Sir, I am watching this video after your previous one regarding middle class at risk of getting poorer. I have become fan of your hard hitting presentation, given in softest possible voice. You have impeccable quality of combining sarcasm with compassion... like a very concerned Father. Some of your sarcasms made me laugh for a very long time. I am quite sure anyone who listens to you even once, will get into reforming himself, wherever your comments are applicable. I am not exaggerating if I say that such words of "brutally frank" wisdom are great service to whole middle class... specially the armchair complainers. Thanks a lot Sir!
But ur missing one point that in developed countries where middle class pay taxes they enjoy something in return. Their education nd health is of top notch quality is free. Here in india my father earns around 20l pa but we hardly get anything in return from our tax paid thats what hurts the middle class. Here in india middle class can't even expect their legal cases to be resolved within time. It takes decades for a pity case to be resolved unlike developed countries where ppl enjoy ample benefits from govt. For the first time central govt has opened 8000 generic medicine stores nd i personally am able to save 2k pm due to that. Raj govt has announced free health care for its citizens upto certain amount nd due to that I was able to save 40k for my grandfather's treatment. If govt gives something in return middle class will feel happy paying taxes or else they nd evade taxes nd then politicians cry that we don't have enough taxes to develop
I had similar things to say about this wonderful creator and was about to type them when I saw this comment. Indeed he is scraping off the obsolete thought processes entrenched deeply in the minds of the 'middle class' he is targeting and is genuinely concerned about.
@@abhishek198213 bhai I'm a pilot nd certainly not a middle class. My pay is top 1 perc in india. I was speaking of as an Indian. Majority can't become rich. In developed countries also majority is middle class only. What I speak was how in developed countries more facilities r given to common PPL like free health nd ed.
1. Victim mentality(rondu) 2. Status(kuch banana hai syndrom) 3. Biwi kaam nahi karegi. 4. Best chahiye...(get what you need) 5. Papa ka, dada ka, nani ka sapna pura karna.
my dad put me in kv and a lot of our relatives and neighbors would smirk and say why are u sending your kids to municipal school , don't u want best education for your kids. And my dad would say good kids will study in whatever environment they are in. And 20 years later I am nothing different from the kids who studied in private schools. Thank u for this video Sir.
@Law Notes not all kvs especially not in Mumbai or UP .I remember lot of parents whose kids went to the private schools seeing us as down class or down market .They would say oh yu know English or are your teacher well qualified.I have faced this lol.I am not fooling anyone i am writing what i have faced as a kV student.
kV are top notch school bruh. Only bjp is putting contractual teachers and intentionally destroying them. kV seats are premium. Entrance exam hota hey wahan admission ke liye
I totally agree with your father's view , and infact you were lucky your family saved money . I myself studied in a private school with high fees for 12 years today I'm 28 years old , the hard earned money my parents spent on that school is of no use in practical life.
Cycle chalana part is the best example. I am fed up of this we tax payers and government is distributing our money “ I hope all those people listen to you,sir ! I have been a teacher for years and now I hear people complaining about government job . I want to share an experience. We have person coming to clean the compound of our building. Yesterday was off day for him . He came and distributed sweets as his wife had won panchayat election and become Sarpanch of the village. Today morning we found the person on duty doing his duty . Nothing has changed. 👍👍👍
I do the zhadu pocha bartan kapde in my house in addition to my professional work. Because I didn't like the work the maid did, her attitude, and her tardiness. I also do the gardening work. I have no complaints. I look upon all of this as exercise to stay active and healthy.
I respect the wisdom provided by you, Sir. I am 34 and this is what every parent should teach their children or the next generation. Appreciate the good work.
