I feel for Callie so much. Girl I hope you can leave that POS that groomed you. You and your children deserve peace and stability. Get out, get help from shelters and move far away. I wish you a lot of strength
"Jason": ... love you. 🦎: .... "Jason": alright, love you. 🦎: .... I'm not saying this in any kind of a sarcastic or ironic way: *Loneliness is fucking killing us, for real.*
To the last girl, by the sound of it you already are doing it on your own. You're being manipulated to think you can't. take the kids sue him for child support and get yourself somewhere stable away from this creepy groomer scumbag. You are not a loser you got this.
Also: Lyle, i really enjoy how empathetic and caring you are with these callers. For a dude in a gecko costume you give a lot of sound and solid advice
The way Callie’s call just kept getting worse… She goes on to say she was homeless when he came around and helped her?? At 16? 😪 I really hope she is able to leave her situation. Maybe one of those community programs could help?
This poor girl with 2 kids who's with a crazy narcissist pedo makes me think of my mom who was financially abused (along with all other kinds of abuse) by my father. Clearly this guy took her out of her hometown to isolate her. Jesus christ. I hope so bad she can escape
The last girl OMFG!!!! Girly get into a woman’s shelter or woman’s home… there are support groups and housing for women escaping abuse…. Like leave. Like leave for the kids at least because he’s a groomer and he WILL hurt those kids babes
You have to big bull your way out of there. Be a stealthy big bull sis. Like reach out to a shelter and when they give you a green light leave in under an hour when he’s gone because of the cameras. Also check your car for trackers and only remove them when you’re gone at a normal place you go to… then head to a shelter
Tht old man gonna waste ALL of her twenties he wants her to be alone n dependent on him...leave him before he repeats his pattern n finds himself a new teenager total creep hate him jst frm the story
wait geckos know how to start roth ira accounts?! 😭 funny how lyle always knows to say i’m not a lawyer/can’t give legal advice - but then has no problem being an impromptu financial advisor, loll
To the second caller if your husband found you as a child he is a child predator. That doesn't go away. You're allowing a child predator near your children. What kind of mom would do that?
Uhh. A 16 year old who was herself groomed and molested and deprived vital years where she should have turned into a responsible adult? It's a vicious cycle
An abused, groomed, scared one who was beaten down and snatched up/impregnated before they had a chance to grow as a person. I get where you are coming from but damn dude.
That poor woman with the groomer. Being abusive by watching her with cameras and cheating himself, preying on a young homeless woman and getting her pregnant, not paying rent. Hes ruining her life I hope she can reach out to some womens shelters or other resources to get out
5 mins and I am profoundly confused as to why someone would let this happen to them as well as appalled. Like why the hell wouldn't he do this on anon accounts?
The most dangerous time in an abusive relationship is when you leave and it know its hard to believe because the act of being in the relationship is considered the most dangerous because they are being held physically, mentally and emotionally yes, only to be kept to be constantly and continuously to be subjected to said abuse. But when you try to or do manage to escape THATS! the most dangerous part because they loose that sense of control and become even more irrational, delusional, and violent. The stats don't lie in that department, unfortunately, and again its another thing they can weaponise against the individual.
So for Cali if she is 23 and she has been with a man 18 years older than her for 9 years....basically a 32 year old man groomed a homeless 14 year old? Like what is happening????
Is there any way at all for me to contact the last caller? I could help her much more than her so called therapist smfh “Do whatever you’re ready for” firstly she’s never gonna be ready to leave someone who she’s been with since she was a child. 9 years is a long time, especially when they have two kids together! She probably doesn’t even realize that this is grooming and mental abuse? Anyways I really would like to talk to this girl bc I went through almost the exact same thing when I was 16! I hate that these calls are anonymous. Also why didn’t her therapist give her better advice on getting a place to stay bc who tf would want to go to a shelter with two kids? Shelters are very unsafe! She would be better off either trying to get her bf to pay to put the kids in daycare so she could work, but considering he’s not even paying the rent I doubt that’ll happen. Or she could get a job working from home. A lot of work from home jobs provide the equipment for you. Eventually she’ll have to means to move out! I just wish I could talk to her I really do feel her pain💔
15 years ago when I was traveling I ran into two kids that ran online women profiles, yet they weren't using their pictures, and well, weren't all women. Whenever we needed money for a hody or supplies, it was a few texts away before we had over a hundy in visa card numbers. These kids were fresh but knew how to scam the gullible, and it was amazing cause it wasn't having to fly a sign.
The first caller is so funny. He tried to get these women off the sites to convince them to pay attention to him for free, and when they did not and still requested he pay them for their time, that's extortion? 😂 What a loser lol
He was talking about them having all of his personal information and access to his family and friends, that was the extortion threat... That they would tell them what he was doing or share his pictures
just because you have an addiction doesn't make it a scam 🤦♀ also trying to get cam girls on a different site to chat and not expecting to pay is weird and greedy. they're not dating sites! they're working!
