10 Questions Every Girl Should Ask Before Getting Married _ || Smile With Prachi 

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Be practical rather being mama's boy or papa ki pari. Respect everyone because both spouse and parents are very important in life.

In arrange marriages, boyys family boast a lot about their finances but after marriage, you get to know the real scenario.

Couldn't find all the point listed together, so here you go. Hope it helps. Also, thanks Prachi for the awesome video. 1. Your partner's parents 2:06 2. Extent of being influenced by others 4:27 3. How you both handle finances 6:08 4. Family planning goals 8:22 5. Basics of family chores 10:02 6. Each others past 12:14 7. Fight topics and conflict resolution 14:16 8. Future goals 16:43 9. Communication and companionship feels 18:31 10. Understanding expectations 19:58

Basically just don’t get married 😆

I will add 1 and i think the most important thing to understand about your partner. DON'T ASSUME THINGS. Don't expect your partner to do and know things about you without you telling him/her first. Don't expect.

Before listening you, I thought that I am wrong about adopting a child rather than give a birth... But now I am 100% sure... Coz I thinks exactly the same, that bcoz of this population, polution, I don't want to give birth to another child. Isase achha to me adopt karu or us bachhe ki life achhi banau ❤️

She looks like Radhika Apte..

I wish I had seen this video before getting married! My piece of advice- the boy will become like his parents post marriage, so focus all your energy on the parents. Even when the boy acts independent, he will be a reflection of his parents. All of a sudden, family traditions become important for guys post marriage. And India men do not want to equally share household chores. It's never gonna happen.

after listening to you i am always moved in a good way. My all insecurities are gone and you inspired me to walk off a toxic relationship.♥️

I am saving this video for my future fiancee 😂😂😂😂 i hope i remember about this video then 😭

Another point I feel is very important is knowing the medical history of each other and getting a blood test.. Know family history as well..

The guy's parents whom I dated for marriage expected me to not pay emi for my parents..there we broke

You put things in a very good manner,but one point I want to add here is that before marriage all girls should spend some time with the boy's family in order to know each other and same logic applies for boys and both the parents for a healthy relationship. I agree to the fact that there would be differences between couples and families but there should be mutual respect between families & couple and instead of proving who is right or wrong,they should find what is wrong and solve them. :-)

Everything looks rosy during dating ..then all hell breaks loose when they start living under one roof.. If no Compramise & adjustments , it's gonna be doomed...Both irritate each other..Both will be good , sometimes situation ruins the relationship..

I am so happy women are finally opening up about not wanting to have kids biologically. I also dont intend to have kids but it's very hard to find any Indian guy who doesn't want kids.

Saving this video for my daughter because it's very late for me bearing a mama's boy from last 4 year.

My mom and dad is the perfect example of perfect couple , even after 26 years , yes there is financial and family problem troughout the year , what matters is only respect

Thankgod I'm watching this now and marriage is not on the cards right now.

Some mother in-law doesn't allow her son's to take out his wife. It's really a sad part of life😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔

Sis you are dropping some real gems here. Thank you so much.

In middle class families we do not have an option of not cooking, adopting child, doing chores etc 🙄🙄🙄

Marrying the entire family 😂 holy cow !

for girls: ask ur mother..about her choice for dauggter in law. and be that one for boys: ask ur mother about what type of boys will be best for her daughter. be that one

To me, I always wanted to both adopt and have biological. Just be open to both. If it is too hard to adopt or too hard to get pregnant, that's fine. Make sure communication is there

I was thinking of adopting a kid rather than bringing one into this world

Had I seen you(this video) before my marriage probably my life would have been different!! :p

This is not just a video. It is a gift to humanity. Thank you will be an understatement for this, honestly. I just wish, hope and pray that it reaches as many unmarried people as possible (ideally, all the unmarried people). Share this video as much as you can guys. This is pure gold!

one point i also want to share i.e. temperament, reacting on other's(spouse or in-laws) action is normal but overreacting is always bad and will eventually can destroy your married life.

Most needed and important video for the kind of girl like me who is going to get married and in search of life partner.. I completely agree your opinion Thank you Prachi di..

