Kassandra and Daniel are divorced. Daniel was ordered to pay $500 in child support. He has started making an additional $5,000 a month and Kassandra wants an increase in child support.
i dont know about that state but i know quite a few dont consider tips into it because its not a set amount and not guaranteed, the reason behind it is that a person can claim you make thousands a week when it was a one off thing and only average maybe 100 a week. when my sister took her ex to court for it they wouldnt even calculate overtime into it for the same reason.
Maybe not classified as income, but this man made 3 kids, maybe if he volunteered money if he made more instead of holding it for his future only! He barely spends time with the kids because he is tired and parenting is hard? Come on! He should have suited up.
Social media may be the reason he is getting some of these extra gigs. His best move is to be honest about how much he is earning. He certainly isn’t seeing his kids nor does he sound very interested in their future.
@C&G/G&C - What’s sad is he doesn’t seem to care much about his kids in general. Spending a long weekend every couple months means you’re seeing your kids about 18 days a year.
Shoot…..I pay $300 a week on groceries and household items for a family of 4. We don’t eat out often, and I cook almost everything from scratch. Between, breakfast, lunch, snacks, and dinner….I easily spend $300 a week….and I coupon A LOT!
@@tempeztad “manage better the money”. Um…..nah…..I have no control over infatuation and issues associated with framers and such. Maybe you should “manage better” some education before you reply on something you know nothing about.
He was getting away with murder. To hear him talk about a savings account with 3-children and no health insurance. But, I must say, he was very respectful to the Judge.
Oh, the kids had health coverage - thanks to the taxpayers! How can the fathers get away with not paying for the basic necessities for their children yet be building up their savings “for a rainy day”? A sick child is the ultimate downpour.
I love this judge she gets right to the point, $500 a month for 3kids,and when he shrugs his shoulder l buy clothes she’s saying “parenting”. This dad comes across as not wanting his kids,sad
Maybe if he was able to spend more time with the kids on a residential basis, he would enjoy his kids, but possessive mother is too jealous. The blonde parasite. Can you imagine what would happen to her in Iran.
@@jpaobThe dad said he was tired from working a lot and he did not feel up to taking care of the children. So there you have it, the "blonde parasite" as you disrespectfully called her without even knowing that person, did not deny access or time to the father with his kids. The father is the one not wanting to spend time with the kids or properly help support them. That lady works full time and is the primary care provider of those kids, so pray tell us how is it that you consider her to be a parasite. Based on the evidence he seems to be like a deadbeat dad, and selfish too. All you heard him saying was "me, me, me, my future" but he was not thinking about his children's present or future. Either you did not watch the episode in its entirety or you have a very warped understanding between what is right or wrong.
Watching these makes me amazed at how many parents don't think they need to take care of their kids. In the future it's going to be interesting if the kids eventually see these videos of their parents trying to get out of helping support them
It won't be pretty if they do, they will really turn on him, especially since they had to watch their mother ask for money to take care of them, that is going to piss them off ROYAL!
"parenting kids takes a lot of effort and I don't think I'm up for it" A thought that should have been brought up before baby #1 was even made let alone 3.
My co-worker (male) and i were discussing this judge, and he told me how he just got awarded $300 a month child support because his ex makes more money. He was saying how it makes him uncomfortable; and I explained that it's not about his comfort its for his sons comfort and at minimum he can start a savings account with the support money. So some of the stigma is still men not feeling "comfortable" being paid to take care of their children.
Poor mom in this case looks aged beyond her years. I can't imagine how hard it was to raise those kids basically alone with barely enough support for food on the table.
this is the 4th or 5th one of her videos ... i think she is awesome. i have never disagreed with her findings. but maybe im only seeing ones that are very clear cut like these have been. we need a lot more of her type in the world. Ms. Vonda ROCKS!
There is 1 case that had me disagree with her slightly considering the case. What she told the father/husband to do was within law the correct thing to do even if it was in our view a "unfair" deal.
@@HackerActivist it amazes me how so many women break up the home and then expect the guy to produce even. Maintaining two households is very expensive most people can’t do it. Then on top of that if he is such a bad guy why did she have 3 children with this guy. People need to stop creating their own hell and then don’t want to live in it.
want to say thank you. i would watch ur videos when i was going thur my custody. and i did learn a lot from it. from visiation, to child support and options for custody. it helped me during my progress to terminate permant custody with a guardian in 2008 to filing a motion 2020 for solo . i won solo 9/2020! ur video are verryyyyyyyyy education/helpful !!!!! i didnt even know i could re-open my case. and during 2008-2020 i was paying my child support but she only allowed me to see her for one hour weekly, 4hrs a month. sad ......but i proved that was not in the best interest of my child... :) ty ty ty ty ty ty ty ty ty ty like ty
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He’s too TIRED to take his kids? Really? And on the weekends he can’t be bothered with them, Mom still has to feed and entertain them. I know it’s a reality show but I still wanted to throttle him.
