@@frisianwarrior2295 yeah that would be rly nice and i hope so too. I just think this quote rly makes me wanna experience every feeling and moment to the fullest. No emotion should be wasted or avoided.
Stuck with me too. I think it's really interesting because for the longest time, I thought that an eternity of nothing is easily better than life. But when phrased this way, it makes me feel that maybe life's discomfort has value after all.
1_ do something hard 2_try new environments 3_ notice what surrounds you 4_ connect with people 5_ focus on what you want like in work or school 6_ be grateful
I don’t even feel real anymore. I feel like I already died inside. I feel so empty and like there is no point to life anymore. I’m gonna try this and hope that I can feel alive again edit: please stop replying, i made this comment because i was having a really hard time and was genuinely feeling dead but im way better now you all can stop worrying
me too. i only feel alive on my horse, but even then i don´t feel real. trigger and rant warning for read more. did self harm for the first time two days ago, not happy. didn´t do much physical damage at all, but emotionally it left a big scar. i got to see jeremy jordan in person, which has been my life goal for the past four years or so. i was super excited to see him, and i want to see him again. but now it´s like im only alive because i dont know where my horse would go if i died. sometimes it feels like he´s the only thing on this whole planet that would care if i disappeared tomorrow. id like to think he´d miss me.
As someone who seriously doesn't want to live, this video made me cry. I promise I'll try to continue living. One day I'll get out of my house and my country and I'll go explore somewhere else. I'll go somewhere with meaning and I'll meet people and make a life for myself. Now I will focus on accomplishing little and big things to make myself feel better. I'm sorry I'm writing this for myself, ignore my comment, I just need to sit down and write this for me. I'll finish my book and I'll learn Korean. I'll do all those things. I'll get my O-Levels and continue biology or english in 6th form and university. I'll do stuff. It's Summer now, and I have to stop being stuck. I should grab my book and read. Listen to music and watch kdramas, even if reaching for my laptop or my headphones seems hard to do. I'll make an effort, because right now I need to make a big effort for everything. And that needs to change. Thank you so much for this video. I truly hope my life changes after watching the video and writing this. I really needed to write this. Maybe I should start journaling...
I’ll be honest, I’m feeling alive right now. I have been in Japan for the past 2 days, I had not traveled in over 10 years. It was my first time flying to, super scared of it but it was actually fun and I’m alone, I have time to find myself here. The past 2 days have been insane and unbelievably beautiful and life changing already, tomorrow I’m gonna get a haircut here. Im gonna be looking like a new person as I have been growing my hair for the past 4 years. Gonna be celebrating my birthday here turning 20. I’m just…living life? I have never in my life felt this alive before, it is so hard to describe but I have found my peace
Good for you buddy❤ I want to study in Japan maybe for a couple of months when I get older! Do you have any tips on how to learn Japanese? I am currently learning from Duolingo and learning Hiragana
I need this type of content, I need to refresh my mind and restart my life. I keep thinking about the past, embarrassing moments, Stupid things I said, being angry and sensitive all the time. I am a kind person but sometimes little things irritate me. When I was in province I want to reconnect in nature and I feel so alive. I live in the city and its almost bearable. Thank you for this video, I am trying to be the best version of myself.
Im really sad that I live in such a place where there are no nearby patches of nature, I wish i could just go outside, go for a nice walk and find myself in a creek or in a small forest, but all thats around is buildings full of unwelcoming people
aughghh this video gives me so much motivation but the problem is that I'm constantly stuck in my room because my parents don't let me go anywhere or when I ask to go somewhere they go "maybe another day!!"😣🙏🙏 I cant express how badly I wanna just take a walk in the woods and climb a tree or something
This is literally my exact situation. My parents never let me out alone and they also don’t really have the time and energy to go on adventures with me. Also I don’t really have any friends that would do these things with me. „I can’t express how badly i wanna just take a walk in the woods and climb a tree or something“ literally.｡ﾟ(ﾟ´Д｀ﾟ)ﾟ｡
To anyone that is having a hard time: You may feel like everything is flooding down on u all at once or you feel alone but I just want to say don’t give up, stay strong and u are loved. U should Talk to someone about what ur going through, it really helps. If you can’t talk about it face to face then I’m here :). I wish u all the best, keep fighting ❤
its amazing, we need more people like them on youtube!!! but also, in my opinion every person has own "vibe" and this beautiful, beautiful girl,soul just shared her perspective and thoughts with us, which is very intimate and deep and im very very thankful to her for this!
I'm hella grateful I live right next to nature. It's a small forest with an old creek, but it's definitely more than most have. I haven't been able to spend as much time in it lately because of mountain lions and the heat, but the second it becomes autumn and the mountain lions are of less threat, I will be out there again, and counting my blessings for the fact that I have it.
