- The manosphere is getting bigger by the day. - By and large, men are not lonely -- they have jobs, hobbies, friends and lead productive lives for the most part. Speaking of loneliness, which gender makes tiktoks of themselves crying in cars because they're, as you phrase it, "lonely, depressed and heartbroken"? Which gender is more likely to be prescribed antidepressant medication? Which gender is three times more likely to attempt self-deletion? - Men are opting out of marriage because, from a legal standpoint, marriage is a bad deal financially for men if the marriage contract is broken. - It's mostly women that exploit social media and pay-for-play sites like OF and Instagram for likes, tips, followers, gifts and validation. - Masculinity and manhood, contrary to what Andrew Tate says, are not things you can purchase. Owning an expensive car or home do not by themselves make someone a good man. Manhood is the result of self-sufficiency, self-discipline and competence. - Modern women are more promiscuous, and have more sexual partners, than men (feel free to fact check). Social media, online dating apps and fe*** ism have all contributed to this. Fe***ism today is not about equal rights (women got those decades ago); it's about preferential treatment. Fe***ism was instrumental in ushering in DEI policies and agendas. - If anyone has "ruined" social media, it is women, not men. One group of women turned it into a temple of self pity; the other group used it as a platform to sell spicy pictures and videos. Either one of those groups vastly outnumber the Andrew Tates and Pearl Davises of the world.
You will never be a real man following another man. That is the oldest program the gov has run on on the common male by promoting violent sociopathic leaders and figures to them via school and media knowing their family is broken and lacks actual male role models from generations of trading on their lineage for religion and joining their war efforts in remodeling the world after “his” image. The common male is plagued with the disease of being a follower of other random men and that is why he suffers and takes his frustration out on random women. Pretending he is stuck in a matriarchy/matrix when in reality he is powerless in a patriarchy ran by actual powerful males.
You confusing some things. Men r not lonely, we don’t think we’re lonely, we just living our life as we want, focusing on our goals n things we like. We r planning our life n mostly things r going our planned way. This is men’s joy, this is men’s harmony, peace. And silence… The woman in a men’s life is chaos, no matter if he loves her or not. Even if he treat her as a goddess, it still chaos. Also, plz don’t use the fresh n fit or tate as an examples. That trash is not our authority, I personally can’t stand men like this.
A few thoughts. The first - "Men focusing on themselves. Women most affected." A man could be just minding his own biz and being successful with absolutely zero interest in whatever a narcissistic woman's opinion about it, and she would be angry about it. The second - Was Not disappointed by the comments. In short, world doesn't revolve around you, your thoughts, opinions, or feelings. Don't like it? Too bad.
I thought the video was actually pretty positive and empathetic towards men, but of course you would reject the empathy offered to continue to have cognitive dissonance about your beliefs. I don’t hate men, I don’t hate any of the people I showed on screen, I am making an observation. If you wish to cling to the very things that hurt and isolate you then please go ahead. But I would love to see a better world for men.
@@susuisfromvenus Oh, ad hominem? Boy oh boy, this will be fun. Since you want to paint men with the same broad-brush strokes, then so too shall I. First off, listening to what men tell you what they want or don't want, and then going "no, you're wrong, THIS is what you want!" is not "empathy." Secondly, men don't want, or even require, your empathy. Men are fairly simple creatures. All that 90% of men want is respect, loyalty, and appreciation. And for his partner to take care of herself. Really. That's it. And the majority of women can't even provide that. And I suppose that what might have escaped you is that perhaps, just perhaps mind you, a growing number of men are alone, by CHOICE. They are deliberately choosing NOT to date. Such as myself. And many, many others. This might be difficult for you to understand, but being alone does not hurt or scare most men. For many men, being alone is the normal. Think about it - who does a man turn to for help, or assistance? Who does he run to for aid? No one. Not a soul. He can only rely on himself. Its women who fear being alone. Moreover, women have less and less to offer, while at the same time demanding more and more. A man could give her the World on a platter, and she would ask why didn't he bring her the moon too. Never satisfied, never content, enough is never "enough." No matter what he does, tries, or offers. Next, a big part of why women are so