Awarded Support on money he MIGHT MAKE a month. Thats BS. He couldnt just give her a lil bit on the side, he was stupid. "Hey baby look, I made some extra cash this month, take half because idk how long its gonna last."
If it Was me I wouldnt have told her how much I made I would've said i got lucky this time but I'm not sure if I'm gonna be able to afford to live on my own
OMG!!! I really hate guys like this. He makes the rest of us look bad. For I was raised if you play you pay. Or am I like one of the few males on the planet that actually understands the concept of why one pays support. Hell even during that fun year if 2020 as bad as I was hit I still did everything I could to give support, to the point I actually physically lost 20lbs just so I could send something. Not to mention when the ex (during her bouts of sanity) if she ever asked for any help I had no problem helping out when/wherever possible. Like the judge said it's called parenting!
You were raised right. That's what it comes down to, my father always told me that we take responsibility for our actions good or bad. Sounds like someone told you the same thing.
@@vin7786 well that is an option, however my advice is just make sure if you decide to play that you properly vet the person your with. Granted you'll stay single longer, BUT the quality of the person gets better.
It's unfortunate that when u separate from a partner the kids always pay the price. Some parents share to much information with the kids to try and turn them against the other parent. Some times non custodian parent doesn't want to give up any time for their kids or pay child support, or they are unfit to be around the kid. Yep kids paying the price for adults immature behaviour
This dad is just making excuses upon excuses upon excuses he thinks by doing things for the kids time to time makes him a decent dad and like he is a hero type just for taking care of his kids
She said evidence but he just didn’t dispute it. He could’ve kept support the same but that’s wrong of him for treating the kids like that. It made me mad his support only went up $1100
He didn't respond because he didn't know how to defend himself. English is not his first language. He was saying all the wrong things. She bullied him. But the kids could use the money for their everyday needs, it's a win for the kids
this is just recreating an actual case, but there’s actually a lot of men who don’t switch up until the second or third child. I think it could have something to do on gender, yk how many men only like to accept and spend time with their sons and don’t love their daughters as much.
@@joseflores3773 Well the gender of the kids really wasn't an issue or even mentioned here ... So yeah .. And also yes statistically both perents usually will spend different times with ,a child . Mothers and daughters have more in common just like dads and sons . And the bigger they get the less time they will spend together . Since a father accompanying his daughter to the female clothing section to buy here her first bra or other feminen things is usually not something the father or daughter would really like ,but if it was the mother no problem . Same could be said for ,a growing boy . But in the end it does depend on the family and on the people and their own mentality . So yeah I get what you are saying but from the lines that this father is using it looks like he only cares for his money .
I paid $500 a month for my daughter. She just turned 18 in May. So grateful 🙏 to be done no rears and it's feels like a great accomplishment 🙌. The 1st thing I'm gonna treat myself is a new car. I have always put my daughter 1st. I had her every other weekend and also had to buy things for her when she stayed with me. A long journey I'm proud of self. I never complain I just know I did my part 💯
@@yagoelsicario you speak of things you don't know know it all, but know nothing of my life and how things came to be. You gave me a good laugh cause people like you are negative AF and think your smart.
The father’s attitude suggests there is more to his story, I wish judge Vonda asked him more about this circumstances, he is polite and he doesn’t give any evil parent vibe.
Celebrity Parties..🤔$5K a month( appox.).. good thing they didn't discuss tips.. now JV no 🍵sip BUT, your other giveaway for the " don't play with me" ..perched lips..( like "yeah right").. he said he needs a break.. but I caught something which may be Y u asked, do u have any other children, there was a pause... again later same question , like is there something u want to tell us,, again a pause.... love love love the show..
