来美工作20多年了,经历3次裁员(第一次还是有身份问题)每次都打开一条更宽广的路,都变得更好。第一次急着找下一个工作,后来会好好enjoy 一下break, 读书休整,improve soft skills,make sure you are on the right track or decide where you want to go next.
我是18年底被裁员的(从GM出来的,那段时间汽车公司都不好过),后来直接gap了两年在家生孩子。接着就经历了3年疫情,19-22年期间我老公也陆续被裁员了两次。我自己后来生完孩子再找工作,特别难找,找到的新工作也是从头开始当junior(就是因为中间生孩子两年没有上班,很多公司都不愿意收我,觉得技术岗脱钩太久了。) 但是我认为结果都是好的,我老公后来接的工作都是一个比一个好的。我现在的公司在我工作第二年也给我涨薪了,虽然是小公司,但是work life balance,时间很松,可以同时顾及到孩子。现在回想起来,我的感受就是,被裁员听起来是不好的事情,但是心态放平,积极应对,往往结果都是很好的。至少我们家现在的状态就挺好,我们很满意。希望正在经历裁员的朋友们一定要坚持下去,一定要相信结果肯定会好的。
我是在北美游戏大厂,年初裁员,当时我们studio老大突然发了一封邮件标题就是 Very Important Studio Update, 当时心里就知道,ca 完了,整个Studio被著名工作室绞肉机给解散了。但是开会说有pakage,根据工作年限一算有五六个月的工资,当晚睡得特别香甜,一个月后找到新公司就上班了。别担心,有时候裁员并不是一件坏事,有时候有点变化也是好事,加油二位!
I just got laid off as well. Very similar experience with your husband. Top performance and my boss don't know about the layoff. We both get laid off on the same day. It really has nothing to do with your performance. It's just the company is not doing well. Thanks for sharing!
I was layed off recent months ago and I have been in depression for a period. Now I have a new position and I start being busy. I even forget the depression cause I have to stand up for my family. You are a talent and wish you all the best. Good luck, bro.