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After getting US citizenship?

@@rohanutep81 obviously no !

Did you surrender your Green Card or revoke US Citizenship ?

But Madam what about lynching of muslims and burning of churches in India. Also beating up of Dalits in UNA and also Hathras rape. Is India ok ?

@@ladusingh2141 leave india go to Islamic country try to burn their national flag ? Go to any other country try to ruin that country’s native culture u will get to know what going to happen to u If u are so disappointed with india simple solution move to Pakistan Vande matram 🇮🇳

Yes, I agree 100%

Did returned to India after 22 years in USA...Now, enjoying SINNY life in INDIA..( without snow, no cold winter)

Can it be called "returning" or just making the best of all the worlds one can get ?? Atleast one can appreciate you revealed you are not an Indian. Others like this video maker and several in comments are creating a false sense (i say fooling) of "returning" without telling if they surrendered GC and citizenship or not. Hiding this can only be for one obvious reason, otherwise they would have shown Indian passport from a roof top.

Well said...each situation is unique

@@raovs4666 bhai florida aa jata.. no snow no winter :)

Thank you so much 🙂

Thank you! 😃Excitedly!

But hame India ko banana hai just like china ☺️😊

USA may give u all these things in life. But u willn’t have the sense of belonging when u live in a foreign country. U are missing out on living with parents, among your own people and above all that divine energy that you experience in India. At the end, it is a matter of priorities.

True

India gives u better opportunity if you are from top colleges, India doesn't tolerate mediocrity. So, if one is from average college it's better to move out anyways

You do what you like but everything has a pros and cons

Thanks so much @Pranjal Upadhyay. This means a lot to me :-)

@Rishabh Shah, thank you! You are in a different phase of life right now though. I'd say enjoy it to the core, learn new things, go out, explore the world, explore the people, explore the culture. When you're done doing these, and the pull toward the motherland becomes stronger, you can always make a decision at that time. Good luck!

Hey, are you still in us?

Thank you for sharing your story, @Asmit Singh. What you did also needs immense courage! I am so glad you are happy now and have no regrets about coming back. Good luck!

I can imagine the happiness of your mother when she heard that you are coming back.. Mostly it's the old parents who suffer the most when young children leave them for settling in Canada, australia, usa etc... In my area (Haryana and Punjab) people are crazy for leaving India to go to Canada, Australia .. It's so depressing to see their old parents left behind crying most of the times specially mothers when they miss their sons daughters... Even if parents go to foreign after 4-5 years most of them come back after spending 2-3 months most of them saying " Wahan mann nhi lagta" because there is no one to talk with them ... It's a kind of disguised slavery specially in Canada which noone talks ( I know these thinks because my brother is there )😔

@@sachinchaudhary1441 True

Bro same with me feeling depressed and sick in uk dil he nhi lgta

Great decision brother..

Good decision..

So you enjoying now..

@@sonikasoni8691 back to India

But Madam what about lynching of muslims and burning of churches in India. Also beating up of Dalits in UNA and also Hathras rape. Is India ok ?

Thank you so much 🙂

Thanks so much @Sanjay Pawar! Your support means a lot every single time 🙂.

You can get indian food in restaurants living in USA and cook also.

u forgot forefathers who shed blood in india so selfish desicion i am so proud to be indian i wana die here❤ our forefathers fought so much for this land kindly broaden your view and come back happy to your native country

:Consider yourself lucky: the US is overrated, a sham that exploits the uninitiated.

..same here. Children in school. Retired parents would have been left alone. I sometimes still regret it.

Here my husband left to US in nov, we will be joining him in a month or two . My bro left to US in feb 1st week. I lost my father during my graduation..my mom has been living alone from past 15 yrs coz of our studies, marriage and jobs...this guilt is killing me

But Madam what about lynching of muslims and burning of churches in India. Also beating up of Dalits in UNA and also Hathras rape. Is India ok ?

@@ladusingh2141 India is very much safe. This is the reason why BOTS and Pakis like you are able to spread carnad. Never heard if a church being burnt. Yes, heard of a Hindu girl child ( in Andhra Pradesh) committing suicide when her matron, Christian nun was trying force her to give up Hinduism and adopt Christianity.

Because kids are subject to parents comsent. Once 18 they have a choice.

But Madam what about lynching of muslims and burning of churches in India. Also beating up of Dalits in UNA and also Hathras rape. Is India ok ?

Caught you .....means right now not happy and regretting the move 😂🤣😆

@@ladusingh2141 its getting worse better dont come bk or we all will rape your wife multiple times a day and make viral videos So yes better stay abroad annd be safe man

Thank you so much 😀

Patel's are not Gujaratis ?

