‘My Best Friend Slept with My Boyfriend’ | Smile With Prachi 

I have gone thru this and I just broke up my friendship and relationship at once. Thankyou for the advice. Even though its been 7 years, I understand your advice.

For the first letter. I think there is high risk in confronting them. They may gaslight her. If I were in her place I would have just simply politely break up with bf and best friend as well. There is no point in asking a criminal why did you do that crime. You will be hurt in the end. If at all you want to confront them. First digest everything that has happend. Let your mind and body process it first.. feel it well and recover. Then you can confront them.

Thanksgiving, There's a high chance that your "best friend" would completely deny that she did something of this sort and instead start blaming you for putting such allegations and start playing the victim card and make you feel guilty about your reaction. And believe me when I say this she's capable of damaging you further as well. So please be careful. I would suggest you to silently cut ties with both your boyfriend and best friend. Because there's no answer u will get from them. And the answers u don't want to hear are actually truth and u already know them. You don't need them to tell you anything.

As a only daughter of a divorced mother, I can definitely understand Christmas's feelings very well. My mom is also very concerned for me. But thankfully I know her struggles. Her life taught me big lessons. Thats why I always focus on my studies and career. I also want to become strong like my maa and want to take care of her for lifetime.

Dear Thanksgiving, They have made a mess and completely discarded your feelings. Your bf said he had flings but chose not to mention very important details. You should definitely leave your best friend no doubt and as for bf, I think they both had some attraction towards each other because it just happened in 2 weeks, no-one goes from brother sister to hookups, they may also do that in future.

Dear Christmas, those relatives are completely useless, and you need not take ANY favours whatsoever from such relatives at all. People who cannot stand for you in your toughest times do not deserve to be in your life. Your daughter needs you and it’s a good thing that she is informing you about her boyfriend. As for her wedding expenses, there are court marriages these days which does not require much money. Also you need not call those toxic relatives to her wedding. What you need to do is educate her about relationships, life, self respect, financial responsibilities, safe sex, focusing on her education and career. Your daughter can do a side job or a side business (like giving tuitions, freelancing, or making and selling some knickknacks) to take care of her education.

Thanksgiving it's best u cut off ties with both your besti and your bf as a person who can cheat once can cheat multiple times.

Dear Christmas, just make sure her bf/friend is a good guy and nothing else. Dear Thanksgiving, just accept the fact that your friend and bf are assholes. There are bunch of wise, hardworker, successful, responsibile, and emotional guys out there; and can heal your heart completely OR you can live rest of your life with assholes.

Mrs. Christmas you are an excellent mother as well as an excellent woman. You suffered a lot of things but you are still doing great is quite impressive. I am not good enough to advice you about your daughter and her relationship but i can surely give you some better advice about cruel relatives. I also had many relatives whom i respected and cared deeply. Some of them had no father support but my own father supported them and married their daughters to good houses but when my dear grandmother died, all of them became so selfish for the property and land left behind that they made their own papers including all of them but my father. After all this happened they never spoke with us because all their sons and daughters were married, they had built new homes for them and they considered my father of no use. Please don't care for your relatives just because you have a bond with them, instead make some friends in your life who genuinely care about you.

I always blown away by your maturity.... The way you handle things... Your perspective and everything OMG Being an immature who doesn't know the reality of this planet... I just admire you from the other side of this planet... May God bless you

I am a 20 year old but sometimes i think the fact that my family always told to stay away from such things like guys in that way.. did help me become a sensible woman uk so that i can make right decision a little later maybe 23 around... and in india if i say 19 age small ro be sensible enough about physical..Just my advice

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If It was me,I would have slapped both of them and moved on.They both are terrible people and deserve each other.It's better if they stay together

prachi i can tell you there’s another reason why thanksgiving is more mad at her bestfren because when they both were involved (her bf n bestfren) she was not in relationship with her boyfriend but she was very much close to her bestfren when the fling happened. so the bestfriend was two faced and did wrong, boyfriend was her ex and he is not obligated to think about thanksgiving after they broke up

Yesss..your advice to Christmas was very good.. I also think that it should be like that

@Thanksgiving your bf cheated on you , It's a red flag, don't only blame your best friend and avoid this red flag. He will repeat the same in future. Once a cheater always a cheater.

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Hey prachi.... I hope you are doing well I missed your videos sooo much Prachi Iam glad you are here again ☺️☺️☺️

Thanksgiving - it's so sad that you're undergoing all this. But TBH both of them are bad like prachi di told. So it's better for you to break up with that guy and also gradually block your best friend from your life. You'll get a good guy as a life partner and also a good friend. May god bless you.

You have gorgeous hair .