Yes, but the nature of that website makes its users believe they are actually in a true relationship sometimes. feels like a scam like the guy literally said, it is none of our places to judge because we do not truly know what they did in those conversations
I had the exact same thing happen as the 2nd caller. I mean right down to him being a narcissistic liar. Relax there’s groups that can help you. I don’t know if they’ve alread utilized them, I was lucky enough to have understanding family members.Also communicate with your landlord, especially if you have children. Laws differ between states but most of them have extensions for people with health issues, children ,elderly etc. wish I could talk to second caller, my life so closely parallels hers it’s uncanny.
Some people come off like they want the world to do the work for them. Change is scary. Just do it and work with what comes along and work for what you want. Especially if you have kids.
30:21 you need to say words like Vanguard, Filety, Edward Jones, Webull stuff like that ever show lol 1 to get the algorithm to get you on some of those sweat youtube money adds and 2 people who start accounts like these and steady put money in them if there start in their 20's even if it 100 or 200 a month will be millionaires
The first guy should just see a therapist and not turn it into hatred towards cam girls. But of course someone is probably going to call me a cam girl or something because I said this. Toxic commenters 🙄
Bro those girls are straight up evil. They know their "fans" extremely lonely from the get go and I'm sure most of them lead these men on pretending that enough money is given she can be his pretty woman
Yeah you weren’t really scammed..you expected a cam site to be a dating site..which it clearly isn’t. The girls go on there to make money, it’s similar to a stripper. My advice to men, don’t expect these women to date you and don’t try to meet up with them, if you do that’s on you-cam girls who do meetups are usually unprofessional and have issues. If you want a GF go on a dating site, not a cam site. Honestly I have no empathy for this guy sorry.
Second call disgusted me. Shes a victim, that man is fucking horrendous. I hope she finds the strength to leave and start a better life for herself and her children.
IMPORTANT MESSAGE. there was a guy who killed his entire family over a cam girl because he got way over his head in debt. was stealing money from family for it also.
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2nd caller im sorry but HUHHHH???? 16??? Jeez. I almost feel like you kinda got yourself into that mess but I dunno the full details so thats not really fair
Why is it this guy thinks in the exact fashion I’ve always thought someone who spends $$$ to chat with another person would think? Can anyone hear how much of was he says only occurred in his imagination? What men getting lured down to Colmbia via camera sites to get picked up down there and never heard from again is documented extensively? When will this guy acknowledge he actually dodged one?
Well he clearly has a smidge of sense because he did in fact not go to where the camgirl insisted. Yea it's unhinged to spend that much money and to get a person's attention but still. Silver lining
Idk if immature is the word I'd use. What if he gets mad? What if he finds her? What if he physically assaults her or the children? It may be simple but it's not easy
The first dude really sounds like he’s being scammed by a romance scammer and it’s probably some 23 year old dude in West Africa or India that he’s talking to..
I've watched enough 90 day fiance to know there are plenty of camgirls who are real women but still scammers especially in south America like the ones he found
@@rusteddenial453 the guy literally says he thinks she liked him and even called it a relationship and it's only in hindsight does he consider the fact that she only liked him for money.
Sex robots will reduce women to the value of their womb . No more will they profit from their cooters 😂. It's gonna be soooo great. Instead of a bunch of lonely incel MEN there's gonna be HOT incel WOMEN at the breadlines 😂. Personality will be the only advantage a girl has to a sex robot .
Callie had someone else pay their rent 5x and thinks its no big deal to ask for another $12,000, shes part of the problem. I feel bad she got groomed but don’t have any sympathy at all.
@@langustajableczna yes, she put herself in that situation, stayed in that situation, brought a 2nd life into this world knowing it was a toxic situation, and instead of changing her and her children’s lives for the better keeps asking for handouts. Having an organization pay months worth of rent over 5x is crazy. Asking anyone for $12,000 is crazy. Shes known the guy is a deadbeat and instead of leaving asks for handouts to keep enabling him. Shes is definitely half of the problem. All stories have 3 sides. Her side, his side, and the truth. And on top of that she lets someone she knows is a predator near her children.
@@jordandeanda6244 you don't know much about her life, maybe she didn't want to have the kids fully but was forced? Maybe she can't work at all? Her situation is 100% financial coercion. She was 16, homeless and impregnated by some deranged 30 something and wasn't able to live normally even if she wanted to. Her useless not-even-husband is the reason she has to ask to pay rent! It's his fault 100% what do you not understand? She stays at home since literal 16 yrs of age and takes care of the home and kids, so he has to cover everything and more. If he couldn't then he should have had a vasectomy at his big age. You can't comprehend such a complicated and nuanced abusive situation and how hard is it on groomed victim, so I'm glad there is help avaliable for women and children in her situation. You are blaming a victim on being groomed and financially controlled and still trying to pay the rent despite it being the faux-man responsibility 100%. She is scared to leave and scared of him. A woman's most vulnerable time is after leaving a toxic man, that's when the risk of abuse and risk is the highest.