Hi , Ma'am perfect video... wonderful video...Truee compatibility and happiness matters much more...But HOPE is what we can only ponder about...🤓🙊😍🤞🤩

Very well said Prachi! It's so true!

Best content on this topic. I would recommend everyone to watch this before getting married.

Right stuff I was searching before getting married. Thanks Prachi

True behavior of spouse is seen only in conflicts and hard times

Thanks Prachi i can say this is ur one of ur videos ... There were lots of confusions since m 25 and single ... I met many boys but not able to synchronise with anyone .. i was thinking that there was problem in me but now i gain confidence 😊 thanks Prachi ,, we girls love u and always give credit to u

Very informative video prachi, this is amazing. The topics you chose were so exact that i have seem these issues in my family so often.thanks for the wisdom prachi🎈♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️😘

Your talks mean a lot❤️❤️❤️ I wish this video was available in hindi too so we could share it with our parents too... 🙂

Prachi.. my wedding is on coming Jan 31 and I must say, this video was most needed. You have no idea how easy you have made things for us.. thank you ♥️

i would want to add one thing to this list. and that is pets.. some women are so afraid of dogs and majority of men have made it a life goal to own a dog. they in some cases are so blinded that they cant believe that a person can get afraid of dogs....... this is really important to be spoken about

I loved every single line you conveyed in this video...! 🥰🥰🥰Really must for every girl before marriage..! Yur communicating everything so clearlyy..! Yur beauty with brain.. 👍🏻👍🏻

Definitely one of the most relevant n genuine advice given by anyone on RU-vid....... Very true.... N very true.....super like to ur video... thanks for making this video......

After listening to you I realized how similar we both think @prachi....Till now when you give suggestions to others it feels like if I was in your place, I will be saying the exactly the same things.... Lots of love and hugs ❣️

Completely helpful for me to get some ideas..

Well Said Prachi. I appreciate you speaking up on this topic.Most Guys really don't consider these aspects significant.Parents think, once married they will adjust themselves, but it might lead to adverse situations too.

I'm exactly like u in many ways Prachi♥️♥️ We r so similar in mindseta nd thought process

I have experienced most of all the things she is saying I have been married for a year now

Such great valuable points put down in such a exemplary way. Thanks a lot!

Great content! You're right on. Very important stuff...saying from experience.

Prachi many desi girls and boys are not even allowed to talk to each other before marriage in arrange marriages..how do we know all these things about them😯😯😯 btw love from Pakistan

Hi Prachi... You helped a lot to understand what one should know before getting married

Your speaking skill is great.

Great 10 points, all the more important to think upon, discuss openly if it’s an arranged marriage. I would add discussion on religious beliefs; more so if it’s an inter religion marriage. The boy and the girl might not pay much attention to it. Believe me, quite a number of issues can surface around adapting to culture, food and practices. Also there need to be discussion on habits pointing to smoking, drinking etc. if it’s a love marriage they would certainly be aware to a great extent. On the other hand if it’s an arranged marriage, then it can be an unpleasant surprise to either the boy or the girl. Discussing around extra curricular activities would be appropriate too. After marriage, for example the boys parents may be against the girl giving public dance (Bharatnatyam, Khatak......) performances.

I just saw her video for the first time and honestly, Prachi is so beautiful ❤

Love you didi ❤ Thank you for these series 💕

Thank you very much for this crucial information🙏

One of the best videos I have watched in YT about Marriage Balanced view Neither a Feminist nor a Male chauvinist No scaring of Biological or Zoological clock Well drafted On to the point Clear and concise Both Men and Women should watch this

Mam what you mentioned is all true. However this level of understanding about the other person can only happen in either love marriage or you have a long courtship after getting engaged probably.. and after that if you discover something like this it's very hard to break ties once families are involved.. specially in arranged marriage, where you would max get few months to probably know each other.. would be useful if you can make video sharing your thoughts given these scenarios.

