BEFORE ALICIA. SHE IS NOT REAL WITH HER SELF SORRY 🤷🏻‍♀️ AND CUZ SHE LOOKS LIKE A LADY DON'T MEAN SHE IS ONE WE DON'T KNOW HER.... BUT I WISH SHE WOULD TALK ABOUT THE OTHER WOMEN SHE BROKE YOUR MARRIAGE NOT ALICIA
@ronjayrollaz4774
@ronjayrollaz4774 7 месяцев назад
Reality check anyone can become a baby daddy or a bm 😅
@Choby59JS757
@Choby59JS757 7 месяцев назад
An ex girlfriend who demonstrates these traits is psychologically disturb and dangerous. PLEASE BELIEVE ME😮
@desdior1207
@desdior1207 7 месяцев назад
I dealt with a man with no boundaries, a narcissist, and likely a sociopath that btw came with a baby momma as his dull twin. I’m 26 they 45-46. When I tell you that was theee WORST relationship I’ve ever been in. She tried to control everything this man did in his household. Including sex while he had his child. Blew phones up. Knew about other females he dealt with. He claim she jealous. 8 years later she still would randomly pop up and cause a scene. He didn’t make it no better because he was a liar. Once I found out he gave her money on a down payment for a new home I crashed my car into his garage and dipped on that lame ✌🏽 dont do it ladies.
@hayleystratus7713
@hayleystratus7713 8 месяцев назад
Can I just remind everyone He had affairs before Alicia Keys he even had a baby with another woman. At least Alicia isn't denying her wrong doing she's dealing with everyone's backlash. At least Alicia isn't being petty towards her not that she deserves it.
@jhnsn1
@jhnsn1 8 месяцев назад
Assumptions...how do you know if he's not sleeping with the baby mom? How do you know if he's not having inappropriate conversations with the bm?
@Beatrichay
@Beatrichay 8 месяцев назад
And that there is organic healing. She went through the stages she had to and came out of it with her empathy and dignity intact.
@ismailmshana2828
@ismailmshana2828 8 месяцев назад
I love so much madam mashonda God bless you 🙏
@badgalsheilabb2548
@badgalsheilabb2548 9 месяцев назад
My husband always say he doesn't have to deal with her because his kids r almost grown and they have they on phone and whenever he calls the boys he includes me every time
@badgalsheilabb2548
@badgalsheilabb2548 9 месяцев назад
My husband shut that shit down quickly he didn't play no games about me
@illahboii225
@illahboii225 9 месяцев назад
Right
@dwick2751
@dwick2751 10 месяцев назад
why black women think they can control men, lmao that's yall always end up with betas. No woman controlling me.
@dwick2751
@dwick2751 10 месяцев назад
Imagine being a single mother hahahaha walking L
@mileyroe4877
@mileyroe4877 10 месяцев назад
She's gorgeous
@Vonnie24
@Vonnie24 10 месяцев назад
I am the adult child. The key is how bonded are the father and child? I see the stepmother care as much as the father. Only
@dominiquesingleton9333
@dominiquesingleton9333 10 месяцев назад
Its the run for me ❤
@powerisknowledgeTV
@powerisknowledgeTV 11 месяцев назад
Black men how about avoid the baggage altogether. Get your passport. Especially if you know that she rejected you neglected you clowns you treated you like shit I didn't all of a sudden you got 12 kids and now she wants to be with you turn that down just get your passports jealous and avoid the baggage and drama all together
@bryanalizetteperez6899
@bryanalizetteperez6899 11 месяцев назад
How should i feel if my boyfriends babys mother invites him to go out with her and the kids, he agrees & goes.. he told me he was going to take his kids somewhere and i found out he met up with her
@GraceandGrowthjourney7
@GraceandGrowthjourney7 11 месяцев назад
I'm a stepmother bee dealing w this for 2 years. It got even worst when we welcomed our own baby last year n now expecting another. Literally she checked the boxes 1-9 & 11-13 🤦🏽‍♀️. I'm her #1 enemy bc I'm not like his other ex who they would get together to bash him n when she tried that in the beginning w me I shut it down. I defended him.
@towannataylor1105
@towannataylor1105 Год назад
Moshanda is a wonderful beautiful lady and i think she doing a great job at co-parenting i just don't think Alicia deserve Mashonda as a friend.
@user-bo2su3rj7k
@user-bo2su3rj7k Год назад
My husband baby momma is doing all this but we moved away 3 years ago and she is still doing all of this
@BrolyKing801
@BrolyKing801 Год назад
My baby mama aint over me she never will be 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@jaredbostick6149
@jaredbostick6149 Год назад
This is right. My ex tells me she has a new man. Lol who cares this is the same woman who acted like she was engaged. I left you 2 years ago for a reason.
@MissMotshabi
@MissMotshabi Год назад
Do they even know they hurt her so much
@MissMotshabi
@MissMotshabi Год назад
At some point she needs to forget about Swizz I'm tired of her whining and her still healing. She needs her own man and her own family
@ceebecks
@ceebecks 6 месяцев назад
I don’t think she is whining, but I do think she deserves to have her own family.
@gailjohnson284
@gailjohnson284 Год назад
Wow so 70% of failed marriages is because of high conflict baby mamas😂😂😂
@momobelizaire
@momobelizaire Год назад
Thank you for THIS! ❤
@agnusstaten9924
@agnusstaten9924 Год назад
Ik this is old but this segment helped me