एक बार मैंने देखा कि एक निम्न वर्ग का आदमी इस मोटरसाइकिल पर कुछ अंडे ले जा रहा है और जब मैं उसके पास पहुँचा तो मैं यह देखकर चकित रह गया कि वह कुछ दुकानदारों को देने के लिए 48 ट्रे ले रहा था। मैं रुका और उससे पूछा कि लाभ क्या है, उसने लगभग 20 रुपये प्रति ट्रे कहा। मैं चौंक गया कि एक घंटे के भीतर वह 720 रुपये कमाकर इस नौकरी से मुक्त हो जाएगा। अगर हम परिवहन की लागत को सिर्फ 100 रुपये मानते हैं और अगर वह दिन में 3 बार ऐसा करता है तो वह प्रति दिन लगभग 1800.00 रुपये कमा रहा है, जिसका अर्थ है कि उसका मासिक हफ्ते में 5 दिन काम करके 36000 से 40000 रुपये की कमाई होती है और इसने मुझे यह सोचने पर मजबूर कर दिया कि हम तथाकथित सफेदपोश नौकरी के लिए प्रति माह 15000 प्रति माह करके एक मध्यम वर्ग के रूप में क्या कर रहे हैं। सर आपका विश्लेषण वाकई लाजवाब है।
2 days ago I watched your video on how indian middle class is getting poorer. For the last one year I was stagnated in my money making potential. Your video was genuinely an eye opener. Please never listen to recommendation on how you convey your message. The way you speak worked charms for me. I really needed that video and this video too. Thanks 🙏
Being a women, i myself strongly resonate to the fact that "every women should indulge in some form of productive work beyond household chores". Indeed, homemaking is an arduous task and very satiating however a women pursuing her passion in some form, utilizing her skills and creativity, making some decent income, efficiently multitasking, caring for family and simultaneously contributing to the spouse and economy, and above all getting the opportunity to socialize is comparitively a lot more happier! Gone are the days of hunting for "Prince Charming"... real women empowerment is to work hard and fulfill our aspirations and become independent. Lastly....everytime a women steps out to work, she indirectly empowers another women by providing her employment as a maid, helper, babysitter etc.
My father used to say most of the things that you are saying. I came out of the rat race. I didn't go for competitive exams and I did what I wanted to do at an early age. At 33 some of my friends just started earning. But I am earning, married with a kid and have taken care of my parents when both of them were diagonised with cancer almost at the same time. Had I tried to go for what all my peers did I might not have been able to do all of these things.
श्रीमान जी Agree और disagree तो बाद की बात है सबका अलग अलग मत होता है, परंतु आप जिस तरीके से व्यंग्य करते हुए और डांटते हुए अपनी बात रखते हैं वह अच्छा है और कड़वे सच के बहुत करीब। नमन 🙏
@@vijaysandhu1060 tujhe pata nahi tha? I know a Brahman who works as a maid. I know a Brahman family jinke bacchon ke ek zamane mein pair mein chappal tak nahi the.
@@pnnp8757 to ? Majority ke bare me baat kar raha hai wo. I know this n that ko rakhna side me . Generally yehi dekha hai , majority of indian populatuon ne, ki brahmins are economically above average/rich or at least not poor . Obviously 100% is not practical, to tune kya sabne dekhe hai.
Families do want working bahu but also want that bahu takes care of house. At least kitchen work. And they don't like when we get late at work .....I am in my late 40s and working but taane we get from our family.... Nakuru wali ke bache tho bigadenge .. comment from family... I wish more people hear you and understand.
If your husband is happy and respect your job and your time away from home then you shouldnt consider your in laws opinion because at the end life is yours which is given to you by God not by in laws or any other person . Every citizen has got his or her rights to liberty ,right to equality .every educated person learns about these things in school in civics but in real life few women live equally to men .so if in laws are obstruction it ls better to live separate from them or simply ignore them .my mother is also in late 40s and all her life after marriage she was not allowed to work and worked like maid in our house and my grandparents simply used her physically and emotionally and now she has health problems which she repent a lot . She wishes that she should had left our house 20 yrs ago because all her life she was suppressed by my father and grandparents .
