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I haven't come across anyone of my friends or family members actually smiling when I have accomplished something. Either they say nothing, or they immediately change the subject. Destroyed 40 years of my life
Those are not your friends. Real friends will express their joy for your accomplishments. I'm sorry you've had to go through that. I hope you find true friends soon!
Never give up learning to heal. It's hard and mentally exhausting. I learned a lot about childhood conditioning by reading How To Do The Work by Nicole LePera. So many things made sense in how children were raised and how the smallest words and actions caused so much damage. I even noticed things I learned from my parents and carried over to my children. I felt so bad and cried for weeks. I've apologized but realized they too have emotional damage to heal. I got a lot of spankings from my mother but I don't feel the emotional and mental damage from that but the narcissistic abuse from my dad is most damaging. However, my mother never beat me.
Matthew 10:34-39 NKJV Do not think that I came to bring peace on earth. I did not come to bring peace but a sword. For I have come to ‘set a man against his father, a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law’; and ‘a man’s enemies will be those of his own household.’ He who loves father or mother more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who loves son or daughter more than Me is not worthy of Me. And he who does not take his cross and follow after Me is not worthy of Me. He who finds his life will lose it, and he who loses his life for My sake will find it.
They're describing covert/vulnerable narcissists here! They are the WORST kind cause unless you know the tells and are looking out for them they are almost impossible to see.
I have a "family member" that has done some of this to me for years. I have gone no contact for years, and they come back and say they have "grown and changed." I give them another chance and within months they are back at the narcing again. This thang acts like it is obsessed with me. I am so scared of this toxic behavior they will never be let back in my life. NEVER AGAIN!
That's true, though covert narcissists do what they do because of their need to control everyone and everything. It's a superiority complex, not envy. They truly believe they are better and smarter than everyone else.
I have a bunch of family members like this and i called them all out, caught them out, did it back to them, they were raging, I recorded it and I left them with a big FU after years of abuse. Lucky for me although I went through periods of depression riddled with self doubt and alone, I learned about boundaries and building my self esteem up again and now I’m thriving. Some greater power was looking out for me.
@@geetu1 Same here. I am still healing from years of narc abuse. I am alone and fight depression, because I have several of these thangs in my family too who traumatized me. These sub-humans are sick, twisted, and demonically challenged. It is best to stay gone forever...
Yes! Devious little buggers. The worst when they age into the look. Ugh. I have a neighbor, well to be honest many neighbors like this but one in particular that I have personally dealt with and went no contact. She lives right across my hallway. Ugh. She recently started stalking me. When I leave my apartment she( thinking she’s being quiet) opens her door as I walk away then Closes it as if I can’t hear her. I mean what is she thinking? It’s kinda creepy. She even waited for me one day as I got off the elevator and tried to talk to me. I said clearly, you don’t talk to me. I then had to let the manager know she’s at it again. She is risking losing her home because she just won’t stop.
Amazingly spot on. Been dealing with this all my life and thought it was me. Now over 60yrs old and finding out IT'S THEM! This changes everything, and I wish so deeply that I knew this 40 years ago.
It wouldn't have made a difference because even if you recognize it much is done behind closed doors and the perpetrators have far more supporters and enablers than you could ever gain in support of you and counteract their united front against you. 🧘
Nice insight indeed! Once you can tell and distinguish those negative traits on that person, we should immediately distance ourselves from them before things get worse as being targeted.
Believe in yourself and take ACTIONS toward your goals. You only have yourself in the end, so why not strive to become the best version of YOU. Best wishes!
Narcissistic father 83 yrs and 6 yrs from narcissistic abuse from bf (now xbf) and narcissistic boss (now xbosss). It almost killed me. I will do what ever possible to keep them out of my life.
@nannerlchanel5045 I'm finding healing from a narcissistic parent and a previous "x" through reading How To Do The Work and It's Not You. Both have helped clarify many things I was unaware of or could not understand. I agree commercial awareness is much needed for people who are going through the abuse and awareness for future generations. I wish you the best and that much happiness comes your way.
My own mother in law asked my husband (her son) right in front of me, what makes my pot roast better than hers. I didn’t think anything of it until I saw very clearly the conversations she was trying to have with my husband via text. She was trying to manipulate him into doing things to harm me. I nipped it in the bud and told her that’s why he married me in secret.😂
I was wise enough to believe in myself as the outside had never ... not even most of my friends and family turned foes. . 😢broke my heart better fond of people leaving... all I know is that I have God and Jesus. And Me...
I consider the reality machine (universe) is broken... this abstract notion can be helpful when considering the manner we interface with reality. This 'broken' being mostly our perception and a dusting of truth. I don't think I can repair our universe and Stoicism kinda goes along with my take on, broken also can mean separate or unconnected; this being a metaphysical conversation, take it with a grain of salt.
I am always open to new friendships and connections. Let's embark on a journey of mutual understanding, support, and laughter. Together, we can share experiences, learn from each other, and create lasting memories. If you're up for it, let's forge a bond built on trust, respect, and genuine care. Here's to the beginning of a beautiful friendship!
