"Get ready with me whilst I tell you a one sided story about how much my partner sucks for only working to pay the bills and not taking me places whenever I want." Is in their future.
it really hasnt lmao. that's a WAY over exaggeration. most average women still wanna pay for their owns dates so the guys can hold it agsint them and think the woman's now owes him sx.
I used to date a broke guy. He was a veteran and went to college after his discharge. We met during his senior year of college. We were the same age but I graduated from college, 4 years earlier and had been working in my career. He hadn't even started his career yet. He lived with his mom and drove a real piece of crap car. We've been married 30 years, have 2 amazing grown sons and a wonderful daughter in law. We own a home, 2 cars and take modest vacations with the kids. Right now we're trying to grow our 401Ks, hoping for grandchildren and looking forward to retirement. I wouldn't have any of that if I had parted ways with him because he was broke when we met.
As a girl, I always split the cost of first dates, so that there’s no feeling of “owing” them or any weird expectations. I also just don’t want a stranger to pay for me before we even know if we like each other!
Same I always pay for my own, also that way if I want something expensive or a few cocktails I won't feel bad! Also the fastest way to get out of said 'expectations'.
News flash. Don't do this ladies. If he sends you an uber he will HAVE YOUR ADDRESS. Dumb move. This is why its better if you get your own uber or drive yourself. That and obviously so you don't act like this entitled brat. Edit: hadn't gotten to the part where he mentions the address thing sorry 😊
That's hilarious how she said we need to step up our game like... honey... being more independent is the step up. Expecting this level of service is regressive in my opinion
8:15 "My Narcissist boyfriend." Ma'am, who is the one recording themselves and telling the world person stuff? I dont think you know what a Narcissist is... look in the mirrior, you'll see one.
I guarantee the one complaining that her boyfriend doesn't make enough money probably just means he lives within his means. All the "money" she was spending on trips etc. was likely just her racking up credit card debt and now she realizes she can't afford to pay it off because she was living beyond her means all along. She's still obviously spending money on makeup and nails n such too. She could scale that back a lot and save a lot! Some women are so entitled that they can't even grasp that those things are luxuries, not automatic rights just because you're a female. Most men don't even like all that and would prefer a natural look anyway. And why can't she get a side hustle or a better job if she needs more money? It's not a man's responsibility to fill in her financial gaps. Especially if you don't live together or aren't married.
I had one lady come up to me wanted to hang out I was like alright we can get some drinks we go to this bar next to where she worked. She knows I have a good career but I never explained how much I made but she starts laughing that I said I sold my car I have no use for it since I remote work and I have the gym in my place and at most will use uber eats or amazon to deliver my food. She started trying to make fun of me I tried to explain to her after living in a city like DC or NYC you learn to not use a car if needed since parking is a nightmare and no need to worry about a DUI she continued to try to make fun of me soo much I ended up just ditching her at the bar and she kept blowing up my phone. Mind you she is a waitress and makes minimum wage I make well over 150k plus bye felicia. the entitlement from some people is just ridiculous these days I just wanted to have a nice normal evening and have some drinks and chit chat with someone not get attacked for not wanting to deal with a car and the excess costs that come with it.
Yep that’s how they are. Superficial. I’m sure if you had a regular car like a civic or an accord, she’d probably make fun of you too. They’re not satisfied unless you’re driving an Audi or a Land Rover.
Smh that's ridiculous, I hope you've found someone who isn't like that. I will never understand these kinds of women. If you like someone, you like them, their worldly possessions don't mean anything to me, it's who he is that matters 🤦🏼♀️ Especially in this economy, how are these girls (cus let's face it, these aren't actually mature adult women) not embarrassed to act this way!?!?!?
I used to be a car free and really enjoyed it. I have several friends that have been car free for decades. That's great that you're carfree, commend you!!!
I've been on dates with very rich men and broke men and it's definitely a choice that every girl has to make (I don't judge if a woman wants a rich man). The rich guys will obviously pay for your ubers and take you to a fancy dinner on the first date. Why? Because it's like pocket change to them. It's like asking someone you haven't met to lend you a dollar. So it's no big deal. And for broke guys it's like...they basically can't do that kinda thing for you but you can still find other things to appreciate about him and have an amazing life together. The broke guys still make an effort, they will take you on picnics or a walk under the stars. It's not all about expensive dates as long as they're willing to make an effort, and men can get really creative with date ideas if they truly like/love you. I'd encourage that woman not to leave the broke guy because she seems too influenced by social media in her decision.
