Building Sexual Tension Is Easier Than You Think... 

"The girl should be in clear and present danger of having sex when talking to you." I like how he puts it.

“Acknowledge your mistakes but don’t identity as failure, then identity what led to it and let it go”. I think this is one way of handling when things don’t go well. Another is to view everything as positive. There are no failures. It’s either a success or learning lesson. It’s all upside, there is no downside. And when things get really tough, identify that as a golden opportunity to level up. That’s how I learned this from Tyler and I think it’s a more positive frame. Both ways get you to the same place. But one is more serious and technical, comes from a competitive frame, while the other is more positive and keeps you away from negative self judgment . Guys can decide what works best for you.

Got it! Having established a man to woman frame, keep on reminding her of that frame, almost as though she has the short term memory of a goldfish.

Honestly, when a girl likes you, with you acting that is congruent with your personality and humor, with you displaying your leadership qualities by making it man to woman, she'll make it explicitly sexual. And really, to me those are interest tests they throw how bought in you are to them. It's obvious this is a very positive sign, that you can honestly have sex in the first date, but it's so easy to fail just because men get carried away by lust easily. I just always say, "you think I'm that easy? Come on girl, buy me dinner then maybe tell me you love me first so I can think about it". Game is so fun when girls throw you shit tests and answering back with just really your quick wit, that's just who you are.

Very advanced mindset. Todd is the goat! 👏

Great video ! I wanted to know where this jacket is from if anybody knows ? It looks great !

Todd is the best coach you could have

It's funny how I had conversations with girls with the sole purpose of being friends without any man-to-woman talk and no sexual tension and they still think I was flerting somehow. Maybe it's some version of the usual "Omg. He doesn't like me? He must be gay.".

Babe wake up‼️ new Todd V upload 🗣️

Did you manage this at the Ivy at all? 😅

This guy is a genius far out

Great video. Can you walk us through what to do when a girl is engaging in sexual topics maybe even graphic in conversation but is resistant to escalation. Thanks!

If u want to ask girl out, just ask her out. Thats it. To feed girl with bullshit u need to be really charismatic and attractive.

Hey Todd can you please do more videos on European girls and how to best go about with them, i know you've made one video on it but i'd enjoy more especially considering how i feel like most of your advice is directed to american audiences which i fear almost makes your advice misguided to me as a north-West European and could worsen my game. It makes me feel like i can't/shouldn't consume your content

Random question, do yall have better luck at night clubs compared to bars? I find myself limited on approaches in bars due to not as many people. I dont dance tho so i havent been to a night club in awhile.

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Todd, does because of social proof being a content creator like being an IG fitness influencer with 100K+ followers gets you laid?

While I believe your content is usually top notch, I don't feel like this video lived up to your typical quality. You didn't really explain how to build sexual tension. Rather, you just said "take credit for your successes, learn from your failures, and make sure the woman feels in clear and present danger of having sex." That's not really specific enough to be actionable. Just my opinion.

What's with the rapey phrasing? Make her feel in danger that she might have sex with you? That's creepy af bruh.

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