Talking about the beginning of that series...here is one thing prachi dii people find your videos interesting for a lot of reasons...but primarily being because...when you explain them with solutions...they relate it to those situations or people and indirectly find solutions to their own problems like dealing with people and situations.And personally also...the beginning of that videos where you take a topic and talk are less catchy than the letters...I think and feel people need more of letter and answers than Talking of a topic.if you think that too much supply reduces the demand,do it for few months and see....definitely you will get great response.and it will help a lot of people with solutions.And Talking of audience interst..I have visited youtube two times since 11 o clock waiting for video. I hope this helps you.thank you

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Christmas, i agree you want to have your rich uncle on your side because he has money and said he will help your daughter with her college fees and wedding jewellery, and all this concern for her reputation is because of that. But let me tell you, rich uncles can change their minds anytime. So just focus on her career. There are scholarships. And no wringing hands in front of rich relatives. It does not help. Focus on your daughter

Missed you big timeee

It also improves my English vocab

Hi prachi di! I adore you a lot. Remember when you told all the girls out there to be independent. Am trying my level best to do the same Am currently pursuing medical but as the studies are really demanding I couldn't learn a new skill. I have always loved to sing as a recreational activity. And 3months back started posting my singing audios. Thankyou so much for putting out your honest thoughts. Will always be your huge supporter 🌸🌸

Hey! What if Thanksgiving's partner or her best friend tells the other after she's had her first conversation? Either of them here gets a chance to prepare a 'narrative'.

Hi, Few days back my bf forcefully got secual with me....I forced him not to do it...he didn't listen...it was hurting and painful....I even vomited i couldnt handle it. Hoping u get my point...what do I do?...after all that he fired me and shouted badly for no reason. What do I do? Please help

Christmas I would you suggest that you tell your daughter about the Education as how important theEducation is...i I think it is more important than that relation with that boy bcz they are just 19 and might in future if they broke up then what..? So tell her that your Education is most important bcz it will stay with her give her your example that me and your dad take a divorce and you are Educated so you can do job and taking cake of you but if what I was not Educated.

I love watching these videos. Podcasts are my new favorite. It's so good to see feminist podcasts😍

Prachi ap sunder lagte ho,👌

I see a lot of girls/women suggesting the break up for Thanksgiving. I second you. Never ever justify cheating. But I don't see the soft corner from Prachi when a guy is cheating. She didn't mention shit like therapy sessions and all. I just want to expose the hypocrisy and bias.

Omg prachi...... Seen you after a very long time

Always keep your parents informed if you really love your partner. Obviously that brother and sister wanted to fulfill their sexual desires and found it easy to do so. Neither of them are trustable as a good friend so better change the expectations. So it would be wrong to go with that guy if its one sided love.

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Christmas dear plz give ur daughter best education nd tell her u need money to buy her own jewellery etc. there is no free lunch. u never know what uncle is thinking. nd these toxic relatives might badmouth about ur past to ur future son in law. dont tell anyone ur past secrets nd stay away from relatives. nobody helps everyone gaslights. be careful

There was a time when this girl talk about height. But now.... Missing the golden days 😂😭😭

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I really missed smile with prachi...

Waiting for your Wednesday videos 😊

Hello ma'am..

on parents child can you please speak about trusting your child, because i have seen many parents who don't trust their child and therefore not allowing them to do stuff they love and controlling them.

Wow it is really great to again😅🥰

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Queen, if i mail you problem, would you be able to reply on it? 🥺

Thanksgiving.....Your best friend and boyfriend both are very nasty people......neither of them deserve your love, care or friendship...... Nowadays people do not have any boundaries.....I would not even think of a guy even if he is my friend's ex let alone her bf.......I understand why you are angry at your best friend because i know you trusted her more n tbh that makes her more horrible.......She knew what you were going through still choose to mess around with your bf n your bf is also not good....... Please cut such people off your life......

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Hi prachi di. As I previously told you about my breakup. now I am in a new relationship from a few days.. i havent told him about my virginity. He didn't ask me but if he will ask me i will not lie.. but do u think I should tell him by myself. He told me that he has to go to Dubai for some work . I told him not to go and study .he is in 12th class.. his father has passed sometime before and he has an elder brother too... Now I am thinking that im doing bad to him because he has his life and family.i can't stop anyone like this.. what should I do? Thanku in advance:)

As 90s kid i am so in shock with prachi suggestion for Christmas , how can a mom be so comfortable with daughters sex . It's truly difficult

Hmmm for the first time i don't completely agree with you on second letter....if the mother invite her daughter boyfriend for dinner, daughter might think she is okay with all the dating,sex she can go along and do whatever she wants since she feels her mother is okay with all these( there is a chance) there should be some check point, daughter need not be scared of mother , but should be atleast be afraid...i don't think it's easy to reject marriage money, it's a huge thing!! ( Just my opinion)

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For Christmas, you seem to be buried under the toxicity of your relatives and I feel for you but fearing the same for your daughter and asking her to mend her ways to avoid taunts, which can never be avoided btw, will not make the situation any better. This will only guarantee your daughter being as miserable as you with your relatives and I am sure that's not what you want. Break this trail here, raise your daughter to be above all this nonsense and someday it'll even push you above this societal norms and what's supposed to be a family or that a 19 yr old mustn't be having sex.

