1st one: Nah she had it coming and personally I think it's hilarious 2nd one: Mostly no. I understand your point but she's struggling with a divorce and a newborn 3rd one: NTA he was told no pranks and he went against it 4th one: NTA screw tradition if you want her to walk you down the isle then she will walk down the isle, I think the bride can choose her own side of the wedding and so can the groom his own 5th one: NTA let the girl have her fun on her wedding 6th one: maybe you should just sleep separately 7th one: NTA why the hell would she say that?!
Okay for the cake smashing the op overreacted by getting Jim to the ER though i understand since everybody was panicking. In my family we always do this if its expected or unexpected we had the same incident even though it usually always happens we just go ahead have them wash their face and they're fine everyone enjoys it though here Derek should've asked for consent before smashing his head into the cake so Derek is the AH but op did overreact a little.
I disagree, the OP specifically asked Derek to not pull any pranks to not ruin Jim's Bday and clearly Jim was not happy when his face was smashed into the cake. Plus considering Derek pulls pranks often and had the police called upon him by the OP, his pranks aren't nice. It's obvious the OP and Jim just wanted a nice day without his pranks.
@@izzy4604 i agree that was what i stated in my comment i said derek was the AH but op did overreact but in a state of shock she did what anyone would do and yes i do know op did ask for no pranks and i think everyone is entitled to their opinion so thank you for your comment i appreciate it.
@@izzy4604 Personally I agree as well what Derek did was absolutely messed up and the family as well were major assholes they took Derek's side and I doubt they even remotely cared about Jim. OP was the only one who stuck up for him and took him to get medical care if they didn't his eye could've gotten infected.
The birthday boy had his face smashed in his cake and I think it was worse than just a cleaner with water because they had to clean it with something else. I think it was not even cool of the family to get involved with this because he called her a bee word and she called him an individual there's a differenc