I'm an entrepreneur.. sometime back I used to think about starting a YT channel to share thoughts like this ... but obviously, never took the initiative or made time. Kudos to you for calling a spade a spade.
I too had this problem (not for YT but for a startup); Bro Don't think for perfection, when you want to go to Ladakh from Delhi, 100% of route won't be visible, keep moving, you are competing with yourself
Guruji Pranam 🙏 You are one of those wise men who speak Gems of Knowledge for the wellbeing of all. Original content and confident in expression, that comes with years of practical experience. We used to have smart and wise grand parents previously, at least 4 decades ago, but nowadays grandpa grandma aren't interested in guiding the young ones, they're busy with their own 'activities'. You have filled that space, That of a Wise Man, a Guru (heavy with knowledge, gyan). I pray that Sri Krishna pushes your channel to the top of RU-vid, in a short span of time! 🙏 हरे कृष्ण HARE KRISHNA 🙏
I am your new subscriber, enjoying every video of yours which is full of wisdom and insight. Our society needs a balanced voice like yours, I have been speaking about such issues with my friends and family for a long time. Thank you Sir
Sir. Your way of explaining and knowledge behind the subject is impeccable. Hardly I praise anyone but u have earned it since you're the most practical person I could listen to.
Your talk make sense. I enjoy your Hindi style. I am from Pakistan. We have similar issues. I watch your videos with great intrests. Keep it up. You are doing great service for sub continent people specially educated middle class.
Nice. My parents both were working. out of Home. I learnt making tea, serving myself a lunch, and the water wash paltes ... All in 5th Standard.. 10 YO. Now it helps me as I am self sufficient.
Sir, I respect your videos and I 110 % agree with you. I've been trying to tell this to people but they don't get it! I feel like an alien when I try to explain this to people. YOU SPEAK MY MIND! HATS OFF
He exactly talks what I think but doubt whether I my thoughts are right or wrong . So never ever discussed with any one due fear of being odd one out or being s material of laughter. But now I am confident that my thoughts are on right path and will try to implement & follow myself.
सर आपकी बाते100% सच है परिवार की महिलाओ को कभी कभी समजाना मुश्किल हो जाता है अपनी अकल अपने घर मे नही चलती पुरुष समजदार होते ही स्ट्रगल कर लेते है लाड प्यार मे पली बडी हुई लडकी को ये सब समझाना बहुत मुश्किल होता है कृपया इस टॉपिक को लेकर एक व्हिडिओ जरूर बनाये काफी पुरुषो को महिलाओ को समझाना आसान हो जायेगा हम जो बात समझा नही पायेंगे वो आपका व्हिडिओ देखके पॉसिबल हो सकता है धन्यवाद! प्रणाम🙏
Guruji yeah middle class hai, iska beleif system todna katayi mushkil hai. Lekin aap logon ko ek aayina dikha rahe ho, jo sarahaniya hai. Keep doing it, all the best
Sir, definitely a video is required on 'best education' syndrome... It's very difficult to convince family on this that schools and hospitals take advantage of us in name of so called 'best'...
Sir, your perspective on isaues is very refreshing and honest. Pl make a video on how middle age crisis can be dealt from a working ladys view point. How to make life more satisfying when kids have moved away for studies and you are left with only husband and in laws. How to deal with the void?
Hello, Thank you for your valuable and priceless insights ! True 💯 % It is the outdated belief systems of a sick society that keep individuals backwards on their path of progress, these belief systems must be crushed.
Sir Yours videos are so motivating. It was 2 months i was sitting at home after completing my graduation and did 4 month job in a hotel but i had to came back home. But after watching your videos i felt motivated i had to do work so i just joined vivo sales job to do something rather than I’ll get a great job it’s good to do. Job than sitting at home
Great statements of eye opening realities. Keep going sir, lots of people falling prey to smart advertising and bad conditioning by consumerism and materialistic dreams.
