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Guys I need your help pls because I know this is a safe channel : i don't know if I should quit my mom's house and never come back because it's really toxic (my sister also leaves there) and since a while ago... I feel bad in this toxic relationship and her too. I started calling places to go stay while waiting because we had a huge fight and I wanted to grab my things and go. But it's like...idk. I don't want to regret and I don't know if escaping is a right way to choose myself or if I should just stay because it's easier (I have a library near, I don't have to pay anything , I know places and all that...) but it's harder to stay there (contradictive but make sense I hope) knowing that is not what I truly want. I feel like a deserve more. There is no physical violence but a lot of tension, things we don't say, psychologic and verbal manipulation from both of us. She says she has great intentions and I think I love her and she does too but is it enough and can I (do I even want) to go through this ? No. It has been a lot of times like this like I said before and this is just like a sign I should go away from my family. I don't speak to anyone in my family except my mom and sister and I want to end both of those relationships too. Like erase them completely of my life. Because I feel like they don't align with what I want and deserve. Also : I am worthy 😊❤ I love how you're making your videos and I'm subscribed. I wish you the best in life and i hope everyone of you guys reading this are going to heal and make it through life in the way you visualise it. Anyway thank you if you read all of that. I feel better writing it. Just wanted to say (i conclude i promess 😂) I download your ebook 🎉🎉
can I have some advice from the girlies in the comments?? I'm 20, and in college. I have this friend, who I genuinely love, but she is extremely troubled. She spends most of our time together talking about every bad thing that has ever happened to her and how it still affects her. Like EVERY conversation goes this way. For the last two years, I have been supportive and a good listener, even when I myself am struggling, because I love her and want her to heal. but she keeps making decisions that are dangerous to herself and others, and no matter how much I beg her to get help, she just won't. she also doesn't do the same for me. our relationship is reduced to her trauma-dumping over and over again, and me listening and trying to figure out what to say. AGAIN - I am happy to listen and support her. she's been through hell. but it's starting to take a serious toll on me, and I feel so guilty trying to pull away for my own mental health, because I feel like she's off worse than me so I need to prioritize her mental and physical health above my own. recently, she told me and our other friend something that upset her, but we didn't realize she was upset, and now she's saying we made her even more depressed and she can't get out of bed, etc, etc. I feel terrible now because it was an honest mistake, we just missed the cue to be supportive, and now I'm afraid for her life. even though we've been so supportive 99.9% of the time, we failed her by accident this one time and now she says we're destroying her, despite our profuse apologies. I just don't know what to do, because I don't feel like I can leave her because she's so fragile, but also she's damaging me badly, and isn't very nice or supportive of me -- like she told me last week that if she was not mentally ill her body would look more like mine, which is bigger than hers. the issue here is that I've confided in her for years about my past eating disorders and she just commented on my body like that and didn't apologize, even when I was clearly devastated by the comment??? Sorry this is so long, but WHAT DO IT DO????? how do I choose myself when I feel like it my friend might harm herself if I do??
You sound like a female version of Michael Sartain when he talks with Evolutionary Psychologists like Dr.David Buss... Very impressive. Let me know if you want to go on Access Vegas or do an interview with him.
oh my god, this is SCARILY accurate to my current situation, thank you so much, this is exactly what i needed to hear. literally brought me to tears, love you 😭🙏❤️
i feel like this is especially so real given how social media has normalized showing the entire world everything. nowadays people act like privacy and not wanting to broadcast every minute of your life is weird, not realizing they constantly endanger themselves with what they do share. i've seen people post their full names, addresses, places of work, school, phone number, etc. so publicly and it's like??? that's not safe. not to mention, just sharing really personal situations online can always lead to it being used against you and it's also just not the best position to put yourself in. normalize being more private! there's literally nothing wrong with it lmao
high school was great for me socially because i think i treated it as a 'third place'. but adulthood is so hard man. idk how to find people and everyone outside is always in their own groups.def gonna take this advice tho, especailly the stuff about posting art to attract similar people 💪
Just found this channel and I’m glad that I did. Been going through a really bad rough patch for a few months now, but it’s time to just lock the fuck in. I have too much at stake rn with college and potential future employers. Thanks for the vid, excited for the next one
I agree with pretty much everything you've said, except that last part. I don't think one should learn to become the "prize". You must still make an effort if you want others to make an effort for you - reciprocity is the foundation of any healthy relationship.