@@abhilashshettigar9002 😂😂😂

Castism is major problem uncle... All the upper caste eat and get wealthy from West ... And after being Rich... Reminder of India struck to their Mind... Can't you see discrimination cause Racial abuse, Castism, gender bias mentality

India at top because of inequality... All the rich people sewer even today get cleaned up by Dalits... Even today.. and you think people should take lightly comments on maid etc...

India is getting worst in that matter

@@indirachandra4329 True. But if India is bad, imagine how worse US is. It's all relative these days. Still you can bet 99% for a marriage to last long term in India verses 50% in US.

Please do not put words in my mouth I did not say that India is bad you misunderstood me. This is 21st century it is about Freedom. About marriages In India also dating living together so what is the different between US and India divorces happening India changed a lot in that aspects.

@@bennetrajendran1145 What most them won't share is the term called "woke culture". Mostly these people think they have been woken from dream and now can rise and tell other what is right and wrong.

@@bennetrajendran1145 Find peace Bennet

Yuup

how about your children sir, they must be grown ups now and most likely will not come to india. This is also my plan, but in a dilemma to stay away from children (who will by then will not move out of US)

Many plans this way, coz it’s difficult to survive during old age, it’s difficult to drive during health emergency. Your kids won’t be around…. Difficult to manage your household in your 80s, moving snow, move your lawns, payment towards mortgages etc etc ( just to pay home tax people work in their old age in US) . list goes on. So few r smart enough to move back to home country so that they get to live life like a king n queen size. Coz they can afford all workers. 😂 Many hidden stuff which we never know. 😅 I worked, stayed here n got relatives who lived many years and they don’t want to move back but they know the reality of their old age. Still America is fantasy to so many. But as a women I feel our kids must grow in our country and learn our culture more than being behind money all the time. It’s the fact….

@Devadatta India, You summed up the video in one sentence! :-)

Money mula honey rest is BS

I'm so glad it helped 😀

Hey ! Did you move yet ? Me and my husband are also planning and we live in Toronto as well

I m also moving from Brampton Canada and so happy after watching this video

Agree with you on some issues you’ve mentioned; but there are few other things to consider. As you’ve said: 1) Yes, there is no freedom to move jobs or start business on H1/L1 visas, but with GC, that is possible ! Yes, I understand the waiting time for India born citizens for GC though, technically impossible under the current system which sucks ! 2) India has its advantages like domestic help, but if you see closely, getting one also has become increasingly difficult or expensive too 3) Needless to mention, major Indian cities and physical infrastructure sucks, especially in Mumbai/ Thane area and mainly in monsoon. Air pollution is the major problem here. 4) Agree about the family bonding issues as she has mentioned, but there is no way to predict that kids will continue to maintain forever when they grow( even things in India like family values are bit declining). Madam, Please do not take this as an offence or like; my personal observation. 4) Again education in India ( as per current era) is fine till grade 12th; again rat race starts post that ! Yea , her kids can circumvent that since they are American by birth! Even good quality education from KG in India is an expensive thing 5) Other issues which matter most to me are corruption, filthy roads , unregulated traffic, hooligans etc. Certain things also exist in the US or other developed nations too; I’m not denying but too minuscule to consider.

Apna kaam khud krna sikho uncle

"Chauffeur, cook, domestic help" is not a valid reason to move back to India. It just reveals how people want to keep people working in such roles and refuse to bring them out of such professions. How about learning to drive and make your own food so that the chauffeur and cook can get an education and come up in life??

@@meetmeinva these boomers are conditioned, just like white privileged karens, they have no empathy for low income people

That's because America considers them humans and offers them a basic minimum wage. You have all the labour for cheap here because they have been traditionally oppressed. Funny thing is that you you don't even realise it.

@Jsm Kumar, is that true? I've never heard of such a scenario. Why would that be in your experience?

@@theupbeatmillennial 3 of my very close relatives & my friends experience is what I have mentioned. Reasons are 1. Wives want to escape the responsibilities of their mother in laws. 2. False prestige feeling. (They receive lot of respect as NRIs) 3.They don't want to lose comforts of developed economies. 4. Strongly feel their children will be spoiled in India. 5. They will not get good jobs back home.

@@jsmkumar2916 true 👍 two of my neighbours are in deep shit , but don't want to come back. I am looking after one of thier lonely mother, who is a widow too, my next door neighbour. What to say 🤔. Dollars are more important 🤔

@@jsmkumar2916 NRI are not getting respect in Indian society anymore

@@siritachighibliuchiha7617 yuup , they are worthless, sold their soul for dollars

Rightly said

I also agree with you. Because i had been twice in USA on visitor visa. My son is there. I would prefer USA little bit on higher side. See there is no reservations . If you are capable you have a choice for good job there. Most things liked is, 1) Self discipline. 2) Cleanliness. 3) Respect to senior citizens. 4) Respect to pedestrian . 6) Everybody is living their own lives. No interference to anyone's personal life. 8) Very good support of Police. These are some of them. This is my personal opinion. See there are always two sides of every things. One is good for me may be not good for others and vice versa. We are waiting for immigration. I would choose to move there but at present not in a position due to some responsibility of family. In fact she has taken a bold and very wise stap because her family situation and bonding. It is very very hard to come back from USA. It's require a strong self confidence.