Anyone reading this, you are beautiful and make the world better. Remember to take care of your health and the environment, reach your inner child’s dreams ❤ Thank you, probably the best video I’ve watched out of the thousands I’ve seen on RU-vid :)
I'm an Alterhuman and this has really helped me to stop feeling guilty and bored and actually connect with it, this as rlly helped Tysm!! (Btw to any quadrobists here these woods would be so cool to do quads in)
Yeah feel like this something called ‘pattern interrupting’ - you can’t be fully present and alive if you’re in the same pattern and motions. Your thoughts and emotions can’t live life for you and shift paradigms. It’s up to you to create that new space.
Watching your videos is like getting the older sister advice I wish I always had lol. I really admire the way you think, and one of the biggest lessons I've learnt from your videos is the importance of embracing the bad parts of life just as much as the good. To me, your videos are like nice reminders that no matter what happens, I should always keep trying.
UGHHH I LOVE VIDEOS LIKE HTISSS, ESPECIALLY WITH MY OWN AGE DEMOGRAPHICC, DEEP CONVOS I LOVEEEE. bro starting my own podcast (before the GRAVE) has made me realise how many likeminded people there are out there.
I got really sick in december and was sick for months after and it started my derealisation and ever since I haven’t felt real and haven’t felt as though im truly living. But recently I have become grateful for everything, I value every moment with my family, friends and pets beacuse one day I won’t be able to. Thank you so much!
this cheered me up a lot. i think sometimes i need to remind myself that i dont always have to feel okay, but to appreciate when i do, and to not let myself sulk and sink deeper into my sadness and helplessness. healing from something is a process and ive been crying a lot recently, but in a good way. Little things like looking in the mirror and feeling pretty, having a good time with friends and sitting, eating and laughing with my family at dinner, eating a delicous meal, listening to calming music, feel big to me. I feel like after years i'm finally living again and i love it. i might feel overwhelmed sometimes but that's okay too. life is never perfect but it is good
I cant express enough how much I appreciated and loved this video, if I could like it twice I would. I constantly watch self improvement videos but I could literally feel the energy that came with this specific video touching me through the screen and it clicked something in my head. you're such a beautiful person and such a peaceful soul, you deserve so much more recognition. I love you, thank you.
This video is so beautiful, I’ve been kinda bummed about losing subscribers on my channel and focusing on it instead of other much better things I’m going to go outside as much as I can tomorrow and do my best to be positive and it’s because of this video so thank you 😊
So soothing 😊 after this video all my negative emotions just washed away......nd i really feel the beauty around us once again ✨😌 thanku so much nd luvv uu 💐🌷
This video is honestly so good, positive, constructive, real if one may say. Honestly great work, everything from the advice to the videography/editing/music choice is splendid! Honestly beutifull.
I don’t usually comment on this type of thing but this video may have just changed my life. My life hasn’t felt real in quite some time and I think these tips that were portrayed in such a beautiful way might help greatly.
I rarely comment. but I felt like this video perfectly captures how it feels to be alive. I have grown up in a very mentally challanging home, I felt like childhood was a part of life and would always haunt you. I never ever thought that I had the hands to create a beautiful life for myself and others, I continued to repeat the cycle of hurting and everytime I was like "it's just who I am destined to be." which is not true, it is true if you believe it but I could never just accept it. I took walks everyday, when I was on the brink of extinction. and in the beginning I felt nothing, I was numb. barely remember or had any correlation of where I was or going and when I came home, I came into consciousness. at this time I didn't go to school, didn't do anything meaningfull. but the beauty that came later was when the fog lifted, I was so happy and grateful. the feeling overwhelmed me and I couldn't stop crying, it was as if my body released EVERYTHING. I probably passed 35k steps daily, because I was just walking. just existing. not paying attention to anything or the pain, but then I saw with my eyes for the first time how beautiful everything was. how life can be so beautiful just exisitng. I was probably 11 back then, but now I'm 20. graduated school, moved out and have met wonderful people. I do still struggle with opening my heart fully to everything, but some days are so easy to just let love pass through. it's a balance, but it's moving in the right direction. I've stopped being in my head so much, being present is a gift. it's a privilage, and we so often forget how great it feels. the future isn't set, and we know it will always come. but it will also be a present, in a way. the past is only the path you've walked, it doesn't mean you have to be on the same road forever. humans are meant to develop, we are kind of always kids to the eternity of life. life is constant, but are only here for a little bit. but by being present, life is forever. that's how I see it. I am not depressed anymore, I am happy and I have a great job and life is perfect. I have goals, which is important but I never thought I could be someone else. I'm much nicer to myself aswell, and the biggest transformation I've done is within. I still take walks, I can walk for hours. you never know what could happen on your walks, I always see frogs or dogs or sometimes elks. yesterday I saw the northern lights. I value natural phenomenoms and the wildlife, so for me it's like winning the lottery. like for you in bookstores, being able to see with my eyes and feel is everything to be. feel without guilt. take care, you reading this. it's all going to be okay, life is here for you always. and if you feel like you're lacking love, open your eyes
I feel like I haven't met my true friends yet. And it is true that everyday I'm thinking about the time when I will finally get to know someone that shares my hobbies and emotions. All of my friends seem ... boring ... to me. Idk if any of you can relate and it's not like I dislike my friends something like that... /:
@@Blitzcheweif i can relate at some point, recently ive been thinking who would i choose as my true friend i like a lot and it would be only one person who shares my motivations, mindset and positivity and passion leads her in life. Only one out of like 20 people i know. Only one the most valuable and relatable that can actually help me thrive and i can help her. Im not saying others are bad bc no theyre great, they just miss something I want in a person. Don’t worry, you will find this person, find yourself first.