frustrated is fairly simple. You turn everything into a contest, cry when you lose, change the rules so you win, and then wonder why more and more men want absolutely nothing to do with you. Fun fact: The marriage rate is the lowest it has ever been, ever since they began recording it in 1864. Only 6 people out of 1000 are getting married right now, and only 3 of those are staying married. Now, you may not be good at math, but in what world are those good odds? What man is going to think to himself - "sure, I like those odds. I'm willing to bet half of everything I have ever gotten in life on it." And in return for what, exactly? Women treat intimacy like it's a chore, or reward, something to be earned, not something to be celebrated or shared among "partners." Lastly, the simple fact of the matter is - a growing majority of you women are simply unpleasant to be around. All you care about is yourselves. What you want. What you FEEL. In that exact moment. And that's all. 80% of the men are all but invisible to you. I suspect most you don't even consider human beings. Simply put - "No woman, Know Peace." A Good relationship is better than being alone, but being alone is better than a bad relationship. And to a growing number of men, being alone is good enough. Besides, being alone is actually pretty great. My time and money are mine. Absolutely no drama. No one screaming at me, making demands. No complaining. No manipulation or games. A single man doesn't actually require very much and can save a ton of money. Personally, I have 6 years of salary saved up and could pretty much pay for a house in cash if I was so inclined. And it will be a cold day in heck before I permit a woman, any woman, into my personal life. Simply because I don't want her, I don't even need her. And she will take far more than she gives. You say I am clinging to things that hurt and isolate me? Lady, WOMEN hurt and isolate men. And more men are choosing to avoid them. Deliberately. Don't like it? Too bad. Cry about it. I am curious as to what exactly you expect to happen? As if men will suddenly stop and look at one another and go "gee golly, we had better go back to the womens?" I think it far more likely that like other countries right now, the Government will be forced to step in and mediate things, moreso than it already is. Which I find highly entertaining.
@@thatguy9088 carefull she might tell you , YOU DONT GET NO P**SY(like she did me 🤣😂🤣) but she dosent hate anyone like she said, brother feel bad for the virgins she seems to not like to much however no hate at all in her heart.
I agree with you... I agree with you .. I agree with you.. All NON VIRGIN BRIDES ARE THE SAME.. IF one appears to be more femine, or better looking it DOES NOT MATTER FOR LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP.. ALL NON VIRGIN BRIDES ARE AT THE SAME LEVEL WHEN A MAN CONSIDER THEM FOR LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP IE INSTITUION OF MARRIAGE Therefore, the only woman that can call herself a "TRAD/BASE/CONSERVATIVE WOMAN IS VIRGIN BRIDE. All non virgin brides are MODERN WOMEN.. I agree with you!!.
Hold on you left out one key important part. when you said "the birth control and abortion allow women to give up THE TRADITIONAL WAY" Question??? What tradition did women give up that existed before the pill and abortion on demand? Answer Virgin Bride.. Yes women rejected being a Virgin Bride. That was the Tradition that women Revolt from . That is the Tradition that cause the SEXUAL REVOLUTION. Women , Boomer women , yes they are still walking around lol said "We do not want to be required to be Virgin to get married, we do not like tradition , we want to have sex like a man".... Sex like a man means , men were never required to be a virgin , but women were required to be a Virgin Bride.. Dont believe me ??? Look up "Shot gun weddings" ,,,yes look that up.. So do not leave that out when you talk about BREAKING FROM TRADITION. The main tradition that women did not want to do and still dont want to do to this day is BE A VIRGIN BRIDE.. We as a society make fun of women who want to be VIRGIN BRIDES.. I dont know if that is progress or digression but it is happening.. Check out my videos I break this down heavy !!
Misogyny is the hatred of women and none of the guys that you listed hate women therefore none of them are misogynistic. I used to be a soft and feminine man who could pull no girls but once I started following Andrew Tate I not only gained common sense on important issues but I also had much more success with women. Also, social media pushed women to extremism a long time ago and is now just bringing men back to how they were when women began to be ruined by social media.
@@susuisfromvenus We get it you studied Femlit , We have better things to do than read books bashing us. 🤣😂🤣 His over arching point is fair i dont agree with many of the points from some manosphere creators but they have stated many times there point on women being important, thats there exact point they dont want men or woman loseing there way.