@@manojshah- 10 percent reservation for forward caste...

Dude seems like you had not been outside India. It depends on individual to individual. I had seen the whole world but let me tell there is nothing like home. The kind of satisfaction and freedom I get roaming with my old friends and sitting in the winter sun on roof in my hometown is unmatchable. Now whether you are eating beef steak in mooresville or drinking beer in nuremberg, nothing can replace the aloo ka prantha and white ghar ka ghee.

@@manojshah- if u are capable then u will also be self satisfied in India itself

Hinjewadi, Magarpatta or Deccan

@lubnazeer 1966 haha. Honestly, I do NOT want to be a 'Prerna' for this reason. I am not telling anyone to come back or NOT go at all. My video series is honestly only for those who're considering moving back but are on the fence, or for those who've decided to move back and can use some extra information and assurance of how to go about it. :-)

@@theupbeatmillennial i know dozens of parents who are waiting for their children to see for many years. I feel the pain of the parents and pity for them. Those who go US dont come back Unfortunate for their families back in India

I am exactly in same shoes as you. But my offer is from Germany. My Indian salary is higher than Germany with great lifestyle.

@@eshantgarg401 I made my decision to go to IE. Good luck bro

@@akshaygodase8067 yeah same to you :-). I am staying back in India.

@@5123karan why take the German opportunity

@@akshaygodase8067 😂😂😂I knew

Gujju bol raha hain😂

Thanks @Sonika soni. That's a great idea. I'll definitely consider it. :-)

Your smile is like dew on the leaf...keep smiling and shining...from where are you originally??🤗🤗🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️💃💃

M bhi yhi soch k aya tha .. 2 mahine m .. soch khtm hogyi .. paise kamane ki

She is a US citizen so can travel back anytime

She selfishly returned to India to join film industry for fame and glamourous life she was used to live...I Bet her Son gone to study and will not come back.Also I feel whattt a waste of her husbands qualification.He is a Top Doctor/Heart Surgeon in US and now running behind her to Awards nites and cooking Pohas in his Vlogs😅😅 is a joke .Its their choice anyways but can do charuty work in India with his expertise in his field

Lol, some of them here never been married to understand family dynamics. They think whats shown in bollywood movie or saas bahu serial is truth.

@@nc541 😂😂😂😂

Bete faltu me aap itme emotional Kyu ho rahe he ! Jaye apna kaam kare 😂

Hey @ragou p, I'm going to cover that eventually, but did you have specification questions re. the financial side? Those'll help me while making the video. Request you to comment here. thanks in advance :-)

Your parents are unfortunate to have a child like you. It is your moral obligation to be there for them and take care of them. Visiting isn’t enough. They are the most important people in life who have given you unconditional love. Nothing gives them more joy than having their children around hem. Your thinking is pathetic.someday you will eat your words.

Thank you @Raj Naik. 🙏🏼 True about nuclear families, but these are the realities of the changing times, we have to make do and do our best with what we are offered and what we have 😊

@@theupbeatmillennial The race for money, money , money has killed all the good factors and this race will not stop till we completely destroys this plannet. The destruction is inevitable. Another 2 to 3 years. In India if you have money, you are treated like god, if you are poor the tables turn.

India life is miserable now days . If get green card no one will come back u can sponsor ur parents to stay in usa 🇺🇸 because in usa u have cook and do alone . We cook forgrand children we help them usa is not bad .

@@sunderiyer7484 perfect 👍

Yea if they have oci

No

@Nalini Ganesh I couldn't agree more. Very well said. Are there no negatives, of course there are! There are in every single thing you do, but it's upto us on what we focus and teach our kids. 🙂

Just tell them the truth

Hey again, @Laxmi! Iyer We rented initially to figure out what area we liked and were comfortable in; then decided to invest. No. Both - my parents and in-laws live where there are no software companies, so we didn't look there.

😂😂😂

India in 1994 and india in 2023 is completely different story my friend

@@amishachudasama2031 in which context? can you please explain?

@@stampmaker9384 infrastructure/ mindset of people/ job opportunities/ accessibility of foreign goods and most importantly exposure to globalization has turned entire picture of india now. I have been in Canada for 13 years now and I am a citizen here but leaving it all behind and going back to india soon as I was surprised how india has changed so much now . Even Street vendors or auto drivers has google pay now. You just order groceries online and it will be delivered it to you . I wanted to do my full health check when I was there and the guy just came to my place did my blood sample and a very next day I got report in my WhatsApp.