Sometimes we ladies miss the red flag bcos of so called love. The red flag was when he said he didn't want to go that he didn't have money and she made mistake of buying him a ticket. 2nd red flag when he said he want to come with his manager and the managers wife knowing well u have always wanted to go to Zanzibar and he didn't think of buying u a ticket and for himself and making u feel special while there or making it an intimate trip
Life is a mystery, Life is a journey and Life is a process. We all pass through a lot of things and still manage to wear those smiles that keeps us moving. It is only the Grace of God that strengthens us each day by making us stronger enough to live life one day at a time. As many of us reading this who has been hurt so deeply by the people we love, I pray we get a complete total healing because healing serves as a therapy and a gateway after forgiveness. May we not be victims of our own mistakes I pray. Girl you are strong much more than you think . The future is far brighter and the best is yet to come. Love you girl 😘
He is such a great interviewer Oh My God 😮 I love the way he engages and speaks wow very professional and humble and he lets his interviewees speak 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 am all here for it 🎉🎉🎉🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Dsf is such a butter fly and lovely perosn to be around but this topic makes her so vulnerable to talk about in which i understand and i hate seeing my girl this way, i like it when she wasn't granting interviews but then again when you talk about it you get to free yourself a lil bit but the pain never goes away Xo.
Wow I need the full video... some people are so wicked nd pretend to care about you .. thank God he didn't do more than that.. you are very beautiful and strong Dorcas 🥰
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she has experienced trauma in the past and I don't know if she truly healed. closure is very important to her which is why it looks like she is ranting etc. I do hope she finds wholeness and learns forgiveness too. women who have experienced trauma are very fragile and need to be in secure environments and relationships otherwise their trauma will be relived.
@@emmanuelginikanwa283 Go heal yourself of anger and hate towards women steming from rejection. No woman prefers a horrible man!! The fact that a woman loves a man who is not worth it doesn't mean she 'prefers' a horrible man! Anyone can fall inlove with anyone who could turn out bad; it is not the fault of the one who loved them.
@@bibibello2181 relax... why so defensive.... i pointed out a common phenomenon. some women are attracted to toxic men// good guys come last etc. if you've survived such an experience, kindly help other women do same rather than attack me. i come in peace
@@emmanuelginikanwa283 I repeat no one is attracted to 'toxicity'! Each time a woman comes out with a story about a man who did her dirty, men like you come with your subtle blames. It's always from your experience of being ignored for another guy at some point so you say 'shebi they like bad boys' because you think you could have been the good one? No one is attracted to something that they know for sure will damage them. They just loved people who turned out bad for them. Rest oga! You are reaching with your insinuation that I have survived whatever and should be dishing out advice. Worry about your own like and stop blaming and advising
He said he didn’t have money but he lied. If he wanted to he would. This generation don’t like good people. When you’re good to them they think you’re a fool🥺🥺🥺
I was hoping she would say reported and checked the CCTV. But then again, the then boyfriend may have convinced her not to. I hope you get justice Dorcas. Hugs.
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Personally I feel the very first mistake was buying him a ticket anytime you hear a man that says he cannot afford something that is meant to bring the two of you together leave it he's not ready when a man is ready to spend time with you he would pay your ticket, your mother's and father's ticket and he won't end there he will pay for your sisters ticket with her man or husband and kids what are you telling me... This woman met a scammers finish and klaar
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For sometime now I am struggling to understand what a “ woman “ means she’s strong 💪🏾 What is being strong 💪🏾????🤔🤔🤔🤔 Can you say you are strong or it’s people around you, colleagues, etc…. Have to say you’re STrong. Being Vocal = strong Being Silent = strong Can someone be polite and explain to us please. By the way I am Not talking about our lovely sister here , my question is General 🙏🏾
Mentally strong. We endure the most and receive very little emotional support. We receive the least protection from the men in our families and communities but somehow survive it all and still become decent human beings. You truly have to be a strong person to live off of no love for a large portion of our lives. If it wasn't for self love there would be nothing.
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1:14 discussion about a woman's menstruation is totally okay and something that shouldn't be a problem for adults, but in my opinion a woman just casually revealing that she's menstruating when there is absolutely no need to is quite bizarre. She didn't need to reveal that.
@@msk7458 I totally agree with you that it's a natural process and that shouldn't bring embarrassment or shame to anyone. But I just believe that publicly revealing that you're menstruating unprompted, and in situation where it was totally not essential to the discussion is clumsy and outright wrong.
She did that to explain why she’s overly emotional -because hormones can rage like that when you’re on your period. It’s how you say “discussion about a woman’s menstruation is totally okay and shouldn’t be a problem for adults”, then go right ahead to bash her for having a discussion about it to justify her emotions. Contradictory much??😒
Chude!! Chude!! Chude!! How many times did I call you?? “I KNOW, I HOPE” you too can hear that smoke alarm beeping!! Abeg I no mind donate battery so the next production doesn’t have the beep. Last season was the crazy editor series, this series na so so smoke alarm beeps 😂😂😂