7:55 I Think there seems to be some assumptions hear ''our society socialises men to be violent and abusive'' is a bold statment i would love to see a source for that , at no point in my life or any man i know has this been the case, As a man I am well aware we are capable of this and it is in my opinion 99% of the time reactionary due to current cercumstance eg, self defence, betrayal,justice. 9:05 Also to address the stoicism part , I will conseed as a whole we are aware Nobody cares how we feel on a wider sence but we know the ones close to us(If had) do and we can confide in. However we will usualy not do so as stoically not only will relaying theys emotins not help the situation sometime we are inherantly logicaly wired to think we can solve the issue if we simply think enought for the answer.(Not that that is always the answer and we know 9/10 the ''feeling wont dissapear'') 9:45 It is not the Flash (cars/money) side that is attractive althought as men are generaly target focust not emotinal as you vaguely stated , its the actual advise the irony is men are now at a point where they are willing to listen and talk in there own circles, I agree the 3 figures mentioned arent the best of role modles but who elce is there (I also find it funny that Rappers have litrely been shoveing get money by all means for years and no1 has ever had a go at that so brodly) 11:12 I realy dont understand what you mean hear sounds more like the loss of faith is the cause of this (Im not even religous) Is This 'patriarchy' helping us or not then sounds like your saying patriarchy keeps you men in power but its also takeing it away from you.
BIRTH OF THE PASSPORT/BLUEBOOK MEN. I'm proud and happy for the World that woman have built for themselves, No more of the past, A new future being built. Women moving all the way to the top and letting the men get in where they fit in. and that will be overseas where they won't be lonely and make a new family plus do business and business minded with theirs sisters back in the states. Everyone good, no more disagreement and fights
the manosphere is not falling, pearl, fresh and fit and andrew tate do not represent anything to other content creators in the manosphere, there are many more, the first to speak about these topics were a writer esther vilar and tom leykis.
@@susuisfromvenus Thats why he stated '' the first to speak about these topics'' you appear to be very hostile in alot of comments, In all honesty its not realy helping the issue its part of the overall problem tbh (just because you are dead or retired dosent mean you arent relevent)
@@susuisfromvenus If you feel i have been rude not my intention sorry you interpreted it that way but dont take out other peoples saying things to you out on others, If this level of critism is getting to you maybe posting youtube vids isn't the best idea. As a strong woman once said Life is tought get a helmet. (I didnt think you were jesus he was a patriarch)
He has his problems his past and so on , hes more of a man who makes obvious correct statments that are stupidly touchy subjects theys days. There are much better role moddles out there like Jordan peterson (whos not withought his faults but in the same way an every day man dose) who have strong moral belifes and actual structure to follow i recomend 12 rules for life
Not your father, grandfather, uncle, older cousin, twice removed cousin etc, but a guy online who is paid to influence western youth is great to “follow”? There lays the issue…
So! Instead of being authentic and pushing back against that, they decided to perpetuate it and ruin young girls’ minds WHILE bullying many women? I was bullied in school for not wearing makeup and only wearing my luscious curly hair. I worked on my psyche. I made sure I didn’t let that break me and I continued to be me. Went on to be an Attorney. I feel no sympathy whatsoever 🚶🏽♀️
Is there common hierarchy in female friendships? With guys it can fallen in categories of the leaders, followers and that one guy just tags along despite having nothing but having close proximity to the group.
There can be the whole Regina George queen bee dynamic but that's a lot more of a juvenile thing. In adult female relationships, not so much as women are seeking to be seen as equals and the act of imposing a hierarchy is usually done for nefarious purposes via acts such as man stealing -- which will eventually oust a girl socially if repeated. Hope that makes sense.
I love that you're talking about a 'dark side of female friendships' while there's a background of Sailor Moon Crystal playing where there is a wholesome side of female friendships. Commenting before I finish the video, will edit this later because I don't think I have any real friends left lol.
I want to say that i really appreciate the detailedness of your video and the calm music which makes it so much more pleasing to listen to than your usual commentary video :) i'm also sad that queer perspectives are lacking in these studies, because no one deserves to feel left out. Hopefully that will change!!
great video! something i want to add is that these studies about female friendships feel like theyre lacking a queer perspective? i recently ended an old high school toxic friendship with a woman that i felt was using me more than there being a healthy sense of reciprocity in our friendship, and this year ive been unpacking my queer identity and realized that i probably wouldnt have condoned a lot of the stuff this woman did if she was unattractive. she benefitted greatly from the halo effect and me on some subconscious level thinking that being her friend was better than not being in relationship with her at all.
