“Not everyone likes to have sex”🤷🏾‍♀️ | Uncomfortable truths about sex | Episode 54 

I always love how she does her make up. 🔥🔥

@Lynette Maina Hahahaha nice one!! 🙌

Wanted to like this but I like that it’s at 69

@@flomaish9814 Hahahaha you're too dope! 🤭

No..It’s 356 days. Anatomy of Scandal barely has real intense sexual scenes.

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Two sides to every story

The math isn't mathing 😂😂

@@WORLDNEWSNETWORKCABLE ...& if they don't, oh well! Everything isn't meant to be comprehended by everyone & u 'ren't obligated to keep explaining yaself/lifestyle. Live ya life, Do U!

Finally, I got my sexual orientation. Thank you for this comment

Am the type only enjoy sex onceeee in whileeee, no trauma or bad experiences , I just don’t like sex the way people project it. Thank you for this piece. Like Lydia I enjoy sex when single because I get to choose when I want it but When I have someone is in my life constantly I loose it, just find intimacy in different ways.

@@wambuiwaithira1864 I heard that... thank u! Fully committed r/s sex becomes tedious/chore...just exhausting.😆

I think you should inform the authorities, like take a video for evidence as well if you see him repeating it again

I'm a very decent gentleman, same age group. Report to your Head of police station near you. Not anybody less. Thats the only level I can trust to keep quiet. OR Call the DCI number on their facebook page. And ask to speak to gender based violence people.

Success in your exams baby girl. I understand you 100%

Please do your exams.. wueh

me too

Don't be foolish 😂😂 you can always watch it later

@@wanjiku.ngotho the anxiety that carries 😅

Ikr

Hhhhmmm…..

Non verbal how though?

Whilst non-verbal cues aka body language are there...the onus is on you to speak up(use your words). U're assuming that the other person is clairvoyant & will therefore know what u want/don't want. In situations like sex, please speak up, be concise & mean what u say as there can be no room for ambiguity. Non verbal cues are misinterpreted all the time.

@@HopeShobha Rescinding consent can also be done without speaking; pushing away, fighting, or attempting to escape are all nonverbal methods indicative of not consenting to sex.

@@magalienia6958 I understand your point but this is not only in just sex. People are different, I may be confident/comfortable enough to say no and others aren’t. It’s different for everyone. Rescinding consent can also be done without speaking; pushing away, fighting, or attempting to escape are all nonverbal methods indicative of not consenting to sex.

@@rninsi2003Agree! & I shall put a bow on this by saying that, "two things can be true at the same time." Where I come from, we are taught that shld one find themselves in a dangerous/uncomfortable situation, whilst fighting back (kicking,clawing) etal is all good, one shld first & foremost use their vocals (use your words; speak up/ scream/yell/shout.) Audio & fight go hand in hand unless one is gagged. For the sole purpose of survival/wellbeing, let everyone stay vigilant esp in these here overly sexualised times loaded with undefined grey areas.

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Have you tried talking to her or some counselling coz it may affect your marriage

And some family planning coz low libido

I had the same experience. I've been married for 11 years (been with my wife for 15). She's older now and oddly her sex drive went up. But in order for her to be more active she had to deal with her own emotional availability. Now that's my situation. It's not everyone's. It worked for me because my wife had some emotional/guarded issues. We went to counseling. It worked out. But the truth is this. Sex is important. Anyone who believes its not is lying. I don't care if you've been married 8 years or 80 years. There's always something that attracts you to your partner (if you actually are in love with them). Sex is not a choir or a prize for doing something (i.e. I took u out to dinner or took out the trash). Its a want to. You should want to make love to your partner. If not. Then you're just friends. And I think that's what people don't get. It's why you and your wife should be friends, but you should never marry your friend. If your partner can't bring herself to want to have sex with you (and it should be a want to) then thats a need that's not being met. No different than if one of yall have financial spending issues, trust issues, communication issues, or attentive issues. It's a hard life if one our needs isn't being met (husband or wife). It's why choosing a partner (and it's a choice on both sides) is drastically important. I had a female friend who divorced her husband because he wasn't into sex. She said it was like living with a roommate. Two absolutely physically healthy people who don't have sex. Her needs weren't met. She didn't cheat. She was honest with him and she split.

Do you force her?

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@Gracielanera no need to be rude

@Gracielanera that's a bit harsh and unnecessary

Laibido😊

I know right

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Great Series.

Me too aaah😅

Can't argue with someone who's libid o is so high she ended up cheating just a little after giving birth Takes someone special 😊

@@faithwainaina8504 she did what? Wueeehhh!

Was looking for this comment 😂😂 it's dope, daring and Lovely

Oh schnap! Is that right? The ancestors live on #Genetics...the undisputed Powers That Be! 😃😄