Removing yourself is detrimental to your discernment, therefore it makes a barrier between emotions and critical thinking… adults acting childish or arrogant… critiquing
Vulnerable and really emotional vamps to be such emotional life stealing evil things would not hesitate to take a life without any remorse very scary and cruel vulnerable narcs are the absolute worst
I’m focused on my evolution. I am so glad I found this type of content because it makes sense for what I’ve always felt and doing with others my entire life. And I’ve decided to take a stronger approach and not letting attempts to tailor or edit me even be considered.
My knowledge of others life's experience with women, with whom they were especially close to, Is accurately reflected in this video. It makes me wonder how many damaged people are actually out there. And my guess would be more than 50 percent. Thus, demonstrating the importance of stoicism today. I also firmly believe in body language and nonverbal communications as described by the words, " The smile that never reaches the eyes." Excellent video, thank you very much.
Marvelous study of the psycologist on human character,guide for the targeted person.Insecurity makes the victim helpless.I would love to read the books.books should be read by all. Great work 👌💯
Important content. The depth of this Stoic teaching is considerable I reflect on the possibilities, the travel, the fun... beyond this relaxation, mindfulness, stationing and a sense of presence all combine into a strategy, that seems to work but like anything, it depends on the user.
Thank You good timing as I sift through the last conversation of the narcissist I want a genuine relationship but it always turns out I am the bad guy. When in actuality I gave all I had. But when cancer set in they no longer had any use for me but to Future Fake and Belittlement. These words help to keep truth in perspective. Also Community Comments 💖
In todays world you have to adopt this behavior. Actively expressing your feelings or opinion can and will be used against you. Being direct is dangerous for those around you may feel unsafe and cancel culture exist in todays world.
I was recently made aware of someone who is actively working against me behind my back. I suspected this was happening but had no confirmation. Yesterday, my suspicion was confirmed. TY for the refresher on why this happens and how to protect myself. 🧐 "Beware of smiles that don't meet the eyes." "Covert sabotage is the most insidious of all envious actions." TY for also reminding me that my own words about my perceived unrealism of someone else's goal or dream can cause great damage. Unconditional love and support immediately sanitizes my own envy, fears, and jealousy.🕊️
I had the same problem! I was speaking to this person! About the situation! And instead of giving me support! she went against me! She was doubting me! When I said! And she stuck up for a stranger instead of her!Mother 😢😢😢😢😢
Good Afternoon. Many, a Wise Word spoken about this type of Subject. Very Interesting to Listen and Understand this Human ability that we all have in us. Sometimes, i have had the Feeling and Human Instinct of not so much Hatred but of Envy about someone, in a Good Heart felt way. Either the way they live there Life or just myself thinking about what i own and am Greatful in my Life. I Appreciate other peoples Opinions and there Personal Feelings about me. It is having the Human ability to Understand about each other. Thank you very much for Listening to me.
So sad that inate truths must be reminded in numerous genre's. The age of head games requires reminders. God bless the hour and day this age of head games is destroyed forever.❤
Though surely the cause can be an other than envy, f ex pride with disdain, deep lack of self-esteem and insecurity, resulting in disdain for weakness/vulnerability with hateful acts as a result? Or to self-ighteously punish a disabled one, believeing them to have a choice and abstain for (handicapped) behaviours,?
This presentation is very insightful and many of which I’ve experienced in my personal life. Just wondering if I should stop communicating with the people who constantly undermine me-:))
Im particularly struck by the covert narcissistic person. This speaks directly to my situation. The only way to combat this cover sabotage is through resilience, perceptiveness, as to who the ememies are that are being used against you, and earnest prayers to God for protection
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More more more on how to handle envious jealous people... They don't want to change in most cases. I would like 2c a case that does . We want to help them but they prefer to stay as they are
They wallow in their own misery because they are failures and everything they do fails. My neighbour saw me looking nice ( mind you she envies me) she saw me dressed nice and compliment me and I turned and looked at her face when she made that compliment and it told me everything I needed to know and I didn't respond I just walked away silently. Her body language and facial expressions was what gave her away. But I didn't stop being me Infact I added more to my shinning and she and her daughter watching me from their window whenever I walk out with my children looking amazing and beautiful and she craves that but will never get as she's a covert narcissist.
I think that author forgot ' secret actual attempt(s) to manipulate the system to achieve her societally negative objective(s) to harm the person who has made societal contribution(s) of any kind'. Just my 5 cents. :)'
In life we have to protect ourselves from every conceivable ill From people to disease.Nine out of ten want something from you the other one want's everything.Stress from other people's drama is the number one killer of people who take it on .I'm not one of them, I've learned from the effects.
It’s what call insecure comparison envy issues Instead of uniting communities it’s a conquer and divide by bias . Jealousy , and hate which creates insecure environment divided community. It’s a lack of spiritual education which is Not Taught in schools and Religious beliefs which shown by people demeanor. Of hate prejudice hate and bias views
Hates and envy??? I was watching and wondering if they ever met? Was it a miscommunication? I was wondering if the person was in the frame of mind? You that’s why I left u??🙄😃😅inquiry minds want to know please???
Why do you have to take 30 minutes of our time we don't have to tell us why someone envies us? I'll read through the comments instead and get more out of it in 10 minutes than I could listen to your long long long long long long boring boring boring video