The worst part is that these middle class women don't even do much work at home. In the past apart from all sorts of house hold chores they cooked for their family, made pickles papad snacks etc, knitted clothes for their children and so on. Most of them had no gadgets and appliances to help them like we do today.
I think this man has a frustrated soul, probably rejected by family members by his stubborn attitude, and trying to disrupt the ambition of middle class . Don't know whether my comment is to be censored. My advice is always try to pursue your dreams. And let us not forget honesty, ethics, principles which still exists in this country , how little it may be it's mainly because of these middle class people. Upper and lower class don't give it a damn.
Goal should be pursued after properly knowing what that "goal" really is? And dreams are a part of life, but dreams sold to people who do not have proper INTEL about scenario by coachng etc. They are just like planted and manipulatd things they cannot be drea m.
Your last sentence is what he is explaining as his 1st point.. self victimization.. do not generalize and become judgmental about upper and lower class.. You are talking as if all the middle class people are perfect and humanity is surviving only because of them.. Good and bad people are there across all strata.. Changing one's perspective changes one's life.. All the very best..
Pursuing dreams do not put food on the plate. And dreams of what you are saying are more of instinct and inner calling. Do not apply if you generalize things.
Thank you for your ideas and suggestions. Makes me feel at home. I am having my university going son as well listen to this. So we all learn and aware of things at the same time. Appreciate
Sir as u told middle class ko saari knowledge h but monitisation k liye kuch nhi 🙏🙏 100% shi baat h Sir i m competative exam aspirant I m good in math and but in practical world this is of no use ... My frnd is not good in studies he left preparation and enter into IT feild and now he is earning 80k per month.... Ye baat az k world me h padjai likahi ek haad taak matter krti h ... Likin useless padhai kuch kaam nhi aati.... In today world person must have any skill which he can use to monistise ......i m part of rat race .each and every day 8 -9hrs study and result also not in our favour ...... thankyou 🙏🙏 And pls make a video ... Why you should not prepare for govt exam now ??? Pls sir 🙏
संघर्ष के बीच मे संघर्ष की वैधता पर प्रश्नचिन्ह ना लगाओ पार्थ... अभी समर शेष है... Competitive exam की तैयारी ठीक है कि नहीं yeah विचार तैयारी से पहले करना था या जब छोड़ दो तब करना... अभी मन ना भटकने दो
sa, i have always motivated my wife to work and grow in her professional career. Women need to be encouraged to come out of their parental mindset and be part of economy.
Sir my relative in pune her 2 daughters work in abroad, while mother takes tuition while father helps in morning in sweeping and other works, I like the way they understand each other. While my parents are in dilemma of middle class. I always think why people think farming is not good. I think it's the best.
You have given a frank and factual video though your middle class viewers may hate you but you have shown them mirror and you have spoken the truth. Nice video.
You are very true in terms of words of every respect, I am also living with same life with things those are useful and appropriate. Investing money in good portfolio. Thinking of cash free income from somewhere. My wife is also working and we both are managing the house work in outside of India. Slightly, disagree with the living with Parents points. After some time planning to come back to India to live with Parents (no matter what response they are giving) . I believe, Parents need the children most after the age of 70. It is not of giving money but it is matter of giving empathy, love and care from our side.