she also told me that she thought i didnt like her much in high school because i seemed so aloof, but in hindsight i think i liked her so much that i acted detached. and once i admitted to her i liked her and she didnt reciprocate it, i was able to then start an authentic friendship with her (and not the idea of her i made up in my mind) and she turned out to be pretty arrogant, judgmental, hypocritical and shallow. and she did NOT handle conflict well and would be verbally abusive and self centered and if i brought up a problem i was having, it’d end with me consoling her for feeling like i was attacking her
I agree that much of the historical research has focused on heteronormative dynamics, and as a result, there is still a lot to learn about social dynamics from a queer perspective. Thank you for watching ❤️
As a person who has both quite a few close male and female friends - it gets super subtle. I would say though, girls have more expectations of what a friend should do, while guys tend to be less pissy about the little things. So long as one picks communicative friends, gender starts being a very minor part of how people act.
Interesting. As a guy when I'm out with my sister/female cousins they will often say "why is she staring at me" or "why is she giving me a dirty look" etc to which I would be oblivious. Also females can gang up on another female in a room and not stand up for her even if they know it is wrong.
But, it's okay for her to get on TikTok and bully Selena Gomez. Kylie you're a MOTHER for God's sake grow up. It hurts, doesn't it? Now, put yourself in the shoes of you and your pathetic People who have real 12:33 problems, like let's say, kidney transplant, I can NEVER feel bad for you. Karma is a B*TCH isn't it? GROW UP, and tell your nasty sister, the KAT, the same. YOU KNOW THE ONE THAT TAKES EVERYONE'S LEFTOVERS.
Damn these witches are worse than all the bad b*tches in the world 🌎 like all witches, they lost their Beauty.. Pinocchio 🤥 must be celebrated for having basic LIMITATED lies Oh satan___ this Kylie girl thou 1st. She lied that she don't want 2b Famous 2nd. Then lied she don't envy her Sisters 3rd. we mercifully understood when she lied again that she don't want 2be like #Kim Therefore after the money-glow up 💰 - She continued 2 lie abt her lips - baby girl lied abt her breasts - Then lied abt her BBL claiming she has curves like Black women - -After another Tsunami of LIES washed us away wit Billionaire LIES on Forbes Magazine.. Stealing Men from her own friends...etc.. Baby daddy killing innocent souls @Astro world concert #RIP #lol even TODAY 🤣 this witch again wants Sympathy wit LIES #Kylie_is_now_ugly from her unnatural EXPENSIVE procedures & Surgery @least as a lady ❤️ I can admit I admire Kylie's talent to tell LIES
Kylie never addresses anything when people are praising her but the one time they call her old on the Internet is the only time she ever mentions anything about her appearance. Despite the fact that she's based her entire self worth and other women's on meeting beauty standards she created. Not to mention her trying to look darker when dating a black man to now taking a "natural" look to match her white boyfriend and the new white girl is beauty standard. This in turn needs more weight loss and suddenly all she does is show her bare stomach and act like she isn't taking extreme measures to get that. Yet she wants to address ONE time that she feels bullied? You must lie on the bed you've created for yourself. She doesn't deserve any sympathy when she's forced girls to completely alter their bodies to look like her in order to keep up with the Kardashian families insane beauty standards.
Well, it is strange that she is acting like that now after losing popularity because of the bad launching of her products. I agree with most of your opinion, but I believe that she made profit with her figure in society and reaffirmed the foundations of beauty standards to aggravate them even more. It must be taken into account that since she has been in the public eye, she has only provided solutions that were related to insecurities, as well as makeup products or clothing items aimed at women with a specific type of figure (such as with her bikinis). It would be interesting to know if this victimism is only a marketing move because of her unsuccess launchings or if it is real. It would have been more interesting to have seen how he used his power to influence the masses to end beauty standards, instead of promoting insecurities so that girls saw in her products a solution to their supposed ugliness, and made her rich by buying her beauty products. Every influencer should be aware of the power that they have and not promoting things to be more rich.
That wasn’t criticism, that’s just a low attention span. I stated in the video I don’t like the Kardashians. Never have never will. The video is not supposed to be about kylie jenner it’s about womanhood. Kylie Jenner is the vessel I chose to highlight how these issues don’t discriminate no matter what tax bracket you are in. Also, nobody is forcing you to watch the video babe. Keep it pushing.
