Man I liked that first line; " when we first start dating, we kind of send out a representative " instead of our authentic selves. LOL!!! Man was that funny -- and TRUE! Salute.
You are so right unfortunately. It is so difficult to find a woman today who is willing to be held accountable. Huge change in just the last 10 years. Dated a woman before who was relatively willing to take accountability. She then got involved in social media and almost completely stopped taking accountability afterwards. Since then it is very difficult to find women who are willing to take accountability.
Excellent and much needed information for men. Seriously, wish I knew this when younger. If a man finds a woman like this, she’s golden and don’t f it up.
Jeff you're gonna make me stop reviewing cologne and start giving life lessons. You're dropping heat 🔥 brother. Another great video from The Style O.G.
Situational awareness, considerate, emotionally intelligent (empathy, compassion, humility) and resolving conflicts with mutual interest. Accountability is huge for me. I think the "oh well" mentality was instilled in a lot of women in their upbringing. Not a "quality" that plays well in relationships.
I've dated ladies with the "Oh well" mentality, or that say, "Whatever," during a conflict, which means end of convo. Man, do I really hate that mentality and at that point I break off the relationship. The lady I've been dating for the past 6 months has no issue looking at herself in the mirror and fixing her flaws. I love that about her. It's a very attractive quality, and if things go well, during the downs as well as the ups, I may be putting a ring on her finger in a few more months.
Gentlemen, Whether you are in your teens or in your 80s, please heed the words of this video. Download this video, tattoo the words of wisdom, write it down in your bathroom, etc., but make sure you hear Style O.G out. I'm 52 years old, have four graduate degrees and am confident approaching women without resorting to online dating. Yet, until recently, I hadn't learned the advice as outlined in this video and I spent two years learning the hard way in a relationship that was going nowhere. This video can serve so many men (& women) throughout many decades and save a lot of heartache and in the end, make dating fun and easy to find that right match, Ravi Peiris M.D.
I've been in a relationship for 6 months now, and brother do I appreciate this lesson. Of course she has her flaws, but she meets all of these qualifications, including accountability which could have easily been #1.
Great video OG we men go on about looking for all the red flags 🚩 but to find a decent lady we must know what green flags to look for also for men that want relationship too.
Not too many women carry these traits, in these times... social media ruined the dating game. Most of these women want to be Cardi B. Thanks for sharing SALUTE!!!💪
*”Being right, plus two quarters equals $0.50;* -the Style O.G I love that quote…unfortunately many people men and women alike are far to proud and/or to careless/ignorant to believe and live by that ideology.
I think more women are getting better than worse. Life is a learning lesson and we all gotta make mistakes before we get it right. Remember no one is perfect. I forget this because I subconsciously believe im perfect and expect perfection too much. Causes me to miss opportunities in alot, including women. N watch out spending time on the internet men because it is still a source of media, which has a tendency to display negativity alot before positivity.
The first video I've seen on green flags... You covered all the bases. Having respect and believing in my abilities is what I look for in a women... Also as you stated does she inspire you and is she an asset. ThanksagainJeff. Salute.
Good one O.G., authentic reasons here. Very different from the usual red flag vids seen everywhere. I would say another green flag(s); A woman who knows how to have a constructive debate, being objective. A woman who doesn't take herself too seriously, she chooses smile and laugh, without the assistance of a camera.
Jeff thanks for a great vid. I'm in my 60s and in a committed monogamous relationship for 6 years. My lady represents every green flag you highlighted. I feel very fortunate!
Either I’m too young or haven’t lived enough but this was the very first time hearing “being right plus two quarters equals fifty cents” 😂😂 I appreciate you Jeff
Jeff another awesome video!!! Can you do a video on some great things to do (fun/spicy/date ideas) once you have her as your lady I am married but can always learn ways to keep her happy and the relationship strong!!!
Great advice, as always. Jeff, gotta' know, who designed the suit jacket you're wearing? I'm really feeling the jacket, shirt and handkerchief combination. Simple, but classy and elegant. Salute!
thanks for this video... definitely good to have educated point of views on video to help confirm your own thoughts. like a voice outside of your own mind saying assuring things like this. Thank you again bro
My ex covered most of the bulleted points I looked up on a spousal abuse website. Fast forward to today the love of my life has covered all of these green flags. 😊🙏🏼✌🏽
The woman you just described I've never met . Other than my Mom and Grandmother . Chances are I passed up a few really good ones without even knowing it . Live and learn .
Great video Jeff. There is not a lot of good women in the world today. A gentleman who finds a good woman is great and very fortunate and should cherish and respect that woman just like she should respect and cherish the gentleman.
Great vid as usual OG. One thing a lot of blue pilled guys bring into the dating environment even after they've done the work on themselves is too much naivete on what to expect from the woman. The woman is supposed to bring more than a cute face and phat... yall already know. Lots of good material for the brother to ruminate on. Salute.
Very Good video!! Well done!! Really appreciative of green flags, positive outlook and perspective that is much needed!! Breath of fresh air!!! Thank you so much!!❤
Dating a girl now that is showing signs of 7 and 10, 6 hasn't come up yet, and has fully exhibited all the others. After going through a marriage to a covert narcissist, it is truly refreshing to date someone with so many green flags.
First let me say great video great topic. I’ve never looked at it from a green flag perspective. 👍 The hardest task in a relationship is keeping the green flags up. The green flags may change over years/decades and depending on the chemistry those green flags my not still be there after certain time (10 years 5 years, 2 years, etc). I want to say a women with this many green flags is fictional, but I’m willing to work to keep those green flags up. What would you say is the most important green flag?
I’m thinking respects you #1 for sure, but similar values is definitely a close cousin as it could be #1. However, for the sake of ranking is #2 but definitely just as important as #1 respecting you for sure!😎👊🏽💯
Great channel. My favorite compared to all the other channels I have heard. Only issue I have is the strict division between men and women as if all 3 billion men want respect and all 3 billion women want love. Yes there is almost definitely more of a tendance for men to want respect and women to want love, but it isn't always the case. Other than that, for the most part I really like his stuff.
Man Accountable Accountable is hard to find always someone else's fault We need respect that is being loved to us she needs to be Cherished great conflict resolution important and challenging not a yes person good stuff
Excellent list..when i met my wife...she has so many qualities that we shared..she has x rated legs..i pursued her..i am glad that i did..peace and salute
@@petermapp5988 and she still has it after all these years...Peter i was blessed 2 meet her..we have been married 42 years...our daughter just got married and I was nervous walking her down the aisle..peace..enjoy your day
GUYS...need advice..i started dating a girl and she hasn't texted / called me in days...things went so well..i liked her By the way she is blind and deaf..am i being too needy?
Try reaching her one way or another, something could’ve happened to her, nowadays you never know till you know for sure the person you truly like/care about is okay.