Loved your views on children ❤️ 💕

U have got an amazing understanding about everything that u have spoken . It gave me wisdom in my thoughts . Thank you PRACHI

Super that was quite handy..as m single and often ponder on what are the dynamics of happy marriages

Thanks for the educational eye opening tips. My marriage life is a hell. Everything opposite the tips you have given. Only if I was of this generation than I would follow up with your tips to have a happy marriage life. Even though to gain something ....anyone can go to any extent.....later you see the true colours.

Such a beautiful video with such gold content ♥️♥️♥️

On kids...I agree with you...u think same way...❤️

You got my heart today ❤️❤️ you just said what i think and maybe every girl needs to understand. ❤️

I am glad that you are saying it out in the open that you do not like cooking. I don't understand why Indian society cannot accept people as they are. For the longest time, I've had problems with my own mother and aunt about this topic. I was more focused on self-development, work, fun etc while buying food from the outside. I was in UK at the time but my mum still used to pressurise me to cook my own food. I was working a demanding job and had no time to do so. Even to this day, she goes "You are a woman. You should cook! "

Prachi mam!! Really Well balanced explanation👏👏.. would definitely come back to check out this video in future when my time comes😃

Great .... Really helps a lot... Much needed guidance.. Thank you mam...

This was such a crisp and amazing video..Thank u Prachi I relate with your points on many levels...Very mature thoughts

You and your husband is very lucky....found the best match..❤️❤️❤️❤️

This felt like an older sister that I never had telling me all the things I need to know before marrying someone. Thank you so much and may God bless you! ❤

I stumbled across this video and have no relation to the situation in this video yet I'm watching it because idk why I really like your voice and the way you talk

Nice video to watch before marriage ...you explained it very well..👍

Past does matter because. Because we now know that past can effect future relationship

This is one of your best vlogs with such valued content.

Very interesting video. And really very genuine and graceful ❤👌important topics spoken by you 👌👌too good..

your thoughts and explaination is in a very sorted and matured way. Thanks for sharing this..

Hello Prachi. Nice videos. I would like you to share your experience and learning on after marriage life so that youngsters as well as those struggling in their marriage can work it out on their own rather than seek divorce or interference from outsiders including parents (some times). Hope to hear from you. Thank you 😊

Brilliant. Every girl nd boy must watch this before marriage.

Thankx so much great tips 👌

Very nicely said ! All major points covered )

Same thoughts i have prachi i lov u a lot for adopting

Very good content prachi di. Going to get married soon nd today after watching this video, I'm sure I want him.

That's really inspired .I am so grateful for you that you understood us ... Very clearly

Wow👌🥰 Prachi, really informative, well said...it's true in reality...tnx for sharing

Its really Helpful. Thank you Prachi.. Love❣️

Prachi di , M engaged n m marrying frm my choice bt his mother n father are not alive . My papa met there relatives and he is satisfy. M frm mumbai and his frm banglore . His is nice well manner and working guy , no bad habits i know him since 2 or 3 yr nd i told my parents i convince my parnts for him . It was so difficlt to convince them bt finally they are ready in two week m getting married ..In sha Allah

Very helpful .Thank you

Very well said mam.. i would need to refer this video quite a few times before getting married.. good observation!

what a video!😍 so necessary :)

Love your series.. I m first viewer

Thankyou Prachi i really need this video

very well said . So informative

My boyfriend is mama's boy.. Bt somehow i could find more similarities between me and her... Rather than he and his mother! This is Intresting, but have to see how this gonna work... Im gonna marry him in few months. Wish me!

Your eyes are so beautiful and expressive❤ And the things you say are so practical. Keep up the good work, Prachi dee.

Ma'am awesome... Each statement made is very true...

You got a new subscriber 😘👍watched your videos for first time...keep up the good work😊

Sometimes past can be known better to understand the mentality of a person . It really helps coz sometimes agreeing to marry is not all like knowing a person.

What if you don't want to marry at all ... But have to ... Just because your family said so .... And you have no choice.

Prachi Di love you so much . When u said u want to adopt and make some ones life better rather than bringing new life and making more danger. I wish even my husband thinks the same way . Hope everyone turns like this.