One thing i disagree to this video based on my life, My grand parents are financialy independent and their medical is fully paid by my grand father's company and they have been very comfirtably living in their independent flat in the same building as us but now they are so old that living independently is not safe and also no matter how many maids or househelp they can afford to employ, it is too much pressure to handle them too (househelps try to take them for granted) for my grandparents. Now, we r planning to shift in bigger place so that they can be safe and relaxed in this stage so after a certain age, evenif you have money for employing helps, you need loving children just for emotional needs. Also, my mom did leave her job in an MNC to give focus on my upbringing, not because my dad was lazy, but my educated mother is actively involved in advising me on my education and the values that our family has. If my mother was fulltime working then we might have had more money but i dont think i would have had better undrstanding of education, life, society , friends since i see my friends not being able to spend time in dicussion or even sharing their fears and struggles with either of their parents as both the parents are working fulltime and have their own jobs and careers to handle. I am not against the idea of women working or advocating women giving up work but i do believe that after leaving the role of earning money, an educated mother can play a very important role of a mentor, guide and friend if she does devote time to do that. Yes, money might be less but its for the family to decide ifthey r ok with the amount of money father is making. I am happy that my mother took the decision she did when i was born and i value her advise more than anyone elses as i can trust her completely to have my best interests in advising me. This trust is built on the time we have spent together as friends and not just on the fact that we r mother and son. I hope this perspective is also considered before taking such decisions.
A person like me has been using Redmi Note 5 pro for close to 5 years now. I never bothered about buying a 30k smartphone or One plus or iPhone because I don't need it. People, a majority of them get carried away in buying iPhone and costly Android phones whereas a 15k smartphone is more than sufficient. I am a type of person who is a minimalistic since childhood and might remain so till the end. I don't spend on unnecessary things. I am of a simple thought process We are not here to impress people. I have never been to a Starbucks even once in my life because In my opinion that's utter waste of money. Not forcing my opinions on anyone but just sharing a perspective. No offense meant.
Yes plz make video on early education of kids, like when kid first time ho to school (in nursery , LKG ...) . While I was encountered through enquiry in such schools , fee of school is 1 lacs + , for 3 year old kid only. Very surprisingly. Ab ye smjh nhi aata ki what could be the difference b/w schools jinki fee km h, aur fee jyada h ...
Sir nice and informative video,I am working as a Manager in a Public Sector Bank and my father is retired from Central Government job till now I was thinking that we belong to middle class but you opened my eyes , Please suggest me sir how I can be rich in my life.
Agree with all points except about keeping parents separately. If the family can save money staying together and have a better quality of life what is the need to forcibly make your parents stay away from you.
No Arjun, this is an eminently sensible proposition. I was staying in a separate house, but very near to my parents, for nearly 12 years and everything worked out well. We had a weekly visit where my two kids alongwith wife would visit them on weekend, even when I used to come weekly due to outstation posting and it worked out well. Now my brothers son has recently married, and he has arranged a separate flat in the same apartment for him. The kids are happy decorating their home and running their life as they wish and the parents are reassured by their presence nearby. There is no khatpat and they are taking care of each other and happy.
if parents are not adjustable then you may stay separet.every personn does not have adjustable parents my friend.Those having such a nice family with good understanding level,does have a vary good and happy life I think.
It may vary from situation to situation. If your parents are understanding and cooperative and the tuning is there between your wife and parents then it can work out too. Although it is easier said than done but generalizing living separately as the only good option is also a bit too much. It should be a personal choice which varies from person to person and family to family depending on the situation.
Yes Arjun, like most things it is not 100% true. But mostly a little space and distance makes for greater happiness. Perhaps generation gap also kicks in. If parents have a kothi perhaps it may be feasible. Separate floors in a bungalow even better. Separate kitchen more feasible. These things let's the intermingling of cultures of the two new partners adjust without outside pressure. It also let's them workout their life and add to the joys of setting up a household as per their choices easier. Yes it will differ from situation to situation.
Eye opening speech Sir. Middle class become poor. They spend lots of time in watching cinema,TV,sports,netflix,OTT,social media. spend money, energy,time for entertainment than education.
Sir , apki kahi gai ek ek baat bilkul sach hai specially aapne jo house wife ko le k baat kahi hai so true. Mene MCA complete Kiya uske baad sirf house wife ban k reh gai because my husband don't want ki me kahi bahar Jaa k job Karu. That's why at last I opened my RU-vid channel so that I can make some money for My self-respect.