Mom never gets a break being a mom is 24/7 and apparently this guy doesn’t understand this mom doesn’t stop being a mom and you take your children not just once in awhile taking them
The system is unfair. The support is supposed to go for HALF the kids expenses, not all of it. 2.. there is no guarantee that money is being used for the kids. Most of the time the parent uses for themselves. 3.. support should not be solely based off what the person makes. If i was paying 300 a month for 1 child and then got a better job... that has absolutely no impact on half the cost of raising that child. If 300 was good enough last month, what makes this month 200 dollars more expensive? The answer is nothing. It's called greed by the other parent. I have never had to pay child support cause i had custody of the kids. I certainly did not ask for support. We talked about it and agreed to go in half on everything... as it should be. Oh and another thing. Just because one parent wants something for their child, doesn't mean said child has to have it or actually needs it. No kid needs $150 pair of shoes. or more than a couple of pairs of shoes for that matter. Make-up is a luxury. A computer/tablet/cell phone is a luxury, not a need. Utilities are barely impacted by kids, least if you have strict ground rules... no 30-45 minute showers. Turn off the unused lights. Close the damned door. Water out of the faucet is just fine, you don't need a water from a bottle.. etc etc. Air conditioning is not a need. We didn't have any of these thing as kids and we didn't die, or were negatively impacted as a kid. There is a BIG difference in a need vs a want. I am not saying that kids shouldn't be able to have these luxuries. What i am saying is any parent should not be forced to pay money in support for such things. Support if for Clothes, food and medical expenses. You can't calculate rent or a mortgage into it because that person would be paying one of them anyways, with or without a child. There is an argument for the cost differential for the extra bedroom... but each parent is responsible for half that expense like all the others. That should be based of the average cost. Not because the custodial parent decided to move into a house that costs 900k bucks rather than one at 400k that would be comparable. (some people just like to live in ritzy neighborhoods they can't afford as a status symbol). Like I mentioned from the onset. The system is deeply flawed. Very little money actually goes to support the kids. The parent usually spends it on themselves. Too many parents are being taken advantaged of by the other parent. Notice i never mentioned Mom or dad. The system screws both.
@@chaddlindsay9909 my child's mother put me up for a modification under the income numbers she claims she makes $400 a month gross.. and they literally believed it without even verifying
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I have just ONE child and let me just say this $550 is NOT enough for the Month ! I Add $350 and sometimes more of “My Money” so my daughter is set for the month, it is my job as well to support my daughter of course but my point is that this woman is right $500 really is Not enough, especially for 3 KIDS !!
“You should buy them backpacks, you should take them on long weekend “ then they should have shared custody. Also, if your husband make so much that he pays 1.5k a month in child support how are they on medicaid?
Those child support tables need to be abolished. There should be a standardized amount that every parent has to pay. There should be no income based scale for child support. Further, custody should always be 50/50 out of the gate no child support and that puts an end to this nonsense. Men are tired of this rip-off. The judges purposely award the children to women in order to extract resources from the men. Marriage is a financial ripoff. This guy's income is sporadic and yet now he's paying a fixed amount of scalable child support to his wife not for the benefit of the children but for the wife and that's what it's all about. It's disgraceful. And men are done with this. More of us are learning the games of ripoff and it's rigged. In the end the losers are going to be women because we're not playing.
I wish I had seen your videos in high school when my parents were going through the family court for a custody case so I could learn to help my father get the 4 of us kids
Sounds to me like Dad should have the kids, hes making way more money and is way more financialy stable and viable. He can buy them insurence when they live with him.
Man... I'm fine with modification but from what he was saying he makes $5000 when he's lucky for a big party. Those aren't always consistent. Sometimes you're LUCKY to make that in a month. Now, if his circumstances changed through his employer and he was making a consistent $5000/month that's great for him. But I highly doubt that was the case. He communicated it very poorly to the judge.
I can't agree with the increase based on tips; tips aren't stable income. Where's the tax return with gross and net income? Are we really just going off what she said? Why would he agree to that? Either this is fake or he subconsciously believes he's not doing enough for the kids.
In certain industries tips ARE the income. If someone is regularly earning a certain amount, even if it is tips, that can be included in child support just like a one time payout of life insurance, some inheritances, etc. it’s called INCOME. Children need food, clothes, medicine, etc. it takes 2 to make them. If he wants to pay less he can take them more and then he would have to spend more supporting them. Instead he is leaving them with mom and wants all his money to himself. It doesn’t work that way.
@@mylifeinanutshell6931 You paused that half-second clip and then gonna come in here with 20 emojis like you doin something. It also says "based solely on the laws of Texas". My point stands.
The judge said it was based on $60,000 a year. My question is does he get the salary every month and how long has he been getting the extra work? The judge made assumptions that he works extra all the time.