You make a very interesting point about the pocket change part; you are right but again a rich men could do things that for him requires to put some extra effort or get out of his comfort zone just to please the person they are dating.
@@paquitaelmaestro1576 the reality is that if a man is broke he has to put in More effort to make an impression, just like if a woman is fat she has to put in more effort to make an impression. So rich men don't put in effort coz they don't havr to. And hot women don't either coz again they don't have to 😉
@@diyab1056 Pretty much. A con of rich guys though is they can act like they own you because they pay for you, so while the ladies in the video may get the Uber ride, fancy restaurants, and feel celebrated it’s not always sunshine and roses. Poor guys have cons too. At the end of the day it’s all about character and effort for me.
@@tiahnarodriguez3809 Yeah it's kinda like... They can get another girl if you aren't the way they like because there's lots of pretty girls looking for rich men, but there's not as many rich men
As a person who travels very few times on the year because i cant affort to most of times, the second lady complaining that because she hasnt traveler or "done anything" for 4 months is making her "tired", is just so ridiculous to me-
"Birthday month"? Let me guess: she *demands* a birthday MONTH and to be spoiled incessantly, but he gets a birthday. She also doesn't know what "sitting ducks" are.
I've never needed a guy to financially support or buy random stuff for me. I've only insisted that he be capable of doing his fair share financially or stay on track to becoming capable. That's also a standard I set for myself.
The first girl sounds broke lol. You broke a date because a person who doesnt know you won't get your broke ass an Uber? That guy was damn lucky, he missed that bullet of entitlement.
Idk how anyone can deny someone who doesn't work love, like unless they have things that to take care of, like medical needs or children, and dating someone who doesn't work means it'll be so much harder to keep up with. My boyfriend's mental health makes it very hard for him to work. However I LOVE working. And honestly, if it's socially acceptable for men to work and women not to, why should I throw a fit if I work and my man doesn't? I also would rather him be mentally sound than push himself to his limits working. If i enjoy it, why throw a fit if he doesn't?
I could understand her point if she had told him this. No one wants to have to provide everything for an adult. The fact that she is posting this shows it is either fake or she is a narcissist,
I don't think her intentions were to just get views or embarrass him, but still I'm sure it did. If I were her boyfriend and I saw this you best believe I'm going online to ask the world for advice about something extremely private and personal regarding her but truthful, like " how do I tell my girlfriend she stinks but not hurt her feelings?". She won't do that to anyone again!
Now after one paying a thousand a month-child support for over 10 years hating myself for ever laying with one of these bums.. yep call me an idiot with experience.. I deserve it
*I’m so0o0o glad I don’t have to date anymore!!!* 😆 I met my hubby online (long-distance). And since _he_ flew from Washington to SoCal and rented a car to see me, _I_ planned and paid for our date (lunch and movies one day, and Disneyland the next day). And he loved it because he said I was the only girl that’s ever done that for him!!!! 🤭 *I love my hubby!!!* 🥰😘❤️❤️❤️
That just sounds so dangerous, not only will this guy now know your address, he now also knows that you are dependent on either him or a 3rd party to get home
A man that celebrates and cares about you? He can't afford to waste money doing dumb ish? You're right, you deserve someone else. He's too good for you.
I’m a woman and wouldn’t ever ask that!! You don’t have a car!?? I can drive and come to wherever-I don’t need you to spend money on me…especially on a first date!!
And I sure AF don’t need a man to pay for stuff all the time either!! In fact I don’t want him to pay for every single thing!! We go out I want to pay-there’s times that I’d rather pay then him!! Especially when he’s the one who’s working harder to pay for us to live the least I can do is take my man out and show him how I appreciate him!! Hell I’d do it even if he was broke and didn’t pay for stuff!! If he loves me and treats me right then why can’t I!!?
I went on a friend date with a guy I like and he was more than happy to pay for my order, even though I declined. Even though I already know him I would never expect him to pay for an Uber. I'm all for us having standards but the girl couldn't even dress, so clearly her priorities are messed up 🤷🏾♀️ at this point I'm sick of all these "influencers" on the internet.
