I feel very conflicted on this one…. I mean that dog means a lot to the son and rehoming him would probably break his heart. But on the other hand I can understand the wife (but ONLY if it‘s like a big dog) because that dog could jump on her and throw her on the ground. It doesn’t have to be with a bad intention but also can be out of excitement or whatsoever. And living with that constant fear that that dog could hurt you is a living hell for that mother and her baby (it could also cost that unborn baby‘s life). In order to make a correct judgement, however, one would need more information about the whole thing. But I think that both of them should talk to each other once more.
Story 1. I can see both sides, but I don’t think ur TA. The wife was understandably very nervous around the dog, pregnancy does that to you (I’ve never been pregnant but I follow a few creators who are/were so I know some things) but I don’t think you should re-home the dog definitely not. Maybe just keep the wife and the dog separate
Last story: your not the a hole you weren’t ready and was unable to support a child if you were to have one it wouldn’t have a good few years of life at most considering there seams to be no stability in money or emotionally it wouldn’t end well and the alcohol part not your fault you didn’t mean to you were in a depressive mind set normally when you are in that mind set you don’t realize what is happening much your bf is the a hole he was obviously pressuring you into something you knew you were unable to support and he should have respected your opinion.
Third story you are TA because you wanted to be petty and eat the cake you could've have waited for him to come back cause he wanted to celebrate his birthday with his family and then celebrate with you but you wouldn't be patient so yes you are the TA.
@@Thatbasicbrunette364 I know but I think in this situation that both of them are TA because the husband shouldn't have ditched her and that she should understand that he was going to celebrate with his family and then with her.
I get it but he just up and left when they had plans. If he had mentioned it before and she approved it and then got mad then she would be TA but he didn’t he just left