First comment Prachi💜

mam why don't you tell people to be a bad bitch and just let the make cheaters regret. 😬😬

Hello, I have faced this situation or even worse. ..My best friend and my boyfriend came into the relationship even before I and my boyfriend broke up , i mean he was dating both of us at the same time but she knew it and I didn't ! One day he told me that he want to break this relationship for so called family issues , he gave such a shitty reason that his mom is not gonna like me his mom won't allow to have a love marriage n all .... I was shattered as that was my first ever relationship and love ..I was so invested emotionally into it. ..He himself got out of this relationship and ended it without knowing my opinion on it ....After few days I got to know that they were dating since 3 months while we were into relationship .....I confronted her she accepted that they really were into it...He then tried to convince me that it is not a big deal ....At that time I was so heartbroken but I took a stand for myself I threw them out of my life and mind ...Not even once in last 4 years i have talked to both of them ...They both tried to talk to me but I had my mind view strong ..... Dear Thanksgiving , Don't give a second chance to both of them ...Just block them ....Don't even have a contact no. Of them !

Please read my whole comment and reply on it ! I am 21 year old, good looking, handsome guy, topper in school and college and currently focusing on my career. I never proposed any girl. Instead ‘I got proposals from 3 girls’ and many indirect proposals from several girls but I rejected their all proposals with respect because i have some morals, ethics and rational thinking. I believe first to focus on education, career. I don’t want to betray my parents by having love affair at the time of studies and personality development. So my point is i am ‘proud virgin’ by my choice. I believe in marriage system. I want to love only one person and stay loyal for lifetime to that person. in future my wife is going to first love for me (emotionally and physically). So why should I don’t expect same from her? I am not judging anyone. But in some youtube videos,articles they all are only getting side of non-virgins and they are imposing non-virgins on virgins. They are asking virgins to have big heart and accepts directly non-virgin, why ? If loosing virginity was their choice then its our choice to reject them. They don’t have right to judge us. I looks at this things rationally . And in my personal life, I am behaving in the same way that I expect from my future spouse (not having a past love and physical relationship with someone else). So my expectation is based on equality. I like to think rationally and keep modern approach. I am not judging anyone but yes virginity matters for me.(‘ I don’t believe in hymen and bleeding at first night etc.’) You will say ‘what about trust,love,care etc.’ so then yes! With all this things virginity equally matters a lot for me. I want to explore those things emotionally and physically first time with my future wife and expecting same from her. This is my wish, my choice. So whats wrong in this ? Who are this people to call me narrow minded ? Try to understand our point of view. Get one fictional example. If Girl is having all random relationships and at the same time one boy is struggling to achieve something in life and he stays single for that. After he became well settled he wants same virgin wife as he is. And after all random casual relationships now that girl wants serious,caring,well settled guy. Whats now ? They both deserve good partner. But no one can impose that girl on that boy. Its their choice. Every relationship should start with honesty and truth. Each and everyone has right to choose their life partner according to their preferences and values. Past matters ! What is my present is because of my past. Today i am enjoying success cause I struggled lot in past. So I respect everyone. I am not going to judge anyone. But try to understand virgin’s point of view. their is no one who can talk about virgin like us who stays virgin by choice until marriage, And expect same from future partner. Each and everyone just normalising non-virginity and imposing non virgins on virgins in the name of modernism,21st century and bla bla… And sorry if I hurt someone. If someone suggests me this illogical suggestion that ‘past is past’ and focus on present for marrying non virgin in the name of love so I have many doubts. some querys. after knowing the fact that she is not virgin what if i started imagining continuesly her with another guy and feeling depressed, still you force me to marry her? After knowing the fact that i am not first for her still you force me to marry her? If i can’t digest that fact and not seeing myself happy with that girl still you will impose that non virgin on me ? Rethink ! what about if she is medically ok or not (std)? What if her ex had some photos of unethical activities and blackmail us after marriage and spoiled our married life? Or make fun,troll or teasing? what if she never forget her past ? What if she compares? What if i found that born baby is not mine ? And in todays world considering gossiping,social pressure ..divorce is punishment for hole family although mistakes was done by only one partner. I just want to be virgin for my future wife and expecting same from her and want each other to be loyal for life time ! What is wrong in this ? If i am perfect, I deserve perfect. After our marriage if any disaster comes newly then i am ready to stand with her and fight for her but i am not ready to handle problems related to her past relationship which she did by her choice. Why should i take unnecessary risk. I want to be in monogamous relationship. I am the only one for her in whole life ,she is the only one for me in whole life for the “first and last time.” How beautiful feeling is this ! But it is very disgusting that everyone is avoiding our point of view, just trying to impose directly non virgins on virgin and trying to make atmosphere where non virgin can feel comfortable and easily ask to virgin that have big heart and accept us. No one trying to put our point of view and side. You may express your opinion! I am waiting for response. This all are my humble queries. Anyone can reply on it. You may express your opinion! …..