This is an interesting video, beauty standards have been rife since the dawn of man and every woman is a victim of it. We are all guilty of perpetuating it (Editing, surgery, giving in to the standards) but we are also punished for not giving into the standards by both women and men (Bullying) There is some blood on her hands because of the impact she had on young women via her company and broadcasting of her surgeries and though she is not at fault for doing any of it (Who wouldn't start a company and get lip filler if you had the money?) However it is extremely difficult for the public to sympathise with someone with any amount of blood on their hands. It means she's not just a victim, she's someone who's gained money from the impact of beauty standards. She is one of the people we view as perfect and that's very hard to get by. She deserves sympathy but getting it from the public would be impossible. They should know better than to broadcast her crying over beauty standards because she's at the top of the food chain. The sad thing is, even skinny girls cry about being skinny, even beautiful girls cry about being beautiful. That's what we're dealing with here, we're seeing that in action and that's where a fraction of this anger is coming from. 'How can you cry about this, you're perfect!?' In regards to whether or not we should enjoy these things, we enjoy it because it's deeply engrained in us to feel satisfaction from looking better than we did before, it is sad that we enjoy it but it will never change. In an ideal would becoming closer to beauty standards wouldn't feel amazing but instead it would feel useless, shameful, a waste of time, boring but unfortunately it never will. We have been manufactured via media, marketing and social reward to enjoy it and that's why we do. I enjoy it because it relieves me from the possibility that I am becoming ugly.
There are plenty of celebrities who don't use social media including Rob Kardashian. Kylie swiftly left social media when she was pregnant with Stormi and she herself said she knew social media was going to affect her. However, she is back on social media and crying about being on social media? She can hire a manager and explicitly tell them "don't tell me the hate comments." This is a luxury many others who actually dependent on Instagram don't have, such as small business owners. I mean, the Kardashians literally have all the resources in the world to not only alter their appearance but to also be the healthiest they can be both physically and mentally. If Kylie wanted to get therapy, leave the social scene, go to college, become a legitimate business owner, invest her riches to work minimal hours and spend time with her kids and developing hobbies, SHE COULD. I cannot feel sorry for someone complaining about their own toxic behavior and actively choosing to not do anything about it.
I mean its so easy to say “if i was a nepo baby id go to college and build my own business by myself”. Putting yourself on a moral pedestal when you’re in situations your brain cant even conceptualise is easy but most people wouldn’t be any different in her situation. I do appreciate your perspective though so thank you for sharing.
@@susuisfromvenus I'm just saying that if she wanted to leave the public eye, like her brother, she could. OR, she literally has enough money that she could just hire a social media manager to never encounter social media comments again and still be on her sisters' show. And I have to disagree with you that most people in her situation would be the same because a lot of celebrities don't use social media. Some of them don't have accounts and others do but don't run them themselves -- it's a known fact.
But her managers/agent/team tell her to be in social so she is “relatable” she is still a puppet. Unfortunately. And you can’t compare her to Rob. It’s a different gender, age, personality. She makes money from being present on social.
YESSSS!! i completely agree like who are we to judge when we havent really lived what its like to have that much pressure on us to look beautiful - keep it up girlie
Totally, the polarity if these 'energies' aren't to do with gender. As Jung tried to explain, we both hold both of those polarities in our psyche and it is important to nurture both :)
I love your take on this topic. Unfortunately, when I tried to search for videos that explain why current 'divine femininity' is something terrible wrong, most materials are related to why it is a great thing instead. What about the young women who are searching to find themselves? They are told their value is related to the ability to attract a man, being gracious and elegant... I agree with your sentence about how the 'divine femininity' is related to patriarchy. Those women ideology just reinforces the beliefs from 1950s. They say how women need to take out the men out of the pedestal but they put them there instead. Yesterday, I came by a post related to the 'dream life' group in which the so-called 'personal coach' advertised how one'd get any man they wanted and be irresistible if they are in their bs feminine energy. I think the most important thing is being genuine. Thank you for such a valuable video! ❤❤❤
Bs feminine energy is so funny🤣🤣🤣 It’s so true though, a man won’t be attracted to you just because you have feminine energy. If he doesn’t like you he doesn’t like you!! Also, men are not monoliths. Everyone likes something different and that is okay! I am glad you enjoyed my video thank you for supporting ❤️
