As I've found out recently. I could be a sigma, but I must say that I'm as enigmatic as they come. I can tell you from my experience that women don't generally seem to find that attractive. Most just want money and predictability. If that's how it is, then I'm completely content being by myself. A partner would help make things more efficient though lol.
Just be yourself bro, be confident, be nice to people. Be a gentlemen, hold doors especially for ladies and the elderly. When people talk really LISTEN. I find it best to let people do most of the talking, to really listen then ask questions about what they are interested to talk about. I know quickly, If they do not reciprocate this to me, I will probably not want to converse with them often, but its fine. I am by no means any expert, however I was never great with women either throughout my life. However, after me and my Ex Wife divorced I do not know what tripped. I was like weaponized. I think a big part I got a sharp hair cut, trimmed by beard, I dressed nice. I absolutely gave no fucks about anything. All the sudden, women were hitting on me, on a regular basis. It was great, remarried now, she is a GREAT one balled me up big time. If you want a females companion ship, go for it dude. Plenty of them out there.
@@hawkinatorgamer9725 Thanks for taking the time to give me such a thorough and well thought out response. Just for a bit of background, I’m in my thirties and don’t see having a companion as a viable opportunity for me, friendship or otherwise. People seem to find ways to try to use me for their convenience and then when I would like to have some help with something or just want to hang out or bullshit, they’re nowhere to be found. That’s the best case scenario since this is my general friend circle which is gradually becoming quite annoying with time. Some of them seem like they only talk to me because they think I’m too weird or too much of a loser to have friends so they give me a pity invite because someone else they invited dipped out, or we scheduled a time to hang out only for them to ditch me at the last minute (never fails). When it comes to women I’ve had varying levels of success. I was engaged about 9 years ago and every other attempt at some semblance of a relationship since then had never gotten past a few months at best, and a few days more regularly. I’ve recently started improving my physique, not only to help my physical wellbeing, but to possibly increase my level of attraction as an afterthought. However, the biggest hurdle for me isn’t my physical appearance, it’s that people think I’m too eccentric. I’ve heard this so many times throughout my life and I know it to be true. Not many people have as eclectic sets of interests as myself where I can talk about a vast array of subjects with at least some level of competence, and I have a great sense of humor to boot. I would think that those would constitute as great traits to find in someone but that doesn’t seem to be the case. I’ve found that the women I’ve talked to seem to either want to manipulate me or want my money thinking that I have liquid assets that I’m willing to throw down on hundred dollar dinners every date. With the time I’ve been on this planet, I have learned to tell people for whom they actually are and that’s saved me from a lot of heartache. Perhaps I’m not asking the right questions? Maybe I’m at the wrong places? Anyway, I’ve reached the point in my life where I’ve learned to approach things in a stoic manor and I don’t care that I’m single. I’m completely content doing my own thing, and though the thought of not being able to have a family sucks for me to think about, but I’m okay with that being the eventual outcome as long as I’m happy and achieving the goals I’ve laid out for myself. Victory always tastes so much sweeter when you have someone by your side to share it with though, friend or otherwise. Again, thank you so much for your encouraging words. I’m glad that you found someone you connect with and found yourself marrying after all you’ve been through. How did you meet your wife?
@@PsychedelicStorm Thank you for such a well written, well thought out response. I met my wife on a dating App. What you said my man, is truth. It happens, sometimes you help and help and help, and when you need it. Nothing. Learn to say NO. If you help someone when they are in need, they are a friend, and then they are not willing to help you when you need it. Next time they ask, say no. That is awesome you were working on your physique, do that for you. Not for anyone else, if it makes you happy, do it for you. Crush pullups, pushups, lift weights, mold your body, FOR YOU. If you start to date a woman and she does not spoil you, pop smoke out. If she wants you for you, she will spoil you. I learned this the hard way. If a woman truly wants you. You will know. She will want to learn about you, your favorite color, how did you get that scar, "Tell me something new"...My ex wife did none of this. My forever wife, all of this. I am sorry to hear your engagement did not work out, however you have an open road ahead of you my friend. It is WIDE open. Drive it, discover, you can drive to the destination you want to go to. I always loved black women, I just did. Never acted on it. Well, Now I have a beautiful Black Wife whom I adore and worship, I went after what I wanted. F*** what ever is holding you back, GO for what you want. Go for what makes you happy. Only you can make yourself happy, no one else can do that, only you brother. People, family, wifey, kids, can bring you joy and happy moments, its up to you to make you happy. Do it. Life is a gift my man, LIVE IT, embrace it, make yourself happy. You say your too eccentric, embrace it. Be eccentric, find you a good woman and make beautiful babies. Enjoy the ride bro. All we can do.
It is all very flattering! I wonder if there are similar videos dedicated to Alphas, Betas and all the other types, in this particular way of sorting mens personalities, that tells them why just they are the true lovers and how powerful they really are, even if they don't show it. ;) Maybe this way of sorting people are made by another, unlisted, type of men that just want to sort the others and make they stay in their place to keep a status quo?
This is all so, so true. I get sick and tired of fending off beautiful yet voracious women. For many years I thought it was due to unique pheromones I exuded, but more recently I believe it's down to my sigma male status. I'm so intriguing it's kind of unreal. I'm an enigma wrapped up in a mystery - which is catnip for gorgeous ladies.
Once the mystery dissipates so do the women since to them the whole dynamic is just a form of entertainment. The issue is, as human beings men are more than playthings. A sigma’s incentive is in self-preservation, not in attracting those who compromise it.
@@Unfunny_Username_389 Them being attracted to you is most likely due to your genetics creating the mystery aura. Honestly telling them that you don’t appreciate their presence is a great way to dissipate it. The point is to free yourself from the crazy game, even if it takes bluntness.
@@timdane6132 And you, my friend, are empty of yourself. And equally deluded - but in the opposite way. Where I am hubristic and ridiculous, you are pathetic and ridiculous.
Anyone else find it amazing how RU-vid recommends this account and every video they describing your entire experience? This AI tech Elon been talking about it ain’t no joke. This is crazy. Now I have to Sub 🤘
This really resonates with me. I have a big problem with the "Alphas" and the exponentially Uber Betas that are wannabe "Alphas". WTF? Sometime in my life the definition of a real man has changed from someone who kept his word, someone who took personal responsibility for the results of their actions and standing up for the little guy to being loud, arrogant and cruel. I recognise that many so called "Christians" are only such when it's not inconvenient. But this Domination Syndrome by all these incels is disturbing. If that's an Alpha then we need a hunting season to control them.
I am about to settle this competition nonsense once and for all. 1st (Masculinity) Men display their dominance, leadership, power, and status. Then (Femininity) women compete to mate with said man/men. Let’s not confuse specific competition rituals. Because as a business man , athlete, or gamer etc.. men do indulge in competitive natures in other activities. But in sexual situations men should not compete for women it’s absolutely idiotic(you literally lose your position/lower yourself) because you bring women into your world/kingdom not the other way around Also that would mean if you ever lost then you lose her.. When you allow nature/the universe to provide women for you. It’s win- win… because all you have to do is work on yourself and the forces of the universe will provide an abundance of the women that are on your level. And they will compete for you. All you have to do is be yourself and they surrender to you/ your leadership. Because you display that you know how to lead yourself. And competition these days are used by males with no or lower status or haven’t accumulated anything to clout chase & steal from someone who actually has the earned their position in life.
Basically if you find yourself out here competing for a woman you have been tricked out of your position.. or in other words you are a sucker. Never forget Abundance mindset always wins.
