CCGRWM : DATING IN YOUR 20s VS 30s WITH JULES GAITHO 

Where there is Jules I shall be there !!!!

The way I look at ghosting is: Did they really ghost you or did his girlfriend catch him? 😆😆😆 I tell myself that to feel better 😆😆

Do attachment styles change? I have always been an anxious attachment person, then I started to date someone who is secure, I still throw tantrums sometimes, but I know he will be there after the argument even when he says it's over, lol... N it's because overtime he has realized am a runner, he will get furious sometimes and then when he calms down he remembers my anxieties and helps me work on my feelings ( my me problem, like he calls it)... I love it that he takes the time to understand how am feeling at the moment. It's like am slowly calming down. It felt boring at first, now the connection is just everything!!!

Gaithoo steph is your soul sister🥳. You two really connect. I loved watching you two❤ beautiful chemistry

LOVED THIS SO MUCH!!! I think it is worth noting that yes, the best partner for someone with anxious attachment is one with secure attachment. However, that does not mean that being in a relationship with that person will automatically heal you of your anxious attachment style or tendencies. It'll only provide an environment where you will thrive while you work on yourself, you always have to put in work to do better and do better.

I just wish it didn’t have to end, this was so interesting considering I’m trying to figure out my relationship. I’m definitely subscribing💯

Landed here from Jules Instagram stories... Wonderful content 😍

I absolutely love your laughter😂😂 such a mood lifter

the duo we never thought we needed!❤

This was so insightful and entertaining to watch. You two🔥🔥🤩

New subscriber cause anywhere I see Jules, I know am here to get inspired.

This Conversation was so Wholesome!

Thoroughly enjoyed this ! So many gems dropped 🥰🥳👏

This was really nice to watch!

I enjoyed listening to you ladies so much! Thank you for sharing your vulnerabilities with us and of course the wisdom! Bless :)

Jules brought me here😍. Great conversations warembo🔥. Cherono is a vibe😄, hapo kwa hygiene nakubali💯👌🏾.

I just love Jules she's a whole vibe,,,, nice vedio guys

Really really enjoyed this episode yhoo!!😍😍😍

Love!! love!! love !!!❤️❤️❤️❤️

The name Jules Gaitho, made me make a second turn, that's why I'm here. Love from 🇺🇬

What a duo❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

Jules is a vibe

This is so lovely.. y'all looked beautiful.

I have never related to anything more.I'm definitely an anxious preoccupied

These two melanated Queens are beautiful. Content Gold

Jules all the way,I love you so so much❤️

This was a kind conversation I love it! ❤️❤️❤️

I love love Jules, I always relate to her. ♥️

Liked watching this 🥂. Yes! We want you back!

Jules I aim to really study myself and become just as self aware as you are! This episode has been so informative. Lots to think about. You both did such a good job.

Loved the conversation, new subie here. I wish your manager or one of you would've read out the questions instead of putting them up on the screen since it's more interactive. I'm not sure why there are so many cuts in the video but I'll go through your videos and probably get used to it

Niiiice 🎉🎉

wow my first time watching u Stephanie and i really enjoyed the conversation...i relate 100%....self awareness is really important in a relationship....keep on...more loves too for Jules

Loved this so much at some point of self realization and acceptance and working on my flaws, , I was second guessing myself alot on aloot and you ladies just seconded that am on the right path!!! Thanks loves

Cherono iyo ni uongo buana.Huwezi oga saa nane usiku.Surely🤣🤣🤣.

What lippies have you guys used? They look really good with your skin tones.

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LOVE THESE TWO ANGELS. Stephanie, kindly what did you use on your lip? the inner nude part

I wish my younger self was more open to search conversations... I thank God that the younger generation is more self aware as they venture into relationships.....

Been very much waiting for this🫠

Yep

Just realised men never do this dating prefences thing and dating in their 30s etc

Why I’m I seeing this todaaayyy????? This brought the best in you twoooo😍🥹♥️♥️

You make a beautiful duo.😍😍😍

Wherever Jules is am there 🎉 And when you talked about the protest behavior whatttt your just full of knowledge 🙌 I Loved this conversation ladies ❤

I see Jules and am all ears

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The part of tall, black..... 🤣🤣🤣🤣

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I believe that, most times, a person doesn't have the avoidant attachment style. They're just not feeling you the way you are feeling them or they have better options. Dwelling on the attachment styles theory in such a scenario will leave you wounded and more insecure. Also, the attachment styles theory is yet to be accurately proved. Therapists are using it on clients knowing very well that the theory doesn't apply to most modern relationship problems. I'm not a therapist but I have had a fair share of problematic relationships. And my observations led me to believing that attachment styles aren't that real in adults. Maybe on children in relation to their bonds with parents. Our generation is pretty traumatized to a point even a therapist wouldn't be able to help you figure your shit out.

Enlightening episode guyss But mixing it with the make up session kinda distracted you and couldn't give 100 % attention to the content

Jules always gives me Oprah Winfrey vibes🔥

I love Julia🤎🤍. I'll watch every she's on♥️

Where there’s Jules❤❤❤❤ @cherono👏🏻👏🏻 🥰🥰