To be fair I KIND OF understand what the second girl was saying, I just think she's saying it in a really weird messed up way. I've been in many relationships where the girl was basically broke and relied on me to get by, so these days I mostly look for a relationship where the girl is financially responsible and can take care of herself. I think that might be what the second girl was getting at but again, she could have phrased it better.
So that first girl should learn to read a drivers manual to get her permit and license so you don’t need to ask a guy you were gonna go on a date with for a Uber like excuse me💀. I would’ve broken up with the 2nd girl the moment she said dating me sucks like girl there was no need to blast your relationship to the world. Like do people forget that you don’t always need to spend money to spend quality time with each other.
"You might think I am crazy for that."-Just entitled is what immediately hits me, so so entitled. I have no hope for someone like this. Eventually, they will end up alone and miserable.
Uber black ❤ it’s a red flag when a man could careless about my safety and comfort ❤ Please ladies: you will obviously NOT provide them with your true address
Shows she's an adult child. Doesn't drive and can't find a ride for herself. Had the same situation in the past. She had no license ,no car and was broke. She also had no ambitions to get a license, car or a job.
Never in my life did I ever have to pay for sex but I honestly feel women like this are kinda propagating the idea that it’s just easier to pay an escort because of the clear expectations and boundaries without all the narcissistic expectations and emotional baggage. I’m glad I’m not dating in this day and age because I certainly wouldn’t put up with this shit.
I'm so glad I won't have to worry about dating, hopefully for the rest of my life. I have normal expectations of a date, you meet each other at the designated place, you split the bill for whatever you are doing and have a good time getting to know one another.
Looking at the 1st woman's living quarters and what she was eating at the restaurant I'm surprised she didn't ask to have a Rolls Royce sent over to pick her up!
how are people like this in relationships and im over here been single for over a decade. but then again if thats how a good portion of women are i feel im not missing out on much.
As a certified female... that first chick is crazy!!! Like girl who the f is you!? And for the second chick, she just needs to talk to her man and both of them need to work on a financial plan so they can save money and have one day a month of spending a lil more than normal. Talk to yo man!!!!
I'm broke as hell, since I'm in school full time. Me and my girlfriend have no shortage of fun things to do. Bird watching, hiking, basketball, ping pong, the park system has different events for super cheap or free, we go to trivia every week with friends, etc. We did a jigsaw puzzle and watched a movie tonight. We're training for a nighttime 7k through the forest and an obstacle course race. We knit/crochet. We play video games. We're going to start dancing and doing archery soon. We have a blast because we love each others company. If you can't afford a formal date, just get slightly creative.
Sounds like you and your girlfriend have a fun relationship. My boyfriend and I are going to Jekyll Island at the end of the month. Everyday is a date for us because we love each other for who we are. It's sad so many of these young women do not understand love and material gain.
About the 1st grl in the video, I wouldn't be askin my date that I'm about 2 meet 2 pay 4 my Uber, let alone knw where I live. U dnt knw if they're relly psycho or not. Since I cnt really drive yet, I'd just ask like a family member, my bestie, or just pay 4 my own Uber to get there. Most definitely the 1st two options becuz I dnt wnna get kidnapped. Not sayin that all Uber drivers are like that, I'm just sayin. At least find out after the date if u wnna continue seeing them or not. Jeez 😮💨 And about 2nd grl, I'm nowhere close 2 bein rich nor completely broke, but I like to be frugal with my money. I personally wouldn't ever spend hundreds of dollars on somethin unless it was a well-planned out trip and I booked a place 2 stay ahead of time. Communication is key in any relationship whether it's romantically or platonically. I'd prefer to be on the samee page on my man about 50-50 stuff. I pay, then he pays kinda thing. Soo that way there won't be any kinda resentment on either side. To make the video and then post it just petty and trifflin. If he hasn't already broke up ya, then it probably won't be a matter of time until he does. Hopefully, she didn't out his name in the video tho becuz Jeez.. that's just not right 😡 To anybody who even reads this long ass comment, I'm am soo srry it's thing long 😅🤣
I live in NYC- a girl once asked for an Uber because she doesnt like to take subway at night. I told her, no worries, lets do brunch on the weekend. 😂 NEXT, too many women
All I can think of "Miss dating a broke guy" is omg what if the guys sister or mother sees this. SMH Like his family seeing the way she's talking about him on social media 🤨.Cuz if he was my brother I'd tell him he needs to dump her, cuz she's not in it for the right reasons.
