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Hello everyone, and welcome back to our channel. In today’s discussion, we are delving into an intriguing topic: why the narcissist experiences worry after deciding to discard you. Before we dive into this, please take a moment to hit the like button, subscribe to our channel, and share your thoughts in the comments section below. Do you agree with our perspective, or do you see it differently?
Let’s get into the heart of the matter. Imagine you find yourself suddenly discarded. This usually happens because the narcissist has been cultivating a backup option, due to not receiving an adequate amount of attention or admiration from you. They come to the realization that you are setting too many boundaries, and what you reflect back to them does not consist of the adulation and admiration they crave. Instead, they see contentment and disdain from you. While this might still capture the narcissist's attention, it fails to provide the continuous flow of adulation they desire.
But why does this situation arise? It’s because you, as the primary source of their narcissistic supply, have grown weary of the constant demands. You are tired of the endless push-and-pull, the threats, and the countless hoops you are expected to jump through just to appease the narcissist. You’ve been accommodating for far too long and have reached a point where you simply cannot continue in this manner. Consequently, the primary source begins to pull away from all the manipulative tactics employed by the narcissist, such as gaslighting, triangulation, and other strategies used to devalue their primary source and erode their sense of self-worth. Often, the primary source becomes exhausted by these manipulations and starts to withdraw.
This withdrawal is significant because it marks a shift in the dynamic, leading the narcissist to worry. They are left to ponder the repercussions of their actions and the potential loss of a valuable source of narcissistic supply.
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5 окт 2024