Thank youuuu so muchhh this is so helpfulll and I love the vid, audio it fits all so well, the advice is so on point too! Time to do something difficult, thank you once again!! :D
From a small town in the northern mountains of Italy I totally agree with everything you said. I have been doing all of these things for years and people have been telling me I look much more relaxed and calm and I feel the present much more than before, I believe in a loving life much more than before. And maybe you’ll have to struggle all alone for a long time, but it will surely pay the life you want to feel grateful for. And believing every day in this life and in this journey with yourself and other people, and to love every moment of sadness, to not forget sadness but to learn from it, so that you’ll have more empathy, is not a waste of anything. ❤
I really liked the video. Just seeing you so alive made me happy and... I want that too. I want to feel alive. There is something in my life I struggle with a lot and its taking a toll on me but HEY, I... I want to live not just survive throught this. To everyone out there, I love you, you can do this too. Jesus be with you, amen
Honestly this is an amazing video. I love how you went about feeling alive. You are fully present, you don't want an end result, and have no expactations. I love this piece of enlightenment, and the work aspects higher it for me. The engagement with action reminds me of zen masters and bodhisattvas, who have learned of the transcendent world but choose to stay in our world for they see there is no difference between the transcendent world and ours. "This universe henceforth without a master [to give it a set purpose or garuntees] seems to [Sisyphus] neither sterile nor futile" -Albert Camus.
1&2 are 8n general just = do something new. It’s always hard to do something new and it’s good for the brain to see or do new things. Never tried pottery painting? Good! Try it! Or whatever really, see which activities your city/village has or yeah go to new places.
i wanna become a better version of myself. actually enjoy life and not let this summer go to waste. thank you. thank you for uploading this video, i wish you the best in life and to keep motivating and helping people out with your videos
This is the most wonderful thing I have ever watched. The videography, your words, how you see the world broke me. I’m entering college and chose to deal with such a change by writing a novel. I think I hoped it would be a way to come face to face with my own emotions. It is about a girl in 1975 who moves to Zurich for a writing internship, but as her brother commits suicide, she obsesses over his journal filled with both his greatest joys but also his deepest most profound regrets. She longs so deeply for both perfection and “the optimal life” simultaneously, and she begins to obsess over her brother’s journal, controlling and comparing every aspect of her life with his so that she can assure she doesn’t suffer the same fate in a strange way of grieving for the part of her she lost. However, I rewrote the story now. I added in an older father figure who parallels what she feels like her brother could have been if he hadn’t been consumed with perfection. She now learns from the older man, who was so different yet so similar to her brother, that she can undo the twisted mindset of perfection or nothing that her and her brother held. In this version, she heals. This was due in part to this video, which when I watched it a while ago, showed me that everyone can heal. I want to show people that as you showed all of us :)
This video is so beautiful and the tips are so realistic! Thank you so much the genuine gratitude part resonates much more than the list 5 things which seemed a bit too black and white at least in my own personal experience. There are so many wise things in here too thank you I've been feeling so out of it and down lately these tips seem very applicable to life in general and not too hard to implement 🥰💚
Thank you for making this eye-opening video! In fact, I felt more alive just watching this and I also learnt what's necessary to start living again. All this time I've felt like a zombie and been confused about it each day, yet the answer was so simple: I must make my own life. At least, that's what I'm getting from this video. At the same time, there's a sadness in me that I can't shake off... Yeah, it's great that I now understand what must be done to make life feel more alive. But, the reason I'm sad is because, when we were kids, we could always expect the next day to be full of excitement and novelty without worrying about the steps to get there. Why? Because our parents handled that. It was much simpler back then, but now, as young adults, it's our own responsibility to both seek deeply what made us feel alive in the first place and create a recipe for getting there. Simultaneously, we must be open to the possibility that our actions towards making our lives may lead to disappointment and failure. It's just not like it used to be... Besides all the distractions from today's technology, I truly feel that it's harder to feel alive today because now you're put on the spot. It's your turn to take the torch. This fact is what makes me sad and I believe it is the reason we reminisce instead of living in the present. Growing up means taking more responsibility, and feeling alive is no exception...
This was a beautiful video. I can't believe you're only nineteen, this was so so insightful. I'm fourteen right now and sometimes I feel like I'm wasting my life, this video helped me a lot, thank you!
